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Please Read! Important Membership Update

Hi Tribe! Over the past few months, we've been dedicated to enhancing your membership experience, and today, we're thrilled to unveil some exciting changes that will take your membership to new heights.

We've been closely analyzing the membership to identify things we could improve. You've probably noticed some of these changes like restructuring Discord and posting a lot more content from our lives. The Good Tribe membership community has never been more vibrant, and we owe it...

Let’s take a bath together

Hi Tribe,

I recently invested in crystal sound bowls after being called for a along time to learn how to play them. I am a newbie so bare with me!

Take a moment at some point when you need a reset and play this video. I hope to share more of these with you if you like them so let me know in the comments.

My good sis LeJaila from our retreat in Mexico told me that bowls were so...

Oh the places honesty can take you..

We got flewed out to SF to Patreon headquarters to talk to ALL 400+ of their employees along side their founder. It was magical! Never did we think in a million years that talking our shit in the dinning room about love, life and motherhood would lead us to be talking to a tech company. Life is wild but, if there is anything we’ve learned it’s s YOU are the conductor and Whatever YOU believe you can manifest. Have a happy Thursday tribe and remember to choose your tribe wisely. Those that...

[EP 288] It’s Not You, It’s Karma

Hey Tribe! Welcome to Make Your Own Magic October. It’s our favorite month so get ready for a magical month of mystical and compelling episodes!

In this episode, we dive right in with a spooky tale you may remember from childhood and contemplate why white horror stories are way creepier than black horror. Good moms talk about the dark feminine and why being a “hoochie” may give you access to her.

Have you met that bitch Karma? Erica and Milah explain why you’ll keep meetin...

Zoom Link for Tonight

Hi Tribe, here is the Zoom link for tonight's virtual advice hour. We're starting at 6pm PT / 9pm ET.

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/81644264067?pwd=SFBFdGxYNElleWZqYi9aczllVlNhdz09 Passcode: vibes

Today’s Pull is kinda scary

This morning I asked Irie to join me and we both pulled cards that are exactly where my mind has been at the last two weeks. I have been talking about moving out of my house for YEARS. I’ve been here for 9 long years and although I love the energy it’s time for something new. I have been feeling stuck and like I could not afford to do it until I felt like it was gonna be an upgrade. Well, a few things have changed, including my mindset, and I’ve been on the hunt since last week for a ne...

Rescheduled Date - Virtual Advice Hour | Oct 2 @ 6pm PT / 9pm ET

Hi Tribe! We are so sorry for the last-minute postponement of Wednesday's event. We have rescheduled the virtual event to Monday, October 2 at 6pm PT / 9pm ET.

For this month's wellness event, we're serving up some Good Tribe Advice Hour! Bring whatever is on your mind that you need some guidance on, and let's chat it out.

The Zoom link will be sent Monday morning at 9am PT.

Thank you again for being so understanding! 

ACCESS: Mon...

[Ep 287] Sorry For Being A Bitch

Hey Tribe! Happy Wednesday. Today, Erica + Milah are diving headfirst into gender roles, their current trials + tribulations, and talk candidly about their friendship issues…Yes there were tears.

Jamilah also breaks down the power of frequencies and how we’re meant to operate on “basic cable”… Just listen and it will all make sense!

Expect to hear:

• Unraveling the mystery behind "ho-tep" and its role in modern society
• A recap of their ATL visit to The...
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Zoom Link for Tonight!

Hi Tribe, here is the Zoom link for tonight's virtual advice hour. We're starting at 6pm PT / 9pm ET. 

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/81644264067?pwd=SFBFdGxYNElleWZqYi9aczllVlNhdz09

Passcode: vibes

[Reminder] Virtual Advice Hour | Wed @ 6pm PT

Hi Tribe! Reminder our next monthly wellness virtual event is Wednesday at 6pm PT / 9pm ET. This month, we're serving up some Good Tribe Advice Hour! Bring whatever is on your mind that you need some guidance on, and let's chat it out.

The zoom link will be sent Wednesday morning

ACCESS: Monthly virtual events are available to all Good Vibes members. You're always welcome to 2023-09-25 13:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post

Today’s Pull

The High Priestess reminds us to stop thinking rationally and follow your intuition. To lean into your divine feminine and all knowing self. To tap into your spirituality or even find a group that you can begin to feel embraced and inspired by to do so. Flow into a practice, whether meditation or yoga, that allows you to be in harmony with your body.

More on this card 2023-09-24 21:23:54 +0000 UTC View Post

TGIFF (Thank God it’s Fucking Friday)

No homework and a long weekend. Thank you Jewish holiday! Went to parent night at my daughters school and they were running down what to expect all year. This is for sure the year that I start struggling with 3rd grade math 😫 have y’all heard of Singapore math? What in the actual confusion is this shit.

Anyway, my boo drew this cute picture and wrote things that make me proud which enhanced my mood cuz the last few days have been tough. For those who watched last weeks episode in ...

Reminder! Connect to Discord!

Hi Tribe! Sorry for the continuous reminders about Discord! This was a big change to the way our Discord community is structured, so we want to make sure everyone has access to the member-only channels. To get access you have to connect through Patreon! 

Make sure to check out the detailed instructions in this post 

https://www.patreon.com/posts/very-important-89128629

[After Dark] Durand Bernarr

Hi Tribe! Durand held back a great story for our After Dark session! Let's just say things got a little complicated one night! 

[Ep 286] How To Preserve Your Inner Child Feat. Durand Bernarr

Hey Tribe! It's time for another exciting episode of GMBC. In this episode, your hosts Erica and Milah sit down with the talented Durrand Bernarr to explore the fascinating topic of preserving your inner child.

