I've been feeling really frozen the last few weeks. Just, kinda immobilized with indecision. I have a reasonable amount of career-related projects and general life maintenance stuff that would be do-able if I were... managing my time better(?) but instead I'm giving each of them about 10% of my attention and then avoiding them and my guilt just continues to compound until everything feels impossible and I'm in a ball on the couch scrolling on my phone, frozen.
2024-05-19 05:48:32 +0000 UTC
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So many heartfelt thank-yous to John Oliver and his team for featuring our book, Let’s Talk About It, on Last Week Tonight’s coverage of public libraries.
(Season 11, Episode 10. Our mention 2024-05-10 01:04:08 +0000 UTC
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Letters From Space Camp is my memoir about going through a mental hospital program and for my pitch to publishers I am revising the Day Two chapter, which covers my second day in the program. This is my third draft of this chapter, you can read the firs...
2024-04-26 04:19:17 +0000 UTC
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Once a week, my French Mother-in-Law (Ma belle-mere) helps me practice my second language over a video call. She's offered for years- the entire 19 years I've been with her son!- but I was always too embarrassed of my caveman-level language skills.
I love French. I love the way it sounds. I love the way it feels in my mouth. I love putting together the puzzle pieces that is French grammar. I love how the grammar has formal rules except for when it doesn't and you just have to ...
2024-04-20 00:15:09 +0000 UTC
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Not only did I draw up a giant comic about OJST’s past and future (see above link) but I’ve also been scrambling like a mad person to maintain and update 2024-04-13 04:09:46 +0000 UTC
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Letters From Space Camp is my memoir about going through a mental hospital program and for my pitch to publishers I am revising the Day Two chapter, which covers my second day in the program. This is my third draft of this chapter, you can read the first draft
2024-04-11 00:45:46 +0000 UTC
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Letters From Space Camp is my memoir about going through a mental hospital program and for my pitch to publishers I am revising the Day Two chapter, which covers my second day in the program. This is my third draft of this chapter, you can read the first draft
2024-04-01 05:31:17 +0000 UTC
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My dad told me that as you get older, time starts going by faster, and I thought that was stupid because time goes exactly as fast as it does, but now it is March 2024 and it honestly kind of scares me how fast the months and years are flying right by while I'm standing here like John Travolta in a '90s gang boss mansion* looking lost and confused.

*(Is that where he was? I haven't re-watch...
2024-03-26 05:41:16 +0000 UTC
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Oh jeez, you guys!
I did volunteer work today???
These are photos from last month, though, they have extremely little to do with what I did today, except that both involve sewing.

Ok, so to explain the photos: These are from my last 2024-03-10 07:17:09 +0000 UTC
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My friend took me to a block printing workshop and I remained extremely on-brand by producing a repeating beet print on fabric.
World famous sex and relationship expert 2024-03-09 04:11:37 +0000 UTC
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Buttstagram is the group chat that I share with my very serious, professional cartoonist colleagues, one Ms. Danielle Corsetto and one Ms. Lucy Bellwood. We use this as a space to talk shop, air our grievances with our profession, and share the gory details of our latest gastrointestinal disasters-- er. I mean-- provide each other mora...
2024-03-08 05:24:08 +0000 UTC
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I wear my clothing till it literally falls apart.

Case in point, my bee socks that I've had for easily over a decade. I think they may have actually been a gift from someone? Maybe I bought them? Whoever paid, I definitely squeezed every last drop of dollar value out of 'em before retir...
2024-02-28 06:09:20 +0000 UTC
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Last weekend, my friend Dylan Meconis took me to Wildcraft for a block print textile class!
What do those words even mean?
Basically, you carve out a design on a block, dip it ink, and then stamp it down onto fabric, leaving your bea...
2024-02-26 04:18:34 +0000 UTC
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Letters From Space Camp is my memoir about going through a mental hospital program and for my pitch to publishers I am revising the Day Two chapter, which covers my second day in the program. This is my third draft of this chapter, you can read the 2024-02-21 00:39:18 +0000 UTC
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Dear January Erika,
It's me, February Erika! I am writing from the future to tell you the good news: You are not depressed!
Well, wait, no, you are depressed. Like hella depressed. You're tired and weak and are spending a worrying amount of time sleeping during the day, and your inner monologue is... kind of off-putting? Like: yikes. And you're comfort-eating a lot. You're not even hungry, you're just shoving good-tasting-but-not-nut...
2024-02-15 22:26:04 +0000 UTC
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Remember how I said I was gunna do a talk at Powell's Books with Emily Nagoski, PhD, about her brand new release, Come Together?
Well, I did it! So everyone who doubted me? I sure proved you wrong. I proved you ALL wrong.
Muahahahah!
I mean, just look at me (on the right, ...
2024-02-11 01:45:13 +0000 UTC
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Letters From Space Camp is my memoir about going through a mental hospital program and for my pitch to publishers I am revising the Day Two chapter, which covers my second day in the program. This is my third draft of this chapter, you can read the 2024-02-09 23:22:35 +0000 UTC
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Guess what? I'm doin' an event next week in Portland!

