TToB: 22% of parents are worried about internet addiction. Tough or Bluff???
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Therapists Without Empathy
Bob and Dr Kirk talk about the misunderstandings about psychopathy and antisocial personality.
00:00 Therapists with Antisocial Personality DIsorder
16:19 Treating antisocial & morality
34:19 Cost/benefit of advocating
39:42 Antisocial and sadism
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The Psychology of Daenerys Targaryen (2019 Rerun)
[Rerun] Why did Daenerys burn King's Landing? Was Season 8 consistent with her character?
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Diagnosing Game of Thrones (2017 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda diagnoses nearly all the characters of Game of Thrones.
00:02:05 Aerys II Targaryen
00:24:50 Alliser Thorne
00:31:00 Arya Stark
00:51:16 Bran Stark
00:53:48 Brienne of Tarth
01:00:41 Cersei Lannister
01:17:00 Daenerys Targaryen
01:20:24 Grandmaester Pycelle
01:23:34 Gregor Clegane
01:25:40 Jamie Lannister
01:29:17 Jaqen H'ghar
01:30:55 Joffrey Baratheon
01:36:02 Jon Snow
01:46:22 ...
2024-04-27 11:00:03 +0000 UTC View PostBorderline Abuse (Chapters 10-12)
Dr Kirk Honda discusses borderline personality and partner abuse while reacting to the reality TV show, Love Is Blind.
00:00 Chapter 10 - Apologies
23:45 Chapter 11 - Desperate love
51:06 Chapter 12 - Hard lines & justifications
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Borderline Abuse (Chapters 7-9)
Dr Kirk Honda discusses borderline personality and partner abuse while reacting to the reality TV show, Love Is Blind.
00:00 Chapter 7 - Comparing and contrasting Love is Blind couples
50:12 Chapter 8 - Subtle parts of abuse
1:25:27 Chapter 9 - Jealousy
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TToB: Our executive function (our ability to plan ahead and regulate behavior) tends to stabilize by age 20. Tough or Bluff???
Borderline Abuse (Chapters 1-6)
Dr Kirk Honda discusses borderline personality and partner abuse while reacting to the reality TV show, Love Is Blind.
00:00 Introducing Love is Blind work
16:35 Chapter 1 - Patterns of escalation
54:12 Chapter 2 - Exerting control
1:32:11 Chapter 3 - Abusive cycle
2:17:27 Chapter 4 - Absolute thinking & respect
2:34:47 Chapter 5 - Abandonment & betrayal
3:09:00 Chapter 6 - Rejection & countertransference
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The Psychology of Tyrion Lannister (Game of Thrones)(2017 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda analyzes Tyrion Lannister from Game of Thrones.
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The Psychology of Theon Greyjoy (Game of Thrones) (2017 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda analyzes Theon Greyjoy from Game of Thrones.
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I'm prepping for deep dives!
Just an update!
After four years of over-working, I finally managed to cut back on content creation (mainly on YouTube) which has freed up time for deep dives and other neglected projects (like finishing my grief book).
I'm currently prepping for the following deep dives:
Josh Powell and Elon Musk. These were the most requested topics on a recent patron poll. I'm doing these with Berto. The Josh Powell episodes will probably be published in a few weeks. I'm excited to...
2024-04-20 10:49:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Abuse or Exploration
Humberto and Dr Kirk discuss the difference between abuse and exploration in childhood.
00:00 Where is the line between sexual exploration and abuse?
45:44 Is the omission of infidelity harmful?
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2024-04-19 11:00:04 +0000 UTC View PostWhat is Grooming?
Humberto and Dr Kirk discuss what grooming is exactly.
00:00 Power imbalance in management/abuse of the power dynamic
16:29 How do I know if I'm being groomed as an adult?
22:36 What is the definition of grooming?
49:10 Am I having my needs met or being abused?
1:02:15 Are these red flags of grooming?
1:13:22 How can I recognize grooming from my childhood?
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TToB: Regarding personal info, men prefer to share only good things while women prefer to share good and bad personal info. Tough or Bluff???
Kirk giddily takes psychology tests
Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails and takes random psychological tests.
00:00 How do we identify our needs?
04:10 Where does the pleasure for sadists come from?
08:57 Is it possible to treat sadists?
14:07 OPP
18:10 Can my therapist also be my supervisor?
21:52 Is it weird to not experience existential anxiety?
