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[#16] Patreon Bonus - QT wants to be Taylor Swift
Added 2023-04-05 19:00:04 +0000 UTCWelcome to the Patreon bonus episode!
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I know I’m super late but I’ve felt the same way when I started making music and recoding. Half of me doesn’t even want to share because if the songs did make me grow as an artist I know the worst parts of the internet would find my socials and just be the worst. It’s a constant battle, I push myself through projects a lot of the time because I know it’s in me and I love doing it. It’s not for them it’s for me.
Lizzy
2024-09-10 12:19:59 +0000 UTCwith QT's song, what if you release it anonymously or without the title of "QTcinderella" attached to it? Then it's harder for people to use the song against you because they won't know who it is but the con would be that it's significantly harder to market something without your audience that you have.
glass kitty
2023-06-20 01:40:24 +0000 UTCbroke as shit but this podcast helps my mental health so i need all the episodes i can get-
Kevin Nowling
2023-05-19 11:29:00 +0000 UTCyou just gave her a new phobia
quackalex45
2023-05-08 15:41:24 +0000 UTCThe topic of whether or not night blindness is real always bothers me because my husband has retinitis pigmentosa and the starting symptom of it are night blindness. Not saying at all that QT has RP. It's just a little bit triggering.
Anabel Averso
2023-05-06 15:16:17 +0000 UTCWhen QT worked at Old Navy, did they cut up any clothes with rips or stains, or is that a new practice?
Shaliek
2023-05-06 12:56:38 +0000 UTCYou guys are so relatable, thanks for sharing everything <3
Rachelle Martinez
2023-04-20 01:57:01 +0000 UTCI totally feel not being able to be present, people rarely understand that and I basically never am and the fact that you talked about it made me feel seen. I spend most of my time thinking about where I'll be at any point in my life other than the present. I wish more people would understand but thanks for talking about that. <3 Much Love
Justin Norton
2023-04-13 18:24:39 +0000 UTCI had a friend that tried to pull that night blindness shit on me and I couldn't deal with it either. 100% on Maya's side here.
Delta J. Bearlines
2023-04-12 23:58:42 +0000 UTCI completely relate to Mayas fear about not having kids! I personally always wanted them at some point but my boyfriend wasn’t sure and asked me why I want them so much - them being cute and every has kids doesn’t count. I told him, firstly I love the idea of a tiny mix between us and love kids in general. But also I’m terrified of dying alone, I have a half-brother but we’re not that close and thaaaats it. My boyfriend is also 7 years older and always jokes he’s not gonna get super old anyway. I basically started crying and told him that’s my second point, I don’t wanna end up alone in the end without more family and possibly outliving him for years.. god I fall into a whole depressive episode everytime I think about dying alone. In the end he got that and is on board now 💕
Lichterloh
2023-04-12 09:13:51 +0000 UTCI could personally use some dead mom music waiting for the drop qt :)
Savanna Adkins
2023-04-11 21:20:39 +0000 UTCI think it’s pretty fair than 95% of us wouldn’t leak in the first place, because we’re just here for a great podcast between two friends. It’s that last 1-5% that’s just malicious or downright stupid that do the leaks imo
Michael
2023-04-11 16:18:55 +0000 UTCSuggestion: Write a couple of songs and title the EP “This is fiction” or “Past Thoughts” or something
James S.
2023-04-11 14:30:02 +0000 UTCRE: Trying VTubing I mean, if she has, we wouldn't know. That's kinda the point of doing things anonymously. 😉
Shaun Cheah
2023-04-11 14:12:42 +0000 UTC
2023-04-11 03:30:16 +0000 UTC
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CKas
2023-04-10 06:36:28 +0000 UTC25 mins in and the existential dread sets in
J
2023-04-09 12:27:29 +0000 UTCMy mom just told me Tay Tay broke up with her boyfriend of six years. Awk.
jimmyjangles
2023-04-09 04:39:34 +0000 UTCI asked my husband who is a doctor and he agreed that night blindness is real
Rabbit Whisperer
2023-04-09 04:08:08 +0000 UTCUpdate: Maybe it won’t be your midnights considering the recent news Taylor and Joe broke up. Oof. YOU SHOULD STILL PUT OUT THE MUSIC THOUGH
Catherine Zens
2023-04-09 00:11:44 +0000 UTCI’m so glad I joined
Miss Willum
2023-04-08 22:07:00 +0000 UTCQT! I think you should absolutely release your music. My advice would be to make a lil post/statement like thingy explaining what the song means to you and why you’re releasing it and outright saying it’s not about anything you’re feeling right now but rather your past experiences- Embrace your inner midnights! Following your passions is so important and I think especially with the support of your loved ones, it would be an incredible idea! Also I loved the conversation you two had about children because I feel like I resonate so well with it. There are other reasons I’m likely not having kids either but I especially identify with Maya prioritizing the work she does right now. I personally want to pursue my dream job and travel a lot and just do things to take care of myself that I personally feel I’d be barred from with having kids. But the conversation about the potential of being alone is one worth having, although I don’t think not having kids makes your life have any less value. (Also I was on a plane when listening to QT talk about her fear of flying so that’s fun.) Great episode you two!
