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[BONUS EPISODE] AFTER DARK: Petco For Sex Toys?

Hi Tribe!

It's our 4 year Anniversary and what better way to thank you for your continuous support than with an exclusive Patreon Episode!


On this episode you expect to hear:

- Our girl crush on Zendaya + how we can relate to Euphoria as teenagers

- Our newfound pets Kinks and the extent we will go to fulfill them

- Erica's new lover from her childhood and how their connection summoned her grandfather's spirit

- Jamilah's male/male/female plans w...

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EP. 204: Ask Us Anything

Happy Wednesday, Tribe!

This month’s theme is Mindful March and we’re kicking it off with a solo episode. Tune in as we answer advice questions and go live with you guys!

You can expect to hear:

⁃ Advice on how to break up with someone from both women’s and a man’s perspective (hi @williejones 👋🏾)

⁃ Thoughts on open relationships.

⁃ Adult friendship breakups a...

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[BONUS EPISODE] AFTER DARK: Costa Rica V-Day Whorie

On this weeks episode we talk about all the beautiful feminine energy we were surrounded by on our retreat. It really was amazing.

But balance is important, and after we were done with the retreat it was time to tap into our innner goddess and ask for what we wanted!

Which was…. Just watch this video 😈

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EP. 203: This is How Your Find Your Tribe

We’re back from Costa Rica and ready to spill the tea 👀

So what's the tea??

...That women are fuc✨ing incredible, that the divine feminine is our super power, and that every woman deserves a MF'n break to tap into all of it.

In this episode you can expect to hear:

- A recap of the Good Vibe retreat.

- How Mother Nature is the answer to tapping into your spirituality 🧘🏾‍♀️

- Milah shares advice and her experience submitting and being in ...

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EP. 202: Decoding Your Human Design

This week, we are joined by Human Design Specialist, @erinclairejones to explore the ways that we can honor our innate wiring by learning more about the five types of human design: manifestors, projectors, generators, manifesting generators, & reflectors.


In this episode you will hear:

👉🏾 Erin explain human design and how she got into it.

👉🏾 Us learn...

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EP. 201: Parents in an Open Marriage

Welcome back to Week 2 of “For The Love of Self” February where we will explore a more…non-traditional relationship with one of our tribe favorite’s favorite guests and sex/relationship coach @Baeleche_; and this time, she brought her husband, Daniel!!!


Join Erica and Milah as they chat with the couple about how they navigate parenting, jealousy, boundaries, and safety within a non-monogamous relationship and what characteristics/baises they’ve had to confront withi...

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EP. 200: It's a Celebration B!tches: 200th Anniversary Episode

It's finally here, our 200th EPISODE on 2/2/22🥂 

Coincidence? We think not. Join Good Moms as they reinvent the podcast wheel and open up the new month focusing on self-love! 


This week you can expect to hear:


🤎 The Erica and Milah podcast-love story and how Good Moms began!


🤎 The Good Moms Bad Choices evolution from beginning to now. 


🤎 How birthing a new idea can conceive ...

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EP. 199: Women Don’t Wanna Be Equal Feat, See The Thing Is… Podcast

This week, Good Moms are joined by hosts of @seethethingispod … Podcast @iambridgetkelly and @fullcourtpumps and the whole convo is a hot topic!


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Today’s Community Zoom

Hi Tribe!

We are gearing up to leave to Costa Rica tomorrow! We are running around today tying up some loose end and will have to cancel todays zoom hang 😩

We’re bummed but can’t wait to come back from the retreat with lots to share, and look forward to hearing from you guys! There is a new moon on January 31st in Capricorn so take the next few days to think about what you want to invite in to your life.

P.s.

We are dropping TWO bonus patreon episodes + a few a...

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VIRTUAL EVENT: Join us in 5 minutes!

We are hosting a live Q & A right now on Ibble!

We just discovered this app and it allows us to engage with you in a dynamic convo!


Oh yeah, and It’s free!


Roll one up and come hang!


https://ibblesocial.onelink.me/5a9i/join

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Community Zoom starts it’s 10 minutes!


https://us06web.zoom.us/j/86050121801?pwd=a1h4NDhZb210TkJXaDZoMVVkRVFMZz09


Password: confidence

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VIRTUAL EVENT: Zoom w/ us tomorrow!

