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slop, adhd & getting older | patreon ep. 13

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This is one of my favorite episodes I have watched so far. It really got me thinking about life and how much slop actually does exist and how I have also fallen victim to it. I can’t really describe the feeling I’m experiencing after watching this but thank you

Lexi

Hearing jack talk about adhd and getting diagnosed and the fears about getting diagnosed is making me more confident to try and get diagnosed because I’m pretty certain that I have it

Keira

I’m so glad Tommy mentioned Succession when he was talking about good quality entertainment still existing!

Madeleine Carson

I completely appreciate Tom’s optimism but I think his perspective is narrowed by the media he consumes himself. If you think about it on a much larger scale, ‘slop’ as Jack calls it is kind of just hyper consumerism. It extends to what we buy, the rise of things like Shein and Temu where you can buy crap products for less money, meaning you can have more, rather than having less but with each item having more value to you. I believe that consumerism genuinely is at an all time high in a way that has never happened in the past and it isn’t as simple as people will get some perspective because I think the masses are genuinely addicted to it. Sure TV shows and films still get massive viewerships but it’s still all instant gratification. When you have endless choices, you’re inevitably going to choose media that suits your own personal echo chamber, even when it comes to what you watch and what you read. This isn’t to say that everyone is caught up in it, but if you operate using the internet (including downloading films and books and using delivery services) you are going to be susceptible to the obsession with instant gratification.

Ellie

I wonder how the boys feel about the recent David lynch news :/

Kai

this is a really good episode

Otis

Shit’s getting profound

Ella Belec

Yeah 100% agree, its so weird being on meds because all the effort you put into school work starts paying off. I also notice that I get irritable when their wearing off, but knowing the reason why helps.

ArtE

Jack accurately described what its like having adhd, at least in my personal experience. For me however I was diagnosed very young, and started medication in 5th grade. There are some days where i forget to take the medication and its like losing my soul for the day, all productivity goes out the window.

ArtE

hey Jack, if you're wanting to watch more films, Warner Bros posted their film on Michael Collins for free on youtube. it's an amazing film about one of Ireland's greatest in our revolution. dont know if you'll see this, but you do PLEASE watch it. it's a great anti slop film imo

Evan

i just found out david lynch passed away literally 5 days ago (rest in peace) so uhm... sorry champs 😥

recoplayer

really liked hearing Jack talk about his fears with getting an ADHD evaluation and diagnosis, because that's almost exactly how i felt before every diagnosis i've ever gotten. pretty much every person i've talked to about getting any kind of diagnosis has very similar fears, too. it's reassuring every time tbh, that no one is uniquely alone in their fears. thanks for talking about it<3

Claire

type shiggles

Liv and Toby (goated)

I really do reckon its just bc the internet is a new medium, a new way of living. The invention of the printing press contained all sorts of social upheaval, it'll find its feet eventually

Weevil (evil)

History repeats itself first as tragedy, second as farce, and sometimes the world needs more farce despite the raw and true nature of tragedy

Danamon

god i remember how frequent those elsagate and elsagate like videos were coming out

Thomas Miles

I’m Tommyinnit dinner

Tommy innit diner

pls post the audios alone again i can’t set turn off timer on videos 😭🙏

Lauren Coffey

i told a friend earlier this year i didn’t know what i’d do if I didn’t end up getting diagnosed with adhd (i did) because i needed help. I had my first week of grad school finals last week and it was emotional cause i’ve never been ABLE to work so hard in school before. My personality’s still the same and though my meds don’t mean I’m doing assignments early, i’m able to do an assignment when I sit down to do it instead of just staring at it. My personality’s honestly better cause I’m not so drained all the time (although I do get annoyed easily when my meds are wearing off for the day) if it helps, it helps!

madmerlow

wait so tommy finally realized he has adhd

Brithwoods

For me a part of the reason the content slop feels so miserable is bc like tom said, a lot of the current viewers are children. I'm reminded of all the "spiderman x Elsa" vids from a few years ago, and now children are being raised on technology since pretty much day one. The slop and speed is ruining an entire generations dopamine receptors. I don't like the idea that small children (and teenagers) are going to spend their days watching 20 second long edited clips of TV shows with subway surfers gameplay while scrolling through the comments. Plus, while previous technological scares were usually either just a presentation change (records to DVDs), ai content entirely removes the creative and human aspects of art. I don't think AI will take over the world or anything, but I do think that current slop is particularly concerning from an artistic standpoint. (Obvs part of it is that parents need to stop giving their babies tablets and monitor what they watch, but those points can coexist)

croc odiel

I just watched bo burnhams interviews for eighth grade and i can tell you’ve seen them all

Jaiveer

Just watched now. Loved this episode so much. Such a nice change of pace especially from the NON patreon ep 13 with blood worms

JonKan

really good episode, loved the diagnosis bit! it helped me put my own into perspective and feel understood :)

Belamy

I like the episodes where you both just chat about more personal or deep thoughts, it’s always meaningful and just enjoyable to listen to :P

Valerie

I’m Tommyinnit dinner

Tommy innit diner

I will be departing with the Patreon to Go to the goofy people(not pledgers) farewell Patreon. Will be coming back in a few days.

