a little update
Added 2025-03-06 20:18:50 +0000 UTChey loves, i owe you an update. :)
not to go into too much detail, but i had a call with a friend late last week that caused me to have some concern about their current mental health state, which is why i drove there. upon arrival, it was clear to me it was much worse than i had even thought at the time.
after days of unsuccessfully trying to talk them into getting some help, we unfortunately will have to move forward trying to get them into a facility as an involuntary patient. i hate doing this kind of stuff, but i'm just not comfortable leaving until i know they are safe and being looked after.
it should only take a couple more days, and then i will head home, likely have a good long sleep and then get back to the grind. i'm so sorry for the delay in content - i did have dollhouse episode 6 recorded before i left so i've been trying to slowly get that edited and up to kinda hold yall over for content!
i appreciate all your patience and kind messages. we will be back at it soon.
i love yall, take care of yourselves, and please check in on your friends. xo
Comments
neil, thank you so much for this comment. i read it the night before i knew they were going to be taking them to care, and you were exactly right in all the feelings i had - it was tougher than i really could have predicted. your comment brought me so much comfort, thank you for sharing your story and im so glad to hear your wife is out on the other side of the struggle. appreciate you so much, thanks again <3 <3 <3
darciesnothere
2025-03-24 23:36:36 +0000 UTCthank you!! xo
darciesnothere
2025-03-24 23:33:56 +0000 UTCthank so much my dear, appreciate you!
darciesnothere
2025-03-24 23:33:47 +0000 UTCthank you jamie <3
darciesnothere
2025-03-24 23:33:30 +0000 UTCyou're the best rhi xoxo
darciesnothere
2025-03-24 23:33:23 +0000 UTC;) appreciate that johnny!
darciesnothere
2025-03-24 23:33:12 +0000 UTCthis is so kind, thank you alexis! <3
darciesnothere
2025-03-24 23:33:03 +0000 UTClol thanks for this shaun, appreciate you!
darciesnothere
2025-03-24 23:32:51 +0000 UTCthanks my dear <3 <3
darciesnothere
2025-03-24 23:32:35 +0000 UTCappreciate you so much stephanie thank you!
darciesnothere
2025-03-24 23:32:29 +0000 UTCthanks matthew <3
darciesnothere
2025-03-24 23:32:16 +0000 UTCthank you so much <3
darciesnothere
2025-03-24 23:32:10 +0000 UTCthanks Bri, appreciate you!!
darciesnothere
2025-03-24 23:31:51 +0000 UTC<3 <3
darciesnothere
2025-03-24 23:31:41 +0000 UTCappreciate you so much, thank you <3 <3
darciesnothere
2025-03-24 23:31:34 +0000 UTCthanks for this ellen, appreciate you <3
darciesnothere
2025-03-24 23:31:21 +0000 UTCAs much as I know you are concerned for your friend, don’t forget to take care of yourself too. You can’t pour from an empty cup. ♥️
Ellen
2025-03-10 23:45:14 +0000 UTCDarcie take as much time off as you need to. That’s a hell of a lot to deal with and a hell of a lot to process afterwards too. As someone said it just speaks to your character. Don’t forget to look after yourself too.
John
2025-03-09 22:03:50 +0000 UTCSPEAKS TO UR CHARACTER, anyone would be lucky to have a friend like you.
Grab Your Slimes
2025-03-09 15:24:18 +0000 UTC🩷🩷🩷
Samanthadiane
2025-03-08 21:27:49 +0000 UTCThat sounds super hard, Darcie- take care of yourself too, dude. Anyone would be lucky to have a friend so willing to get involved and make sure they're looked after. ❤️
Bri
2025-03-08 13:01:11 +0000 UTCI am so glad that you are able to be available to your friend like that and trusted yourself to know they needed you. Thanks for the update but do what you've go to. That is much more important! Praying for you, your friend, and anyone else involved.
Aseneth Murphy
2025-03-07 19:10:54 +0000 UTCYou're friend is so blessed to have you.
Matthew Shields
2025-03-07 02:52:11 +0000 UTCYou are such a compassionate person, Darcie. I am sure one day your friend will understand this and be grateful for all you have done. Thank you for being so transparent with us. It is certainly not necessary but it is appreciated. Good luck with everything and please take all the time you need. *Big Hug*
StephanieB
2025-03-07 00:27:35 +0000 UTCHoly crap, take all the time you need! Your friend definitely comes first. Hope it all works out well.
Rae
2025-03-07 00:08:26 +0000 UTC💜 do whatever you need to do! Glad you are able to help
Nettie
2025-03-06 22:04:35 +0000 UTCOh my goodness! I’m so sorry, take the time you need and take care of your friend ❤️
carly powell
2025-03-06 21:16:17 +0000 UTCTake all the time you need. Very much sounds like you’re an incredible friend though. You are both lucky to have each other
TheLoungingPotato
2025-03-06 21:06:39 +0000 UTCTough choice. Satisfying needy patreon members, or save a friend. I'm sure people get it.
Shaun Houghton
2025-03-06 20:48:54 +0000 UTCTake *as long* as you need. I'm so sorry that this is happening. You sound like a very good friend trying to do a very difficult thing for the betterment of your friend. Please take care of yourself too through all this. ❤️
Alexis Cardarella
2025-03-06 20:37:24 +0000 UTCMy life will be marginally less filled with joy but I think your friend might be more important, so I'll let it slide😇
Johnny Coleman
2025-03-06 20:31:26 +0000 UTCNo need to apologise for being a good friend! I hope they get that much needed care, and that you can have some relief knowing they'll be safe xx
x_Rhi_x
2025-03-06 20:29:14 +0000 UTCHey Darcie, you're a really good friend and they are lucky to have you. I was in a situation 20+ years ago where I had to have my wife involuntarily committed to a mental health facility, and it was stressful and scary and felt just awful - like a betrayal. So I can imagine you are going through a lot of those feelings right now. Just know that you ARE doing the right thing and helping your friend get the help they truly need, and in the end they will be better off for it. My wife got on the right medication, turned her life around, and has been doing great. I'm sure your friend will do the same. Meanwhile, all this content stuff is simply unimportant in comparison. We'll be here when you're ready.
Neil Silverman
2025-03-06 20:28:27 +0000 UTCCompletely understood. Do what you need to do and take care of yourself as well.
Jamie Revell
2025-03-06 20:27:31 +0000 UTCNo need to apologize at all. You have a good heart and a kind soul. I hope your friend is able to accept the help and get to making a full recovery. Please take your time and don't rush back. We are good with waiting. Safe travels and take care. ❤️
Melissa
2025-03-06 20:24:23 +0000 UTCDang, I'm really sorry to hear that I haven't been in that exact circumstances before but similar. You're an incredible friend. Make sure you're taking care of yourself though as well. Being in a caregiver role of this sort can be not just physically & emotionally draining but mentally as well. Please don't rush yourself back before you're ready. We'll still be here ♥️
SunnydaleClassof99
2025-03-06 20:23:59 +0000 UTCdarcie babe do what you have to do! pls pls take care of your friend and then take care of yourself. i know stuff like this is really difficult to process mentally and emotionally, so take care of you before worrying about us! we’ll be here when you’re ready.
Summer Elaine
2025-03-06 20:21:25 +0000 UTCTaking care of friends and family is the number one priority! Don’t worry about us! I genuinely hope your friend gets the help they need and is doing better soon.
Lindley Daw
2025-03-06 20:20:26 +0000 UTC