Hey Tribe,


Tomorrow we are having our first zoom of the month! We would love to see all of you there!

Time: 6pm PST/ 9pm EST


We will be discussing:

  • How to start awakening more confidence.
  • Our own insecurities that we’re working through. Whewww!
  • The January #getyourshit2getherchallenge
  • Dicktoxing

and anything else that comes up!

Basically, it’s a kick back and w...

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EP. 198: Get Confident in 2022 Meditation ft. Trap Yoga Bae

Happy New Year TRIBE! We can't thank you enough for all of your continuous support and we're so excited to begin the new year together!   To start this month off, our main focus will center around confidence-building. This weeks episode is a guided and mindful meditation led by the wonderful Trap Yoga Bae.  This week you can expect to hear: - How to overcome negative thoughts and feelings during meditation. - Guided breath work. - The real secret within meditation.   ...

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[BONUS EPISODE] AFTER DARK: Stop Talking Shit Sis

Hey Y'all!

This month we are focusing on building confidence and one of the ways that I have built more confidence, lessened my anxiety, and become an overall happier person over the last few months is talking to myself out loud. Consistently talking shit to yourself all day is not healthy, but we do it all the time! I was doing it so much that I didn't even realize it 90% of the time. It caused anxiousness, depression, and made me doubt all my choices. 

Talking out loud the ...

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CHALLENGE: Get Your Shit Together | Confidence Edition

Hi Tribe!

We are easing into January with a new challenge! I figured I'd give you guys a few days to finish drinking those bottles of wine, and eating all the things before I laid this on ya!

However, it's time to cut the shit! 

In 2022 we are elevating, building confidence in all ways, and walking into our power!  This challenge is designed to make your body, mind, and spirit a priority. The theme on the Podcast this month is Confidence, and this ...

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Early Access: See The Thing Is Podcast

You get it EARLY! On This episode, we have Mandii B and Bridget Kelly of See The Thing Is Podcast. Were talking about a lot of shit...

-Being in your thirties

-How its crucial that your iCloud isn't connected to your kids iPad. Especially if you watch porn!

-Men holding their friends accountable for their predatory ways.

-Making friends as an adult

-To ghost or not to ghost. The girls are divided.

-Knowing your value

And more!


Video E...

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EP. 196: Best Moments of 2021

This weeks episode we reflect back on all of the amazing episodes and guests from 2021! It’s been a crazy year of conversations, growth, bad choices, and good!


Join us as we run back clips of our favorite moments and comment on them from an end of the year perspective 🧐

You can expect to hear moments from the guests below 😍

@gettingrownpod

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[BONUS EPISODE] Living Ancestors on Christmas

Hi,

had this thought while driving home for Christmas dinner.
Basically in a nutshell:

• Call the old people you love

• Gratitude is the gateway to peace and acceptance 

• and I’m probably having sex right now.

Merry Christmas Tribe!


-Erica

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EP. 195: Karma Doesn't Care feat. Kay Cola

Tribe, welcome back to Week 4 of Deeper December!This week, Good Moms are joined by Grammy-nominated artist, and momtrepreneur, Kay Cola to discuss why you're not allowed to operate from a place of mediocrity when you have a higher calling over your life, the healing powers of gratitude, leaving relationships that no longer serve you, and.the inevitability of karma.Kay Cola shares what it is like to co-parent with 3 different men and advises our audience to listen to their intuition if it's t...

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[BONUS EPISODE] AFTER DARK: The Inner Dialogue of a Sex Positive Woman +

It's 2am and I'm up contemplating 2022, stability, and the trials and tribulations of being a sex positive woman who shares her thoughts and existence on the internet. Why do I only cry on Patreon? lol. I guess I feel safer here. I never rewatch these and part of me wants to hit delete but fuck it. It's how I felt in the moment.

I've been home the past 2 days with COVID and have been all in my feels. Not sure who can relate to this video but if you do let's talk about it in the comments...

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EP. 193: Sex, Love, and Tanta

This week, we are joined by the Host of Sex is Medicine Podcast, and the Founder of the ONLY government accredited school for Tantra, Devi Ward Erickson @deviwardtantra

On this episode we’re talking about how intimacy, sex, and Tantra is used as tool for deep inner healing.