Catherine Zens
2023-04-08 21:34:43 +0000 UTCNot gonna lie I think I’m day blind 😂 Whenever it’s sunny out I’m squinting so much and my eyes are super watery. On the night blind. I see perfectly fine unless there’s a lot of lights, in which case I mostly just see streaks of light
Tonaerio
2023-04-08 18:24:27 +0000 UTCok so I'm not completely done with the pod, and I haven't read all the comment because the player stops when you scroll away from the video, but if you are curious about freezing your eggs in case you may change your mind about having kids: talk to Yvonnie of OfflineTV. She has been vocal about the fact she has recently went through the procedure to freeze some of her eggs. Anyway, love the pod!
Sib
2023-04-08 16:50:30 +0000 UTCIt was Christian they told me
Mint Tea
2023-04-08 15:58:00 +0000 UTCThis episode was great, so glad the pod is back!
Christian
2023-04-08 08:59:44 +0000 UTCNot sure if they read the comments but I hope they know that their feelings on kids is super valid. Many women do not want to be mothers but do it because "that's what we are supposed to do". I'm 33 and knew I never wanted kids since I was a teenager and joked about getting a hysterectomy so I can stop having periods and no accidental pregnancies. Well now I just had a hysterotomy for health reasons and thought I might be sad since it's not in my future for good but I feel so great about it as if a weight has been lifted. My bf is also my rock and has been super supportive and made sure I knew that he also does not want children so it's not an issue. But it's true, when you know you know. Us women do not all need to have babies. We don't need to have them to be valid people in this world and I hate that society shames us and calls us selfish for knowing we do not want to be mothers yet childless men never get the same treatment smh.
Jenny S
2023-04-08 06:40:34 +0000 UTCabout the song stuff, you could apply what fuslie has been doing and start using some other name for your music, not give it direct promotion until you have a back catalogue that makes sense as a cumulative work... or you could start GTA RPing. Crazy idea is parodying it a bit and having ludwig in the music videos... using the drama to propel the music forward by him playing the ex in the videos. Btw it is not lame, if you like your music follow through with it and finish it and work it through, music is amazing at working this stuff out. In the end publishing and marketing it is a whole different thing
iamthispablo
2023-04-08 06:37:56 +0000 UTCi really hope qt does feel comfortable at some point releasing her song, id love to hear it!
emptyivy
2023-04-08 01:40:03 +0000 UTCDoes trash tv reacts drop fridays ?
Luperon
2023-04-08 00:22:40 +0000 UTCAfter writing a mega long comment just gotta say thx for having a convo about the kid thing cause it brought me some new perspective, anyways love the pod.
CountJest
2023-04-07 21:14:45 +0000 UTCI wonder if posting the songs on Patreon is a bit safer place than on a main channel or posting them on a platform with another name attached to it.
lewits
2023-04-07 20:19:15 +0000 UTCThe realest
Brendon R Stephenson
2023-04-07 17:10:50 +0000 UTCDude when QT started talking about the whole legacy thing and how most people don't even remember their great grandparents names and how it doesn't matter that was so based. I've had family members ask me about if I was going to have kids and about 'keeping the legacy'.
Emily
2023-04-07 15:42:22 +0000 UTCRight? Best 5 bucks I've ever spent!
Victoria Borrego
2023-04-07 15:38:46 +0000 UTCyess!! loved it!
Vianey ???
2023-04-07 15:30:12 +0000 UTCThose stickers are so stinking cute!!🤩 I hope wine about it has a merch store soon so I can snag one some day
Victoria Borrego
2023-04-07 15:22:26 +0000 UTCIt was me :)
Mia Christensen
2023-04-07 09:10:26 +0000 UTCReport yourself
Stephanie
2023-04-07 03:47:45 +0000 UTCwhen i do embroidery i just leave the back all messy but if you are scared of it coming undone they make special fabric glue called fray check for gluing threads or loose ends of fabric
Bailey
2023-04-07 01:24:41 +0000 UTCqt it's cool to be 30 to me 30 is when you finally have your life together but im 20 so what do i know
Bailey
2023-04-07 01:12:18 +0000 UTCLove the pod :)
Josh Cronin
2023-04-07 00:54:49 +0000 UTCCan I say as a uk viewer, I couldn’t find the wine, but so so happy that you are back, I’ll be enjoying the cheapest wine the uk has to offer whilst watching this. And you know what that is so good as much as I wish I was in the states and could join you two with the wine you’re having xx
Sneakyo13
2023-04-07 00:06:49 +0000 UTCJust make Lud star in the music video as the ex.
