Dr. Charla Hathaway

Men like it slow

Added 2025-06-27 23:01:01 +0000 UTC

We hear it from women, and I hear it a lot from men. I've coached 10s of hundreds of men into astonishingly intimate 'slowness.' Often we just don't know how to slow down. Think of ways that have worked for you, and expand upon them. Mature loving is like a juicy pie where 'intercourse' is but a slice of it, not the whole pie. Let's cook up some rich recipes, coming up this July, Nude Chef Charla cooks for you in her magical kitchen. Watch for her.

When not cooking, Nurse Charla, will playfully check your heart beat...and add a few. Notice my "I Voted" sticker? Rhode Island and New York just voted to give sex workers immunity when they report crimes agains them. Good Job! This is important because it will foster a better relationship between sex workers and law enforcement. Today Police sexual violence is the second-most prevalent form of police violence after excessive force.

I DID IT! I wrote the book I've been wanting to write for ten years and I'm giving you a special on it, my dear Patreons, How to Be a Prostitute and Not Get Fucked. Not that I'm against fucking, it's just that we often rush there and miss that juicy slowness we were talking about. You can order a PDF copy on my website for a special of $10, fill in your info and then pay on with Venmo or Paypal. Chuck full of slowing down ideas. Enjoy a short romp (less than 100 pages and a 2 hour read) through my own shenanigans and brave, engaging client stories. And tell me what you think!

Mucho Love to you Patreons, you always make my day, I'm not alone--and either are you, and we will get through these times, by loving each other even more.

Lovingly, Lady-Nurse-Chef Charla (oooh, nude cooking in July, perfect!)