The Kirby man guy thing

As someone who has had ADHD and has been on meds for practically my whole life, there’s nothing to fear Jack - whenever I take them, I don’t lose any of my personality (and I’m a very bubbly positive and energetic person) at all. It just kind of places a filter almost? I’m not sure exactly how to explain it, but I’m a very impulsive person - I do a lot of things when I get an impulse. Like for example, if I get hungry I will just want to eat anything and everything because it all just sounds good to me (to the point where it gets unhealthy sometimes). But on my meds, I can say “okay, I’m hungry, let’s see - do I like the idea of a burger? Nah, probably Chinese food instead” and it filters those thoughts down a bit. And it doesn’t just stop there - I’m a streamer and I used to worry the same thing of if I’d be boring on stream if I took my meds, or if I’d be too concentrated in tournaments or just lose my personality. But, once again, it wasn’t the case at all. If anything, it made my creative process easier, purely because I was able to think properly and get better jokes in, or better quality ideas for stream, etc. It doesn’t affect me at all. But also, this episode is very much so quite meaningful, and I’m fuckin 20 - the way you described slop and the way it is right now, I completely understood as soon as you started talking. I think people in general are seeing the way things are and are too afraid to try new things because of how much they depend on success. I think people on this platform especially (pretend we’re on yt) are waiting for something to tip over the ledge and start that new “wave” like you mentioned happens once every few years - like how we went from 2018 to 2020. That wave really feels like it should come within the next 2 years, and I don’t know why. It’s also meaningful because of how you described having adhd - I got it completely, as if someone was taking my experience with it and just putting it into words. The way I usually describe it is “my brain doesn’t have a focus onto it, it’s more like having 10 or however many of those dvd logos that bounce around in my brain, and every once in a while one thing hits the corner and that’s my motivation or thoughts. Having those dopamine things like tapping your leg sometimes rattle it so it happens faster, but sometimes it just doesn’t work. I’m writing this at 1am and when you mentioned that sort of experience of “being able to see the option but it’s greyed out” I was in adhd paralysis myself - I couldn’t get up, like my mind wanted to and I told myself “you need to get up” but just… couldn’t. Until you mentioned getting enough dopamine did I get up - so it’s a very real thing. Anyways, sorry for the long rant, good ass podcast episode, and I’m sure you lot won’t see this ever o7

Emily Cupcake

on the adhd medication topic; i'm a musician and i abstained from medication for a while after my diagnosis because i was scared of losing my personality or my sparkle as such, especially since so much of my education/job/interests relies on my charisma and personality i gave medication a go and i have never been more fulfilled and felt more productive in my entire life- i became a better person across the board in the way that i'm less impulsive and i get less discouraged by failure, and i'm able to do the smaller tasks within the 'big things' (if that makes any sense). i feel like theres a lot of negative sentiment towards meditation and whether or not they zombify people, but if anything im more confident and social, and a lot more comfortable in that sense. hope it all goes well, this shits hard

emily s

watched this mid niko b gig, may be missing out on making genuine memories but the shut up im talking grind doesn’t stop

digitalpupz

The is the perfect podcast to consume slop to

UltimateGoose 58

The stroke

UltimateGoose 58

I’m Tommyinnit dinner

Tommy innit diner

as someone who is in the process of diagnosis as well, everything jack said resonated with me as one of my biggest adhd struggles is the big tasks paralysis thingy too. my friends who r diagnosed and medicated say the normal pills dull down their personality, so they just tend to take them when they need to do work or a big task. Just want my damn normal pills so i can LOCK IN (watching this to avoid 2 evil essays. thanks guys!)

Ella

love the dancing in the dark reference

Nea

I totally agree he’s so unbelievably relatable when he discusses it!

Ginny

I’ve always thought Jack could be ADHD/ADD as someone that has it lol especially when you spoke about how you struggle with the time/ lateness, sensory things with food and avoiding tasks.

Ginny

congrats on the award tom❤️

Josh

i wanna talk to you mr manifold hearing you talk about adhd has been so great thank you

Josh

holy shit the amount of comfort i got from jack about my potiential adhd diagnosis is immense thank you so much for the podcast boys

Josh

oh god ive mever looked at the science for adhd but this all makes so much sense

Josh

for that "test" thing where you got 36 and stuff i have done so many of those and i get such high scores but im just worried its not right.

