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Storytime - Guy Friend Drama

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Stop having male friends they not your friends they always have agendas sis it doesn’t work, stick to women please 😂

Ramadan Mohamed

This is why you should not be friends with women, it’s a waste of time, that’s good that you broke his heart. fresh and fit advises men to not be friends with women and be socially aware that the girl doesn’t like you. I’m glad you broke it off now he’s gonna learn his lesson and be more socially aware

Ramadan Mohamed

Dee you are WILD 😭😭

Chino5150

well.. after watching all stars, the athleticism of the challenge is long gone lmao.

Hugo Mourão

i’m late bc I just got my membership back and decided to watch this. my opinion doesn’t matter but I did have some thoughts when I watched. first reaction I know you said he was skinny back then so you can probably take him but i’m glad you had your talk in public bc I feel men can be crazy when they’re rejected and if you said everything like you explained in the video, I can see a crazy person getting violent bc of it 😭. i’ve seen so many news stories about men attacking women when rejected especially when their pride is hurt so i’m happy you’re safe I will say tho him liking your profile on a dating app showed he was still interested and was trying to see if there was any chance you’d change your mind. you accepting it told him you wasn’t /completely/ against getting together (not saying this is true just what he would see it as). he probably got excited then you turned around and crushed his hopes AGAIN lol

Charmaine

11:24 naaaaaaaaaah lmao ahhhhhh😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭Dee nooooo😭😭😭

TJ 3

4:25 naaah bro need to jus get a therapist lol

TJ 3

I live for these story times lmao 😂

Aaron Boone

this story telling is amazing 😂 especially when high

MarAdonis

Hopefully he doesn't have that problem next time lol

Dee Shanell

Lmaoo I am not that athletic 😂

Dee Shanell

I need Dee on reality tv… I lowkey think she can win the challenge😭😭😭

Foster Nyekan

Honestly Dee it seems like he was friendzoned and didn’t know how to get out of it 💀

neotechblink x

I want dee and Jamari to collaborate. She always be saying he cute he need to slide in them dms.

Jaden J

The ghetto smh

Dee Shanell

19:17 I understand you position but he’s not in your mind so yea you did say that you weren’t attracted to him but is it possible (not you just for a person in the world) for someone to say that and not mean it. Again the dating app is conflicting evidence and both you of you could match for different reasons but it’s still a dating app at the end of the day

Kai Tann

I believe this dudes downfall is that he couldn’t properly navigate his own feelings towards you so he tried to project his feelings on to you. It’s not your responsibility to reciprocate those feelings but he may have had a better response had he directly state them to you

Kai Tann

She's fought people before. Dee's mentioned it in throwaway comments on her main channel.

Azu Eleonu

Bro got his heart/ego broken and now he went red pill. Story of a lot of dudes lives. Kinda sad and cringe if you ask me. We all go through it. Just accept it, grow and move on. damn

SHADOW

Sometimes I wonder if Dee knows how to fight or if she ever threw some hands before hahaha

ABDOUL KADER SIMPARA

"Match me to talk or get your soul taken?" oh gosh 😶 it was also tacky for him to feed into the bs 🙄

Ohemaa MaMokowa

I was just like…what am I supposed to do with this info? 😆 🤦🏿‍♂️

Devron Love

i guess it's only weird if boundaries aren't set in place. if that is really your friend. and he knows that. and respects that, then i don't see why it would be weird. but like you said if the significant others felt a way then it should be something to address before those trips happen just so everybody knows the vibes.

Adrian Q

The way you said you weren’t attracted to him to his face, I know bro’s soul left his body 😭 but he was doing way too much, I think guys need to realize that you can’t change a girl’s mind after she expressed she wasn’t interested. One of my friends would do the same thing where a girl would “little bro” him and he would still try to go after her, and I would tell him bro leave her alone lol

Shan Khan

Oh he's crazy crazy 🤣🤣🤣. My guy was punching above his weight, delusional AF.

