Special Announcement - Please Read
Added 2017-11-23 20:24:05 +0000 UTCThis is going to be a long post.
Most of you probably know about Patreon getting stricter about their community guidelines. This resulted in a temporary suspension of my Patreon page last month. They asked me to remove various words/keywords regarding incest.
I thought everything was fine, but I received another message from Patreon. They said my game is not in line with the community guidelines because of its incest content.
They said I need to change some parts of the game. I'm among the first creators to get a message like this from Patreon, but certainly not the last.
Now I didn't want to just leave it at that. I thought I could try to reason with them or somehow avoid this situation. I told them my game is fiction, it's not real. They said it doesn't matter.
I brought up Game of Thrones, since that has incest and it's on TV and is not banned on Patreon either.
They said the problem is the fetishization of incest. So that instantly kills this discussion about adult games. (step relations are out of the question too)
So this forces me to either change some of the game or stop production entirely.
The deadline is the last day of November.
So in order to be able to continue working on Dreams of Desire, and be able to finish what I have started with it, I'm changing a few things about the game.
The list of changes are the following:
- Adding an intro scene, where it is explained that the characters are not related.
- Changing the dialogue lines where the characters call each other by their family names, or say things that might imply this.
And that's it.
The visual content of the game won't change and I won't cut any scenes either.
However, giving such a short amount of time to change this is... well. Let's just say I don't really find it fair, especially when it's release time.
That means, and I REALLY hate to do this again, I have to delay the game a few days.
However, it will be out this month, no matter what. This means I probably won't sleep too much for the rest of the month, but there will be a release. The 29th evening, but 30th morning at the latest (EU time), for both the Elite and the General release.
Now this hits the Elite tier the hardest again, and I'm terribly sorry for that. I promise you guys, I will make it up to you.
Now I understand some of you might be angry/upset about this. Believe me, it saddens me more than anyone. However, there are plans in the pipeline that will help the situation. That's all I can say for now.
I don't want to lash out against Patreon, or hate on them. Afterall, this platform helped Dreams of Desire tremendously in the past months, and even though there are mistakes and inconsistencies in their actions regarding this topic, I'm sure they are trying their best.
All I can do is to try my best as well. If I somehow finish earlier than the 29th, I'll of course release the game as soon as possible.
I hope this post helped understand the things that are happening and why they are happening.
Comments
please give us the option then of being able to call the characters the name of our choice, its distracting taklin to landlady and thinking...ohh...ok...this is bs takin me right out of it
TheGonza
2017-12-01 06:54:48 +0000 UTCI wonder if you can add a option where you can name some people. Like Alice: Relation: Roommate
Bigred411
2017-11-30 07:06:53 +0000 UTC<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Philosophy-Boudoir-Immoral-Mentors-Classics/dp/0143039016/" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">https://www.amazon.com/Philosophy-Boudoir-Immoral-Mentors-Classics/dp/0143039016/</a> In this book you can find everything Patreon choosed to ban, but you can buy it freely from Amazon or in bookstores everywhere. Why? Because it's just a book, a form of art, and doesn't harm anyone. Patreon is going to regret this choice.
2017-11-28 22:13:01 +0000 UTCfuck man thats heavy. where are we safe ? fuck!!!
TurkVanGogh Gamez
2017-11-28 18:00:00 +0000 UTCGame of Thrones on Patreon? What is meant by that?
EthanEverhart
2017-11-27 19:32:28 +0000 UTCcould you move your content for there
2017-11-27 07:05:50 +0000 UTClet's go to hatreon. is as patreon but without censorship
2017-11-27 07:00:09 +0000 UTCI agree with you completely, except the controlling game content still bothers me. They don't own the content, this is specifically said in the breakdown of their site. So they should not have access to the in game content without creator permission. This feels like they are forcing access to content that is not theirs to access. Like, give us access to your content or we will shut your page down, which is coercion. Admittedly, I am not a creator, so I don't know all the ins and outs when making something on this site, but it just feels like a violation of the creators intellectual property. On another note, the thing that was irking me, was some people saying it was a minor change. To myself, and I assume alot of people, it was not. Finally, my pledges are based on what I can afford to give. I do have confidence the creators of this type of content will come up with something. Because if they did not want to have this content, why even make a game with it in the first place? Anyways, that's just my two cents.
