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Kiss on the first date? [Poll + Monthly Community Post]

POLL TIME: Do you think a KISS on the first date is okay? Or would you say, a deeper connection has to be formed before that? Vote & Comment your thoughts down below!

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Song Recommendation of the Month:  I remember everything - by Zach Bryan & Musgraves
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Hello hello hello my dearest and sweetest Pengu, 🐧🐧🐧🩷🩷🐧🐧

How have you been? Have you been eating properly? Getting enough rest? Taking good care of yourself? I really hope you're doing all of that and feeling great. 💕 (Or do I need to swing by and make sure you’re on top of things? 😉)

September has come and gone, and now we're stepping into October. 10 out of 12 months—wild, right? Time might be speeding by, but remember, you can still move at your own pace. Progress is personal, and growth takes time. 😛 (so make sure, to not stress yourself out too much. you are doing great).

That aside - how was your September Month? Let's do a little recap and leave a comment about your highlights and what could have been better! 🗯️🗣️

My Highlight: Hah, actually funny, i didnt tell this anyone but...i went paragliding this month. For the very first time in my life. And let me tell you, life can be so sweet. It was so nice and refreshing... being up there in the sky. After all they do say, the sky is the limit hehe. 

What could have been better: September has been super hectic and busy for me....my recording schedule was messed up and things didnt go as planned. Hopefully in October itll be much better again!

This month I have several things planned - hoping I can accomplish them all. After all, i want to share only the best content with you all hehe!! And with that being said....
...If you have any wishes for this months content, then let me know <3!

Alsoooo....our community is so close to 50K. Perhaps we will reach it this month. Which is surreal. Thank you all for supporting me. Thank you. Love y'all.

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And, finally, as always, i prepared a little message for you to take into the new month. 💕

"As the leaves change and the air grows crisp, remember that transformation is part of nature's rhythm. Just like the trees shed their leaves to prepare for new growth, you too are allowed to let go of what no longer serves you. Embrace the beauty of change, trust the timing of your own journey, and let this month be a reminder that new beginnings are always possible. 🍂✨"

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Finally, if you are from the Curious Pengu Tier or higher, you can send me 3-5 lines per DM and I'll read them for you :)!

Much much love,
Daliah <3

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Comments

glad you agree.

Wreath35

Ahwwww thats so so sweet! Im glad it all workd out in the end then <3

Daliah Asmr

I agree!

Daliah Asmr

100%% I agree with you on that!!

Daliah Asmr

Thats totally reasonable!!

Daliah Asmr

Ohh I can see how that could be! If its someone I met for the first time, i dont think id want to kiss them on the first date - but if we are already familiar and theres a bond, then maybe. But thats my personal opinion

Daliah Asmr

I agree, a peck on the cheek is fine! -- i am very very glad you had a creative streak!! That sounds awesome!

Daliah Asmr

I agree with you on this - i mean, each their own. But I personally wouldnt want to kiss someone I dont have feelings for or feel connected to. I agree with you - it shouldnt loose its meaning

Daliah Asmr

Ahhhh....the good old days when I was dating there was always that wonder in the back of mind 'should i or shouldn't I?' I am a horrendous reader of signals, ask my wife, and so I was rarely the one to make the first move, as I at least wanted to appear gentlemanly. Now if she wanted to make that move I was all for it.

Spike

Depends on the situation. But think it's better to develop a deeper connection first.

Wreath35

nowadays the trend is to ask someone "can i kiss you" rather than going for an awkward kiss or expecting one and trying to take it i would say the chemistry and connection is really important! if the vibes feel right then i think it's all good to do it on the first date but otherwise i'd aim to learn more about the person first

phibi

I said it’s ok, but clarifying here it’s not required or expected. At least not from me. I would probably not initiate a kiss on first date, but if the other person did, I would be more likely to follow their lead.

Peter Davidson

I think you should kiss on the first date it kinda lets you know if there sparks or not I mean obviously you can feel the spark on the date or not but let’s say you feel chemistry on the date and when you kiss it lest you know is this like strong chemistry or is it like just a small connection that won’t go anywhere if that makes sense

Arch

I think a friendly kiss is ok, like a peck on the cheek, it'd be very dependant on how things went though. As for september, stressful at work but at least I had a bit of a creative streak so I commissioned a bunch of stuff that's now turning up (mix of sfw / nsfw art)

nd

I think that you shouldn’t kiss someone you don’t feel connected or close to. That being said, if you already knew the person before the date and already like them then I think that’s perfectly fine. I think it’s kinda weird to kiss someone you are just getting to know. Kisses are special things. They deepen bonds and display deep emotions; you are vulnerable when you kiss someone. You shouldn’t just throw something that special around.

bobbyfr7769


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