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EXTRAS: Good Friends After Dark: Deep Throating 101 Feat. Sexual Essentials

You guys, last night we had a 1 on 1 Deep Throating class with Samia of Sexual Essentials. Yes you heard correctly. She gave us a tutorial on her rainbow dildo and we used what he had 😂

Y’all have any deep throat tips?

Share below!

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We are attending her Masturbation and Squirting class on Februar...

EP. 146: Fear of the Nut Feat. Sexual Essentials

Is it normal to have a broken p*ssy post-pregnancy?

This week we are joined by Samia, the owner and hands-on instructor of @sexualessentials . We cover everything from Milah's booty escapades, Erica's conversion from "bi-fun" to just "bi", your vagina postpartum, how to squirt, and so much more!

You won't want to miss the 2 exclusive whories that Samia shares towards the end of the episode!

Let's just say... she's teaching people about sexual pleasure for a reason 💦

VIRTUAL EVENT: Only One More Day!

Hi Tribe!

There is only one day left to purchase tickets to our Full Moon Manifestation event! You will receive a beautiful basket with all the items you need for the event but due to shipping delays we have to have all your orders in my tomorrow! We absolutely can’t wait to see you there. Manifestation has been a leading force in our success in work and life. If you’ve followed us for a while you know that we’ve manifested men, apartments and even opportunities that have brought ...

BLOG: Can’t sleep.

Not sure why I can’t sleep but thought I’d share a few thoughts...

Don’t be afraid to to state your boundaries plainly. Say what you mean and mean what you say. In the past week I’ve had to stand my ground on what I want and what I need. It’s felt good AF. I think mostly because these boundaries were directed at men. I hate to say it but my boundaries are a lot clearer with women than they are with men. However, this week I felt real growth and so empowered telling ...

BLOG: Tarot + A Secret Invite

At the top of the year we decided to begin opening up our show pulling a card from our tarot deck and sharing a weekly affirmation. Both of these practices have been telling and motivating for us as creators, women, and mothers and we hope that sharing can help inspire you to find your rituals.

It’s a new moon in Capricorn tonight and this moon is bringing death and rebirth to the forefront and is very much about releasing the old so that we can transcend. 🚀 🌕 🦅

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ROLL UP: "New Years in Slow Motion"

We had an epic Mexico vacay (Clearly we love Mexico lol) that included a bunch of highlights we couldn't share with everybody and they mama. From Milah's hippie dancing and moaning, to bonds, boats, hoes, fireworks and blood kinks. Hold on to your seats lol!

EP. 144: Manifest With Your Kids

Happy 1st episode of 2021! This week we recap our NYE in Mexico and Jamilah shares her life changing psychedelic spiritual rebirth. Also, one of us is in love...guess who?! 😜

Join us as we dive into the difference between New Year's resolutions vs. New Year's intentions and how we can share the power of manifestation with our kids. I don't know about you but we want our mini's to tap in early!

We also discuss the inspiration behind the items in our Manifestation Box collaborati...

EP. 143: A Guided Meditation 4 Kids

Hey Tribe!

We hope you enjoyed our guided meditation for adults. Now it’s time to get the kids involved!

Settle them down in a quiet space and allow them to enjoy this short but effective meditation led by founder of @yogalittle! She will walk your kids through a guided meditation aka the best way to hone their super powers! Whether this is something you already practice with your child or their first time, let this be a reminder that we must teach our little how to self comfort...

EP. 143: Manifest That Shit Guided Meditation

Hey Tribe! Whew, we can’t believe that it’s already the last episode of the year!🥂

On this week’s episode, We’ve decided to end the year the same way we started it, with a guided manifestation meditation. Manifestation is a huge tool in our lives and we invite you to dedicate the next 10 minutes to yourself and come back to breathe, recharge, reboot, and replenish your energy!

2020 tested all of us but remember that you are powerful, you are magical, and you are enough...

BLOG: A Merry Mexico Christmas

Happy mf’n holidays tribe! I woke up childless in a beautiful tv’less mexican cottage with my hippie friends and watched the sun rise ALONE ...& i’m so glad I did. This is the first Christmas I’ve spent without Luna , and really the first without her dad. Every year I do the “family” thing but I’m so glad this year I went with my gut and said fuck mom guilt. Dipping in the sea of Cortez topless and dancing around the fire is exactly what I needed to gift myself this year. W...

EP. 142: Naughty or Nice

Tribe, ’tis the season to be jolly & manifest your wildest dreams boundlessly! 