Josh

i have comfort in jack having the same thoughts as me. im on a waitlist for an adhd diagnosis and i have the same thoughts and feelings about big tasks and i think about the pills so much as i know they'd be SO helpful. i also get so worried that i wont get diagnosed and im just not good at life or something? its all evry scary and i just want to know if i am

Josh

i agree with all the slop talk apart from the curry

Josh

what a great ep! i really enjoyed it, i have a lot of the same existential thoughts when it comes to how culture will continue to evolve.

grace

I appreciate the slop rant Jack. It’s something that’s been on my mind for a while as well. I paused this episode to go get some lunch and on my way I saw a 2 or 3 year old almost walk straight into a fella cause he was glued to an iPhone. Not only is adults who are susceptible but kids are being raised to consume it too

Nathan Little

was really nice to listen to Jack explain adhd. I don't know why- but i've just never heard someone explain my exact experience word for word

Nike

This episode is making me think I need to go and get an ADHD diagnosis

Tess

I’m Tommyinnit dinner

Tommy innit diner

I was gonna make a comment about how this podcast has been a good thing to spend my downtime on whenever I need *something* to keep myself occupied with, rather than watch whatever quickform content I get my hands on - to add on to my whole ramble.

siofrain

Nothing beats a Patreon episode and a couple Luna Rue comments to read along with it, all is well with the balance of the universe. Also, this year, I've consumed a lot of slop content and I find it helpful when I open my browser to look at my tabs and determine "do I care about this? Is this worth watching?" and going immediately off my gut feelings. It cuts off a lot of excess stuff I've clicked on the day prior (or throughout the day) and keeps my tabs clean. This is also to call myself out for having way too many tabs open on my browser... overall, I hope everyone down here in the comments is taking care of their wellbeing and evaluating the things we spend our valuable time with. Thanks for the episode!

siofrain

bruce springsteen being quoted every single moment by tom is the funniest shit hes actually just like me with bruce + fontaines dc TOM LISTEN TO A HEROS DEATH BY FONTAINES DC YOU WILL LOVE IT

Toby S

came over from 15 minutes into the spotify episode to comment thag my snapchat private story name has been innitenterprise for two and a half years and it will never change

Truu Love

Relate way to much to Jack right now, considering getting myself tested for ADHD now

Omar Hajimatov

ive been thinking about this episode all day 🙏🙏🙏

Florence Lee

honestly i’ve never had such an epiphany listening to jack talk about his struggles (even though im going through the process of getting diagnosed) and it definitely made me feel better that i probably do have it and the voices are wrong 😭😭😭

belle

This made me realise that much like Jack, I too am susceptible to the slop. Hearing Jack's perspective, I agree completely that the internet especially has become so void of substance and it's really a bit miserable to think about sometimes. But hearing Tom's thoughts was really meaningful - I'd like to think that one day I can also stop perceiving everything as slop, and find meaning in more of what I do. This is still the best fiver I've spent in a long time - thanks for the episode, and for showing us substance and creativity in a time where many of us struggle to find it for ourselves <3

Amy Spencer

Sadly I don't have the time to take my time. Because I am busy with work 9 hours a day, need to do chores and eat as fast as possible to at least have some free time left . The reason the world is slop is because we do not have the time to go slow.

William

i think this episode has made me seriously realize and start considering i might have adhd

etherlyy

Tom if you want to make art people remember... I think u are doing really well. You were there when I chose my career path, you got me thru COVID, helped me thru my finals... When I got diagnosed with ADHD, when I got my first job.. all thru making me laugh and comforted. I remember promising myself to get my own place when I was watching you. The same way people promise the ocean or The moon... I guess you are my ocean... Am about to get my own place and you are still here... It's been an honour growing up next to you ❤️❤️❤️💯

Luna Rue

I kind of get what you mean but it sounds like your saying trying to enact positive changes in society is a bad thing we should try and change having a positive outlook is good too but we’re part of the world not just our own brains and why are you turning it into a weird essentialist gender thing 😭😭 I get that white men probably aren’t reminded of social injustices as constantly as someone who is more affected by them but it sounds like you’re saying oh men think like this and women think like this and this is bad and this is good which is kind of a strange thing to say. I really hope this didn’t come across as rude or passive aggressive I just don’t really agree sorry 😭😭

Abanpii

Jack you really cute 🙂 your personality is. Also I have Ur kind of ADHD... I get it. It gets better.

Luna Rue

Don’t usually comment but just wanted to say how nice it is to hear jack talk about his adhd. He doesn’t even have an official diagnosis yet and he explains the symptoms better than I can even though I’ve had my own for a couple years now haha. Helps actually put it into words.

