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Yall still talking about people bodies in the name of "care" | Vlogmas Day 7

you aint noticing anything about them that someone that KNOWS THEM hasn't. these celebs and influencers could be sick, on drugs or have disordered eating what you talking about them gonna do?........... shaming is not WORK.

Yall still talking about people bodies in the name of "care" | Vlogmas Day 7

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Every 6 months someone will tweet, “I feel bad for girls who got bbl’s and blah, blah, blah” and my response is always START A SUPPORT GROUP THEN. Just admit you want a cheap laugh, it’s faux concern until you actually do something about it.

Venika Kalambay

I hate when celebrities bodies are discussed negatively ughhhh You definitely clocked that tea Kenya

Issa Smith

it's just weird !!! No one wants their body to be the hot topic of the week, specially if you already have a low self-estime . Imagine if someone's is insecure enough to go as far to do surgery or take medicine that puts their life at risk, how productive is it to talk shit about it?? it might just cause them to make more extreme decisions to "fix" their body. I could go on a whole rant about the backhanded compliments to people who get surgery, like be NORMAL !!

suellen Sofia

Preach!

Ashley Brown

The "let's do this to you" part made me laugh so hard!! lmaooo it's definitely not funny, but Kenya's a comedienne foreal

Dani

Another case of "if we don't know our history, we are doomed to repeat it". We have learned nothing from Chadwick Boseman's death and the scrutiny about how he looked before he died. I thought it was for a movie, as well, but when I found it was STAGE 4 COLON CANCER, I backed off. Now I tell anyone (mainly my older family members) to stop commenting on people's bodies!!!! Yes, celebs are in the public eye so they are constantly being judged for their appearance, especially in movies and TV. But it doesn't make it right.

Dani

it's the way no one learned anything from Chadwick Boseman that blows me fr 🙄 unless you are *their* doctor or *their* nutritionist, you have no authority to speak about anyone's weight loss or gain (much less a celebrity), so knock it off!!!

rudi!!!

I agree!! I saw a tweet regarding Ariana grande’s appearance & the people in the tweets were sooo “concerned” talking about “we need to talk about it otherwise we might lose her! Idk why no one’s talking about it” & “I agree, we need to do something about this asap & get to the bottom of it!” In EARNEST. I’m just like.. what are YOU gonna do about it? Get to the bottom of it how? Do you know her? Nooo. Stfu

Reyhan

I agree with this video. A part of me wants to give grace and say it’s because after the heavy body positivity era, after the slim thick and bbl era. We’re now revisiting the be thinner era from the 80’s. And because people can’t directly push skinny without being called out . What ppl are experiencing is this huge “ so no one is gonna talk about it” -ish and instead of asking why body types are changing people are putting it entirely on celebrities when they are often the first victims.

Ola Ogun

As a lover of all things movies and music, I remember the only time ever commenting on someone's appearance was Chadwick. Something along the lines of, wow hoping this commitment to his next role won't be a burden on his body. I was obviously making up my own scenario in my head and was thinking along the lines of Daniel Day Lewis or Christian Bale, the insanity of it all. Obviously I have learned my lesson tenfold.

germaninatlanta

I will say no one learned from what people were doing to Chadwick. No one and i repeat no one knew he had cancer until he himself came out and said so. people were being ruthless to this man after going through what we hear from other celeb getting in the role of marvel superheroes, a grueling process for your body to look like the peak of performance. He had for 4 years a debilitating disease that wore his body to nothingness and ppl, as they are now, were picking apart his body. Having no care for chadwick nor anyone who might be suffering all for the sense of “caring”

loveme4me

i was scared to say anything publicly about the discourse surrounding Ariana and Cynthia’s bodies. But i was talking shit abt the body shamers on my private story. I just don’t see the point in reposting videos talking about their weight loss and how scary ppl think it is. Why would it be my obligation to sound the alarm about a celebrities body who i’ve only ever seen through google images? Obviously her family and close friends are the ones who should say something not us on twitter and tiktok.

Jayden Brown

2016 felt like a fever dream. Felt like a lot of the internet girls were in their peak Kardashian-look-a-like era and we had words like “slay” and “on fleek”. That “baddie” era was somethin.

Abisola

People have so much audacity nowadays

Treena Mathieu

how ppl talk about arianas body is so weird. like i get she looks different but how is yelling at her that she has an ed going to help? when has yelling at anyone with an ed helped them recover?

Liz Huerta

Oh Kenya some people outright say that they’re talking about Ariana’s body because 1. They think people yapping about ‘her ED’ will make her wake up and recover 2. They say they had ED and wish that someone pointed out how unhealthy they were being Yeah okay man

Danielle A

Naw cus why I been getting recommended videos about ice spice and ofc it’s niggas talking about she “melted” in reference to her body, first of all she look good regardless, two, everytime they talk about her in this manner it’s always about how she’s not fuckable to them anymore and that she’s no longer catering to men bc she got thinner, and it’s always this air of how just her existing is catering to men and that’s why she’s “flopping” (as opposed to what idk) and im so sick and tired, ice spice existing as an attractive woman and using her attractiveness to sell her music in itself isn’t catering to men, men are so pompous and arrogant they think everything women do is for them, she’s thinner bc she’s getting in shape for her health not for you niggas, and even if that wasn’t the reason mind your business yall don’t know that lady , niggas do this with every female artist that blows up looking a certain way and then when they change they’re a dub bc they can’t beat off to them anymore, you was never getting at any of these women regardless like pls get a life you fucking losers omg 😭

ceeitrus

the fact that she has to keep saying that the body people keep comparing her to is the one where she had a drinking problem and was on anti-depressants... like I hate that she has to constantly remind people of that. I just want her to get to the point where she says fuck everybody though. don't even waste time explaining to people..

Nina Mosley

how many times do Kenya gotta get on here and teach y’all this lesson like wtf 😭 when will we LEARN

tay w

Like we know she had an ED in the past, we don't know where she is at in her recovery and so on, they need to leave her alone

KRYSTAL

👨🏿‍💻👨🏿‍💻👨🏿‍💻

carmelo jose

they’ve talked about Ariana grande’s body for YEARS, I know she’s tired

Javan

KENYA I love you thank you for doing vlogmas, we tune in every year ❤️❤️❤️

Bianca Gardner

#seated

chris


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