Being together is no longer enough.
This world has gotta so fast. It’s gotta loud. It’s gotten distracting. So being together is not the the same thing as being present with each other.
We often see couples sitting at a restaurant on their phones or just eating in silence and often think how sad that is.
Sad that there is so much that pulls at our attention to the point that the person that matters most is often put behind the things that dont matter almost at all. Even if it’s unintentional.
So we have to make the effort to train our minds to make sure that we are present with the one we love, and not just together.
This is where things like taking a bath together, car rides with the phones off, naked cuddling, ETC are incredibly healthy for your relationship.
And maybe even the vital difference.
Josiah Walehwa
2023-06-27 23:33:47 +0000 UTCNudelou
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