Simon Toast

Any1 else realise they have every symptom jack listed to the letter?

william Rogers

I think that it is the tendency of a lot of people, especially white men, to identify a problem and instantly try to solve that problem on a global, societal scale, probably because every time a problem gets solved for them it is at least partially due to their “solved” status in society, but either way—Jack. Perhaps the slop you’re trudging through is actually part of the simulation. Perhaps your mind is melting and perceiving slop where there shouldn’t be because you have brain cancer. Perhaps a million other things, ultimately the point is that the world is just as “sloppy” as you, yourself, perceive it to be. Because that’s the only thing you can really rely on to be true, and it’s the only thing that can ever define reality. So just like how Tom doesn’t see any slop whatsoever, you, too, can one day live in a world where the slop is cured because it does not exist because you choose not to believe that it exists. Men think that the way to solve a problem in life is to create a plan and enact it on a global scale. Anything to avoid doing the work of looking inward and allowing yourself to be at peace with your reality, and allowing your focus to change. 🤍

Lorien

adhd talk same day i get my adderall refilled AWESOME

Nathan Huchton

No way did Tommy say he doesn’t have adhd after info dumping last episode AND dead on explain a hyper fixation

APOLLO !!

major YAP sesh this week (and I loved it)

embyveddii

Same mate

Jaiveer

jack talking about adhd really ran true to me i spent many an hour over sixthform sat at my laptop feeling physically unable to to work and wondering what was wrong with me and in the process of getting an autism diagnosis wondering if i was faking it and then panicing that they would tell me its not autism

Ethan Jones

‘everything is slop’ really insightful

jess

actually really appreciated the more introspective tone of the episode - the general downturn of the internet has been something weighing on my mind a lot so it's comforting to hear you guys (jack especially) talk so candidly about it, particularly given how, as content creators, you're both very much at the epicentre of it. also appreciated jack's vulnerability in talking about his adhd symptoms - really made me feel seen as someone who is also going through the diagnosis process, haha

Madeline McGinnis

amazing episode! i had the same thoughts of ‘my personality will change, i won’t be as funny’ when i got my first adhd medication prescription. for me it was a learning curve, once i got used to being able to focus i would compare the difference when i would take it and not. then i naturally started to keep up my humour around friends and kind of relearn how a neurotypical person battles working and being socially like yourself. obviously when i dont take the meds i feel MORE out of control and all over the place but you will find the right meds will mellow your brain out and actually be able to function as a working adult. thanks again for this amazing podcast guys!

Isabelle Pallister

If it's any help at all, the way I'd describe my personal experience with adhd meds is normally my brain is like a chrome window with 20+ tabs, always switching between them and distracted by how much is going on, but when I take my meds I just open a new window. All of the tabs are still there in the background, but I can focus on one at a time.

charles 🐛🫧

you guys are seriously the best this podcast makes my day

Jessica Hill

great way to start my monday morning aha

Casey

Thanks for opening up jack. If this provides any comfort, i feel more like myself than ever when i pop my pill. Best of luck to you!

Gabriel Butenhof

It’s important that when we see someone doing something creative and unique that’s not slop we give it attention

Evan Inc

W SUNDAY BOISSSS(and Girls lol)

The Kirby man guy thing

great episode! i loved hearing jack talk about adhd. i didn’t get diagnosed until i was 17 and finally getting an explanation for why my brain wasn’t functioning the same as everyone else’s was such a relief, amongst other feelings. i also have the worry sometimes that i’m not the same person on meds, so i completely understand that. but my experience was emotional too, so it’s comforting seeing someone else have that moment

Emily

This was a really awesome and introspective episode fellas. As someone quite interested in this wave of mindless slop we've been receiving online recently, it's great to hear you discuss it so honestly. Got to be one of my favorite episodes!

Cryptid

loved this but i'd rather have some lighthearted stuff to watch during my downtimes so looking forward to next week

jamiestonks

wow, this was an amazing episode, i really enjoyed how in depth you guys went on the slop, i think it definitely gave everyone who watched it more happiness and hope for the world :)

aidan

My boss won't give me a break and I blame you guys. Happy sunday!

Lunar

loved the episode! also congrats tommy on winning your Sarcoma award :)

Lauren

The patron episode is wayyyy better than the main channel this week!

Sander Wong

genuinely great episode, had some really interesting insights into art and the internet culture as a whole which just made me feel a bit less shit about it all

Finley

One of the best episodes on the patreon I say. This is why I pay $10 CAD. Going to watch Up now.

Alison

just heard from the youtube this’ll be a lighthearted patreon episode, im sure it wont give me mass insight and reflection at all! (ALSO CONGRATS ON THE SARCOMA AWARD TOM)

deanko

This should be good

Avery Clancy

slop? like pyrocynical?

bella gamblefold

HAPPY SUNDAY LES GOOO

Olivia Pittman

yesss!!🤞

Florence Lee

let’s gooo another week from the boys

Josh


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