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Donald Winnicott (Deep Dive) (2017 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about Donald Winnicott, one of the founders of object relations.

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Is Michael Jackson Innocent? (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] What’s the evidence that Michael Jackson is innocent? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto review the evidence on both sides and decide for themselves: is Michael Jackson innocent or guilty? Also, why do people get so upset about this debate?

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The Eleven Components of Effective Apologies

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Erotomania and Short Questions

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails.


00:00 Erotomania

03:52 Who would play Dr. Kirk in a movie?

04:46 Myers-Briggs & personality disorders

08:40 Dr. Kirk's favorite international trip

08:54 Rekindling a relationship with a toxic ex

12:17 Stockholm syndrome & DV

14:48 Personal considerations as a therapist

26:40 Must do in Seattle

29:49 Can talk therapy make anxious attachment worse?

32:44 Dr. Kirk's psychology book...

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Ethics Case: Therapist Texts Too Much

Dr Kirk and Bob discuss a case in which a therapist got sued.

00:00 Malpractice intro & Hierarchy in DBT

15:30 Therapy in popular media

21:35 Bob's & Dr. Kirk's experience with suicidal clients

39:57 Targeted behavior & therapist texting too much

1:17:03 Patreon break

1:17:48 Contact between sessions

1:37:17 Improving as a clinician

1:55:04 Bob's attitude shift towards his dad

Ethics Case: Therapist Texts Too Much

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TToB: People who lack autonomy prefer more societal freedom. Tough or Bluff???

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The Psychology of ChatGPT

Humberto educates Dr Kirk about AI and ChatGPT.

00:00 ChatGPT intro

06:35 Humberto's introduction to AI

11:59 The history of AI

23:04 AI in video games & neural networks

32:14 The start of OpenAI & training AI

50:34 AI in therapy & language models

1:05:36 An AI moratorium & the future of AI


The Psychology of ChatGPT

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Paris Hilton Doc (2020 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk interviews a survivor from the documentary and discusses the movement to close down the troubled teen industry.

Paris Hilton Doc 

October 12, 2020

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Is This Gaslighting? (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Humberto explore stories from listeners about gaslighting and other related concepts.

March 24, 2021

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Diagnosing Friends, Triangulation, Parenting, and Other Things

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails.


00:00 Applying attachment theory to peers

9:00 Power differentials in relationships

13:12 Recognizing biases

15:32 Splitting up a family for therapy

19:37 Differentiation within family

33:33 Think Before You Sleep

38:55 OPP

40:20 Conservative therapists

1:04:32 Age appropriate sex education

1:18:19 Cuddle therapy


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YouTube Membership

Hey Patrons!  

Today, I posted a poll on YouTube asking if viewers were interested in me signing up for the YouTube Membership Program, which is similar to Patreon in that viewers become members to support the channel and get perks. I am currently in the phase of gathering feedback. 

Until recently, I just figured that people (who wanted to support the podcast) would become patrons on Patreon. However, some YouTube viewers have indicated they'd rather become channel memb...

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TBT: 2008 - The original cohosts recording an episode on location

Originally I wanted the podcast to partially be about Seattle. We had camera and sound guys back then.

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Therapy Ruts, The Bridge, Children on YouTube, and Other Things

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails.


00:00 Regularly switching therapists

09:28 The Bridge documentary

17:30 13 Reasons Why

24:31 Child content creators & protecting your wellbeing online

49:04 OPP

51:00 Disorganized & fearful attachment

56:27 Therapists being triggered in session

1:01:50 Crushes on unavailable people


Therapy Ruts, The Bridge, Children on YouTube, and Other Things

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TToB: After the pandemic, Americans are less open, conscientious, agreeable, and extraverted, but we have the same level of neuroticism (tendency toward anxiety/depression). Tough or Bluff???

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Suffering in Sexual Silence and Ranting about Bad Trends in Therapy

Dr Kirk and Bob talk about some sensitive topics.


00:00 Eroticism in therapy

06:31 Are corrective experiences controversial?

15:36 Misinformation rant

17:51 Overcome with worry & Bob's sexual experience

27:17 Am I a narcissist?

