Dr Kirk and Rebecca discuss the reality TV show, Ultimatum Queer Love.
00:00 Intro
01:16 Queer archetypes in the cast
20:25 What did Ultimatum: Queer Love get wrong?
23:18 'Masc' in queer context
34:13 Is Rebecca femme or masc?
35:49 Favorite & least favorite cast members
49:27 Attachment styles & representation
1:09:46 Topping/bottoming & sex scenes
1:19:05 Did Rebecca like Vanessa?
1:22:24 Dr. Kirk's new art ...
2023-06-26 14:00:07 +0000 UTC
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda reads follow-up emails to the dependent personality deep dive.
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2023-06-25 14:00:04 +0000 UTC
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk’s deep dive on dependent personality disorder.
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2023-06-24 14:01:00 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk Honda has a panic attack and answers other questions during a live stream.
00:00 Intro
01:00 Working with polyamorous couples
01:47 Approaching intersecting identities
04:24 How has Dr. Kirk's hairstyle evolved?
08:27 Explaining an absent parent to a child
11:39 Law of attraction
13:36 Psychedelics in therapy
15:19 Toxic vs. general masculinity
15:46 Coping with anxiety in lessons
20:06 Dr. Kirk's wedding band & pani...
2023-06-23 14:00:11 +0000 UTC
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If you want, you can submit your questions for my mom here:
https://forms.gle/Nw2zhbJ8MbQ91FRp7
2023-06-22 19:35:45 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda talk about the psychology of the TV show Beef (Netflix).
00:00 Intro
02:52 Stress & disordered eating
18:21 Shame & self-hatred with sex
25:08 Ego death
27:28 Road rage on & off screen
45:46 OPP
47:06 Research on road rage
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2023-06-21 14:00:06 +0000 UTC
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2023-06-20 17:00:25 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda talk about the psychology of the TV show Beef (Netflix).
00:00 Intro
03:11 Overall rating
04:54 Diversity within the show
16:15 Diversity outside of the show
25:42 Similar media
32:53 Countering stereotypes
41:55 OPP
44:10 Asian-American psychology
1:26:36 Microaggressions & character flaws
1:34:37 David Choe controversy & slurping noodles
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk’s deep dive on dependent personality disorder.
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2023-06-17 17:20:01 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk Honda and Rebecca answer patron emails.
00:00 Divorce & traumatizing children
10:01 Handling divorce with children
17:53 The Dungeons and Dragons movie
23:53 Rebecca on Cameo
25:31 Rebecca's tarot deck
27:333 RuPaul's DragCon
29:55 The effect of divorce on children
32:58 Guessing who is married/divorced
39:50 Patreon community page
40:16 Does how much a client pays influence therapy?
44:39 Is there a 'slo...
2023-06-16 14:00:08 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk Honda and Bob talk about a fight they had at a bar and answer patron emails.
00:00 What makes therapists vulnerable?
04:44 Bob on Cameo
07:47 Bar fight
20:33 OPP
21:43 Why would someone trigger themselves?
28:28 Firing a therapist
33:09 Disorganized attachment without abuse
43:29 Pinpointing attachment styles
46:46 Self-harm during a therapeutic session
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2023-06-13 17:12:16 +0000 UTC
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Check as many as you want.
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(Most of these items were suggestions from the patrons.)
2023-06-12 19:42:39 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk Honda is interviewed on the Dear Shandy Podcast, with Sharleen Joynt from The Bachelor and her husband Andy Levine.
00:00 Intro to Dear Shandy
02:42 Dr. Kirk's favorite & least favorite parts of reality TV
05:49 Falling in love on TV
10:26 Dating on your level
15:25 Brainwashing and re-education
23:06 Learned helplessness & narcissism
27:23 Being vulnerable
30:02 Does dating on TV affect the relationship?
31:36 Reality TV e...
2023-06-12 14:00:09 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the story and psychology of the infamous Jodi Arias.
00:00 Intro
00:20 Media coverage of the trial
04:28 Jodi's defense
26:09 Evidence for premeditation
30:02 Psychological experts on the case
50:59 Jodi's amnesia
57:50 Applying DSM criteria to Jodi
1:09:23 The outcome of the trial
1:38:36 The aftermath
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2023-06-09 14:00:08 +0000 UTC
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In high school, since they were one of the first multi-racial couples in Spokane, they had to secretly date. They eloped at 19 years old, because they knew it was forever.
Such a wonderful life together.
(Stacy put together this montage.)
2023-06-08 19:02:37 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the story and psychology of the infamous Jodi Arias.
00:00 Intro
01:36 Jodi's behavior after the murder
05:19 The crime scene & Travis' injuries
22:04 Interrogating Jodi Arias
51:37 How could Jodi have gotten away with it?
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2023-06-06 16:45:21 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the story and psychology of the infamous Jodi Arias.
00:00 Intro
02:12 The end of Jodi & Travis' relationship
11:13 Idealization to devaluation
23:24 The murder of Travis Alexander
53:13 Covering up the murder
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Email: 2023-06-05 14:00:07 +0000 UTC
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The video is also on Instagram.
2023-06-04 20:25:03 +0000 UTC
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I gave Bob his troll, and he put it near his online therapy station.
From @topangafolk
2023-06-04 19:47:10 +0000 UTC
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[Rerun] Why do serial killers kill? Dr. Kirk Honda was asked this question (and many others) by Dave Scott on Space Out Radio.
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Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the story and psychology of the infamous Jodi Arias.
00:00 Intro
00:43 Jodi & Travis' relationship & sexual workarounds
10:51 Jodi's diary & clingy behavior
18:37 BPD
23:00 Regression & lacking an identity
41:13 Travis' friends & the end of the public relationship
1:01:05 Stalking
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Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the story and psychology of the infamous Jodi Arias.
00:00 Why do cases get media attention?
26:58 The start of Travis & Jodi's relationship
34:39 What is love bombing?
50:29 Two types of love bombing
59:07 The cycle of love bombing
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Email: 2023-05-31 14:00:04 +0000 UTC
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