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Friend Drama In AFRICA - Story Time

Friend Drama In AFRICA - Story Time

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I hope that girl did not ruin your trip to Ghana and you got to enjoy the beautiful weather and culture that my motherland has! ♥️ A shame she couldn't be a good friend or grown up.

Ohemaa MaMokowa

betty is mad weird

Lexi

Honestly I feel like after the whole restaurant situation when Betty asked Judy if she was gone stay and eat there or go with her was probably her breaking point 😂 cause it seemed like she wanted Judy to herself and then she seen y’all was getting close and vibing and got jealous 🤣

Kymberlee J

You sound like a good friend. I had secondhand annoyance watching this. As someone with limited patience, that second trip wouldn't even had happen. Judy sounds cool. Glad y'all got rid of her. Too grown to be on that bullshit. Come correct or don't come at all.

Muffinz Okuurr

She ain’t nothing but a hater. Girl let’s travel together im fun!

Jyleke Carter

I see her name starts with a C? Is that C for crackhead? 😂😂

Ethyn Glenn

am i the only one who wants to see dee beat someone 💀

Lanita Rey

Dee… I know this is off topic but ur videos are the only thing getting me through college right now 😅 so thank you.

Mazin

She definitely wasn't showing any of this toxic behavior during our friendship. Aside from complaining about minor things during our last trip in Costa Rica, I never had any issues with her. But her behavior was so extreme in Ghana, it just revealed what type of person she was so I had to dead that friendship. This was also only a couple months after the Brazil incident with the other friend, so I was more adamant about getting rid of toxic people around me lol

Dee Shanell

Ion know how tf u were friends w her for 2 years?!?! Even tho a lot of people may be like “oh maybe ur the problem for always having friend drama/breakups”… this just shows that ur a nice and caring friend because of how long u kept up w her bullshit. 😂 plus u handled this situation really well. (Btw I just got patreon, I just subbed and I been binge watching as many videos as I can 😭 love the content keep it up) You had every right to keep on ignoring her messages and enjoy the rest of ur trip w the other friend because when u start reasoning or just keeping up the conversation w someone that always complains, the issue will never end cuz they’ll always find something new to complain about.

Mazin

Hey Dee I was wondering if you have any tips for planning a trip out the country? I am planning a trip to Brazil in December 😭

Lupê

VERY lol

Dee Shanell

Oh shit, you watched the show lmao but yeahh the complaining is annoying. She did it on our first vacation but overall it was still a good trip and she said she would stop so I tried to give her another chance. But she did it times 10 in Ghana lol it definitely ruins the vibe

Dee Shanell

It’s getting hard in these streets, sis

ClihMinaj

lol I remember watching that season of “that show” and 2 episodes in shes already the center of drama arguing somebody down over appetizers! lol sounds a mess! The worst thing is traveling with a complainer or somebody all over the place. It peaks my anxiety and happened to me in Holland. My thing is you never know when you’ll have the opportunity to be in a certain place. So why let the little things ruin it. Say that sucks and just move on.

Cam G

not her complaining about how long the ride back home, like girl.... i wouldve been taking a nap on my way back... longer the ride, the better. i just love sleeping lol. Dee, you be reacting the same way I would've reacted, idk if its bc we're both July Leos or what

Jayla Simmons

I don’t understand why some of my stories aligns with yours but with my so used to call “homeboys” 😂. I completely agree to the things that you did because I know for a fact I would have tbh!

MELANIN DES0

Somebody clip “I will drop you where the fuck you stand” and add that to a Stan Twitter compilation 😅

Azu Eleonu

31:59 do you not remember saying this? I didn’t make that up. Don’t think I’m being judgemental I think you are 100% right in this story but I also think you have poor judgment on who you make ur friends if this constantly happens to you… this isn’t an attack I support u bruh lol

Jay

MOST of the population live normal lives wym lmao have normal jobs, make "normal" amounts of money (most of the population being within a certain tax bracket, etc). So yes, my life is very different and as a result I've had several friends and even boyfriends be envious of me and it reflects in their treatment of me. I feel like you're oddly hearing what you want based on your own beliefs. This is why I was hesitant to even share these stories on here because people do weird shit like this then come off judgemental based on inaccurate info they made up. Go back and listen again, I said my other friend told me she was talking shit about me on IG once I got back from Brazil. And I never said they're not "cool", not sure where you pulled that from. Those two barely even know each other, they're only friends on IG. I'm certain you live a very different life than me...everyone treats me different based on what I have, so the dynamics of my friendships and relationships are gonna be very different than the "norm" based on that alone. So no, you're not gonna relate, not sure why you're trying to

Dee Shanell

Sure but nobody lives a normal life I get what you saying tho. But friendships and relationships is something that everybody can relate to. Are you saying situations like this come from your lifestyle? Even when you said the girl u still friends with only told you the other one was talking shit about you only after they stopped being cool. That’s not weird ? Lol I’m genuinely curious. But I guess you don’t live a normal life so it wouldn’t make sense to me.

Jay

when she said "two" I just knew from that moment that I would've stopped responding atp.

Alton Alexander

Thank you! I'm definitely making sure my kindness isn't taken for weakness these days though

Dee Shanell

You may be right, it might not be normal but obviously I don't live a "normal" life. I don't make a normal amount of money, have a normal job nor do I live a normal lifestyle...sooo of course my life experiences are not gonna be normal lol and for the record, this was my friend for over 2 years and we hung out a LOT, so you're inaccurate with that assumption. I didn't just meet this girl and randomly call her my friend tf 😂

Dee Shanell

It's not normal for YOU. If you've paid attention to these past 2 stories, both of her friends were clearly jealous of her. Maybe you don't have anything to be jealous of so you haven't experienced this 💀 she said she went on another trip with this friend the previous yr so it doesn't sound like she called her her friend too lightly, sounds like she knew her a while

Sharma Sue

“Ok best of luck” GURLLL BYEEE. Dee I’m sorry u went through this. This whole situation is definitely giving childish behavior when she’s a grown ass women that can own up to her shit and apologize for what she did to y’all. 🙄🩷 ( I love these stories lmao )

Jeremy

Dee you really are a patient friend honestly. It seems like you give them kindness and patience and they always try to do too much lol

Amenra Malone

i think this happens more often to ppl who call others their friends too lightly. its not normal to to constantly have toxic friendships an having to cut ppl off.

