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Late fees debates, resenting good families, and Bob Qs

Bob and Dr Kirk answer patron emails.


00:00 Late fees debate

07:11 Boundaries or capitalist oppression? 

21:54 OPP

23:24 Resenting good families

31:55 OPP 2

32:45 What is Bob's favorite...? 

37:26 What does Bob want to do before dying?

39:18 What is Bob's morning routine?

43:23 Dr. Kirk's writing 

47:23 AI Dr. Kirk & Bob

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Modern Masculinity

Dr Kirk Honda interviews Dr Stephan Poulter about his book, Modern Masculinity: A Comprehensive Guidebook to Men’s Mental Health. Book can found at: https://a.co/d/7CSTsIH

00:00 Introducing Dr. Stephan Poulter

04:05 What is modern masculinity? 

07:17 How did Dr. Poulter's relationship with masculinity change? 

09:16 Evaluating male role models

17:47 The father and son relationship

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TToB: To reduce violence against teachers, US teachers say that using physical restraints is more effective than student suspension or expulsion. Tough or Bluff???

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Crowning transference, Bob’s therapy, and DBT study

Bob and Dr Kirk answer patron emails while providing interesting metaphors.

00:00 Intro

03:11 What should I do when I find my therapist attractive?

23:02 OPP

24:40 How do you push yourself as a client in therapy? 

45:38 Australian DBT study

55:33 How would Bob handle teaching teens DBT? 

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Codependency Follow Up #2 (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk answers patron emails regarding codependency.

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Codependency Follow Up #1 (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk answers patron emails regarding codependency.

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Email: 2024-06-15 11:00:04 +0000 UTC View Post

Girlfriend Reviews & Upset Fans

Dr Kirk interviews Shelby from the Girlfriend Reviews YouTube channel about our relationships with fans.


00:00 Introducing Shelby from Girlfriend Reviews

02:23 What is Shelby's background with games?

05:45 Do video games ever interfere in the relationship? 

15:26 When did Girlfriend Reviews become a YouTube channel?

19:33 Reddit giveth and taketh away

30:27 What is the worst thing that has happened on the channel? 

55:55 Has reading comm...

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Boy Moms, Creepy Stepdads, and Feminist Rage

Rebecca-sode! Rebecca and Kirk answer patron emails.

00:00 80's fashion & dancing

12:55 Boy moms

34:30 Is this stepdad's relationship with his stepdaughter appropriate?

42:17 Rebecca's hearing damage

47:11 Man or bear?

1:01:07 How does someone with feminine rage find a therapist?

1:11:41 First song that comes to mind & 90's playlist

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TToB: People are the least likely to attempt suicide in the first few days after hospitalization for depression. Tough or Bluff???

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The Psychology of Josh Powell (Chapter 10 - Diagnosis)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto provide a deep dive on the tragic disappearance of Susan Powell, along with Josh’s suicide, the children’s murder, and Josh’s father’s depravity.

00:00 Update on the 911 operator

03:42 Video clips of Susan & Alina's perspective

18:32 The dark tetrad & Steven's conceptualization 

41:17 Steven's possible attachment injury

46:53 Josh's conceptualization 

1:23:47 Psychopathic symptoms

1:38:49 Was J...

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The Psychology of Josh Powell (Chapter 10 - Diagnosis) - full video

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto provide a deep dive on the tragic disappearance of Susan Powell, along with Josh’s suicide, the children’s murder, and Josh’s father’s depravity.

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Codependency (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about codependency.

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Dependent Personality Disorder and Overfunctioning (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk answers emails.

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The Psychology of Josh Powell (Chapter 9 - Cornered)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto provide a deep dive on the tragic disappearance of Susan Powell, along with Josh’s suicide, the children’s murder, and Josh’s father’s depravity.

00:00 Recap

01:45 Images of CP

14:05 Addendum hearing 

20:10 Suicidal ideation

33:41 The murder-suicide

44:21 The 911 call

1:00:27 The aftermath

1:19:56 The Charlie & Braden law

1:24:14 Michael's suicide

1:27:03 The Cox's sue DSHS

1:45:22 St...

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The Psychology of Josh Powell (Chapter 9 - Cornered) full video

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto provide a deep dive on the tragic disappearance of Susan Powell, along with Josh’s suicide, the children’s murder, and Josh’s father’s depravity.

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Bob thanks you

Thank you PIS community.  Colleen and I have been reading and enjoying all of my birthday cards over the last two days.  She suggested we take our time over a happy hour to read and savor each card.  I picked up a small, very yummy bottle of champagne for the occasion.  The wall hanging now lives in my office.  It is full of color, which I love.  There are so many cards that I haven’t even read them all yet!  As I have already been doing, I imagine going f...