Greg Fuller
2023-04-06 23:55:32 +0000 UTCI've always wondered why QT hasn't been on the Yard too lol can we get a Yard x Wine About it collab??
jamiedizzle
2023-04-06 22:49:48 +0000 UTCQt is right about night blindness. Another L for Maya :/
Kuba
2023-04-06 22:22:23 +0000 UTCI totally understand how you both feel. I'm the same age as Maya and like QT, I'm also terrified of child birth plus have so many worries. I just can't picture myself with kids. However, like Maya I also think about the fact that when I'm older I'll be alone and have no one - additionally I like the idea of continuing my bloodline more than anything. QT is lucky she has siblings as well as many nieces and nephews she can forge a relationship with eventually even if she doesn't have children. I'm an only child so I have no siblings or nieces/nephews and never will. It's very conflicting but I guess I should just live in the moment and not think too far ahead. Nice to hear others have the same concerns as I do.
Alanna M
2023-04-06 22:15:52 +0000 UTCi listen to this podcast while i crochet and i loved hearing about the crafts you guys do!
lasfernitas
2023-04-06 20:58:35 +0000 UTCNight blindness has to do specifically with pupil dilation ability, some underlying cause that keeps your pupils from dialating completely. Its called Nyctalopia
Tosin Awofeso
2023-04-06 20:24:47 +0000 UTCQT. Consider having someone else sing the song, just because you wrote doesn’t mean you have to be the one to perform. If you don’t like that, then consider releasing it under a different stage name. There are professionals who have the same fears that you do, but they’ve found a way to avoid/fix them. Like Sia always covers her face when she performs and like 90% of all famous people have fake names anyway. Honestly, with all the anxieties you’ve expressed about being a recognizable Internet personality, I don’t know why you’ve never tried VTubetubing.
Bruce Wayne
2023-04-06 19:38:18 +0000 UTCAlso QT, you could embroider Slime a ball-cap of a monke or that says Hater, or We're The Same or an Arrow pointing down with BALD or something. He wears hats often.
Lezzerlee
2023-04-06 17:57:46 +0000 UTCAs a 37 year old woman who still doesn't want and has never wanted kids, some people just don't want kids. You're not broken for not wanting them if that's truly how you feel. So much of society tells us that women's only roll is to be a mom, but that has never ever been true. There have always been spinsters, always been the oracles, the aunties, the business women, the politicians, the activists. People think it is selfish to not have kids, but it's worse to have kids when you don't want them or are not prepared to deal with them! Every child deserves to be wanted 100% without regrets. If you are a selfish person, you shouldn't have kids! It's the best reason to not have kids! You can be fulfilled without them.
Lezzerlee
2023-04-06 17:47:07 +0000 UTCNew fear unlocked: my kids going into big oil despite me being an environmental lawyer 😭
Megan Cormier
2023-04-06 17:37:50 +0000 UTCI have difficulty seeing at night because of my astigmatism. Maybe QT has the same thing?
bakedLaska
2023-04-06 17:33:08 +0000 UTCAHHH, I didn't notice but it felt super off and that's what it was
woofpack
2023-04-06 16:00:24 +0000 UTCIt was ghandi
killerjen
2023-04-06 15:56:40 +0000 UTC…Did I write this? Lol
Loune
2023-04-06 15:49:15 +0000 UTCthat's the premium content right there. the side switch
Haihan Lin
2023-04-06 15:47:37 +0000 UTCIs it bothering anyone else that they switched what side Maya is on for this episode or is that just me?
Micah
2023-04-06 15:40:48 +0000 UTCIf I were to join the sticker tier later, would I get the stickers and recipes and stuff I missed? I’d love to get them, it’s just a little too much for me to justify rn 😔
domino
2023-04-06 15:40:29 +0000 UTCThe last time I went to an eye appointment the doctor said that my new prescription will make it easier to see at night, especially while driving. I thought that was bs but he was absolutely right. Night blindness is for sure a thing.