WeAre TechZA

Bruh wtf, how your friend gon come to you and say ”my girlfriend is in love with you”, what kinda shit is that? Society needs to bring back secrets

Ryan Haile

It just hit me, in real time. This must be what girls refer to when they say “boy math” and how it’s not adding up 😂 🤦🏿‍♂️

Devron Love

No bc 11:28 Had me SCREAMINGGG🤣🤣 Now why would you say that to that boy 🤣

Ken

I don’t think all he wanted from you was just sex, I mean, sure maybe. But if that was the case, I feel like he would’ve made a move faster. Because he didn’t make a move faster it shows that he wanted to either be friends with benefits or a relationship with you. Meaning that he saw substance within you beyond looks. That’s why he moved the way he moved at first, because he didn’t want to risk sabotaging the friendship with you or risk having his dreams crushed. The reason why he was so blunt via the dating app is because your power over him drastically decreased due to time passage. So you rejecting him would sting a little less. He had hope and no hope at the same time, prompting him to just say fuck it and not care about the consequences. Which explains why he sent that cornball message to you on Hinge. It was a form of him taking his power back lmfao. I wonder how you feel about that. You have some options, you can let it decrease the awkwardness the next time you see him because you now understand that was him taking power back while simultaneously trying to hurt you the way you hurt him. OR you can continue to view it from the awkward standpoint. Which is fair because he was rude. Hmm.. 🤔 What’s this one year event?? Just go with your boyfriend so he gets jealous. You get to hurt him by just living your normal life. At this point this is all power play low-key.

Koda James

“Bootycall hours” we’d have to fight bc you’re not about to lie on me 😭

Kyran

I love these story times I feel like you got the wildest experiences 😭

Ashton

Lmaoo

Dee Shanell

Absolutely not, I barely wanna talk about my personal life on here 😂

Dee Shanell

Dee would you ever do reality TV?😂 I can see u on a TV show like summer house MV

TaVarren Coleman

LOL yeah I would only think it’s weird if like maybe you and your guy friend were newer friends or like yall had history but if yall been friends for 10+ years obviously there’s nothing to worry about so it’s not rly weird

Justin

Alright u ain’t need all those adjectives

Luke Redgate

I said my ex felt jealous, never said his girlfriend did lol I was gonna mention a comment she made, but overall she was cool. His other GF was cool also 🤷🏽‍♀️ idk, I don't think it's a big deal. But if any of them felt it was, they should've said it before the damn trip! 😂

Dee Shanell

Yeah, you've for sure mentioned this a few times over the years, but to get the whole story with context is nice. And that sucks, I mean maybe because I'm bi (i usually say gay because gay is the umbrella term for me lol) but I've always had platonic relationships with my female friends. Even my male friends, once we are friends is like that's all there is. Now, if I liked you in the beginning and then we become friends, that's different because I already liked you from jump, but that hasn't happened since high school. But I've had similar instances where girls who I thought were the homie later say they were just trying smash, and that's wild for me. I'm like I aint no damn body wtf. But they usually say it's because my personality is warm and cool and I understand them and listen well etc. I'unno but I can relate, and it does suck to lose someone you thought was a genuine homie because they wanna fuck. It's wild when you NEVER once expressed any kind of romantic or sexual interest. Speaking of, I had two friends who I thought would make a good couple so I hooked them up. Now a few years later the guy who was my best friend at the time comes to me and is like yo we need to talk, my girlfriend says she's in love with you. I'm like wtf!? So she said like she felt like she was in love with me because her feelings for me as a friend just bubbled over, but she was dating my bestfriend and she didn't want to leave him because she knew me and her would never be anything. That shit was wild. Now he mad at me for something I have no control over, and she mad because I'm like yeah you need to figure that out and it's not happening between us. People can b super crazy and.... interesting for sure lmao

Devron Love

That's so messed up for him to lie on you considering your friends already thought you guys had something going on LMAO I would've been so pissed

Sharma Sue

LMAOO I was dying at dee going “you think this weird?” And then revealing that both of y’all’s couple cared and was jealous🤣🤣

Justin

You rejected him. He respected it and moved on. Sounds like a win win.