Expect to hear:

• Durrand shares his personal experiences growing up in Cleveland and being homeschooled, and how his parents played a crucial role in nurturing his inner child.
• Discussion on the delicate balance between respect and fear in parent-child relatio...
  2023-09-20 13:51:15 +0000 UTC View Post

A Tantra practice I love!

Hey tribe!

So I’ve been studying to become a tantra practitioner & sexologist and so far the practice has really cultivated a new level of connection with myself & my family so I thought i would share an easy practice I learned from tantra.

• Sit comfortably in front of your partner (doesn’t have to be a romantic partner, I also practice with Luna) legs over theirs (or vice versa) hand to heart and stare into their eyes with a “soft gaze”(This disarms you both ...
  2023-09-20 11:26:08 +0000 UTC View Post

[Reminder] Connect your Discord to Patreon!

Hi Tribe, this a friendly reminder to make sure you connect your Discord to Patreon and rejoin the server so that you can access the member-only channels. The changes will go into effect on Monday morning. 

Step-by-step instructions can be found in this POST.  

If you have any questions DM us on Patreon or email us at 2023-09-15 14:19:21 +0000 UTC View Post

[Ep 285] Honesty Is Sexy

Hey Tribe! Happy Hump Day! Welcome back to Sexy September. In this episode, Erica and Jamila share their personal journeys and insights on how to connect with pleasure and joy, especially for people of color, and the necessary adjustments in different environments. Get ready to make Sexy September unforgettable with their tips on tapping into your sensual self.

Expect to hear:

• Their recent experiences with transformative breathe work
• The role of culture and upbringi...
  2023-09-13 20:14:33 +0000 UTC View Post

❗VERY IMPORTANT MESSAGE! CONNECT TO DISCORD❗

Hi Tribe have a VERY IMPORTANT update about our Discord! Our community means everything to us and our Patreon membership has created a very secure and curated community of people who really value the support and resources our Discord community provides. As mothers and women who advocate for personal freedom, curiosity, and empowerment for all people, we have worked hard to cultivate a Tribe that is able to share and explore their interests, testimonies, and desires ...

P*ssy check + Fertility

After last weeks bonus episode with the Fertility Advantage I felt it was time for a check-up + to inquire about getting my eggs checked.

I also couldn't help but think about our episode with Flor Cuz and what she said about standard gynecology at that many of their practice...

[Virtual Event] Good Tribe Advice Hour | Sept 27 @ 6pm PT

Hi Tribe! Last month's virtual event was an absolute blast. And guess what? This month, we're serving up some Good Tribe Advice Hour! Now, don't get us wrong, we're not claiming to be experts, but we'll sure as heck give it a shot. Bring whatever is on your mind that you need some guidance on, and let's chat it out.

The zoom link will be sent the morning of Sept 27.

ACCESS: Monthly virtual events are available to all Good Vibes members. You're alw...

[BONUS EPISODE] Sex Tips w/ Alexis Texas

Hi Tribe, we're excited to share this After Dark episode with Alexis Texas. In this episode, Alexis shares some of her best sex tips. The no hands blowjob technique is one you'll have to see.  

[Ep 284] Daddy I’m A Pornstar feat. Alexis Texas

Hey Tribe! Happy Hump Day! It’s the first week of Sexy September and Good Momas sit down with one of their favorite Porn Stars, Alexis Texas! Tune in as Alexis shares her journey into the sex industry during college and so much more. Tune in as we dive deep into conversations about pleasure, sexuality, and self-discovery.

Expect to hear:

• Alexis Texas opens up about her backstory, and how she actually isn’t from Texas!
• The life-altering moment of telling her pare...
  2023-09-06 13:26:45 +0000 UTC View Post

[After Dark] I Think I'm Infertile featuring Dr. Raquel

Hey Tribe! Join us for a bonus episode for Bad Ass Birthing August. Today we sit down with Fertility Expert Dr. Raquel and talk about the fear and mystery around infertility.

Expect to hear:

• The top reasons for infertility in young woman.
• The process of freezing eggs
• Dismantling the outdated term "geriatric pregnancy", and family plan...
  2023-08-31 19:04:30 +0000 UTC View Post

FULL MOON MANIFESTATION MEET UP

Hey guys if you have these items at home please bring them:

1. Candle

2. Pen & paper (or ancestor money)

3. Honey

6pm pst

If you don’t have them don’t worry about it 🤗 see you tonight!

My Mother’s Keeper Feat. Latham Thomas

Hey Tribe! Your get the FULL EPISODE with the incredible Latham Thomas!

We're diving deep into the world of motherhood, empowerment, and birthing magic with a special guest who radiates the wisdom and energy of Mother like no other. Get ready to be inspired by the one and only Glow Maven – Latham Thomas.

Expect to hear:

• The best black ...
  2023-08-30 13:45:22 +0000 UTC View Post

Zoom Link for tonight!

Hi tribe! Looking forward to seeing everyone tonight! Here is the Zoom link

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/81644264067?pwd=SFBFdGxYNElleWZqYi9aczllVlNhdz09

Passcode: vibes

Virtual Event Tomorrow @ 6pm PT

Reminder, our monthly virtual event is tomorrow at 6pm PT / 9pm ET. Since August 30th is the full moon so we thought it would be great to do another collective manifestation and group reading!

Looking forward to seeing everyone!

The zoom link will be sent tomorrow morning!

ACCESS: Monthly virtual events are available to all Good Vibes and Good Good members. You're always welcome to 2023-08-29 13:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post

Join us on Discord!

Access to our patreon gives you access to our Discord community!

Our Discord is a safe space for both men and women to share, connect, learn and vent! This is where Milah and Erica really get to get to know each and every one of you more intimately!

We have various channels so make sure you tap in and see all the juicy and beautiful convos that are happening! We also have locked channels just for women and for our retreat attendees.

Bel...