Micah
2023-04-06 15:38:56 +0000 UTCAlso as a Mormon, I could sign people up for memberships at REI when we had 20% off promotions for new members 😅
Goober
2023-04-06 15:05:58 +0000 UTCI have night blindness too, my boyfriend practically has night vision so when we are leaving the apartment I get mad because he’ll turn off the light when walking out the door (and I’m still walking out of the bedroom or something) just to watch me stumble around trying to find my way to the front door lol
Audrey
2023-04-06 14:07:02 +0000 UTCnight blindness is for sure a thing. its usually when your eyes are unable to adjust from light to darkness as fast as they should be. makes night driving super dangerous because you sometimes can't see for a few seconds after a car passes with even low headlights on or the reflection off street signs too.
Roastedpot
2023-04-06 13:54:34 +0000 UTCThe Patreon model is so much better. We get cute animal pictures and a bonus podcast.
Mico
2023-04-06 13:19:01 +0000 UTCWelp, you convinced me. I'm giving my kids up for adoption. I HOPE YOU'RE HAPPY! (Obv jk lol) PS- release the song here first! We will CRUSH any leakers 🫡
Mike Turgeon
2023-04-06 12:10:20 +0000 UTCLegit did the scouts honor sign, felt crazy. TW for OCD: QT talking about OCD is so fucking comforting for me because I don't talk about my struggles with it with the people close to me bc it stresses me out enough sometimes to lead to a panic attack. But her talking about it makes me feel like someone else understands what it can feel like. Also turning 29 this year and although I love babies I am nowhere near ready to have them... and probably won't ever bc I don't ever want to pass on my issues to an innocent little kid.
Taylor
2023-04-06 12:05:29 +0000 UTCI did the scouts honor sign lmfaoo also night blindness is a thing, vouch
Stardust
2023-04-06 11:27:23 +0000 UTCqt said "#password" in her notes... oh no
formerdingo88
2023-04-06 11:16:59 +0000 UTCThought*
Lily Nova
2023-04-06 10:29:59 +0000 UTCThis may be cringe but i really love this podcast mostly because its just two girls chatting and as a young girl myself its just so relatable and though provoking some of the things you guys talk about even if im nowhere near the level of stress you all are under… but its nice to not feel alone ig? And i just wrote a thesis.. GREAT EP BYE
Lily Nova
2023-04-06 10:29:41 +0000 UTCThey are finally on the right sides now
SuperDuprEgg
2023-04-06 08:57:47 +0000 UTCGirl Scout honor
Juliana McKenna
2023-04-06 08:44:54 +0000 UTCBecause of how currency conversion and cost-of-living works, you can spend $5 and get a full transcript from someone who lives somewhere where they write 'apologies for the poor English; it's not my first language' at the end of the most well-crafted comment you've ever seen. Basic subtitles are very affordable and professional subtitles are very worth it.
Shaun Cheah
2023-04-06 08:20:29 +0000 UTCIf my bride, the love of my life who bore my heirs in her womb, desired to journey into the world in search of Frenched Fries, even at two hours before the stroke of midnight, then I would absolutely cease my selfish pursuits and guard our offspring while she did so. Husbands can take care of kids, too. Don't get too lost in the tradwife sauce. Even if I've had a rough week, just offer me a fifteen-minute massage and I will absolutely gladly handle those two rugrats for a whole weekend while you and your ladies go out and live life.
Shaun Cheah
2023-04-06 07:54:04 +0000 UTCSolution to the kids issue is to stop approaching it like an American. Most of us in the world understand that a parent isn't supposed to make sure a kid is happy all the time. You make sure they are safe and loved. If that's true they'll know it's okay to be upset and they'll learn how to be happy.
Kyle Coleman
2023-04-06 07:29:06 +0000 UTCI spat out my water on the bus when you asked if qt had tried opening her eyes and now everyone is staring at me
Finn Harte
2023-04-06 06:51:45 +0000 UTCI feel like the internet will shit on you for whatever you do, so you might as well do something cool
Pontutus
2023-04-06 06:46:47 +0000 UTCOK
Blake
2023-04-06 05:59:30 +0000 UTCI too grew up religious like QT so i completely understand the two-fold pressure of religion and the patriarchy telling girls that we have to want marriage and kids when we grow up. It’s something I struggled with internally for so long before realizing, hey, I actually don’t want any of this and it’s okay that I feel that way. It’s very refreshing to hear other women talk it out - it can be such an isolating journey! Side note: Aside from the leaker (🖕), love the community the patreon has cultivated - feels like a good safe space of nice people :)
LovedFox
2023-04-06 05:57:59 +0000 UTCThanks for sharing! I just started a new medication and remember for the first time in years that I had hobbies. Dissociation is very crazy :p
Hannah
2023-04-06 05:52:35 +0000 UTCI would love this but it may just be strenuous to add :c
Matticus
2023-04-06 05:25:40 +0000 UTCI completely understand mayas train of thought for why she doesn’t want kids. But I think the Irwin family is an excellent example of how children can grow up to continue their parents work
Chris Hall
2023-04-06 05:23:03 +0000 UTCLoved the episode ladies and yeah I'm 35 now and the amount of different meds or things I have to do just to keep my body working properly is crazy. So uhh you got that to look forward to lmao
TenaciousDealer
2023-04-06 05:16:39 +0000 UTCI know a dumb question for a podcast, but is there an option for subtitles?
