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Questions for Lily Alexandre

Glad to see the positive response to the last talk with CJ. Tomorrow I’ll be speaking with yet ANOTHER video essayist, Lily Alexandre. Though, I won’t be able to publish this one until May because I’m busy with some other things rn…

But I’m taking questions for our chat tomorrow, so let me know what you wanna know below👇

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Peer Review w/ CJ the X

This third edition of Peer Review takes a philosophical turn with CJ the X. I had lots of fun discussing art, philosophy, and reality with CJ. We occupy two different corners of philosophy and it was fun to see both of them applied to a similar problem. Hope you enjoy, and let me know what you think in the comments. Hopefully we can solve the universe together.

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Audience questions for CJ the X!

Hello ! Tomorrow I will be talking to CJ the X for the next installment of Digital Dialects.

If you have any burning questions for them, post a comment below and I'll try to fit it into our conversation :)!


Edit: our convo was rescheduled to this weekend so you have time to ask more questions :)!

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Peer Review w/ Rowan Ellis

And now, the second installment of Peer Review, this time joined by Rowan Ellis! You should be able to listen to this one on a podcast app since it's just audio using the RSS feed.

In this edition we talk about queer stuff, structuring video essays, managing the video essay life alongside other projects, being theatre kids, and MORE!

There's like 5 minutes of silence at the end just ignor...

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Welcome to the Patreon!

Guide to the Patreon:

Exclusive Content;

You'll find Patreon exclusive content in my Collections.

The Patreon Exclusives Collection compiles ALL the exclusive videos and vlogs about various topics including Barbie, Good Omens, academia, and more!

The Peer Review Collection - a podcast series where I talk to other online creators about their work, life and philosophy

Behind the Scenes - BTS pictures and vid...

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Questions for Rowan Ellis? (and updates)

Hey all! So I will be speaking with Rowan Ellis tomorrow for another installment of "Digital Dialects"... do you have any questions for her you're burning to ask? Comment below!

As for the next video, I'm working on the script for it. It's part an argument for letting trans kids transition and part a deconstruction of the notion of biological sex (I think??). Expect that in early May.

And some personal updates... I've been rejected from everything I've applied to post-grad but I ...

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Peer Review w/ The Leftist Cooks

Introducing Peer Review, a Patreon exclusive series where I will be having super casual conversations with video essayists on YouTube, as a way of documenting this cool space that we have all built together!

Think of these as digital ethnographic interviews where we also talk shit :)

For the first edition, I've brought on the Leftist Cooks. They are incredible creators in the leftist video essay space who explore similar topics to mine, with amazing research, presentation, and vul...

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Submit questions for semi secret project

I will be talking with the Leftist Cooks tomorrow for a new Patreon exclusive thing I wanna do.

They are amazing video essayists, which you can find here:

https://youtube.com/@TheLeftistCooks?si=Jr1HDJrmSuBPGzJS

I’ve done quote reads for them before and they’ve read for me so many of you are probably familiar :)

I just now thought it would be cool to incorporate...

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Audience survey!!!

I'm going to send this out later/tomorrow but wanted to see what y'all think first. It's a super quick survey about what content my audience would like to see. Feel free to make suggestions for the survey before I send it to the public :)

https://forms.gle/CtV4u6EWWNevvP288

i'll be editing the survey as I receive feedback so sorry if it changes as you're filling out

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Patreon Exclusive VLOG!

So I had a crazy Saturday as I was giving a keynote address at the Western Mass Queer Conference AND my band was playing a gig at this same conference... It was a wild ride! Things happened, tragedies occurred, laughs were laughed, so I thought it'd be fun to publish a cute short vlog about it. LMK if you'd like more content like this on the 'Treon in the future!

Also did you like the newest video ?!?!?

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Fuck it, here's the video a week early

Happy saturday patrons!

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back on my "the self doesn't exist" grind

some more BTS O_O More like BS!

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choose yourself :x

happy valentines day!

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BTS - Hannah Montana

Did some minor filming last night... here's some stills from the intro :P :)

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Well... (upd8)

Yeah. It's going well... I guess... 


I'm in the beginning stages of writing the script... well, I've outlined the whole script, have all the research done, now I just have to write it. I'm planning some whacky stuff for the new video so be prepared. It's on Hannah Montana and how we live in a society, etc. I expect an upload in late Feb or early March...


It's taken longer than expected... It's days like this I wish I could just react to TikToks. Instead,...

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Updates and ruminations

Hi. So I've been enjoying some time "off" with my family which is to say passively reading books over the course of the holidays and watching 3 seasons of Hannah Montana. The chance that the next video will be about Hannah Montana is almost certain. But as always... Will it REALLY be about Hannah Montana? Or is it about subjectivity in late capitalism? I DONT KNOW!!!! I wish I could turn the lens off.

I've sent some Patron thank you notes today :) and I am also in the process of revampi...

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Happy Holidays!

Hope you’ve all had a wonderful holiday. I’ve been taking it easy but passively reading stuff that might be interesting for the next video. It may or may not be about Hannah Montana 0.0

I’ll be mostly spending time with my family, but soon after I’ll send some thank you notes to some wonderful folks. Hope everyone is having a restful and joyful time :) and happy new year!! Looking forward to a great 2024!