Emily Nagoski, PhD, is kindly tolerating me as her conversation partner at the Portland release party of her newest (brilliant) book on sexual relationships in long-term partnerships, 2024-02-03 20:29:14 +0000 UTC
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I ended Week Four of my Daily Photo project believing that the month had concluded on January 28th.
Ladies.
January goes up to 31.
I realized my error the next day, which I thought was February 1st, but was, in fact, January 29th. "Oh!" I thought. "No worries, I'll just take a photo today like normal." The completionist in me would normally acti...
2024-02-03 08:11:14 +0000 UTC
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Ok, so I wrote up this big ol' post on the Oh Joy Sex Toy Patreon and then I realized... it'd actually be a fitting post to share here too? If you happen to be a patron over there, first: THANK YOU, and second: Uh, you already read this update over there. There's literally nothing new here. Everybody else? Get ready for some good ol' sloppy seconds!
Ok! On to my double-dipping post!
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2024-01-31 08:00:07 +0000 UTC
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Monday, January 22
Just'a girl, trompin' along in her yellow chicken boots in her winter garden at dusk.

Tuesday, January 23
Lemony Snicket (my lemon tree) has a moderately bad infestation of 2024-01-29 08:52:52 +0000 UTC
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Letters From Space Camp is my memoir about going through a mental hospital program and for my pitch to publishers I am revising the Day Two chapter, which covers my second day in the program. This is my third draft of this chapter, you can read the 2024-01-26 02:01:57 +0000 UTC
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Hey Hey!
Dan Savage had me hop on to his podcast to dish about dual density dildos!
Because our chat went so long (13 mins!) it didn't fit on the shorter version of the podcast that they publish for free, so it's on the extended Magnum version that people have to pay for, starting at the 51 minute mark.
...but not for you.
Oh-ho, dear pat...
2024-01-24 00:08:12 +0000 UTC
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Monday, January 15
As is habitual, I forgot to take a self-portrait today. OR DID I? Because I did take this picture of my hand in the hole of our busted grocery bag in order to emphasize the extent of the damage and- last I knew- my hand is technically part of me so really I guess I did take a self-portrait after all. Anyway, accomp...
2024-01-21 22:37:37 +0000 UTC
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I was gunna start with a disclosure admitting that I made this paper sculpture(?) "a year or so ago" but it turns out that 2019 was five years ago?????? So, uh, FULL DISCLOSURE: I made this paper red fern coral five freaking years ago.

To guide my wire arrangement, I first drew out the main structure of my fern coral at full size on paper and th...
2024-01-19 06:47:01 +0000 UTC
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For the last ten years, I've been saving our worn out clothing in a basket under my home studio desk. Tig likes to shove her little paws in it up to her armpits and methodically pull out the top layer of clothes to make herself a little nest, exactly where my feet should be, and then nestle herself in like Smaug on his hoard of stolen treasure.

The basket is literally overflowing, even without ...
2024-01-16 08:00:05 +0000 UTC
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Week Two of my January Daily Photo Project! Bonus pictures can be seen in the image carousel-thing at the top of this post.

Monday, January 8
First ride in the rain of the year! Biking in the rain actually isn't so bad once you get going, but it's all the suiting...
2024-01-15 20:57:29 +0000 UTC
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Once a year or so, I like to choose a period to take a self portrait every single day as a kind of photo diary. I just set my camera down with a self-timer and do whatever I was already in the process of doing before I remembered "Oh shit, did I do my daily photo yet?" Like last year, I'm choosing the month of January to document this time- so I guess this is starting to become a bit o...
2024-01-08 21:18:11 +0000 UTC
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Ok, so I have news that is exciting for me: Patreon finally enabled annual subscriptions on my account! Yup! Buy a year and save 16%! For instance, a year of the (mostly locked, private) Comics Tier is just $50.40 instead of $60 now! I've definitely got more than another year's worth of projects and comics a...
2024-01-06 22:26:49 +0000 UTC
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I thought I would do a year-in-review type post to recap my projects and experiences. But

January
man, I woke up bone tired. This whole last week my brain has been absolute mush. So I thought I'd go through my photo archive and that would prompt me to remember this year which would inspire me to start writing. But
2024-01-01 01:17:59 +0000 UTC
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