Badger66
2017-11-26 22:20:59 +0000 UTCSpeaking only for myself, I will say this in the simplest of terms. This is Patreon's sandbox. If we want to 'play' in it, we have to follow their rules. If we don't like their rules, then we just don't play in it. That being said, I support multiple developers that create similar content. As such, my support for these developers will not decrease because they are being forced to make the changes...my support for those developers has only INCREASED because they are trying to do what they can to keep their creations alive. To those of us who support them, let's be patient. They are creative, and as such...they will find creative solutions to any issues or problems that arise. HAVE FAITH N THEM! Keep up the great works of Art and Fantasy/Fiction!!
2017-11-26 12:31:09 +0000 UTCYeah the people who keep saying the inc**t is a minor change, for alot of us it is a major change. The story is wonderful, but without those relationship dynamics, it doesn't have the same impact and completely changes the appeal and tone of the game.
Badger66
2017-11-26 03:04:52 +0000 UTCSin, Create your own website, where you will be able to upload the original version of the game, with incest content
2017-11-25 21:46:54 +0000 UTCDo what you have to do fam id rather you continue with your work and make some minor changes than stop the production of an amazing game. keep up the good work, ill still support you till the end (even if its just dollar lol)
2017-11-25 18:02:46 +0000 UTCI'm so sorry you're having to go through this for your game - its silly and no point going on the rant on historical precedents... I'm guessing they won't let you sneak in any links to uncensored versions of the game.. I've been wanting to make a game myself (by which I mean I keep working on it and running out of time) and had thought of how I might deal with censorship... Have you considered following the standard game industry model? Release the censored limited game, but then allow mods to exist that are not distributed or discussed by the parent game? ie how LoversLab has mods for Sims, TFGames for Crusader Kings, etc. You're not responsible for a file existing in sync with your game that can be copy-pasted over another file.... Just a thought.
HypnoKitten
2017-11-25 06:31:04 +0000 UTCI personally think that they are being a bunch of assholes about the whole incest thing when it is almost everywhere, but since there is nothing you can do DON'T WORRY about it. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!!!! ; )
AJ_Dragon
2017-11-24 22:22:19 +0000 UTCWouldn't the solution to that be to link to a twitter or facebook or discord account which has nothing to do with banned content, and have the link there to your game?
Bruce Vahl
2017-11-24 19:41:17 +0000 UTCNot your fault about this change with very little time. Thanks for the update, my support hasn't and won't change.
JR
2017-11-24 19:28:02 +0000 UTCWow...... fuck Them. I dont know how you Will manage it, alot if people here for incest game
zolkane
2017-11-24 18:12:13 +0000 UTCWhat ever you decide or where ever you go I'm sure we will follow. I know i will. Keep fighting. Don't give up on your dream.
2017-11-24 16:41:29 +0000 UTCHey guys! Thank you for your comments! So using another website for the game and putting it there while using patreon as funding doesn't work. Patreon specified you can't link/fund any website that has content not fitting their guidelines. I'm asking all of you, please, be a little bit more patient. A few days.
Lewdlab
2017-11-24 16:16:13 +0000 UTC¿Would not be possible to create a parallel website were you write your updates and how the game developing is going, and just use patreon as a platform to get funded?
hypnouser
2017-11-24 15:57:46 +0000 UTCYou could ask the player at the beginning how he wants to play it, whether he wants to play as son or stepson! That should work to.
Ibuflam
2017-11-24 14:22:47 +0000 UTCCan't say this wasn't expected to be honest. i would have thought this specific call out would have occurred earlier. Nonetheless, you have our support with the decisions that are best from your perspective. Its a bad deal no doubt, but do what you gotta do Sin. Cheers
2017-11-24 13:07:26 +0000 UTCTake the time you need to finish it, don't rush anything. Patreon aren't very nice when they give you less than a weeks notice to change stuff so the delay is understandable. It's worth waiting for! Keep up the good work, you got a lot of support out here!
