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Black Mirror Analysis - BĂȘte Noire

Dr Kirk and Humberto review Black Mirror season 7 (Netflix, 2025)

00:00 Summary of the plot  06:31 Reddit reviews 
11:15 Overall rating & critique 
19:29 The Mandela Effect 
27:05 How would you set the record straight


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Trauma Focused CBT (2016 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about trauma focused CBT

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Black Mirror Analysis - Common People

Dr Kirk and Humberto review Black Mirror season 7 (Netflix, 2025)

00:00 Favorite Black Mirror episodes
01:18 Summary of the plot15:12 Reddit reviews
18:14 Rating the episode
30:24 Is this a possible future? 
34:22 What does this episode say about our society?

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Bigoted Friend, Crossdressing, and Therapy Speak

Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails.

00:00 Handling a bigoted friend
10:22 How can I support a crossdressing partner?
16:54 Has therapy speak become a disservice to our clients?
48:34 Is it okay to bring a stuffed animal to therapy? 
51:40 Vicarious trauma and burnout as a therapist
1:06:23 Is broaching always necessary?


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Trauma Therapy (2014 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about trauma therapy.

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Interview with a Pedophile Victim

Dr Kirk Honda interviews Mia about having been sexually abused by a pedophile.

00:00 Introducing Mia

01:31 Sharing Mia's story

30:43 What was the turning point? 

38:38 The capacity for harm 

47:18 How much could be innate? 

58:05 Mia's key takeaways 

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Conversion Therapy (2017 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about conversion therapy


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The Psychology of the Menendez Bros (Chapter 7: Today)

Dr Kirk and Humberto explore the Menendez Bros case.

00:00 What happened to Dr. Oziel? 

06:46 What new information influenced the landscape of the case?

38:16  Has the understanding of PTSD changed in the last 30 years?

48:45 Dramatization of the story

56:53 The motion to resentence 

1:09:38 Reviewing the resentencing testimonies 

1:31:29 Results of the appeal and the next steps 

1:34:57 Wh...

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The Psychology of the Menendez Bros (Chapter 7: Today)

Dr Kirk and Humberto explore the Menendez Bros case.

00:00 What happened to Dr. Oziel? 

06:46 What new information influenced the landscape of the case?

38:16  Has the understanding of PTSD changed in the last 30 years?

48:45 Dramatization of the story

56:53 The motion to resentence 

1:09:38 Reviewing the resentencing testimonies 

1:31:29 Results of the appeal and the next steps 

1:34:57 What ...

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The Psychology of the Menendez Bros (Chapter 6: The Trial)

Dr Kirk and Humberto explore the Menendez Bros case.

00:00 The defense argument 

19:27 Does the abuse justify murder?  

34:01 Was the abuse discussed in therapy?

44:24 Was there physical evidence?

52:01 The trial verdict

1:00:22 The second trial

1:10:04 The final verdict

1:24:16 Appealing the verdicts

1:26:25 Predicting the newest developments


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The Psychology of the Menendez Bros (Chapter 6: The Trial)

Dr Kirk and Humberto explore the Menendez Bros case.

00:00 The defense argument 

19:27 Does the abuse justify murder?  

34:01 Was the abuse discussed in therapy?

44:24 Was there physical evidence?

52:01 The trial verdict

1:00:22 The second trial

1:10:04 The final verdict

1:24:16 Appealing the verdicts

1:26:25 Predicting the newest developments


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Parapsychology (2016 Rerun)

[Rerun Dr. Kirk and Humberto talk about parapsychology


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The Psychology of the Menendez Bros (Chapter 5: The Horror)

Dr Kirk and Humberto explore the Menendez Bros case.

00:00 How do sexually abused children behave?

13:35 What drives high achievers? 


26:38 How could the father also be homophobic? 

32:18 Erik's testimony of abuse

1:32:47 Predicting the verdict

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The Psychology of the Menendez Bros (Chapter 5: The Horror)

Dr Kirk and Humberto explore the Menendez Bros case.

00:00 How do sexually abused children behave?

13:35 What drives high achievers? 


26:38 How could the father also be homophobic? 

