Making Love = Making A Promise?
Added 2023-06-22 20:43:02 +0000 UTCI remember when we were taught that having sex with someone is the equivalent to a promise. In fact, I remember even more restraint with promise rings. The promise to keep yourself for marriage.
Obviously, that culture is now long gone. But what if we still kept some of its energy?
What if before we had sex with someone, we had the mindset of committing to that person. To their happiness. To their fulfillment. To find a way to spend your life in the pursuit of loving that person.
Would the sex become better? Would it be more fulfilling? Would the connection be longer lasting?
Or should we stick with sex for fun and leave the past in the past?
Comments
Aw thank you! The part about sleeping next to your partner with vulnerability makes me so happy to read because someone understands it. Those moments are absolutely priceless. Thank you for the comment! π
Josiah Walehwa
2023-06-27 23:35:51 +0000 UTCSex with someone that you commit to and they commit to you helps in fully bonding! What better way to enjoy marriage and trust than to be comfortable sleeping beside your spouse with complete vulnerability? I absolutely love yβallβs marriage, thoughts, and every post/picture/video!ππππ
Nudelou
2023-06-22 20:51:46 +0000 UTC