Titlover
2017-11-24 12:31:55 +0000 UTCStart your own website to post whatever you want to create and, if possible, leave the patreon page up for fans to support your work. But with limited posts (like the wallpapers you've made) since the patreon higher-ups get butthurt over taboos.
DoctorDeath
2017-11-24 12:28:20 +0000 UTCRealy sad to hear that was really hopping that this would have been resolved with the last time they contacted you, but isnt there a way to g0 ar0UnD this problem.
Neuffexx
2017-11-24 12:16:46 +0000 UTCbut where will you be able to find such a platform like Patreon that makes it very easy for both the developer and the users to pay and share the game without messing it up. The great thing about Patreon is that he uploads what he creates and you pay, both parties (the developer or the user) do much more Patreon does the rest by itself !
Neuffexx
2017-11-24 12:14:31 +0000 UTCi'm a fan from Russia (i'm creative person too, love making things for my pleasure) and! no way! no deal! you have to create what you want! make games as before - in another place
Granata
2017-11-24 11:39:37 +0000 UTCtime to boycott patreon
SpaceMan
2017-11-24 10:18:43 +0000 UTCHi,Dr.SIN I'm a player from the east. My English is not very good. I haven't commented on it yet, but I still want to say something about it when I see the communication. Because of the attraction of the plot and the characters, i'm willing to spend 40 dollars a month supporting you, and if you change the plot and character relationship, it's going to be another game. I also agree with the point of view, set up two dialogue texts, one on patreon, another can create a website independently to provide download links, such as y3df, for different players to choose, I am still willing to support you on patreon
2017-11-24 07:20:53 +0000 UTCMaybe add an option to change in-game text with text from a file and host the text file elsewhere. That way there is a non-incest version on patreon and everyone can still play the proper version.
Dinges
2017-11-24 05:31:23 +0000 UTCMaybe you can try to add a 'step-' option.
Craxuan
2017-11-24 04:56:02 +0000 UTCI'm pretty sure you'll be getting a unanimous "Make minor changes" from your supporters on this one.
2017-11-24 03:46:13 +0000 UTCThey are going to lose out on a chunk of their revenue base.
Badger66
2017-11-24 03:25:57 +0000 UTCSo they actually have access to your game. That to me does not feel right. They don't own the game, you do. I get controlling content on the page because they own the page, but the game content itself they should have no say. I do appreciate your level headedness regarding this matter, but I would also fight them on it. You have creative control of your game, not them. They are very much overstepping their bounds. Such bullshit.
Badger66
2017-11-24 03:22:36 +0000 UTCYour calm and measured response is appreciated, Lewdlab, as is your being upfront in communications with your supporters. I can empathize with the frustrations for you as a creator as the bureaucratic oversights could certainly be handled better but I get that, at the end of the day, this is Patreon's house and thus their rules as well. Anyone who thinks that Patreon itself isn't coming under scrutiny, having to answer to their own masters is fooling themselves and I don't believe it's worth the risk to attempt disingenuous circumvention. You do exceptional work and I remain invested in your future, whether here or elsewhere. I wish you luck in keeping intact as much of your artistic enterprise as you can manage.
2017-11-24 03:05:00 +0000 UTCYOU JUST NEED TO CREATE 2 Version of the game!!!!! 1 for patreon and incest free and the real one in another place like F95 or something.
zolkane
2017-11-24 00:15:11 +0000 UTCAgreed simply allowing the users to modify the names and relationships of the characters as they choose while including a default that meets all of Patreon's limitations would probably be the best compromise. Of course I don't know how much additional work that type of change would force on top of what you already have to do/plan to do.
