[Rerun] Dr. Kirk presents his deep dive into Bowenian Therapy. What exactly is differentiation and triangulation? How did Murray Bowen come up with his theory? How is used to help families function better?
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Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.
00:00 Insecurity & cheating
22:12 What does Dr. Kirk think of Astoria, OR?
23:22 Why haven't we had luck with a couples therapist?
32:33 What is the cost of children diffusing family conflict?
48:55 OPP 2022
50:44 Why is alcoholism considered a disease?
1:13:45 How can I share my addiction with my family?
1:17:08 Do I drink because of trauma or because of alcoholism...
2024-11-13 12:00:09 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about marital conflict and Gottman's Four Horsemen.
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Dr Kirk answers patron emails.
00:00 What is Dr. Kirk's model of supervision?
02:07 How do I tell a friend that I have a life-threatening condition?
08:43 Dependent personality spectrum
12:18 Why do I want to cheat?
20:35 OPP 2022
21:30 Psychology "Hacks"
28:03 Grey Rocking
36:25 Mug-level OPP 2022
37:50 Can I report a therapist friend?
41:04 How do I accept an apology?
46:26 What drives the dynamic of an over/underfunctioner r...
2024-11-11 12:00:07 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk talks about online bullying and dealing with negative comments.
00:00 Intro
01:56 Who Trolled Amber?
07:36 Cancellation trauma
24:17 Negative online feedback
47:57 Online mob mentality & balancing feedback
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with coaching trainer Mike Bundrant about the difference between coaching and counseling.
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Dr K (HealthyGamer) interviews Dr Kirk Honda about avoidant and schizoid personality disorder.
00:00 Introducing HealthyGamer
06:11 Collaboration intro
13:19 What is a personality disorder?
15:51 What happens in avoidant personality disorder?
27:17 Establishing trust and safety
32:35 Common experiences of avoidant personality disorder
1:05:18 Confronting bullies
1:20:41 Schizoid personality disorder
1:35:02 Prototypical Healthy...
2024-11-06 12:00:09 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda talks about therapist difficulties.
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2024-11-05 12:00:09 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk discovers he has dyslexia.
00:00 Dr. Kirk's dyslexia
05:07 Reading slowly
33:43 Visual & audio media
53:11 International Dyslexia Association screener criteria
1:10:19 Reading aloud
1:19:42 AP English
1:28:38 Final criterion
1:35:06 Other realizations
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2024-11-04 12:00:13 +0000 UTC View PostANNOUNCEMENT:
You can now send a KIRKgram!
(Cameo wasn't working, so I created my own way.)
Link:
https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/kirkgram
2024-11-03 22:39:41 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk and Humberto answer patron emails.
00:00 What is online cheating?
17:02 Compulsive porn use
23:54 TW Sexual abuse
26:33 What is The Ick
49:46 Walkaway Wife Syndrome
1:07:18 Is asking for a sexless relationship possible?
1:15:05 Upcoming Election Day
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2024-11-01 11:00:13 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto analyze the main character in Nightcrawler regarding psychopathic and sadistic personality.
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Dr Kirk and Humberto discuss the psychological model proposed in Inside Out 2.
00:00 Witnessing childhood
10:06 Transitionary periods
24:18 Stable personality points
36:17 Anxiety vs. Fear
1:03:01 Sense of self & schemas
1:39:46 Rating & sequel possibilities
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2024-10-30 14:00:13 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] What do you do when you have feelings for your therapist? Falling in love? Wanting to be adopted? Dr. Kirk Honda answers a number of emails on this topic.
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2024-10-29 11:00:05 +0000 UTC View Post
Kids or no kids? How do we decide? Dr Kirk interviews fellow therapist Jess Flynn about her decision to not have children. Jess Flynn can be found at: https://jess-flynn-therapy.clientsecure.me/
00:00 Introducing Jesamie & mortality
09:32 Respectfully childless
14:15 Jesamie's background
27:26 Discussing children
38:12 Religion & ego death
1:11:47 Questioning w...
2024-10-28 11:00:09 +0000 UTC View Post
Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob review a case in which a therapist was convicted of fraud.
00:00 Relational therapist fraud
06:43 Bob's bathroom remodel
08:35 Moving from therapy to coaching
28:01 "Misleading wording"
34:57 Conviction and reprimand
41:10 Therapist deception
1:01:59 Damage to the therapeutic relationship
1:13:31 Idioms & dyslexia
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[Rerun] Bob tells us about how to use emotionally focused therapy to help clients recover from past relational traumas and Dr. Kirk rambles about random stuff. Is EFIT similar to Gestalt? Is the EFIT training worth it? Let’s find out.
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Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails.
00:00 Mormon therapist discomfort
08:43 Rebbeca-sode gifts
14:19 Menopause & aging health
35:10 How to prepare for parenting
47:20 Is daycare harmful?
1:11:40 Compassion fatigue
1:16:09 Systemic oppression of minority groups
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2024-10-23 11:00:09 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about how to use social media to build an audience and enhance your clinical practice.
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Dr. Kirk Honda interviews Dr. Jordan Allen, associate professor at Utah Valley University, about communication and other topics. Dr. Jordan Allen can be found at @CommunicationCrackdown on Instagram and TikTok.
00:00 Introducing Dr. Jordan Allen
01:04 Communication myths
20:36 Layers of communication
37:23 Family estrangement
49:06 Flexible communication
53:31 Communication in Sister Wives
56:57 CommunicationCrackdown
B...
2024-10-21 11:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post
Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails.
00:00 Rethinking Christmas
12:07 Body memories and trauma
42:35 Coping with the death of an abuser
50:42 Substance use addiction in a relationship
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Antioch Student, Andres Valdivieso, asks Dr Kirk about advice for grad school and novice clinicians.
00:00 Introducing Andres
03:10 Dr. Kirk's top 3 graduate school tips
33:46 Learning in graduate school
42:20 Why did Dr. Kirk get a PsyD instead of a PhD
45:17 Should I start in an agency or private practice?
50:24 Why does Dr. Kirk do the podcast and YouTube channel?
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[Rerun] Are humans naturally monogamous? What about other primates? What does the data tells us? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto discuss the science and the culture.
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2024-10-17 11:00:07 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] How do you have more charisma? What exactly is charisma? Did we evolve charisma? How is charisma used for evil? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto explore these questions and more.
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2024-10-15 11:00:09 +0000 UTC View Post