- Alex

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Patreon Exclusive: Why a humanities degree isn't a death sentence

hey yall, so here's a very "rough and off the cuff" sort of video about why I think getting a humanities/social science degree is not only cool and based, but practical and fulfilling... it's something that's been on my mind and thought it was worth capturing and sharing...

i think when outlining a bit of what i wanted to say i was thinking of the humanities/STEM binary, so i focus a lot on how the humanities increasing importance in what we often think of as "technical" STEM fields. Th...

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Will unpublish the $1 tier soon... also exclusive content soon...

Hello all, I have been thinking about this a while... based on a changing financial situation, I think I'm going to unpublish the $1 tier, making the lowest tier the $2 tier. FIRST, if you are CURRENTLY a $1 Patron, you can stay a $1 Patron as long as you choose. Unpublishing means that no NEW Patrons can become $1 Patrons. I am doing this for a few reasons... 

1. my financial situation will be changing soon, and thus, am looking for a way to make sure I have enoug...

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Hello and thank you again!

Hi everyone! Hope you enjoyed the new Swift video... It took me out spiritually and emotionally lol. You can even hear it in my voice. But I'm satisfied with how it turned out, and the response has been amazing! I thought Swifties would've murdered me but they have been very kind and receptive actually!! I think I will take a short break after this... I often say this but then I get autistically excited about a topic and my life revolves around it again lmaooo

It has overall just been a...

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Hi and Thanks.

HI! I see there a good amount of new people here :) Thank you all very much for supporting queer creators, I couldn't be able to make content without you all!!!!!

All the new people you may notice some bonus content in here--a Good Omens video and Barbie video, both from the summer! Plz enjoy :D

In the meantime, I am grinding my way through this Taylor Swift video asf so that it comes out on Friday :D

Thank you all again so much for supporting ORIGINAL (lol) queer video essa...

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EXCLUSIVE: the first 15 minutes of the Taylor Swift video

Here's the first draft of the first 20 (more like 15) minutes of the Taylor Swift video, just for YOU! The first 20 minutes frontload a bit of the more theoretical stuff, but there's a lot more Taylore stuff later in the video. It's looking like the video will end up being 2 hours and 20 minutes.

NOTE: there's a cut in the video at the ground news sponsorship since the ad is not supposed to go live until the 8th :) Further, the Eric Hobsbawm and Miriam Rahali quote does...

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Taylor Swift video bibliography

Because I HATE myself, I don't usually compile the script's bibliography into document format until the end, so I thought I'd share... can you guess what the video's about?


Eric Hobsbawm, 1962, The Age of Revolution, 1789-1848, p. 261

Miriam Rahali, 2021, On the genealogy of the American millennial ideal: a celebrity case study of neoliberal feminism in the 21st century

Johanna Bockman, 2013, “neoliberalism,” 2023-11-28 06:27:12 +0000 UTC View Post

LOOKING FOR QUOTE READERS!

EDIT: I have found all the people I needed, thank you so much for being so enthusiastic!

Hi all! I have EIGHT quotes that need to be read for the video. They are some excerpts from focus groups that I ran last month on Taylor Swift. People of all background welcome! It's alright if your microphone isn't good, since they are quotes from a supposed Zoom meeting, it matches the vibe. As long as the audio is intelligible. Just send me an e-mail at alex@itsall.gay.

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Behind some scenes…

Just finished filming the T. Swift video. I was just chatting with friend of the channel, Rowan Ellis, about how scared I should be of swifties LMAO.

This video was really hard to film… I mean it was just one set but I randomly got this bad cold and so I was so tired and my voice was destroyed…. But I couldn’t put it off because this was my only opportunity to film ;-;

It was also the LONGEST video I’ve ever shot. I think the total footage is like 6-8 hours 0-0… for refe...

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Moving forward

Hey patróns, been a while... Or has it? I've completely lost track of time because I went down a major Taylor Swift rabbit hole in anticipation of making The Taylor Swift Videos to End All Taylor Swift Videos.

This last week I held some focus groups on Taylor swift and it was interesting to see the strong opinions she can bring out. Especially from the diverse queer audience that tends to consume my videos.

Even at the risk of losing my soul/sanity, this should be good. I'm con...

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Got opinions on Taylor Swift? Looking for interview participants.

ATTENTION TAYLOR SWIFT FANS, HATERS, AND NEUTRAL PARTIES: 

 I am looking for interview participants willing to confidentially share their opinions on Taylor Swift for an upcoming video. Anyone over 18 can participate! Fill out this form to express interest:  2023-10-18 17:01:37 +0000 UTC View Post

How was it?

Did you like the video? Things that resonated? Things I missed? I know there's a lot I didn't cover... but even with a 1 hour long video essay you can't go over all of the diverse experience people have with gender. It's a little scary putting out a product you know is inherently flawed but I guess all art and creations have flaws that make them unique...

When writing the script, I mostly had an already progressive feminist audience in mind, though I did expect the title to get some mor...

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And now a trailer I will be posting on Twitter tomorrow :)

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Thumbnail Sneak Peak!!!

"Oh... THIS topic again?" you might be thinking. Well, yes... 

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