Paulina
2023-04-06 05:05:05 +0000 UTCMaya withe the gasloghting night blindness arc
Dieter Roebert
2023-04-06 04:48:14 +0000 UTCalright. who's the leaker. fess up, please. :)
ChubbyHobo
2023-04-06 04:31:52 +0000 UTCI find it funny they argue over night blindness when one google search would show it's an actual medical condition.....
Purlwise
2023-04-06 04:19:38 +0000 UTC9:45 QT ROFLMAO
Ridorana12
2023-04-06 04:14:46 +0000 UTCguys pls don't leak T_T
Anabyee
2023-04-06 03:50:09 +0000 UTCI would say the leak hunt reminds me of Salem but in this case someone among us is sus…
Drizzle_drippin
2023-04-06 03:23:16 +0000 UTCWhat gets me out of my head(because I am pretty sure I had OCD or something very close) is sport(better than the antidepressants i took)
Sorin
2023-04-06 03:22:08 +0000 UTCno leakers
eirysse
2023-04-06 03:21:13 +0000 UTCI too, have night blindness. QT is valid
Katie
2023-04-06 03:02:17 +0000 UTCI feel like the embroidery discussion fully conveyed w/o pics. Like who's to say Slime didn't see a banana or something?
77katz77
2023-04-06 02:56:24 +0000 UTCQT and Maya swapped sides :O
Jesse Werner
2023-04-06 02:52:11 +0000 UTCMy wife is night blind, if we're driving on the highway and there is oncoming traffic she says the headlights from a single car can take up her entire field of view. Even without other cars she can't see the road more than a few feet in front of the car, but her vision is otherwise totally normal
Daniel Williams
2023-04-06 02:47:45 +0000 UTCgreat ep <3 I totally see where Maya is coming from with night blindness but as someone who is night blind and have gone on walks with friends (with normal vision) at night, it’s crazy that the amount of things they can see w/o a flashlight versus me that needs a high beam flood light 3000 to see
Matticus
2023-04-06 02:29:02 +0000 UTCHonestly I am so happy QT brought up the whole kid thing. I'm 27 and married but neither of us are ready for kids but i know i have a clock. I actually like her therapist, what she said kind of gave me some peace lmao. Thank you for sharing!(:
LB
2023-04-06 02:03:48 +0000 UTCgirl the social anxiety i understand on another level. and if you need a girl friend to have a healthy relationship with besides maya you know where to find me :)
Ellaabunny
2023-04-06 02:03:23 +0000 UTCFirst Patreon episode LETS GOOOO!!!
Paul Fiebig
2023-04-06 02:01:36 +0000 UTCAs someone who used to be very religious and wanted kids but now am not and actually am discovering that would be my worst nightmare, I really appreciate you guys discussing the emotional turmoil that goes along with realizing you don’t want something that the majority of society deems necessary for womanhood. Love you girlies 💖
Beeliza
2023-04-06 02:01:35 +0000 UTCWe need a weekly make fun of Hasan segment. WINE ABOUT IT
Ptheo
2023-04-06 01:39:49 +0000 UTCI personally dont see the big deal with people sharing clips from paywalled content if it weren't used to farm drama. And to be honest, im pro-piracy because pirates help out those who aren't in a position to sign up for another monthly payment. The brokies need entertainment too! But again, farming drama is wack and using copyright law might be your only defense against it unfortunately.