David Skipper

😂

Cesar R🇩🇴

Boy is Delulu😂 I honestly don’t understand people who pursue others that clearly don’t want them. When someone don’t want me I take the hint and move on. But maybe since a couple of years passed he thought he had a chance, I know he went crazy when he saw you liked back😂

Cesar R🇩🇴

I can’t imagine gettin my soul snatched by a scrawny nigga with curly hair 😂. He sound like he can only be bold over text and through someone else but scared to say it to your face.

Valencia

😂 yasss Leo gang gang! So happy to hear that though, I definitely recognize your face. Appreciate the support, family ❤️

Dee Shanell

If I saw him again, I would either avoid him like the plague or make it akward for him. Approach his ass first and say whaddu you horny bastard, (jokingly of course) and keep it pushing😆

Angel

Of course, i watched all your reactions vids, I’m a huge supporter of yours and we both leos so you’re stuck with me lol like no lie seeing your vids gets me through the day especially at work so i should be thanking you and giving you your flowers 💐

Najm Woodards

This has happened to me more times than I can count smh so annoying. When you do secure an actual guy friend though, they're great! 😂 usually low maintenance and no drama lol

Dee Shanell

So he always like his "lil sister"? Gross lol and yeah it's unfortunate that we have this issue just trying to be friends with some guys smh. Glad you're enjoying the Patreon though! 🤗

Dee Shanell

Lol appreciate that. But sure, it was a bit brutal but I don't think it was below the belt at all, what he did was below the belt if anything. Thanks for watching though

Dee Shanell

No i feel you and I’m not justifying or making him the victim, i just felt like what you said to him was wild and below the belt but you felt betrayed and hurt that someone you called a friend would play you like that so it was warranted at that moment, i just wanted to be clear cause I’m on your side in this lol

Najm Woodards

Subscribing to Dee on patreon was literally the best thing I've done for the year....as far as subscriptions go lol. But yeah, I feel like so many females have this problem with male friends. There was a guy who I considered my friend as well, called me his lil sister and everything. As soon as he got engaged, the guy was telling me that he always liked me. I'm like bro.....wtf??

Shanice

This man was my "friend" but embarrassed me by lying on my name to multiple people and made it seem like I tried to sleep with him when I didn't. But he's the victim because I didn't consider his precious little feelings when I confronted him? Stop. Fuck his ego. He wasn't thinking about my ego or feelings when he lied on me and made me out to be a thirst bucket who lures people over to sleep with them lmao miss me with that

Dee Shanell

Damn Dee I’m a Leo too but wow you crushed that man’s ego with saying if you and him was naked in the bed together you wouldn’t get aroused like do you often go for the jugular when you pissed off

Najm Woodards

Yeahh I've def mentioned this a few times 😂

Dee Shanell

1000% lmao like bro, who exactly would this work on?

Dee Shanell

Lol we were in a relatively empty restaurant

Dee Shanell

Lmao period, word to Kendrick!

Dee Shanell

having guys friends is so trickyyy. i wish i had one but every time i do it's cool for a while but they slowly try to slide in some sexual comments. there's almost always an ulterior motive lmao

Imani Anderson

Bro, as soon as dee said he cane over around 10, and then the friends was telling her shit, I instantly remembered her telling this😭😭

Peyton D

I’ve been missing these storytimes 😂

reylt

I wish yall could see the look that came across my face when she read his message, "You matched with me to talk or you come to get your soul taken." 💀 diabolical lack of game on display.