2017-11-23 23:42:19 +0000 UTCthe reason why they put so much restrictions is because they dont need adult fictionals games and bet by the next year the adult games that are in patreon wont last because they would put more restrictions and make it hard on them but this is good because its on opportunity to find some other place where FICTIONAL GAMES ARE OK and dont have that much restrictions . PATREON RIGHT NOW DONT HAVE A COMPETITOR THAT COULD BE BY FAR THE BEST OPP FOR NEW COMMUNITIS TO CREATE A PLACE WHERE ADULT FICTIONAL S GAMES are welcome . remember anime didn't have community now they are the biggest community in the internet
ANIMEKING
2017-11-23 23:24:25 +0000 UTCahem* a similar problem happened on another game, *cough cough* mapping.xml should sort everything out ;) or there's a few other ways :P
lostraven
2017-11-23 23:24:05 +0000 UTCDo you need money for the game? In the first place how did you do with the first demo? I ask big but do you think you can continue finishing the game without the patreon?
zolkane
2017-11-23 23:15:26 +0000 UTChey why dont we find a better options like find some other place rather then patreon because i notice that now they are big they are trying to get rind of adult content . the weird thing is GAME OF THRONES and LOLITA IS OK wtf is wrong with them . Lolita is by no means mess up and games of thrones has almost everything that they are against them. i try to find some other place where people can create games freely with less restrictions remember GAMES are fictional NOT REAL last year they didnt have that much restrictions now they becoming a place where they dont need the community where i think was the first that help them be where they are now . shameful
ANIMEKING
2017-11-23 23:12:36 +0000 UTCThat sucks hope u can get this fixed soon
steve_stifler21
2017-11-23 23:07:57 +0000 UTCDo what you feel is best sir. Patreon seem to be very hypocritical to me
Cloud Strife
2017-11-23 22:57:25 +0000 UTCMight I suggest your own site? Most of us will happily pledge there :)
lostraven
2017-11-23 22:56:43 +0000 UTCI understand the frustrations, I understand you have problems with Patreon. I can't tell you what to do. I can only say,, I think it is worth to wait a little while. Thank you for your kind words, it means a lot to me:)
Lewdlab
2017-11-23 22:51:58 +0000 UTCHonestly, you should not defend Patreon. Now that they are big enough not to need the special adult sections, they want to cut it off. They could not do this earlier because guys like you were making alot, but now that they dont need you, the real Patreon comes out, and tries to clean themselves by removing "the dirt". When honestly, themselves are the dirty ones. Just lucky them there isn't really any other site with the same service yet,so you get the choice of bending over or walk away from everything.
2017-11-23 22:22:11 +0000 UTCHe mentioned it in his post, step is out too.
BreakerB
2017-11-23 22:12:02 +0000 UTCI wonder if it would be possible to place the family names in a text file, a text file that could be edited locally by whoever downloads the build...
StarGeezer
2017-11-23 22:04:47 +0000 UTCHonestly speaking i think that whole situation with this regulations is some huge bullshit, you were right with GoT and many viewers knows that incest exist in movie as well, but its okay, although when it appear in game, created by a small guy, instead of a company, then hell is the only place you belong in their opinion...people can name it power of money, but for me personally its just a bullshit, even tho you change names/dialogs your patreons will always knew the truth...i sense The Order trying to destroy legacy of Dream of Desire :D
2017-11-23 21:52:56 +0000 UTCI've had enough of Patreon enforcing their moral code onto their customers. Although I hate to punish the talented creators I refuse to keep giving Patreon my money. This is going to be my last month of supporting. Sorry.
Tim The Enchanter
2017-11-23 21:25:49 +0000 UTCI understand, and thank you. I will have more to announce around time after the release. Stay tuned guys.
Lewdlab
2017-11-23 21:16:14 +0000 UTCIt is a disgrace the way they are acting, perhaps if they used their brains and maybe had a section which clearly stated Adult section of Patreon or whatever. I would say the idea of setting up another website purely for such games etc is a must at this stage, like others i simply do not wish to support patreon in anyway but i do and will continue to support you but do please try and find a way not to change the game in the long run.
2017-11-23 21:05:28 +0000 UTCRed seriously? This stuff is not allowed here anymore and somebody would inplement a code to bypass this? ... I am sure there will be a solution for the "problem" ... i love the story as it is and i am here from EP 1 starting ... but this is not the end of anything and i am happy that there is a solution at all :-)
OZ
2017-11-23 21:04:49 +0000 UTCThanks, do your best, don't stress. Keep up the very imaginative dialogue and spectacular art-work. Aunt sorry anti-Aunt, is still my favorite person to date.