Tyler Jones
2023-04-06 01:28:05 +0000 UTCUsually a lurker but I really hope QT goes through with the music. I feel like the internet has made a lot of people feel like they have to be aloof and sarcastic to avoid being mocked that pursuing things in earnest is “cringe” and people who put themselves out there have to worry about the backlash of every little dissection of a genuine expression. I really hope music can be a healthy creative outlet that’s lower intensity and more manageable than all the spectacle style events. Also I hope betty is in the QT explains because James is in fact cringe.
screaming
2023-04-06 01:26:55 +0000 UTCidk if this perspective would help but it might. I am a transwomen and part of my transition will be losing the ability to have kids. there has always been this desire in the back of my mind to be a parent. and when i realized i would lose that ability i decided to freeze my sperm. it cost over 2k for the appointments and storage for 5 years. i started medically transitioning a month after i gave my last sample. its been 3 months since then and i'm pretty sure i don't produce sperm anymore. i also plan to get an orchiectomy within a year. my time was up so to speak but i was fortunate enough to be able to do it. If in the future i don't want kids i don't have to use it. if i do but i don't want to use it i don't have to. i am a very indecisive and anxious person so i gave future self options. If you want to you can get your eggs frozen and not have to worry about it. adoption is also an option. all of this to say is that your clock is not running out as fast as you think it is and you have options no matter what you do <3
SuperCookieGaming
2023-04-06 01:19:48 +0000 UTCQT talking like Slime at the end really got me
Jake
2023-04-06 01:15:49 +0000 UTCWhen I worked at Office Depot (in Washington funnily enough) my manager told me to make up phone numbers and email addresses for customers so we could get them rewards cards. We were the number store in the state and he was never fired lmao. That store did close in 2020 tho soooo
Melodyingg
2023-04-06 00:48:26 +0000 UTCBoth QT's breakup song and Maya's song about Byron sound amazing to experience. I understand why Maya didn't want to release a song about Byron though, when there could have been backlash. Maybe it's easier now that a couple of years have passed, but I can imagine that it's probably a quite personal song and maybe not meant to be publicized after all.
Ruben
2023-04-06 00:46:20 +0000 UTCNight blindness is 1000% a thing, It's always crazy to me just how poorly my girlfriend can see in the dark compared to me, she needs like every light in the house on to do tasks where as I would be able to see with like a distant lamp
Lucas Vanhoever
2023-04-06 00:42:59 +0000 UTCYeah probably, the Patreon android app isn't that good, but works perfectly on web
Haithem Alosaimi
2023-04-06 00:40:32 +0000 UTCMight be a problem on your part, perfect for me
Yorgo
2023-04-06 00:39:35 +0000 UTCIMO the best test for night blindness is drive. When you're driving at night and there are other cars on the road with their headlights on, can you see the road? Because for me, all I can see is the blinding lights of the headlights and literally nothing else. I cannot register the darkness as anything but dark, so I can't really make out shapes or distance at all.
NallM012
2023-04-06 00:37:01 +0000 UTCCan the video be posted anywhere other than this Patreon player? It keeps stuttering 😥
Haithem Alosaimi
2023-04-06 00:27:41 +0000 UTCI'm so glad that you guys are doing this. And QT don't feel like your biological clock is ticking out of control. I am 40 June 1st so we are June twins! Yay happy birthday to us! And sometime this next year I want to have a baby but it took me 25 years of wanting baby to actually finally be in a spot where I kind of can have one and it's still going to be high risk because I'm almost 40 and I have PCOS and a whole bunch of other stuff so no worries you take things as they come! And I'll probably have more comments but I just wanted to comment this real quick.
Sennithee
2023-04-05 23:42:14 +0000 UTCAbsolutely loved the episode - these podcasts are the highlight of my week. 1. I feel so similar about not having children and QTs comment about focusing on what matters today is so important and helpful. 2. There is great iron on backing for embroidering on tshirts!! Michael’s and JoAnnes sells it as well as Amazon - Sulky is the brand name and it stays really well and keeps it from being itchy/stitches falling out!!
slimebagel
2023-04-05 23:37:09 +0000 UTC@theashershow also used a clip from the patreon
Meltron5000
2023-04-05 23:26:01 +0000 UTCThe Yard has only had one girl on all of their episodes including the Patreon and that's Amouranth lmao. I love the pod but it has a severe white boy focus even for the guests.
Bri
2023-04-05 23:23:34 +0000 UTCI feel like if QT just puts outhe song and doesn't make a music video for it it would be chill because it wouldn't feel so current maybe? Just an opinion... because I feel where she's coming from, but I think she should still do it and release it. That would be sick.
Maggie
2023-04-05 23:08:19 +0000 UTCQT says so much relatable stuff it’s actually wild. I can’t count how many times I’ve done catastrophic thinking about having kids where a large part of the catastrophizing is from them winding up with my OCD, anxiety, and depression. It’s funny to introspect it and realize the thing I’m ruminating about my theoretical kids doing is exactly what I was doing in that moment.
Noley Fresh
2023-04-05 23:06:20 +0000 UTCI can't believe I'm friends with QT and Maya now!