Khan Battle

Wait, I was thinking the same thing when she said she invited him out to lunch. Had me cracking up 😂

Artemis Bianco

Depends on the type of vacation it was. I definitely had been a 3rd wheel with a couple an I was super cool with a woman friend I've known for over a decade. Unfortunately you really need to be with someone who is secure and trusts you. We've definitely been accused of fucking even though we've never seen each other in that way. I'd suggest against it because some people just not gonna look at yall without a eyebrow raise, yall telling inside jokes and shit? Remember what time long ago they wasn't there for? They probably felt like the 3rd wheel 😭😭

Synical

I wonder what the table next to y'all was thinking when you said you wouldn't get aroused in bed with him. I would have been ease dropping hard af 😂😂😂

deshaun_thewise

Not “Dee had me over during booty call hours” I woulda been PISSED. However your tone or delivery was when you confronted him im sure was justified. “Sometimes you gotta pop out n show niggas” 😂

Jazz Rivers

i love these tea videos by you, cause usually when i watch them i'm doing stuff around the house all alone and it feels like i'm listening to one of my homegirls lmao 😭

angelito

We got Reporter Dee too on the YouTube channel and her reporting was actually in line with a lot of the stuff that came out afterwards. We eating!

Jessina

I knew right away who she was talking about from jump. Mr. booty call hours. He's one of those weirdos who can't separate women from sex.

Jessina

That's not weird at all. I hung out with a couple at Dreamcon and that shit was so fun. It's like having 2 friends at once and it's best of both world.s

Jessina

I used to be like James when it came to venting. I was really depressed and ended up venting to people. At the time, I didn't realize how draining and exhausting it can be dealing with someone like this. When you're depressed, you don't consider how dumping your problems on other people can affect them. I ended up losing some friendships and even potential romantic relationships. I'm in a much better place mentally thanks to therapy and anti-depressants. I've been working on trying to mend some of those friendships.

Rainbow

Nah definitely, that's forsure the case, nothing surprising about that lol was just odd with him specifically coming like that, given our history. He was very aware of my personality (I would never go for something like this) and also he knew I've never been into him.. so him coming at me this way thinking it would work was just mind boggling

Dee Shanell

This is the best year in terms of entertainment lmao… first we get Kat Williams exposing everyone, then we get Megan vs Nicki, then Kendrick vs Drake, and this year ‘The Boys’ tv show is coming back for season 4, possibly euphoria season 3, and now we get Tea w Dee series returns. We patreon members are blessed over here 😭 Best year of the 2020 decade so far if you ask me. Tbh in this story, I have no comment I just thought it was a great video overall… Moral of the story, James don’t change and he sounds like weird dude. 😂

Mazin

Not the soul snatchin😭😭 what happened to “Hello, my name is..” ?

Sen

Niqqas 😭

BruhItsRodrick

Dee you’ll be surprised, some men don’t care these days about dinner, they just want ass.

Jj Bap

Soul taken is wild 😂😂😂 I would feel so embarrassed typing that out, let alone typing it to someone who made it clear that there is no chemistry at all😂😂😂

annoyedsquire

IT WAS URKEL ! 🤣

Mario Owens

Yall just got some common names lol

Dee Shanell

Thanks, appreciate you! Glad you've managed to have success with having friends of the opposite sex also!

Dee Shanell

Lol agreed!

Dee Shanell

I did not like his profile, I accepted his request lol and sure, it's one thing to try to shoot your shot, but jumping right into proposing sex? Like who would that even work on? No dinner, nothing? Just meeting up for sex? That's wildly disrespectful and no man with common sense nor decency would do that smh lol he's a mess

