Raquel Savage

Guided breathing audio (December bonus)

Hi, everyone. I did a guided breathing this month to complement the breathing educational video!

So, go somewhere quiet, get comfortable and get ready to breathe!

xoxo  

Guided breathing transcript (December bonus)

Hi, everyone. I thought that in line with doing an educational video about the importance of breathing, that I would lead a guided breathing. This is similar to a guided meditation. This is something you can start your day with, something you can end your day with. You can get into the practice of it, you can implement it when you are stressed out, when you just need a second to yourself. This is just something generally that can help you relax, get into your body, get in touch with yourself....

#AskRaquelSavage (December - submission)

Hey!! Reply with  questions for December's #askraquelsavage q&a - you can ask me anything you want and I'll choose 3-5 questions to answer!

xoxo

Please, stop hitting your kids (December's #TPTT)

Really quick about kids…

There are hella different things going on with kids developmentally that, if disrupted, can hinder their emotional, social and intellectual growth. Every step of the way, kids are observing, learning and internalizing – all of which are directly affected by their environment. At their earliest stages, kids depend entirely on their caretakers for all of their needs. During this time, kids are already learning about trust, security ...

Deep breathing (December's educational vid - early access)

Hey! Happy holidays muh fuckas! This month we're learning about the benefits of deep breathing. From yo belly! Tap in and stay tuned cuz I may be dropping a guided breathing exercise later in the month!

Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/3hqxqqxzszm84le/Breathing.mp4?dl=0

xoxo

(Drunk) Hoe Tales - November

When you fuck the DJ and the dick is life changing...

Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/ftebe7rrrv2qaw0/Hoe%20Tales.mp4?dl=0

Pregnancy, childbirth & the role of a Doula (October's live stream)

My bad for not posting this sooner! Someone just emailed and asked for it and I realized I totally forgot to post it! This live features @Thankyounicky

Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/5ask4okjsydpk4p/Nicky%20LIVE.mp4?dl=0

xoxo

Thirst Traps 101 (November's live stream)

Happy holidays, folks! Here's the recording for November's live stream!

Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/06hqf3atu07jqnl/Thirst%20Traps%20101.mp4?dl=0

xoxo

#AskRaquelSavage (November)

Yeoo! This month I answered the following questions:

1. Is porn addiction real? How much is a healthy amount of porn?

2. Does Plan B work when you're ovulating?

3. Sex Work (basically just reminded folks I have 2 live streams about the topic)

4. My Instagram technique for baiting athlete lol

Edit: I forgot to say that Plan B may affect fertilization and implantation, however, Plan b's major focus is delaying ovulation.

xoxo

HBO Unboxing (November Bonus)

Yeoooo for this month's bonus I'm unboxing some amazing shit from HBO for a new show (Mrs. Fletcher) they're promoting!

Tap in, this is my first literal "unboxing" so that was fun LMAO I'm officially a whore influencer, wow <3

Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/7msd8tiiov0fw8h/HBO%20Unboxing.mp4?dl=0

Call Me By Your Name (November's #TPTT)

TW// love, heartbreak, age disparity

I recently became obsessed with Timothée Chalamet. I’ve been called WMW…

LMAO

Anyway… 

I started with The King and then watched Call Me by Your Name. I tweeted about watching (and loving) CMBYN and (some) peoples’ immediate response was about the age difference between the two main characters – immediately dismissing it. To be brief, it is a story about a family in Italy w...

Birth Trauma (November's educational vid - early access)

Hey! I commissioned Nicky (IG Thankyounicky) the Doula from October's live stream to discuss birth trauma for November's educational video. This was so interesting for me to learn about in-depth since it was something I knew very little about or ever considered.

Tune in and make sure to follow Nicky and check out her website thankyounicky.com :)

Link: https://www.dropbox....

Prison Abolition discussion w/ Nnenna (October's Bonus)

Hey! So, the topic of prison abolition keeps popping up on my TL and it's something I'm super unfamiliar with but have an interest in and think, generally, I agree with. So, I decided to chat with an expert, Nnenna Amuchie, about the topic!

This was really enjoyable for me; I hope it helps anyone who is also trying to learn or is a good listen for folks who are already deep in the prison abolition community :)

Make sure to follow Nnenna on twitter: @theAf...

(Drunk) Hoe Tales - October

Athlete orgy shit.

Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/9gswy9j2zqer5k8/OCTOBER%20HOE%20TALES%201%20V4.mp4?dl=0

xoxo

#AskRaquelSavage (October)

Yerr! I answered questions this month about incalls v. outcalls, STD/HIV transmission via oral sex, boundary setting, getting into Femdom and how to set rates for sex work.  

Here are some additional links!