Jay

I wouldn't have responded to her at all so she's lucky she even got that response from Judy. She was talking down to them, what did she expect???

Sharma Sue

This is a goofy question, toxic people are everywhere lol you can't escape them no matter how hard you try

Sharma Sue

where do y’all find friendships like this

Jay

Yeah sis is slow lol

Dee Shanell

Definitely was giving hater vibes

Dee Shanell

You should go back and look at the texts at 15:55. She said "wya I don't get why yall not texting back that shit rude af". I'm not responding to nobody when they disrespectful and cursing at me. If you want information, ask like you got some sense lol of course I didn't wanna be around her at that point

Dee Shanell

The only thing issue that I can kind of agree with is the club situation. When she was asking where y’all were at, Judy only communicated that y’all were still there with no location. At this point since she is asking y’all can assume that she is there searching for y’all. When someone asks me where I am in the club where it’s a sea of people. I would typically say yes I’m still here, and in the back near the restroom or something like that where they can easily find me. The vibe from that text seemed like y’all didn’t want her to be around y'all at that point which she probably felt too. However, she still was overreacting to the situation in general.

Volflion

“Betty” saying you just wanted to “flex your money” makes it sound like she probably already had some weird undercover pressure for you. But I am lovinggg these story times 😂

reylt

Nah you weren't wrong Dee. I do think that she was maybe looking for an okay after she texted y'all. I think communication could have been better but it's really not really y'all fault. She was looking for someone to entertain her BS and found the wrong ones. Everything else was her fault and she sound self centered.

Lauren

Looking at the lack of correct grammar and spelling in those texts from her makes me afraid of how little some ppl care about maintaining their education after high school

Michael Stanton

Tea Time w/ Dee has become my favorite thing. keep em comin, Queen! 😭❤️

MykeYonce

Lmao deadass

Dee Shanell

🤣

Alyssa Mena

The plot to a tubi movie

ClihMinaj

I use to be like Petty Betty when i was teen, I'm glad my friends called me out on that, because i realise i was in the wrong and thats something i really regret. No you aint in the wrong, i feel like you shouldve beat the shit out of her, but respect for keeping your cool. Cant wait for the travel vlog.

....

Definitely! And you may be on to something about her wanting Judy to herself...Betty made a pass at me early in our friendship so I wouldn't be surprised, but that's a story for another day chile lmao

Dee Shanell

😂 stay tuned!

Dee Shanell

Yeah I need to start doing that. I'm always trying to give people room to be flawed human beings and give them chances to grow and improve but clearly that's not working well for me lol

Dee Shanell

She didn't 😂

Dee Shanell

she sounds like a friend I used to have. thought everything revolved around her, only wanted me to herself, & never took accountability for anything. that’s what Betty sounds like it. like her issue was really with you & wanted Judy to herself 😂 cus why she was talking about you & tryna get Judy to leave you at the restaurant alone. yeah hater fasho lol

Kels McCall

oh dee this is the best one so far 😂😂😂😂 keep em going!!! when the next one ?

Jaee Johnson

Idk why but this week I've been heavy on this zodiac signs type research lately & now I'm starting to think it would be cool if I had more Leo friends in my life cause how you explained yourself & handled these situations, I identify with cool blooded but in honesty the more I was listening to you talk, I released that I was more like Jade cause once you piss me off, I first initially need space, then I have to gather my thoughts & once I'm able to explain my feelings & I see that the person is still playing in my face, I just cut communication off entirely.

Darian Diamond

But you didn't win tho LMAO

Cedric Birgans

😂😂 keep ignoring, don’t let em win!!!

saba_nana

Thank God! The devil is testing me, he tryna have me beat one of these girls' ass and go to jail 😭

Dee Shanell

ur drama always wild 😭 thank god these friends are GONE!!

saba_nana

Wow glad you got away from that friend, that's such an unfair burden to put on you

Dee Shanell

She for sure has some unresolved issues because it wasn't that deep at all, we were so confused lol

Dee Shanell

Yeahh as long as no one finds any of these ex friends and says anything, I'll keep this segment going. I don't need any additional drama with these crazy girls lol

Dee Shanell

This sounds like a classic case of happy hoes aint hatin and hatin hoes aint happy lmao. One thing I can't stand though is someone who constantly complains like things are not always gonna go your way, do some soul searchin and make peace with it lol.

Zion

I had a similar experience not with traveling, but with a close friend. It ended with her blaming me for her mental health and suicidal thoughts. So this was a good reminder that cutting her off was a good decision. Much love Dee!

Gage Brown

Im not all the way finished with the video but so far, it seems like the friend got severe abandonment issues with a touch of narcissism and anger. There is nothing anybody can do for her if she dont decide to go to therapy about that. She took yall falling back deeper than what it actually was because she got triggers that even she probaly dont know about.

lilrickyfrm51

We LOVE when Dee drags people. This is a great segment

Azu Eleonu

Tea with Dee will be my fav segment of the patreon! Now all we have to do is not too much so she don’t tell us to go to hell and cut the segment 😭

Ben Turner

ouuuu I had the post notifications on let me get some food and watch so I can be nosy

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