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EP. 122: Divorced AF

On today’s episode good Moms are joined author of Mom AF and Can Mommy go to Work? Christine  Michelle Carter. 

She discusses infertility in the black community, being a working mom, battling depression and alcoholism with a partner. All while building her empire, she shares her advice in learning balance, thriving after her divorce, and the power of detachment. We also discuss therapy for children and the importance of checking in. 

Tune in for a session filled w...

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BLOG: What about your friends?

Yesterday I went on a last minute beach trip with the kids and some friends for some much needed recharging. We ate, we smoked, we played, we drank, we twerked. It was just what the doctor ordered.

With COVID still roaring it’s bitchy ass head going to nature has been my solace. As Irie played with my girlfriend and fellow Patron’s daughter (Hey Neerelyn!) I couldn’t help but think of the world that I will leave her to one day. I hope these memories of maskless beach days don’t...

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ROLL UP: Episode 5: MaryJane in Mexico W/ Milah

Milah is reporting live from Mexico!

Join me while I enjoy my blunt and debrief about my trip to Mexico with Adventure Bae & friends! 

You'll see go-pro footage of me swimming with white shark whales, freezing in a boat during pouring rain, & my Kanye house Air BnB!

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EP. 121: Head First

On today’s episode Good Moms discuss the “growing pains” that come with being in a relationship. Back after a 12 day siesta, Milah recants her baecation in Mexico where she discovers she’s bougier than she thought. Meanwhile, Erica walks us through her vacation unicorn seeking process confesses she’s just not that into _________ in the bedroom. Stay tuned til the end to hear a steamy, creamy sneak, whorie you don't want to miss!

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Are we close friends?

Hey Tribe!

Hope you guys are having a beautiful Sunday! Milah is on a camping trip in Yosemite and I snuck away to Denver for 2 days for a nature escape myself!

Come check out our adventures of the day by sending us your Instagram so we can add you to our close friend circle. We post things there we only want to share with our beloved Patron Tribe! Follow each other too!

Anyway, we hope you guys enjoy the rest of you weekend and in the words of Juanita from the movie class...

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EP. 120: Co-Parenting 101

 

On today’s episode good moms talk the in’s and outs of Co-parenting. scheduling days, mature communication, letting go, introducing new partners and more. You don’t want to miss Milah’s famous coparenting calendar & the details of Erica and Milah’s Co-parenting journey.

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EP. 119: Banned For Life Feat. Unrated Unruly Podcast

 

On this week's episode, Good Moms are joined by Virginia and Tay of Urated Unruly Podcast. 

Join them as they discuss whether or not anniversaries should be celebrated if you're not married, our experiences with sex injuries, and why they banned their boyfriends from listening to their podcast. 

We also ponder which former guest we would or have slept with (ahhh) and why people need to stop judging women for not wanting kids. Stick around till the end for Ta...

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EP. 118: Desert Diaries

On this week's episode, Good Moms retreated to the desert for a much needed BFF getaway!

The magic of the desert sparks some deep self-realizations and a level 10 allergy attack. Erica shares why she’s been feeling insecure about her parenting and Jamilah wants to be carried like a baby.

Just listen! Don't forget to give us a 5 star review on Apple Podcast.

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BLOG: Jamilah’s D-toxing Allergy Attack

If you listened to this weeks episode then you know exactly what this photo is in reference to. Milah had a “hitch” like allergy attack mid journey and I was totally freaked out (Erica)! She was for sure was detoxing these dudes out of system cuz we consumed all the same things!

Has your body every released something that you were not ready for in regards to trauma?

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SEX POSITIONS 101

On this episode of Sex Positions 101, we give you a 2 for 1 special!

Try out these positions and tell us about your experience. Also, feel free to give us suggestions, or send some videos of your own!

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ROLL UP: Episode 4: Purple Urkle Indica

This episode of Roll Up with Good Moms is brought to you, all the way from Joshua Tree.  Join us as we chat about our intense shroom experience, and our new relationship with the concept of trust. 

Our mini getaway has resulted in epiphanies & much more.

Bring your weed & roll up with Good Moms.

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ROLL UP: Episode 3: Passiflora Alfredo Indica

Weed of the day: Passiflora Alfredo Indica

Join Good Moms as we smoke and chat with ya'll about baby daddies, drag queens, & Milah's bday dinner. Bring your weed & roll up with us!

You might want to bring some snacks too because our high asses reminisce on some past fire meals!

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EXTRAS: I like him...

We’re in Joshua Tree doing some witchy, trippy, friend, work, bonding. It wouldn’t be a trip unless we did a music video nobody asked for. Haha. Enjoy!

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EP. 117: Fuck The Patriarchy

On today's episode, Good Moms are joined by the Oprah Rose Show Podcast. Join us as they breakdown the lessons they’ve learned in quarantine and even eluding to a possible break up. We also contemplate how black men can do better protecting black women. 


Stick around till the end for a Whorie by GG.

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EXTRAS: Fuck The Pain Away

If you listened to this week's TEN MINUTE episode titled "BRB", then you know we needed a damn break! 

Sometimes, you need to just FUCK THE PAIN AWAY. 

If you're encouraged to dance from this video, don't fight it... join us!

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EP. 115: Fear of the Unkown

On tonights episode Good Moms endorse Psilocybin.....again.... and discuss the fear of not knowing what the future holds in all aspects of life and how their trips have helped them peel back layers and become more vulnerable. Milah talks about how her anxiety is at an all time high as her 32nd birthday approaches. Don’t miss the epic Facebook mommy group unicorn whorie at the end.

Looking for a therapist? Betterhelp.com provides virtual therapy for individuals, couples and teenag...

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EP. 114: Are You My Boyfriend?

