[Rerun] Is Elizabeth Holmes a psychopathic CEO? Or was it society? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto answer these questions and more.
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Chapter Thirteen of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Thirteen: Follow-Up, part 1)
00:25 Acceptance vs. forgiveness
05:30 Incest-like fantasies & shame
20:06 Acceptance with a clause
25:24 Forgiveness in Christianity
37:09 CBT skills in communication
42:23 Parental apologies & Dr. Kirk's apology
52:35 Apologies & internalized schemas
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Rebecca tells us about her traumas while lying on the floor.
00:00 Introduction
06:35 Rebecca's caveat
10:42 Current nightmares
26:20 Grooming
46:57 Sharing the story
51:25 Children on social media,
54:29 How the trauma presents day to day
1:01:21 Treatment summary & art
1:11:55 Lasting impact of trauma & parenting
1:18:09 Vulnerability & asking for help
1:27:10 In conclusion & dream theory
1:31:56 W...
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Dr Kirk and Humberto discuss House of the Dragon, season one.
00:00 The Psychology of House of the Dragon
00:50 GoT, HotD, & our ratings
02:29 Audience criticisms
22:04 Psychology of King Viserys & Eddard's folly
42:16 Incest & history
1:07:51 Good guys vs. bad guys
1:16:56 Overall likes & dislikes
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[Rerun] Given all the misinformation on the internet, choosing the right degree can be nearly impossible. Dr. Kirk Honda provides a guide to choosing the right degree for you.
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[Rerun] Kirk provides an analysis of the psychology of Elliot Rodger, the UCSB mass killer.
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Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.
00:00 Least Favorite Clients and Bob Kissing a Coworker
00:06 Our favorite clients
18:56 Therapists wearing wedding rings
25:10 OPP
26:57 Therapists filing for bankruptcy
32:49 Session preparation
38:18 Suicidal clients
56:38 Attachment style interpretation
58:49 Trauma triggering BPD
1:11:43 Narcissist pointers
1:13:31 Behavioral disorders in children
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Dr Kirk and Humberto answer listener questions.
00:00 The Last Privileged Generation
01:01 Favorite movie soundtracks
07:07 What song would Dr. Kirk & Humberto slow dance to
07:57 Death Note
08:21 What is Humberto's job
08:43 Personal style
10:30 What Dr. Kirk & Humberto would like to improve at
12:34 Severance
14:09 Favorite activity post-pandemic games & albums on repeat
21:33 OPP
22:57 Favorite v...
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Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.
00:00 Therapist Superpowers and Other Things
00:31 Bob's therapist superpowers
31:31 OPP
34:06 Delusions
36:28 Familial attachment styles
39:34 Bored with therapy
48:05 Deciding to study psychology
1:01:25 Letting things go
1:06:01 False memory OCD
1:07:37 Intake questions & your elevator speech
1:14:49 Online personality tests
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[Rerun] Our legal system and society are broken and rape victims continue to be disbelieved, mistreated, and stigmatized. We review the new Netflix show Unbelievable. We also talk with Christy Forrester about her rape experience, her struggle with the legal system, and her path to advocacy and becoming a therapist.
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[rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Rebecca Bloom about a listener who had sex with her therapist.
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Dr. Kirk reacts to a video on the Special Books by Special Kids channel in which Joseph discusses his diagnosis of antisocial personality disorder
00:00 I Have Antisocial Personality - (Therapist Reacts)
00:38 Antisocial/psychopathy myths
17:12 Reciprocity & empathy
28:05 Right vs. wrong & trauma
40:09 Support, resentment, & lying
49:25 Closing thoughts
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TRIGGER WARNING: this episode has footage of extreme verbal abuse. Dr Kirk reacts to a video that Amouranth posted depicting her allegedly abusive husband.
00:00 Introduction to Amouranth
00:32 Conceptualizing
09:12 Distorting reality, escalation, & melting down
16:19 Gaslighting, abuse, & regression
27:45 Exerting power & control
33:40 Abusers in relationships
50:57 Taking back power & further abuse
1:01:47 Abus...
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Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron questions.
00:00 Kanye and the Meaning of Art
00:23 Kanye's antisemitism & mania
12:20 Clocked in Coeur d'Alene
18:22 OPP
20:00 Birth control & mental health
26:56 Vagus nerve reactions
29:54 PTSD in the workplace
38:43 Parking in Seattle
41:20 Panic vs. anxiety attacks
48:20 The role of art
1:10:40 Records, 'gay questions', & Bros
1:21:58 Invasion of the Body...
2022-11-07 15:01:01 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Are humans naturally monogamous? What about other primates? What does the data tells us? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto discuss the science and the culture.
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Humberto about a listener who feels attached to her sexual abuser.
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Chapter Twelve of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
00:22 Dr. Kirk apologizes for the episode on adult ADHD
06:05 Dr. Kirk apologizes for harming the listener (Colt & Larissa)
26:48 Victims apologizing to abusers
30:27 Establishing nonintentiality
38:53 Finding a good therapist
39:50 Non-apology
40:18 Clearing the air
48:09 Listener's apology to Dr. Kirk
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Chapter Eleven of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
00:05 Listener exercise
01:55 Dr Kirk apologizes for Amber Heard
15:58 Dr Kirk apologizes for A Clockwork Orange
29:11 Apology paralysis
33:00 Dr Kirk apologizes for editing errors
45:40 A fathers apology & differentiated systems
1:04:58 Boss' non-apology
1:05:59 Anxiety & problem solving
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Chapter Ten of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
00:08 Dr Kirk apologizing regarding social justice
24:50 Difficulty apologizing
28:30 Apologizing to students
36:12 Hurtful apologies
39:30 Reasonable interpretation & refusing to apologize
51:12 Apologizing for procrastinating
58:56 Stonewalling & blame
1:04:56 Well-being staff & admitting fault
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Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Ten with an analysis of Kanye’s apology.
00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Ten Intro: Kanye Apology Analysis)
00:04 Kanye West's apology
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Chapter Nine of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
00:10 Apologizing to students
08:17 An overuse of 'sorry'
11:58 Deciding on forgiveness
16:10 Psychology in Seattle emails
26:13 Hurtful apologies and caveats
36:22 Negative self-talk
42:52 Selective apologies
45:55 Unsure of an apology
56:46 Wellness checks
1:06:19 Taking back power
1:07:55 Choosing integrity
1:17:29 Telling the whole st...
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Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Nine with an analysis of Chris Brown’s apology.
00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Nine Intro: Chris Brown Analysis, part 4)
00:10 Chris Brown's apology pt. 2
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Chapter Eight of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
00:26 Patron emails
32:27 Dr. Kirk's survey apologies
38:52 Analysis of survey-submitted apologies
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2022-10-28 15:00:12 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Seven with an analysis of Chris Brown’s apology.
00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Eight Intro: Chris Brown Analysis, part 3)
01:06 Chris Brown's apology
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