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Flavie Eidel

Flavie Eidel

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Hey you!

I hope you're doing well!

I would love to know what you would like to see more from me on this platform. As much as I mostly only create for myself and my clients on Instagram, here, it is more of a you and me situation! It isn't always the easiest to be completely self aware and a little help is always appreciated :) 

So please, feel free to give me any feedback on how I could improve! (either in the comments section, by private message here or even on Instagr...

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You are beautiful!

Hey you!

First, I hope you're doing well!

Then, I wanted to share with you these pictures I took last month of my gorgeous client! I don't know how I get so lucky and have such stunning people trusting and supporting me! It's beyond me!

Estelle wanted a shoot of self love and I tried my absolute best to give her what she wanted and deserve.

Fun fact: the weather was insanely awful when we initially planned this session and she came all the way to my place for... nothin...

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Thank you!

Hey you!

I am just passing by to thank you LOTS for supporting me, and welcome the new subscribers!

It warms up my heart to feel so loved and it definitely motivates me quite a lot.

I hope you like the content you see in here and will keep appreciating it! :)

I'll get back asap with some exclusive photoshoot, but for now, I'll let you with this old unpublished photo of Hannah!

Take care of yourself, eat something that makes you feel good and don't stay too much o...

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We'll be okay.

Hey you!

I hope you're doing well and that you are safe.

I know things can feel extremely overwhelming and hopeless lately, but many amazing things are happening all around the world, every single second.

Some kids are having their first laugh, some couples say 'I love you for the first time', some people are planting trees, some others are changing their mind on difficult topics... 

It may seem small, but lots of small changes make a huge impact. :)

Let's f...

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Peace of Mind & Summer Vibes

Hey you!

Just passing by to wish you a great day and even better weekend!

See you soon!

Flavie

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You are allowed to have fun

Hey you!

Just a little reminder that you deserve to enjoy your life, even as an adult.

You're allowed to follow your weird dreams, say yes when you should say no, or book this trip you've been thinking about for a while.

Treat yourself well, you're precious! :)

See you soon,

Flavie.

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You got this

Hello you,

Don't mind me, I'm just passing by to remind you how great and precious you are. Whatever you're struggling with right now will only be a vague memory very soon.

Breathe, you'll be fine.

See you soon,

Flavie xx

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Take time to relax

Hey you!

I know life can be really fast sometimes, but it is extremely important that you take time for yourself while you do as little as possible.
Make yourself some tea, listen to some music, watch your plants grow, count your fingers...

Your brain needs to rest and you won't betray yourself by allowing it to do so. 

Take care of yourself :)

See you soon,

Flavie.

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A baby on the way...

This session has been planned for months and I am SO happy that despite everything going on, we managed to do it!

When C. contacted me to take her pregnancy pictures, I immediately thought about the ocean. And it happened that it actually had a lot of sense, since a little beach town not far was filled with memories for the future Dad, and that one of the names options for the baby was related to the ocean.

And I'm not gonna lie, I really needed an ocean shoot.

I say it a lo...

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Treat yourself the way you want to be treated

Hey you!

I know I've already mentioned this on Monday, but I think it is an important point that deserves to be developed. 

People will base the way they act with you on:
_ The way you treat yourself,
_ What you allow (your boundaries).

And the more you give yourself what you need, the less you need it from outside, which makes all your relationships healthier and more genuine.  When you already take care of the love part, you invest your time in things and p...

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Take Time to Get to Know Yourself

Hey you!

Just passing by to tell you that you deserve to invest your time in yourself. Do you truly know who you are and what you want? 

Ask yourself what you like, what makes you happy, what direction you want to take next. Remove everybody else from the picture. No trend, no family, no outside influence. Just you, your heart and your brain. If it helps, feel free to start a journal to document all of this. 

You deserve to know yourself. 

Hope this help...

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Love Yourself First

Hey you!

I hope you have a great week ahead and that you make sure to stay safe, but not too much!

Today I wanted to remind you that it is absolutely important that you take time to work on loving yourself more and more everyday. No outside love could ever fill the hole created by a lack of self love. 

Treat yourself the way you want to be treated, always. Identify what love languages are important for you and shower yourself with affection.

You are worthy. You do...

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You'll always have hard days.

You'll always have hard days. We are humans and the range of our emotions is wonderful.

For a while and to try to keep going, I didn't have other options than numbing and ignoring the bad feelings. And let me tell you, even if it sounds good on paper, it is a hella bad idea. You cannot enjoy he good if you don't welcome the bad too. Once I shut down the road to SadLand, AngerHood and NostalgiaCity, I couldn't find my way to HappyVille, JoyTown or ExcitementPlaza either. It's a whole pac...