Dee Shanell

him never giving up after all these years is crazyyyyyyy 😭 dee you seem like such an amazing friend and these people awaits taking advantage of you smhhhhhhhh

gigu

i don't think the third wheeling on trips is a weird thing as long as all parties are down for it, but it seems like your ex was cool with it at the start, but when he saw how good yalls friendship was he got jealous then😂 otherwise it's cool imo, its not like you're forcefully bringing the "third wheel" on trips also the thumbnail is hilarious😂😂😂

saba_nana

My brothers name is Jon this shit getting scary

mondawmin mall

You gotta relax 😂

Shervier

Yeah I was gonna say something similar to this. You hit it right on the head lol

Shervier

Dee: " I'm a 5'10 slim thick big breasted stallion why these niggas keep falling in love with me" all jokes but that's wild

mondawmin mall

You know what it was, when you told him at the dinner that you wasn’t interested that hurt his ego but fast forward to the dating app, when you liked his profile he saw that as another opportunity to try again. He probably was thinking I knew she was lying when we had that dinner.😂 It doesn’t matter how much time has passed if a man wants you they will patiently wait until you give in.

Jj Bap

My name is James. I have a friend that we call B and I am not involved 😭

mondawmin mall

This just made me curious to know. What does Big Dee look for most in people and what signs or type of people does she get along with the most.

Nero Luv

I need people to tell me what it is so I can adapt and move accordingly I have thick skin and I've told anyone I'm cool with to keep it all the way 200 with me...thats the gemini in me forreal things might be awkward but we can understand each other better and be better for it

ExperienceNIgnorace

Great storytime Dee, you was really kind and understanding to dude multiple times, def justified goin off on him at dinner. More 🥷🏾 be needing those straight up talks. Also love hearing bout your one good homie, I can relate. I got two pretty close homegirls and gotta deal with others opinions constantly cuz they conventionally attractive girls. It can be tough having a close friendship between guy and girl as adults, but def possible with communication/boundaries and you def seem to excel in establishing both those categories👌🏾 Preciate the vid, have a great week Dee!!!

ETphone home

James, leave me outta this 😂😂😂

mondawmin mall

That's very unfortunate

Dee Shanell

😂😂

Dee Shanell

I've gotten better 😇 lol

Dee Shanell

6:53 girl yes especially if ion even fw the person like whew chile FIGURE IT OUT NIGGA 🤣🤣🤣🤣 woulda told him just leave the girls alone so fast

Destiny Simon

Right like tf? He jumped straight to sex, no hanging out, nothing smh

Dee Shanell

Lol same!!

Dee Shanell

Lmao this sounds so nosey 😂

Dee Shanell

Yes, it can be extremely draining! Glad you're doing some introspection, because some people may be afraid to admit that it's draining them. It took me a while to admit it to him because I didn't want to be a "bad friend"

Dee Shanell

I mean she love white people so coming from her I take offense

mondawmin mall

Omg he is so weird

Omar_q8

Gurl i’m done with humans they do too much😂 all my friends end up doing stupid sh!t and expect me to deal with it like the world revolves around them 😂

Omar_q8

Oh my … I had something similar happen to me with a guy (Frat boy) who I became friends with only wanted to become friends to get in bed with me … Granted, people warned me about him and how he goes about his things but I friend zoned him many times and when we would hang out just the two of us, he would always try his sneaky sh*t to see if that would turn me on or whatever and it’s like “Bro, I don’t look at you like that, you’re a frat boy with a reputation and you got too much drama.” Mind you, he himself told me one time “I’m just one of those crazy white frat boys who just sleeps around and doesn’t care for relationships or maintaining bonds” so I’m like okay good for you … He would get drunk at parties and still try to hook up and for me, I don’t drink anymore for several reasons so to say if my inhibitions would be low and I’ll no f**k out of here 😂 … the minute people try to hook up with you when you’re drunk, that’s the sign to leave the party … But anyways yeah, I still see him from time to time because we got the same college circle but damm, he do too much … He’s attractive I’ll give him that but he’s a frat f**kboy and I’m not bout to chill with that … But yeah, I’ve lost hope on getting friends especially given how this gay culture is, tried to be friends with too many people only to find out from other people that they’re trying to f*** or they’ll just out themselves few weeks into being friends … All if not most of the guy friends I have are straight and I wish I would have more gay friends but seems like some people want to hook up and then be friends after hooking up or they dip … But for the vacation thing Dee, I don’t think it’s weird to have someone third wheel (male or female) how I look it is that you gotta be real up front if you want the person to come … If the person comes and you feel uncomfortable well chile that’s on them 😂 … ain’t nobody forcing you to be there and they could’ve said no … I said two years ago to a guy I was dating who felt uncomfortable that my friend at the time came on the trip and I just said to him “I asked you several times if it was cool and you said yes” and he had the nerve to say “Yeah but you should’ve known how I felt” and for me that’s just childish … How the f*** am I supposed to know how you feel 😂 you gotta get that sh*t off your chest and communicate it to me … Write a letter, say it, do some sign language, translate it, I don’t care, you gotta find a way to communicate that you feel uncomfortable cause I can’t read minds … That’s the problem with people, they expect you to know how they’ll feel and that will forever be wild for me … P.S. I think Dee gotta take another vacation because of this rap beef 😂 it’s drained all of us … I got my Wireless festival to go to in July by myself so if you going there, let me know or if anyone is … 🥂… 🫶🏽…