It’s safe to say this year has been tumultuous, but admittedly for us it has also been fruitful. 

In this episode, we reflect on our year and the amazing blessings, guests, & content we were able to provide to all of you. We also share how we spent the evening of winter solstice and how we unlocked our magical black powers cuz the internet said so!

P.s We are also join...

SH*T WE ASK OUR KIDS: CHRISTMAS EDITION

It’s Christmas Eve! One day until Santa gets all the credit for all our hard work and money 😂

We sat down with our littles and asked them a few questions about Christmas and the legend of Santa.

Hope you guys enjoy your Holidays with the people you love!

xoxo,

Good Moms

ROLL UP: Practicing Gratitude + Intentionality

It’s been a long ass year and over all I’m grateful for it....For the highs & the low’s and most of all the pause to self reflect. I feel like I’m truly entering into a different chapter and space in my growth and I’m committed to staying focused & in my lane. How has this weird ass year prompted you to change? And what are some ways you guys practice spiritual self care and intentionality? Share !!!

[BONUS EPISODE] AFTER DARK: How To Unlock Your Inner Goddess Feat. The Pussy Party Podcast

Hi Tribe!

Welcome to Part 2 of our episode with Camille of The Pussy Party Podcast. The episode was so good we decided to do a part 2 exclusively to our Tribe on Patreon. Join us as we discuss in detail how to  identify your inner goddess powers and how to talk about menstruation with daughters. Stick around til the end to hear a  whorie you don't want to miss!

What do you think your inner goddess power is?

EP. 141: How To Unlock Your Inner Goddess Feat. The Pussy Party Podcast

We always knew they we were intuitively witchy but this episode confirmed our suspicions! ✨

This week, we are joined by Jessica Camille AKA The Mother Goddess, and host of @pwussypartypodcast . We chat with Jessica about the manifestation and healing power that women possess and what can happen when guided by an energy coach. We learn about the spiritual connection that we have to our ancestors and why people are naturally drawn to certain energy. You don’t want to miss th...

BLOG: Porn for Women

My friend so kindly shared a porn and sex wellness website specifically created for the pleasure of women. Yes, porn for women. Maybe I'm late to the party but I love it here!

They also sell sex toys for women and have sex education and erotic stories you can read on their site! They def need more diversity (welcome to the porn industry, ethical or not). However I do recommend checking it out. I noticed how they don't categorize by race or sexual orientation which is pretty progressive ...

BLOG: Irie caught me crying

The Taurus to my Scorpio. Irie and I are exactly 6 months apart. I guess they call that fate. My opposite and perfect puzzle piece. The other day I was crying in the kitchen. I was trying to hold it together because I knew she was in the other room...but she felt me. She came in and I quickly wiped away my tears but they wouldn’t stop flowing. She asked me what was wrong and I said “I have allergies”. She knew I wasn’t telling the truth. Adults are always told to not cry in front of c...

EP. 140: 5 Ways to Encourage Emotional Intelligence in Kids feat. H.E.R Space Podcast

It’s easy to dismiss a kid’s feelings and think that it’s them being“dramatic”. However, the way we handle a child’s emotions while they are young will shape their behaviors in adulthood!

In this week’s episode, we are joined by Dom &Terri, the hosts of H.E.R Space Podcast. You can expect to receive some actionable tools to help foster productive conversations with your children about feelings.

You know what they say though right? Be careful what you ask for. As ...

EP. 139: Running Trains with Friends Feat. Black Girls Texting

On today’s episode Milah shares how grateful she is to have an almost fully furnished apartment & more importantly tells all about her 6th birth day extravaganza. You’ll find out why Erica vows to take a break from drinking until 2021 for real this time. Then we chat with the girls of @blackgirlstexting and talk running trains with friends, sex with ex’s etiquette, BDSM and more! Don’t let them fo...

SEX POSITIONS 101: Threesome Edition

Hi Tribe!!

So excited to bring you a new sex position to spice up your life!

We were joined this week by Orlando of Hard or Soft Podcast and he showed us his threesome sex position fantasy.  We call this the Holy Pyramid! Both Milah and I were both clearly nervous and Orlando was clearly excited (cough cough).

I think we need more guest appearances. Don't you? Lmao!

If you have any sex positions to contribute to this series please email them or share them below! W...

[BONUS EPISODE] AFTER DARK: Orlando of Hard or Soft Podcast

This week we are joined by Mr. Big Dick Bad Bitch aka Orlando from Hard or Soft Podcast.