Boundaries: https://www.uky.edu/hr/sites/www.uky.edu.hr/files/wellness/images/Conf14_Boundaries.pdf

Transmission:

2019-10-22 18:13:10 +0000 UTC View Post

Trauma & kinks (October's #TPTT)

TW// trauma

Quite a few of you have asked me to discuss trauma as it pertains to kinks/preferences. This is a huge topic so I’ll do my best to condense and simplify everything I’ve come to understand around this topic.

Let’s start generally, with development of attraction/preferences, and go from there.

As soon as we are able to start receiving and processing messages, meanings, images, etc. we begin to create our preferences (this begins in infancy). The begi...

Cunnilingus! (September's live stream)

Here's the recording from September's live stream. Attached is the transcript. 

Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/xplsvf4ar3zb2v8/Cunnilingus.mp4?dl=0

Condoms & dental dams (October's educational vid - early access)

I feel like we supposed to know all about condoms but most of us really don't know wtf we be talking about. And dental dams are literally just foreign objects so, this month: a couple contraceptives 

Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/87u11bi4hfpe2ow/Condoms%20%26%20Dental%20Dams.mp4?dl=0

xoxo

CONSENT in real time (September's Bonus)

Yerrr, here's a quick vid about what consent looks like when we're actually with out partners. You can spice up giving/receiving consent by mixing it into your dirty talk!

A great guide, provided by @Jamiejleclaire, is:

Say what you want

Check-in

Say what you're going to do

Say what you're doing

Say what you did

Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/p...

#AskRaquelSavage (September)

Hey! The questions this month were awesome. :) I covered unpacking assigning value to your genitals, imagining having different genitals than  you believe you have, how to make masturbation more interesting and more!

Attached is the transcript. xoxo

Orgies (September's #TPTT)

I did things a little different this month. This isn't really a #TPTT - this is what I would consider a sample chapter if I were to write a book lol :) Enjoy this fuckery.

I’ve always felt insatiable. My sexual appetite combined with being unafraid to explore led me to situations, and instigating situations, where I could have as many experiences as possible in one setting. Orgies feel very unique in terms of the amount of coordination required to organize on...

(Drunk) Hoe Tales - September

College edition.

Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/s68s5q8693j1ht7/HOE%20TALES%204%20V4.mp4?dl=0

Rape culture (September's educational vid - early access)

Yerr!! This month I'm discussing rape culture. Let me know if you have any questions! Side note: I don't know why I'm smiling like this during such a morbid topic lmao sjijkkkijsjsisjsjs

Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/2y5dlzx8my8bvf8/SEPTEMBER%20EDUCATIONAL%20V3.mp4?dl=0

xoxo

#AskMeAnything (August's live stream)

Hey lovers! Here is the recording for August's #AskMeAnything live stream. I answered questions about overcoming unwanted feelings, dealing with stigma around STD's, my experiences with open relationships, edging, retirement, my thoughts on marriage and monogamy, etc.

Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/t8pq16zajzbjkxv/%23AskMeAnything.mp4?dl=0

xoxo

Pay for your Porn! Ft. Lexual (August's Bonus)

Yerrrr! Me and Lexual got together to talk about paying for porn and how not paying for porn, among other things, contributes to rape culture. Tune in!

And make sure to follow her:

Twitter @Lexual__

IG Elexus.Jionde

Patreon patreon.com/IntelexualMedia 

xoxo

Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/9dtlag04x6jb9sk/AUGUST%20BONUS%20VIDEO%20V7.mp4?dl=...

#AskRaquelSavage (August)

Hey! Here's August's Q&A. I answered a few questions - I focused mostly on the topic of setting boundaries.

Transcript attached!

xoxo

Women as perpetrators of harm (August's #TPTT)

TW// violence

I’ve never been someone who has lots of women friends. Sans context, that sentence tends to activate a RED FLAG alert – with no analysis, this warrants a side eye from most people because it suggests arrogance (which is loaded but I digress) and a woman who, perhaps, prioritizes men (which naturally feels alarming).

Women friends are the basis of sisterhood and building community. There are no friendships like friendships with women, or rather, friends...

(Drunk) Hoe Tales - August

Yerrrrr. Another edition of slut shit. Enjoy xoxo

Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/1yy727eij7ofgt8/HOE%20TALES%203.mp4?dl=0

S*x Work (July's live stream)

Hey! Here's the recording of July's live stream on SW. I've attached the transcript - I also attached the transcript from the first stream I did on this topic which is more lecture style and has information I didn't mention in the most recent one.

Enjoy xoxo

Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/hu05u9h3zpnkxb9/sex%20work%20livestream.mp4?dl=0

Psychobiology of trauma (August's educational video - early access)

Hey! This month we're going over the basics of trauma. I break down how trauma effects the brain - this is info that was given to me during school that changed how I make sense of almost everything in my life. Enjoy!

xoxo

Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/7vb3c5i3pgwqzb8/AUGUST%20EDUCATIONAL.mp4?dl=0