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Schizoid Personality Disorder - Deep Dive (Chapter 1)

Dr Kirk Honda provides his deep dive on schizoid personality disorder.

00:00 Common schizoid presentation

16:54 Themes & deep dive roadmap

25:21 Schizoid representation on TikTok

29:06 Rumored cases of celebrity schizoid

44:07 Kirk's happy place

45:57 Pronunciation of schizoid

53:25 Previous mentions of schizoid on PiS

58:21 Primary trauma & a developed schema

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Time Management Tips (2017 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about his time management tips.

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Fast Questions for Bob #7

Kirk and Bob answer Patron and YT Member questions.

00:00 A thank you to Bob

00:30 What happens in Bob's garage

01:37 Discussing suicidality in therapy

09:42 OPP

11:35 Growing up emotionally neglected & coping

16:12 How does Bob feel about his personal therapist?

21:11 Is Bob's therapist a father figure?

21:45 Another thank you to Bob

21:55 Do you get bored of being a therapist?

36:05 How do you get through tough days?

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Man-on-man abuse, student-teacher relationships, and fan dreams

Kirk and Humberto answer Patron and YT Member questions.

00:00 Why do men target other men for abuse?

20:01 OPP

21:08 Student-teacher relationships

41:13 Softnoodles art

42:01 Upcoming movies

50:05 Who would win in a wrestling match?

1:00:07 A dream about Berto & Kirk

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TToB: Older people are less susceptible to phishing email scams. Tough or Bluff???

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Fast Questions for Bob #6

Kirk and Bob answer Patron and YT Member questions.

00:00 Intro

01:02 Improving your outlook on distortions & shame

06:21 Bob's distortions about taking up space

16:35 An appropriate response to shame & raising children

29:07 Does shame impede recognizing improvement?

29:32 Is Bob choosing his cookies?

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A Therapist with Disorganized Attachment (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Bob describes his attachment style.

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Realizing you’re a perpetrator, AI takeover, and American Psycho

Kirk and Humberto answer Patron and YT Member questions.

00:00 Realizing you're a perpetrator

08:51 Humberto's boundaries & moment of clarity

37:36 Should perpetrators reach out to apologize?

42:45 Will AI devalue some professions?

50:51 OPP

52:10 Psychopathy & delusions in American Psycho

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Israel & Palestine and Disney Woke Feminism

Kirk and Rebecca answer Patron and YT Member questions.

00:00 Reactions to the Israel & Palestine conversation

11:13 How has discourse changed?

20:01 OPP

22:15 Feminism in our society

37:42 'Woke' feminism & Disney adaptations

1:04:24 A friend like Mildred

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TToB: When treating youth suffering from anxiety, US pediatricians recommend therapy 33% of the time and medication 60% of the time. Tough or Bluff???

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Reporting Psychiatrist, Splitting, Labor Rights, and Gilmore Girls

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails.

00:00 Psychiatrist violating boundaries

16:56 OPP & ethical practices

21:53 What is BPD Splitting

35:29 Disorganized attachment & despair

43:01 OPP 2

44:45 Labor rights & being a 'good' employee

54:33 What is the difference between shame & guilt?

1:08:14 Family dynamics in Gilmore Girls

1:18:58 Falling asleep to the podcast

1:21:36 Criticism trauma

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The Psychology of John Lennon (2018 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Humberto about the psychology and development of John Lennon.

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Email: 2023-11-11 15:00:06 +0000 UTC View Post

Can AI Cure Loneliness?

Dr Kirk interviews Jennetta George about how AI can cure loneliness.

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00:00 Thinking about loneliness

04:20 Introducing Jenetta George

07:02 Candor AI & how does AI work?

14:36 The Algorithm & matchmaking<...

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Break-Up Blame, Shock Reactions, Abandoning Fathers, and Victim Shaming

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails.

00:00 Break-up blame

09:43 Accurately emoting & reacting to 'shocking' content in therapy

30:18 OPP

31:42 Why do parents abandon their families?

38:28 Why do SA survivors feel guilt?

48:35 OPP 2

49:48 Chronic illness & loneliness

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TToB: When you’re listening to someone share a story, it’s best to just listen and not share a similar story. Tough or Bluff???

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Rebecca Responds to Hate Mail and other topics

Rebecca and Kirk respond to the recent feedback from listeners and other emails about kink, BDSM, euthanasia in mental health, and the school shooting in Nashville.

00:00 Criticisms of Rebecca & allyship

08:27 Working at AAA & recognizing trauma

23:23 Validating & supporting bisexual people

26:28 Is there a relationship between cluster B & kinks?

35:21 Rebecca's specializations & art therapy

39:10 SoftNoodle's Rebecca art

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The Psychology of Severus Snape (Harry Potter) (2018 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about the psychology of Severus Snape from the Harry Potter books.

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The Exploitation of Interns

Dr Kirk Honda interviews Marina Masaki (grad student) and Katie Jo Glaves (supervisor) about interns being exploited for free labor.

00:00 Introducing Katie Jo Glaves & Marina Masaki

02:13 How does it feel to work for free?

07:10 How to stave off burn out

16:21 'Hazing' of new clinicians

23:23 What is the solution?

42:30 Is unionization important?

58:50 What is the value of paid internships?

1:13:15 The tough cases & being underpaid

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Jerry "swearing me in" to be program director in 2015.

I just remember laughing a lot.

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Israel-Hamas War Talk

Rebecca and Kirk talk about the Israel-Hamas War.

00:00 Rebecca's history & experience

12:20 Is there a way forward?

23:13 Starting a nuanced dialogue

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TToB: Americans tend to believe that society is less moral now, but the rest of the world tends to think that we're not so different today than before. Tough or Bluff???

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Remembering Jerry Saltzman

Dr Kirk Honda remembers his friend and colleague, Jerry Saltzman, who died recently.

00:00 Remembering Jerry Saltzman

16:23 The start of the interview

20:31 Jerry's childhood

27:55 The 60's

30:38 Peer counseling 

37:35 The 70's 

40:41 Jerry's journey of gender

46:10 What brought Jerry to Seattle?

51:55 Jerry's work at Antioch

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Fast Questions for Bob #5

Kirk and Bob answer Patron and YT Member questions.

00:00 Bob's first experience on the podcast

09:00 What does Bob love about himself?

11:38 What is the funniest memory between Bob & Kirk?

17:30 OPP

18:50 What thought provides Bob with comfort?

21:44 Bob's top 5 bands

24:39 What doesn't Kirk know about Bob?

26:29 Bob's book recommendations

27:50 What does agoraphobia feel like?

31:01 Bob's relationship with his mom

36:38 D...

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Rollerblader Barbie & Ken

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The Psychology of Dirty John (2017 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about the new podcast called Dirty John.

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Duggar Family Deep Dive (Chapter 15)

Dr Kirk and Humberto analyze the Duggar family, modern Christian cults, the ethics of children in reality TV, and so much more.

00:00 How can disillusionment with the system be handled?

09:50 Narcissism

14:51 Is there a connection between medical trauma & sexual abuse?

19:33 Policing clothing & preventing sexualization

25:13 Is discussing the means of suicide productive?

44:02 Abusive parenting by Michael Pearl

1:02:11 Texting someone else's p...

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Fan art by Kate from Sweden!

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