On today’s episode Good Moms open up about their dating life and one of them admits that they may or may not have a boyfriend. Join them as they recant their double bae camping trip and discuss how although they’ve manifested great men their also scared AF of being accountable for other people’s feelings. One of them shares her experience telling her baby daddy about her new bae and one of them shares how their nonchalant dating approach may not serve her new found mature “love...

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EXTRAS: Tell yo bestfriend to...

So we decided to take a last minute camping trip to Trona Pinnacles where they shot Planet of the Apes and countless other music videos and films. We brought our new baes and of course we had to get baby ratchet while they talked their nerd shit. 

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[BONUS EPISODE] AFTER DARK: Let's Talk Race with Our Kids...Feat. Patron's, Rai King and Dr. Bentley L. Gibson

In wake of George Floyd and Breonna Taylor's death the black community has reached their breaking point. Racism is something that can no longer be swept under the table until it rears its ugly head in the form of a video recording. Talking about race amongst white parents, black parents and everything in between is something that is long overdue. How we plan to discuss race, privilege, and our history with our kids is a conversation that has to come sooner than most parents think. 

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EP. 113: Dear White People... Feat. Van Lathan

On today's episode Good Moms are joined by TV Host and Culture Commentator, Van Lathan. Join them as they discuss George Floyd, the global protest in support of his wrongful execution, and how today’s social climate affects mental health. Van touches on the state of his mental health as a black man in America and Milah shares her experience finding her perfect therapist match via betterhelp.com. Erica discusses how being the “go to” black friend for her white allies becom...

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VIRTUAL EVENT: PATRON ONLY Event at 5pm PST!

Hi Tribe!

Today we are hosting a LIVE CHAT to discuss how we talk about race with our kids! We will be joined by Diversty Trainer, Rai King (Wife of Social Activist, Shaun King).

America can no longer ignore the obvious mishandling of black people and black issues after the countless deaths and recent execution of George Floyd and Breonna Taylor. This country has a deep systemic history of racism and we believe that much of this starts at home. It is so important that white parent...

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Patrons Only! Join us TODAY for a LIVE chat!

Hi Tribe!

Today we are hosting a LIVE CHAT to discuss how we talk about race with our kids! We will be joined by Diversty Trainer, Rai King (Wife of Social Activist, Shaun King).

America can no longer ignore the obvious mishandling of black people and black issues after the countless deaths and recent execution of George Floyd and Breonna Taylor. This country has a deep systemic history of racism and we believe that much of this starts at home. It is so important that white parent...

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EP. 111: Living the American Dream Feat. Damon Dash & Raquel Horn

On today's episode Good Moms are joined by entrepreneur and Hip Hop Mogul Damon Dash and his creative collaborator and life partner, Raquel Horn. Join them as Dame talks balancing baby mommas, his blended family, and shares the secrets to living the American dream. Raquel shares her experience being a bonus mom to Damon's 4 children and how she came to love Damon in spite of his weakness for women and his rockstar lifestyle. We discuss the dynamic of their relationship and why it works f...

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EP. 110: How To Poly Like A Pro Feat. Sapphire's Earplay

On today’s episode we are joined by Sapphire & Yasmine DeLeon of Sapphires Earplay Podcast. We dive into polyamorous relationships verses open relationships, and Sapphire schools us on juggling five partners including a married woman, a Dom, and group sessions. Yas shares why she’s been single for ten years and why she would rather have fuckships for life. Meanwhile, Erica and Milah are both straddle the line of commitment vs single AF for life.

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EP. 108: Co-parenting, Quarantine Dating, and Houseparty Crashing Feat. Jamilah Lemieux

 

This week Good Moms are joined by Award winning writer, cultural critic, and Mom, Jamilah Lemieux. Join us as Jamilah shares her co-parenting journey, healing, and how that led her blended family to make the move from NYC to LA. They also discuss how FaceTime quarantine dating in LA is much better than real life dating in LA. We get high and dig deep into the obstacles of publicly smoking weed as a black woman, mother, and professional. Stay tuned til the end to find out why Eric...

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ROLL UP: Episode 2: Do You Smoke Around Your Kids?

On  this month bonus "Roll Up" segment we are discussing how we discuss weed with our kids and what boundaries, if any, do we have when it comes to smoking around Irie and Luna. 

Watch and answer our question to you below!

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EP. 107: We Don't Endorse the Shit We Said

 

On today's episode Good Moms are discussing their recent anxiety and the lengths they've gone to relieve it...did someone say mushrooms?

Erica shares why she's glad she's not married during COVID and Jamilah talks putting Passport Cutty's dating tips into action during quarantine. Stick around til the end for a quick whore story regarding two wives and their dirty little secret.

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ROLL UP: Introducing, Roll Up...

Hi Patrons!

Welcome to our new segment exclusive to Patreon called,  "Roll Up..."! We have coined ourselves "Cannabis Sommerliers" and will be discussing what we're smoking, how it tastes, and other random high thoughts.

On today's segment we are discussing Erica's new career as a Dominatrix, reenacting our sex sounds, and meditation. Yes, ladies and gentleman our train of thought is all over the place because....well....Orange Creamsicle.

Let us know what your smoking ...

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EP. 105: Pt 1: The M in Man Stands For Money

On today's episode Good Moms are joined by Author and unconventional Life Coach, Passport Cutty. Join them as they discuss her highly reviewed book, The M in Man is For Money: A Woman's Guide on How to Handle Men and Money in Dating and Relationships. Wheeew chile, she dropped some knowledge on us and basically we've been doing it ALLLLL wrong! She breaks down how being too independent or having sex too soon could be the reason why women are not attracting the men they want. She also shares h...

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[BONUS EPISODE] AFTER DARK: 5 Things I....

We made a list of 5 things we...just listen to this bonus episode and make your list too.

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