Solanaceae - Prologue, Chapter 4 -- Page 8
Added 2021-08-19 20:32:35 +0000 UTCIs it obvious yet this chapter is one big flashback chapter?
GUESS WHAT. I GET TO GO BACK TO THE DENTIST TODAY, WOW. It just never ends for me, huh? LOL. I'll post more about my work scheduale when I update the Secret Club, and maybe put up a longer post there as well.
Thanks for your support and patience everyone!
Comments
HAHA you're right on the money! If you read ahead on this chapter (it's all completed up on the Secret Club btw) he thinks/says some of these exact same things!!! It's very much a way to protect himself.
DCS
2021-08-19 21:07:29 +0000 UTCAs someone that has worked through being a people pleaser, this page really resonates with me. Even though there was a major factor of personal gain for Sal in the way he shifted personas to match people’s expectations, there’s also a safety to it. You predict what people will say, do, and want, and you react with the response you think they will accept most readily. It’s a way to feel in control and keep others at a distance by not showing who you really are. No chance for rejection if you don’t give them anything real to reject. Not sure if Sal is motivated by this as well, but I can see how it would be used to protect him, too.
YourDeerAuntSally (Pem)
2021-08-19 21:00:28 +0000 UTC