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The Psychology of Josh Powell (Chapter 8 - House Raid) - full video

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto provide a deep dive on the tragic disappearance of Susan Powell, along with Josh’s suicide, the children’s murder, and Josh’s father’s depravity.

00:00 Recap

10:09 Talking to the press

14:09 Living in Washington & CPS

21:57 ABC News interview

40:20 House raid

1:01:36 Custody issue 

1:24:11 Tough or bluff

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The Psychology of Josh Powell (Chapter 8 - House Raid)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto provide a deep dive on the tragic disappearance of Susan Powell, along with Josh’s suicide, the children’s murder, and Josh’s father’s depravity.

00:00 Recap

10:09 Talking to the press

14:09 Living in Washington & CPS

21:57 ABC News interview

40:20 House raid

1:01:36 Custody issue 

1:24:11 Tough or bluff

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TToB: Narcissistic traits are associated with lower rates of depression. Tough or Bluff???

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The Psychology of Josh Powell (Chapter 7 - Theories) - full video

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto provide a deep dive on the tragic disappearance of Susan Powell, along with Josh’s suicide, the children’s murder, and Josh’s father’s depravity.

00:00 Josh's interview narrative

31:40 Josh's claims

1:00:19 Josh's likely mindset

1:15:30 Other's theories

1:28:47 Dr. Kirk's theory

2:01:41 The plan falls apart & covering his tracks

2:31:56 Where is Susan's body?

2:40:17 How can this be avoided?

2:47:45 S...

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The Psychology of Josh Powell (Chapter 7 - Theories)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto provide a deep dive on the tragic disappearance of Susan Powell, along with Josh’s suicide, the children’s murder, and Josh’s father’s depravity.

00:00 Josh's interview narrative

31:40 Josh's claims

1:00:19 Josh's likely mindset

1:15:30 Other's theories

1:28:47 Dr. Kirk's theory

2:01:41 The plan falls apart & covering his tracks

2:31:56 Where is Susan's body?

2:40:17 How can this be avoided?

2:47:45 S...

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Child Emotional Abuse (2017 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about child emotional abuse.

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Sex Therapy Sensate Focus (2017 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Anne Mauro about sex therapy, erectile dysfunction, and sensate focus.

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The Psychology of Josh Powell (Chapter 6 - Turning Point)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto provide a deep dive on the tragic disappearance of Susan Powell, along with Josh’s suicide, the children’s murder, and Josh’s father’s depravity.

00:00 Facing failure

05:26 Disconnected & distant

09:12 Life insurance

16:49 Real estate & financial crisis

28:48 Collective crisis & doomsday paranoia 

37:13 Susan's video will

46:15 The day Susan was last seen

55:01 Susan's disappearance

1:18:...

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The Psychology of Josh Powell (Chapter 6 - Turning Point) - full video

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto provide a deep dive on the tragic disappearance of Susan Powell, along with Josh’s suicide, the children’s murder, and Josh’s father’s depravity.

00:00 Facing failure

05:26 Disconnected & distant

09:12 Life insurance

16:49 Real estate & financial crisis

28:48 Collective crisis & doomsday paranoia 

37:13 Susan's video will

46:15 The day Susan was last seen

55:01 Susan's disappearance

1:18:...

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The Psychology of Josh Powell (Chapter 5 - Crisis)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto provide a deep dive on the tragic disappearance of Susan Powell, along with Josh’s suicide, the children’s murder, and Josh’s father’s depravity.

00:00 Recap

12:17 Steven's confrontation & massages

25:13 What was Susan's most likely state of mind?

39:24 The Powell's time in Utah

44:18 Fighting & control

48:55 Parenting & authority

1:00:58 Bankruptcy & Josh's spending problem

1:14:58 Sex ...

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The Psychology of Josh Powell (Chapter 5 - Crisis) - full video

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto provide a deep dive on the tragic disappearance of Susan Powell, along with Josh’s suicide, the children’s murder, and Josh’s father’s depravity.

00:00 Recap

12:17 Steven's confrontation & massages

25:13 What was Susan's most likely state of mind?

39:24 The Powell's time in Utah

44:18 Fighting & control

48:55 Parenting & authority

1:00:58 Bankruptcy & Josh's spending problem

1:14:58 Sex & wa...

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TToB: Unlike other addictions, marijuana addiction does not seem to be linked to DNA. Tough or Bluff???

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The Psychology of Josh Powell (Chapter 4 - Susan & Steven) - full video

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto provide a deep dive on the tragic disappearance of Susan Powell, along with Josh’s suicide, the children’s murder, and Josh’s father’s depravity.

00:00 Katherine & Josh's breakup

14:27 Josh meets Susan 

21:10 Love bombing

27:05 Susan's personality & Josh's jobs

50:44 Josh's attachment insecurity 

58:05 Steven's infatuation with Susan

2:04:17 Steven's songs

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