Knife F#$k%@g - Part 1 with Ember Solaris

Disclaimer

This is a high risk activity. Please do not attempt without proper training.

Slides: https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1UCkUgznxHTOWBXuI46Y6A3tKsVTQt3KZZpQe1z-hDIA/edit?usp=sharing

What the F&*% is This Class?

This is a class on non-cutting knife play around the vulva area and vaginal insertions, known as knife fucking. It may or may not be sexual to the participants, but both will be discussed. Please expect graphic images of knives, vulvas, vaginas, sexual contact, etc. This discussion will range from playful intent to darker dynamic theme intent. This class is for both Tops and bottoms, vagina havers and non. Basically anyone interested in this sort of play. This class will be recorded, and the recording will be available on the Reign of Blood Vampire Academy Patreon, and also for ticket holders.

Part 1 of this 2-part series covers the most risk reduced and controlled methods (from the presenter's perspective) of engaging in this type of play. It's still not safe, if by safe you mean no risk to the participants. But people are going to do it anyways, ergo this comes from a harm-reductionist framework. You can attend JUST class 1, or both classes, but in order to attend class 2 you MUST have attended or watched the recording of class 1.

See part 2 here.

Class Goals

The goal here is to reduce (in the following order of priority) the risk of significant harm, major injury, unanticipated damage, unmanaged shame surrounding exploration of desires, and minor injury.

The goal is also to increase your confidence, knowledgebase, capacity for informed consent, communication skills and vocabulary, intent and awareness in desires and goals, and just have fun!

Class Outline

We will discuss:

• Refresher and some extended anatomy for knife fucking (having already taken or watched the recording of the vulva and vaginal anatomy for sharps class available in the Vampire Academy lineup is HIGHLY recommended)

• Risk profile considerations and informed consent

• First aid for knife wounds

• Emergency management

• Communication, negotiation, mindfulness, etc. pre-scene, during scenes, and post-scene

• Vaginal tissue, muscle, lubrication, and unique anatomy assessment considerations

• Preparation and equipment

• External genital knife play

• Non metal knives

• Knife handle fucking

• Scene ideas and practice ideas

Why Just Vaginas?

Why vaginas? Well, rectums close and they close tightly. They have a sphincter. This doesn't work very well with sharp objects. And colon/bowel perforations are very likely. Not saying there's not likely someone out there who does it, it's just very outside the scope of this class and this presenter's risk profile.

The Presenter:

Ember Solaris (FetLife: @xSolaris) is a professional and lifestyle Dominant, Sadist, and social scientist who infuses her passion for research into every class she presents. Drawing from extensive training in emotions, trauma, addictive behaviors, and relationship dynamics, Ember bridges evidence-based practice with her primal identity—fueled by an arcane fascination with blood, ritual, and transformative intensity. Whether demonstrating intricate sharps techniques, discussing neurobiology, or exploring the role of primal headspaces and erotic justice, Ember’s sessions combine depth, passion, ferocity, and ethical complexity. She collaborates with attendees to foster inclusive, intersectional learning environments, weaving curiosity and empathy into hands-on, immersive experiences. Ember carves spaces where participants can unearth their most authentic selves. A companion for those seeking both intellectual rigor and carnal exploration, Ember thrives in exploring new frontiers in kink and beyond. A queer, genderqueer nerd, Ember lives in the gray spaces and hopes to meet you there.