Nimrodlepord
2017-11-23 21:03:33 +0000 UTCYeah, this happened to another creator who did the same thing you are. Unfortunately I had to stop supporting him because he did a hardline cut and changed the characters relations completely, which isn't what I signed up for. As I had suggested to him, and I will suggest to you, would you perhaps think of including a code for $10 and higher supporters to alter the story back. Don't make it obvious what happens if you enter the code, simply label it "bonus content" and have it unlock the option to change the story to "as it was intended." If you'd humor the idea, I'd stick around, if not, I'd probably bow out.
Joseph
2017-11-23 21:01:55 +0000 UTCWhat about step family is that till a no?
2017-11-23 21:00:50 +0000 UTCSuch a shame. I know it's not your fault, but changes like these really kill the mood of the game. I'll still support you but not patreon. This is not right.
2017-11-23 20:58:48 +0000 UTCAll US based crowfunding platforms have the same limitations.
Lewdlab
2017-11-23 20:52:04 +0000 UTCFor me its a no no... As someone said it before, it change the purpose of the game and I dont like the idea, I will stop my support for patreon, not for you and pls find some other plataform, I will follow you.
VINCENT NAVARRO
2017-11-23 20:51:41 +0000 UTCThanks for the info. It won't change my commitment to you; neither do I mind of any delays in any way. What I do start to mind however is financing Patreon as a byproduct to commiting my support to you and a few selected other developers. I've reached a point after all the controversity lately where I'd prefer to contribute to people like you directly, instead of supporting a platform that has proven to be unsupportive (their customers not being able to contact a representative), unfair and selective (like that some people got hammered and some not), and so on. Should there come up any alternative in how people like me could support people like you, I for once would go there.
Ancient Nerd
2017-11-23 20:51:25 +0000 UTCI understand your frustration, I have it too. However... I mention it in the post. There are plans in the pipeline that will help the situation. That's really all I can say for the time being.
Lewdlab
2017-11-23 20:51:09 +0000 UTCThank you Sipps35!
Lewdlab
2017-11-23 20:48:04 +0000 UTCThank you OZ
Lewdlab
2017-11-23 20:47:22 +0000 UTCThank you for explaining Sin. Patreon never ceases to amaze me in their stupidity and hypocrisy on matters like this.
Mastro91
2017-11-23 20:45:03 +0000 UTCI agree with @Tony nothing you can do mate just keep up the great work and I'm sure the vast majority of us will continue to support you under difficult circumstances
Juddy
2017-11-23 20:44:14 +0000 UTCTotally understand, really out of order that patreon are doing this but us fans all know how the game really is so I for 1 will just ignore the changes. Keep up the amazing work.
Tony
2017-11-23 20:43:03 +0000 UTCMaybe make a patch that makers dialogues proper again and PM it to all the patrons for each new release? These changes kinda kill the mood to be honest.
Jougen
2017-11-23 20:39:05 +0000 UTCPerhaps consider switching to another crowdfunding service (itch.to)?
2017-11-23 20:38:44 +0000 UTCYou guys are ok with this? The whole game is changing. It's not just names... the whole story will be gone. I love the game the way it is and I'm sorry to say but I might have to drop my elite status due to this, not to boycott you but to get away from patreon. If you go somewhere else where you can make YOUR game the way YOU want it I will follow you there. But this is B.S.
Italian Stallion
2017-11-23 20:37:50 +0000 UTCThanks for letting us know the state of affair with Patreon. No worries on delays, do your thing. Patreon has problems, and they lost my support a while ago. I’m sure most of us will follow you no matter the platform. Good luck!
2017-11-23 20:28:40 +0000 UTCThx for explaining SIN :-) cant speak for all of us Patreons who are pledging the game but, for my part i have absolutely no problem with the delay :-) thx again for your honest words :-)
OZ
2017-11-23 20:27:24 +0000 UTC