Orlando tells us about the first time with a prostitute and why he had to do it again the next morning. Apparently the Red Light District really does live up to its reputation.

We also talk about how masturbating can be used as a tool for productivity.

Look out this weekend for a special Sex Positions 101 featuring Good Moms + Orlando! Cums out this weekend! 😋

BLOG: Trigger Warning ⚠️ Biracial woman claiming to be black in Amerikkka

I’m not trying to be facetious because some of you were triggered by this week’s episode with @taymocha. Being black in America has a dark and complex history, period. It’s a lot to unpack but here are a few thoughts from a black Latina.

Has having a lighter complexion granted me privilege in some ways? I’m positive it has even unknowingly. Have lighter skinned “non biracial” person experienced privilege, I’m sure they have. Where you fall on the color spectrum matters a ...

EP. 138: Is Biracial Black? Feat. Taylor Nolan of Let’s Talk About it Podcast

On this week’s episode, we are joined by @taymocha ,a licensed sex and relationship therapist, current Ph.D candidate, host of @letstalkaboutit_podcast and former cast member of the popular dating show, The Bachelor. 

Aside from being an educated boss bi*** , Taylor discusses the constant struggle with identifying her identity- not because of how she feels , but because of how she’s perceived by others for being bi-racial. Taylor also gives some post break up tools and ways to ...

BLOG: Getting “flewed” out by an internet stranger” 101

So I’m back in these streets lol... after some jarring situations headed by my ex to subliminally hurt me, I had some deep realizations. 1) I’m the shit & I don’t have to take bullshit from anyone & 2)I’m the shit and I don’t have to take bullshit from anyone . I recently made the executive decision to meet a man who has been dm’ing for the last few months in Nashville, TN. Initially, to be honest it was a rash and random means to “jump back out there” and a final out...

BLOG: Anger/Hurt Hack

Just wanted to share something for those of you that don’t always release your hurt and angry energy with tears, or even at all. I know I’ve mentioned it before but I use masturbation as a release when I’m upset. It’s a great way to get the serotonin going and distract your mind from whatever is bothering you at the moment.

The other new hack I discovered while taking a bath (after masturbation). I was in there feeling bad for myself and got this overwhelming feeling to scream. ...

BLOG: I Can Finally Breathe....

I’ve struggled for over a year about finding a spot for Luna and I . Feeling like a terrible mother and adult. So many nights Luna asking “where are we sleeping tonight mommy”? ...(crushed me! ) LA is expensive af, and covid and life have been intense this year and on top of that not feeling like I have roots to get grounded in my own space has been wearing on me y’all! I’ve been in a constant state of anxiety and panic. At one point my grandmother agreed to co-sign for me then last...

Conflicted

So I did this roll up that I’ve scheduled and cancelled for release 3 times over the last few days. Sharing my life and feelings have become a source of drama in my relationship but I also know how sharing helps my tribe and also offers me perspective cuz y’all are so honest with me. It’s a very honest video and doesn’t necessarily shine a great light on him but I also acknowledge my own shortcomings.

Still considering releasing it. Just wanted to update you guys as I know I sha...

EXTRAS: Mexico Photo Dump

Hey Tribe,

I'm back from Mexico but wishing I was still there. Here are some pictures from my trip. If anyone needs any recommendations for Mexico City I made a list while I was there! Such an incredible city that I'm really considering moving to this summer. Beach photos are from Tulum which is equally as beautiful but way more Europeanized. 

Anyway,  hope you guys have a wonderful weekend!

EP. 136: I'm Alone but I'm Not Lonely

On today's episode Good Moms give us a serious life update! Erica shares details of her recent trip to Mexico and how a baecation turned into a solo trip. She shares an epiphany she had on the beach crying in Tulum and recommends trying three specific things before you die and one may include Mol...well you'll just have to listen.

Back in Los Angeles Jamilah is getting her groove back as things in her life are finally falling into place. As much of a free spirit as she is, she’s learn...

BLOG: Finding my way...

What’s up tribe! This year has been extremely intense for me with a lot of highs and lows. I’ve been really struggling to feel grounded the last two months and I finally feel like i’m emerging from a personal storm (thank God🙌🏾). When I say grounded I mean it in the most literal form, looking for an apartment for Luna and I while staying with my mom and with friends has been incredibly challenging and truly has tested me in a lot of ways. Drowning in guilt for feeling like I’m ...