Genaro Pulido
2023-04-05 22:56:31 +0000 UTCthe more im here qt talk about what she dealing with, mentally, I start to understand a lot more about myself and unveil it with my therapist , and it helps me a lot! love the pod keep doing awesome work <3
Cannonboot
2023-04-05 22:41:31 +0000 UTCSelf report: it was adam
Marcus Fenix
2023-04-05 22:38:43 +0000 UTCHearing you guys talk about not wanting kids is so refreshing as a 26 year old woman. The lack of freedom and autonomy you lose its so insane to me that its like the expected path to take. Ive always heavily considered adopting later in life if i somehow change my mind. Relationships are what you make them, blood related or not.
Kimberly Cottrell
2023-04-05 22:33:06 +0000 UTCYou could do a few things to limit the distribution of your songs but to me it's clearly more rewarding to have a kid that writes to you telling you "I was going through some shit and your music helped", so honestly, just do what you want, there is a limit to what internet steals from you and ultimately I just want you to do whatever makes you happy (and that's how humans should operate in general). Regarding the topic of having children: this is honestly something you need to hotly want to even consider, not something your parents, your culture, your religion or your husband wants. If it's a deal breaker in a relationship, let it be a deal breaker, your relationship and commitment to your children has to come from something else, because you can leave your country, your faith, stray from your family or your lover but you can't do so with your kids
Arrowni
2023-04-05 22:28:11 +0000 UTCNight blindness, for the win?
Phil Hatch II
2023-04-05 22:25:22 +0000 UTCnah for real, Night Blindness is a thing
Giggie
2023-04-05 22:15:10 +0000 UTCAs one of many yardigals who also like to wine about it, WE'VE BEEN SAYING TO THE BOYS TO HAVE QT ON AND WATCH DCOMS GOD DAMN IT.
Shirley Grace
2023-04-05 22:11:46 +0000 UTCI'm Batman
Glitch
2023-04-05 22:10:21 +0000 UTCQT talking about non english speaking customers being signed up for CCs at Old Navy is 100% the same shit that happens at the big banks. Witnessed it myself in a massive college town where TONs of foreign students would come in and leave approved for credit cards without ANY idea about how the cards work/interest, etc... Anything to boost up those numbers!
Kyle
2023-04-05 22:09:32 +0000 UTCthat’s actually true axial…
MatthewBoltz
2023-04-05 22:06:11 +0000 UTCQT, not only did Joji made that but also think about the fact taylor swift made the one while being pretty much engaged and no one really cares
Mitch Lurtz
2023-04-05 22:02:01 +0000 UTCThe one song I wrote freshman year of college. I look back on 7 years later and it reads like a cry for help 😅 pre-awareness of trauma
Seth Hastings
2023-04-05 22:01:34 +0000 UTCI think Pax Man is the one who leaked to dexerto (i do feel the need to disclaim that this is a joke)
Julia
2023-04-05 21:59:50 +0000 UTCIs there going to be an audio only version? Please say yes
Bruce Wayne
2023-04-05 21:58:34 +0000 UTCas soon as we find out who you are leaker, trust you will be dealt with
NuttyKiwis
2023-04-05 21:53:37 +0000 UTC*What is night blindness?* Night blindness (nyctalopia) is your inability to see well at night or in poor light such as in a restaurant or movie theater. It is often associated with an inability to quickly adapt from a well-illuminated to a poorly illuminated environment. Classic Maya gaslight
Tfries_
2023-04-05 21:48:06 +0000 UTCMaya feeling like she could never release a studio recording of her song for Reckful is so sad. Some of us still listen to it from time to time. But I understand the dilemma about it looking like being commercialized…. Even if it wouldn’t be. It’s just sad.
soloPFL
2023-04-05 21:41:32 +0000 UTCLSF only has power because people give it power, same with Twitter. The amount of engagement on LSF is so low compared to how many people are actually subbed. A hate thread might get a few hundred comments out of the million plus people subscribed to it. Same with Twitter, a handful of people say something then some article will write “gen z mad at Taylor swift for blah blah blah” nobody cares except a couple losers on Twitter.
Sean Larmee
2023-04-05 21:38:30 +0000 UTCIn the middle of watching it now: Honestly, I don't personally feel like not wanting kids could be selfish (especially with a reason). I've always thought that it's more selfish to bring a child into the world if anything. I've never wanted kids (just the thought sends me into a panic) but I've thought that it'd be selfish of me to bring a kid into the world when I know that that isn't something that I want or something that I could or would want to allocate that much of my time to. It's doing a disservice to the kid do do it if your heart isn't really in it...Also, the only good thing about Ian is that he has two Great Danes lol
Olivia
2023-04-05 21:38:29 +0000 UTCWho else did the Scouts honor?