Joshua Lewis

"get yo soul taken"is crazy ,pursuing to crashout

Robert Farmer

I don’t think it’s really sinister when friends become lovers, on paper it’s actually the most romantic scenario… btw you breaking buddy down so cold the first time was a kindness you have to be cruel to kill hope Issa helluva drug too close to delusion

LFODC

Damn, killed dude’s ego irl and online 😂 He should have gotten message now tho. Side note: majority of men that women keep as friends would smash if given the opportunity.

JV

i know my nosey ass is gonna love this one 😂

saba_nana

lmao i swear some people just have no shame 😭

Jio

Lmao Dee you really needed a Bravo camera following you. Not you set him up with a Housewife ambush lunch date 🤣

Meta

Leo's are known for brutal delieveries lol

Robert Farmer

this was hilarious bra😂bro was persistent tho lmao

mal

Doja Cat said it best. "Niggas ain't SHIT"

☆Cam☆

GET YO SOUL TAKEN IS CRAZY

Dari Queen

I know niggas like his, very insecure individuals.

mahon tulloch

he was in the wrong and was extremely delusional, hopefully he found a therapist 😂😂

Etoile2004

i love when Dee gets to telling her business

willimitch237@gmail.com

that was eye opening for me. not the tryna have sex part but the venting and dumping heaviness on someone and bringing their mood down after....makes me think about doing that type of shit and being more considerate...thanks for sharing this story

ExperienceNIgnorace

🍵

Dee Shanell

Hey welcome! Search "Travel" in the search bar

Dee Shanell

Lmao you're here now, that's all that matters! Much love ❤️

Dee Shanell

Yasss

Dee Shanell

😂

Dee Shanell

My first story time of yours, let me grab my tea ! I’m excited

Maliknotpetty

the teaaaaa

Dari Queen

Lmao as soon as I was about to touch the top of my screen, your notification intercepted 😂😂😂I’m here tho Dee ❤️

Malique Powers

saw the title and was like oop

Jayla Simmons

Gurl wtf I just got done watching the BOA reaction, I guess I’m watching see for another 25 mins and I’m here for it😂

Chris Ingram

I’m pretty new to the fold but Dee do you have a video on how you got Into traveling or any tips if you haven’t already?

Sir Magnus

I wouldn’t do you like that lol

WRBP Prideful

oop- let me grab some popcorn😭😭

Etoile2004

Sameee💀

Tyra Lee

Facts we gang now🤣

Marquis keel

Crazy ass title I’m here for it

Hwancun Lol

DEE!! I JUST JOINED PATREON! LOVE U SO MUCH!!!! If anyone ask, I was always here 😤

Sukayna

Lol dee with the most extravagant titles for videos. That’s why i klicked so fast

Saade Baghdy

I thought I was first hahaha

Sir Magnus

First story time as a patron!

under bat

clicked immediately i’m so nosey 💀

dvnay


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