32:18 Erik's testimony of abuse

1:32:47 Predicting the verdict


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Thoughts on Grief (2016 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about grief.

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The Psychology of the Menendez Bros (Chapter 4: Monster)

Dr Kirk and Humberto explore the Menendez Bros case.

00:00 Pretrial

13:06 The trial & opening arguments

23:04 Dr. Oziel's testimony

33:52 Lyle & Eric's testimony


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The Psychology of the Menendez Bros (Chapter 4: Monster)

Dr Kirk and Humberto explore the Menendez Bros case.

00:00 Pretrial

13:06 The trial & opening arguments

23:04 Dr. Oziel's testimony

33:52 Lyle & Eric's testimony


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The Psychology of the Menendez Bros (Chapter 3: The Murders)

Dr Kirk and Humberto explore the Menendez Bros case.

00:00 Writing about murder

05:17 The day before the murders

11:03 The murders

25:08 The 911 call

32:03 The police investigation & confessing

59:36 Grunge & the arrests

1:10:49 Does the process of premeditation say anything?

1:14:48 How common is parricide?


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The Psychology of the Menendez Bros (Chapter 3: The Murders)

Dr Kirk and Humberto explore the Menendez Bros case.

00:00 Writing about murder

05:17 The day before the murders

11:03 The murders

25:08 The 911 call

32:03 The police investigation & confessing

59:36 Grunge & the arrests

1:10:49 Does the process of premeditation say anything?

1:14:48 How common is parricide?


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Abusive Relationships #2 (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk answers patron questions about abuse.

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The Psychology of the Menendez Bros (Chapter 2: Pre-Murders)

Dr Kirk and Humberto explore the Menendez Bros case.

00:00 The history of the Menendez family 

13:21 Who was Jose Menendez?

26:08 Childhood and previous crimes


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The Psychology of the Menendez Bros (Chapter 2: Pre-Murders)

Dr Kirk and Humberto explore the Menendez Bros case.

00:00 The history of the Menendez family 

13:21 Who was Jose Menendez?

26:08 Childhood and previous crimes


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Abusive Relationships #1 (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk answers patron questions about abuse.

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The Psychology of the Menendez Bros (Chapter 1: OMG)

Dr Kirk and Humberto explore the Menendez Bros case.

00:00 Who are the Menendez Bros? 

02:48 What was the therapist thinking?

31:15 When did the therapist go to the authorities? 

41:35 What can grief look like?

52:38 Why did they confess?


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The Psychology of the Menendez Bros (Chapter 1: OMG)

Dr Kirk and Humberto explore the Menendez Bros case.

00:00 Who are the Menendez Bros? 

02:48 What was the therapist thinking?

31:15 When did the therapist go to the authorities? 

41:35 What can grief look like?

52:38 Why did they confess?


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Ethics Violations and Dual Relationships

Dr Kirk Honda explores ethical cases for therapists.

00:00 Navigating small communities as a therapist 

25:36 Should I continue therapy after my therapist has a dual relationship? 

34:34 Is it ethical for my therapist to refer his clients to group therapy? 

42:45 Do therapists need to give me a referral? 

1:00:28 Sharing gratitude

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Common Confidentiality Mistakes (2017 Rerun)

Dr. Kirk Honda talks about common confidentiality mistakes


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Ethics Violations, Psychopathic Therapists, and Quitting Therapy

Dr Kirk Honda explores ethical cases for therapists.

00:00 Why do we enjoy discussing ethics?

03:00 Are psychopathy and sociopathy the same? 

11:18 Umbrellas of empathy

18:12 Is shame equated to empathy?  

23:17 Can therapists have personality disorders?

33:58 Is an accredited program better? 

39:21 Do professors need to be harsh? 

43:31 How can I prime clients for termination? 

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Leaving Abuse (2017 Rerun)

Dr. Kirk Honda talks about leaving abuse


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Child Fear, Creative Blocks, and ADHD

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails.

00:00 How can I play with my child without fear? 

03:48 How can I overcome stage fright and creative blocks?

22:02 ADHD stigma

34:02 Can ADHD be diagnosed quickly? 

52:05 How can I support a partner with health anxiety?


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