You can expect to hear:

✨Devi discuss her journey from being a stripper in Detroit to becoming a Monk at the age of...

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EXTRAS: See the Thing Is Podcast x Good Moms

Today we did a little episode swap with our boo's from See the Thing Is Podcast. Mandii and Bridget are so fucking dope! As you may or may not know we have been guests on Mandii's other hit Podcast ( She got like 237927329 businesses) Whoreible Decisions. But being able to switch up the energy with Bridget was such a treat.


These are just a few BTS images from our chat. 


What do you think we talked about?


If you haven't had a chance go c...

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EP. 192: Forgiveness 101

Hey Tribe! Welcome to Deeper December. This month Good moms focus on leaning into self, uncovering unresolved triggers, and active ways to finally start letting them go! Woosah!

In this weeks episode 👇🏾



• Erica digs deeper into the relationship she had with her father growing up and unresolved feelings.

• Milah discuss repressing memories from her teenage years and how it has recently encouraged her to begin therapy.

• The importance of talkin...

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[BONUS EPISODE] AFTER DARK: Are you a soft woman?

Lately I’ve been reflecting on the things about myself that maybe need adjusting or deserve deep reflection. One of those things is my strength. I’ve often heard “how strong“ I am and it’s become part of my identity. My “strength” has come from pain and disappointment but also, I think, is just innately part of who I am. I watched my mother and my grandmother be “strong” and very independent. Not need a man for anything. There is so much beauty in that, especially in a patri...

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BLOG: Gratitude

Just wanted to send a quick note to our Tribe today. We are so grateful for each and every one of you. Without your support we would not be the women we are today nor would we have kept this thing going! haha!

We know the holidays can be tough for some so we are sending you so much love and virtual hugs because these are truly made up days. Don't let them get the best of you. You are worth of love, care, honesty, abundance and all that good shit regardless of the choices you've made or ...

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EP. 191: Good Moms Get Dominated Feat. Sir Marvelous

This week we are joined by a professional BDSM Dominant and fire play specialist, @sirmarvelous . Tune in to hear and watch him use fire on Erica & Milah’s body parts and learn about the BDSM industry!

You can expect to hear:

🔥How Sir Marvelous’ curiosity for kink turned into a career.

🔥A “non-traditional” definition of BDSM.

🔥The science behind fire play.

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[BONUS EPISODE] Nobody Needs You Erica

Hey Tribe,

Doing something a little different here. Recorded a solo mini (episode?). Yeah, not sure what to call this yet. Maybe you can help with that!

Anyway,  just wanted to share something that came to me yesterday as I was feeling anxious and couldn't get the edge off even after trying all my old faithful (masturbation, bath, dance party in my house) tactics. I've been having these random bursts of inspiration that have been accelerating healing for me. Spirit has really...

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EP. 190: 5 Ways to Have Better Sex With Your Partner

It’s Mix It Up November & Good Moms want you to have better sex! In order to do this, Erica and Milah revisit the theme from last month, Uncomfortable Conversations October.Erica & Milah provide 5 ways you can give your partner feedback in the bedroom. But, Milah warns you that you may in turn, have to hear some back, and shares a story about “her head game being on the high scale of mediocre”.You can expect to hear:

-Why women MUST prioritize their pleasure. 

-...

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VLOG: Check in from Milah + Heather the snake

Hey Tribe 

Little late night check in, ranting about my  upcoming therapy session , some self reflection on my  self love journey. I need some accountability partners.  Sending y'all love!!! 


xoxox,

Milah 

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EP. 189: Women Empowerment is a Myth Feat Joe Budden

Welcome to Wild Card November, Week 2!!

On this week’s episode, we are joined by Podcastee extraordinaire, @joebudden

Join us as we learn co-parenting from a father’s point of view and why he thinks women empowerment is a myth. Tune into this episode to find out! 😳

This week you can expect to hear:

👉🏾 Joe talk about being a "boy dad".

👉🏾 How turmoil can have an impact on your growth and maturation.

👉🏾 Joe discuss non-negotiables ...

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