28:42 How can I prepare for grad school?
34:37 OPP2
35:49 Developing narcissism
46:03 Completist listening of PiS
49...
2024-04-15 11:00:10 +0000 UTC View PostThe Psychology of Sandor Clegane (Game of Thrones)(2017 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks analyzes Sandor Clegane (The Hound) from Game of Thrones.
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The Psychology of Cersei Lannister (Game of Thrones) (2017 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda analyzing Cersei Lannister from Game of Thrones.
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Personality Change, Delusional Friend, and Unethical Therapy
Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails and takes random psychological tests.
00:00 How does recognizing our attachment style influence us?
07:23 Is BPD only treatable through psychiatry & medication?
14:00 Is the Hero Journey Club therapy?
27:34 OPP
30:05 How can I support a friend with delusions?
41:35 Has Dr. Kirk experienced the loss of a mentor relationship?
55:30 OPP2
58:24 What could cause a personality change?
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2024-04-12 14:00:10 +0000 UTC View PostReligious Abuse
Dr Kirk Honda interviews Dan Koch (from the You Have Permission Podcast) about his new psychometric survey that measures religious abuse.
00:00 Introducing Dan Koch & liberal christianity
12:51 How do some fall victim to the culture war?
25:10 What is spiritual abuse?
29:14 Koch's Spiritual Harm & Abuse Scale criteria
49:24 Upholding the status quo & masculinity
1:11:13 Christianity & choice
1:23:36 Where to find Dan
1...
2024-04-10 14:00:08 +0000 UTC View PostTToB: Sitting while working increases the risk of depression, but sitting while watching a movie does not. Tough or Bluff???
DSM Corruption, Children Abusing Parents, and Chronic Pain
Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails.
00:00 Is the DSM sponsored by big pharma?
33:02 OPP
35:32 How can I support someone in a DV situation?
48:36 OPP2
53:30 Is love bombing only associated with NPD?
1:02:43 Recommending Blue-eyed Samurai
1:03:12 Possibilities for living with chronic pain & fatigue
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2024-04-08 14:00:07 +0000 UTC View PostThe Psychology of Ramsay Bolton (Game of Thrones)(2016 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks for hours about Ramsay Bolton.
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The Psychology of Joffrey Baratheon (Game of Thrones)(2014 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk analyzes Joffrey Baratheon from Game of Thrones.
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Bothersome IFS, Family Vloggers, and Anti-Quiet Borderline
Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails.
00:00 Where should I look to work with NOMAPs?
01:54 Debunking birth order & understanding sadism
15:30 OPP
16:25 Can IFS therapy be helpful with borderline?
25:40 Using children in content creation
37:43 Parentification & attuning to multiple children
39:52 Do parents use their children to fill attachment needs?
41:23 OPP2
41:53 Will there be a deep dive on limerence?
50:43 Wh...
2024-04-05 14:00:03 +0000 UTC View PostNude Fears and Winnie the Pooh
Bob and Kirk answer patron emails.
00:00 Self-esteem & nudity anxiety
39:26 OPP
41:45 54321 grounding & relaxation anxiety
54:56 OPP2
55:38 If diseases went to therapy, which one is emotionally healthy?
58:51 What are Dr. Kirk and Bob's favorite comfort foods?
1:04:45 What would a podcast episode be like offgrid?
1:07:41 What experience do Dr. Kirk and Bob have with service animals in treatment?
1:15:23 Tricking your brain to...
2024-04-03 14:00:07 +0000 UTC View PostTToB: People who hit the snooze button tend to get less sleep. Tough or Bluff???
2024-04-02 22:31:36 +0000 UTC View PostObesity & Child Abuse
Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails.
00:00 Is there a connection between childhood sexual abuse and obesity?
04:15 How was the ACE test developed?
28:42 The original ACE test questions
43:17 What is correlated with ACE?
1:08:01 What could trauma recovery look like?
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2024-04-01 14:00:10 +0000 UTC View PostCulture Bound Syndromes (2017 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about the mental syndromes within particular cultures.
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Our Cuddling Needs (2020 Rerun)
[Rerun] How can we get our cuddling needs met? Dr. Kirk interviews Erez Benari about his cuddling club, Spoonz. They also talk about polyamory and the sex positive culture movement in Seattle.
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2024-03-30 14:00:06 +0000 UTC View Post