32:01 Radically open DBT vs. DBT

33:57 Tattling in healthcare

42:05 Phasing out clients


Suffering in Sexual Silence and Ranting about Bad Trends in Therapy

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Cohosts Crying Together (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Bob discuss some difficult topics.

Cohosts Crying Together 

April 19, 2021

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Where Did the Serial Killers Go? (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] Why are there fewer serial killers these days? Dr. Kirk and Humberto discuss the possible reasons.

February 17, 2021

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Secure Distortions, Bad Therapists, Complex Trauma, and Child Violence

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails.


00:00 Cognitive distortions in secure attachment

04:09 Hawaiian pizza & 'fake' Americans

09:56 Being a victim with BPD

15:14 CPTSD from adult trauma

21:39 Misogyny in the workplace

23:33 Why do 'boomerang' relationships hurt?

33:23 OPP

34:27 Reddit & an unethical therapist

41:15 Solo D&D

46:47 Violent acts vs. normal play in children

1:06:15 Feminist &am...

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Kirk Transference, Career Advice, and Japanese Culture

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails.

00:00 Is positive transference possible?

08:28 Best Seattle band?

12:33 Why did Dr. Kirk choose to work as a therapist?

15:30 Pros & cons of being a therapist

33:12 OPP

34:21 Difficult challenges in Dr. Kirk's studies

34:57 Advice to Dr. Kirk's past self

39:14 Why did Dr. Kirk become a professor?

42:59 Potential minors alongside a psychology bachelors

44:05 Processing partner ab...

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TToB: Taking an antidepressant during pregnancy is associated with an increased risk of neurodevelopmental disorders in the child (ADHD, autism, etc). Tough or Bluff???

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Join me for a live Q&A on Thursday!

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Analyzing Modern Cults

Dr Kirk and Humberto analyze today’s cults.

00:00 How many current cults are there?

08:38 What is a cult?

16:00 Charismatic & authoritarian leader

33:48 Emotional indoctrination

51:24 Isolation of followers

1:13:15 Systems of control

1:21:10 No legitimate reason to leave

1:25:05 Causing unreasonable harm

1:32:15 Hard evidence of other criteria being met


Analyzing Modern Cults


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The Psychology of OJ Simpson (2016 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about the psychology of OJ Simpson.

June 30, 2016

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Rape Fantasy Reasons (2018 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda does a deep dive on why women have rape fantasies.

June 4, 2018

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Bad Self Disclosure, Emasculating Mom, and Bob Going Deep

Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.


00:00 Excessive self-disclosure

29:10 Bob reacts to Dr. Kirk's complaint

32:24 Traditional values with Bob's parents

39:59 OPP / Patreon break

41:13 Relaxed therapists & what is therapy?

58:48 Therapists losing perspective & what you 'should' do

1:08:14 Foundations of therapy & relational object permanence

1:25:23 Recalling Bob's experience in therapy & relationship vulnerability View Post

Inner Child, License Complaint and Other Things

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails.

00:00 Psychology of the inner child

14:40 Update on Dr. Kirk's complaint

36:18 OPP

39:07 Accessible & quality therapy

41:53 Dr. Kirk's experience with chaotic relationships

47:44 Dungeons & Dragons satanic panic

54:08 Steven & Olga on 90 Day Fiancé

54:37 Diagnosing with a questionnaire


Inner Child, License Complaint and Other Things

April 12, 2023

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TToB: On average, becoming a parent pushes people to be more conservative (regardless of the age of becoming a parent). Tough or Bluff???

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The Neuroscience of Addiction with Dr Judy Grisel

Dr Kirk Honda interviews Dr Judy Grisel about her new book, Never Enough: The Neuroscience and Experience of Addiction.

00:00 Introducing Dr. Judy Grisel

00:58 What is the cause of addiction?

07:48 What can parents do?

18:39 Dr. Grisel's struggle with addiction

26:01 Dr. Grisel's contributing risk factors

35:13 What about harm reduction?

37:41 Psychedelics in treatment

39:25 Restrictive parenting

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Movie Diversity Test (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] We test various movies on how inclusive they are. Join Dr. Kirk, Humberto, and Collin by testing your favorite movies on diversity representation.

Movie Diversity Test

March 17, 2021

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