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Open for a surprise

Just Merle passing by to wish you a great week, filled with hope, love, and progress.

See you soon!

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You can do so much

Nothing will change if you change nothing.

You only have to start and go at your own rhythm to see progress.

I believe in you.

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Don't forget to rest.

I know this year has been a pretty exhausting one so far and it's easy to feel overwhelmed when it looks like we are in the middle of a weird game that never stops to get harder.

So it's important to set a timer on your phone, eat something you like, watch a movie that makes you feel good, laugh with friends, have a good night of sleep, finish this book that you didn't give enough attention to lately, take a walk, make a bouquet with wildflowers from your neighborhood, etc...

You ...

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EN. White Privilege, what to do with it?

Hey you.

Today, I am not here to spread joy, or anything related to positive emotions. I am actually filled with rage and anger as I am typing this article. Not my anger, not my rage. But the one that the black community has been building up for centuries now, related to how racism affects their life in so many aspects daily.

I want to use all the platforms I can to share with other white people the knowledge I have been accumulating about the situation. So if you are unaware, ple...

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FR. Que faire de mon Privilège Blanc?

Hey toi.

Aujourd'hui, je ne suis pas ici pour répandre de la joie ou quoi que ce soit lié à des émotions positives. Je suis en fait rempli de rage et de colère en tapant cet article. Pas ma colère, pas ma rage. Mais celle que la communauté noire accumule depuis des siècles maintenant, liée à la façon dont le racisme affecte leur vie au quotidien, sous tant d'aspects.

Je veux utiliser toutes les plateformes que je peux pour partager avec d'autres personnes blanches les c...

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Follow your dreams.

Follow your dreams, even the silly ones.

Especially the silly ones.

Do things that bring joy to you and others.

See you soon!

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Don't be sad that it's over, be glad that it happened.

If nostalgia decides to take over your brain, remind yourself that every end signs the beginning of something else.

And if you want my opinion, that is pretty amazing.

See you soon!

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Self Love is the best kind of love

Hey you!

I hope your weekend will be wonderful and that you'll have time to practice self love. Because wherever we are on the scale of self appreciation, it's never too much.

Take care and see you soon!

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Amazing you

Hey you,

Just sliding in your mailbox to remind you that you don't need to be perfect to be amazing. 

See you soon

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Be kind to your beautiful self

The way you look at yourself as a direct impact on how people see you. So be gentle when talking to yourself. Self improvement should always be done with self love. 

I believe in you!

See you soon

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You can do this

Hey you!

Just passing by to tell you that whatever is your next goal, I believe in you. I know you can do it. 

Have a good day,

See you soon!

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Love is love is love

Just passing by to wish you a wonderful day/weekend/week/month/year/decade, with this picture of Gemma & Ophelia, the sweetest couple.

See you soon!

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My little hands' jewelry

Hello you!

How are you doing?

I hope it's warm where you are and the sun shines. Don't forget to step outside to get some vitamin D (I won't judge if you forgot. I do the same)

Here is a different type of posts, because I often get compliments or questions about my jewelry and wanted to share a bit more about it in here. 

I don't know for you, but my skin is super picky when it comes to what is allowed to touche it. Which...

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Screenshots of Life #1

Hey you!

I hope you're in a safe space, mentally and physically. I hope that you're able to work safely and that your boss - if you've got one - doesn't put too much pressure on you in these already complicated times. 

Thank you for your support, despite my legendary inconsistency. You're great.

I got myself a hybrid camera this week to fill the gap between my big heavy oldie-but-goodie DSLR camera (5D Mark II, called Marina in refe...

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Happy May, y'all.

Hey you!

I wish you a wonderful upcoming month. I know it probably feels uncertain to all of us. But I hope we can find solutions and ressources for the potential issues that we'll  come across. 

I know we can do this. 

See you soon.

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Using my boredom creatively

Hey you!

I've been frustrated with my editing skills lately, and I knew that I really wanted to learn new skills in this field. So now that I am motivated again, I decided that I was going to practice on some of my oldie but goodie shoots from last year.

I really miss having a team with who I could create art with and I hope I can find this in France soon. 

This series was called "Reality Perception" and was highlighting the fact that Truth and Reality aren't really a t...

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You're great!

Hey you, 

I hope you're doing great and that the lockdown isn't too hard on you. Don't forget that this whole thing and the way you react to it doesn't define you. Try your best, whatever it means, and it'll be all good. 

The other day, I read that the future was dark, but not in a bad way. Just in the sense of you can't see it, and that living it is just slowly bringing light to what you need in a day. And I wanted to share this with you, because I thought it could be r...

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