Mitch Lurtz
2023-04-05 21:26:45 +0000 UTCFor the song it might be to overt, but you could at the end during the fade out have a producer character ask -Do you think people will think you are still hung up on your ex- and then respond with something like Oh god, I hope not
Avery
2023-04-05 21:21:39 +0000 UTCyou can blame me even though I didn't do anything but I never check my email so I'm the perfect scapegoat
Ola Sarcasm
2023-04-05 21:21:17 +0000 UTCThis was so real and so worth the 5 bucks to subscribe, I'm so happy this podcast is back 🥹
Victoria Borrego
2023-04-05 21:19:52 +0000 UTCbatman is that you?
10nita
2023-04-05 21:10:51 +0000 UTCQT we currently live in a world where you will never share the stage with Taylor Swift. If you become an indie sad pop star your chances become non zero. Fuck the haters and the nay sayers, live your dreams, and maybe you will sing with Taylor.
Pax Man
2023-04-05 21:08:52 +0000 UTCThe name of the song should be the date you put lyrics in your phone. Just to try and give some context that it’s not how you feel about him now. But a moment in your life. May swerve some weirdo comments
Conner Monks
2023-04-05 21:06:13 +0000 UTCQTCord told me to blame Glitch for the leak
itsmersa
2023-04-05 21:04:40 +0000 UTCThe kids conversation really hit, thank you for talking about it. Maya, I think your concern is understandable. But I feel like if you can convince strangers on the internet that discovered you through your friends/front page/etc. to care about conservation, there’s a near-zero chance your child wouldn’t care after they grew up surrounded by it
Parker
2023-04-05 20:57:10 +0000 UTCbtw you are the one who hoards all the stuff they post.... kinda weirdge
Klav
2023-04-05 20:56:51 +0000 UTCsnitch...
Klav
2023-04-05 20:55:10 +0000 UTCnight blind is real my mother has that!!
hawkmoth
2023-04-05 20:47:42 +0000 UTCNight blindness F's in chat.
Akumu2100
2023-04-05 20:47:33 +0000 UTCforsen
Klav
2023-04-05 20:45:32 +0000 UTCSick thumbnail!!!
Agustus72
2023-04-05 20:41:20 +0000 UTCI took a food science class in college and heard a symptom of vitamin A deficiency was night blindness. It's a reason why they genetically engineered golden rice, so it'd have more nutrients in it. So it has to be real because I paid money to learn it.
Murkus
2023-04-05 20:39:34 +0000 UTCWUB WUB
Snacboi
2023-04-05 20:36:30 +0000 UTCI couldn't agree more with the kids topic. I once watched a lady getting out of the car to run in somewhere that should have been a quick in a out, but she first had to take her toddler out of their car seat so she could carry them in with her. I felt so selfish in that moment because I thought " wow, imagine having to ALWAYS grab your little human and take them in wherever youre going". Also the thought of childbirth terrifies me lol so there's that.
VuhNeezy
2023-04-05 20:34:31 +0000 UTCNight blindness is real, Maya. It is a light adaptation thing.
Pnwoah
2023-04-05 20:28:12 +0000 UTChttps://www.webmd.com/eye-health/night-blindness
2382287545
2023-04-05 20:25:29 +0000 UTCIt was Matt
Ryan Bond
2023-04-05 20:22:18 +0000 UTCnight blindness is a very real thing
AbaftUser
2023-04-05 20:21:29 +0000 UTCOnly acceptable snitch
Ryan Bond
2023-04-05 20:21:23 +0000 UTCjesus glitch wtf, not cool
BS
2023-04-05 20:20:59 +0000 UTCIt was Richard
Ryan Bond
2023-04-05 20:20:57 +0000 UTCusing people that can’t understand english to scam is craaaaazyyyyy
andrew ballance
2023-04-05 20:19:43 +0000 UTCOh Boy! Ticking biological clock topic hits hard! Growing up I thought I would have kids by 25 and wasted so much of ‘the good years’ with the wrong men. Turning 30 this year and now have no idea what I want anymore. Maybe I just need a kitten…
Mitsy
2023-04-05 20:19:11 +0000 UTCI don't understand this whole night blind bs. I see in the dark perfectly fine
Glitch
2023-04-05 20:19:02 +0000 UTCThis is just Valentines day all over again, QT will be on the 100th episode of The Yard
Pax Man
2023-04-05 20:18:54 +0000 UTCImagine having that massive platform and being like ''Imma use this for hate crimes and paying kids thousands to record themselves throwing urine on their little sisters'' what an absolute freak. No leakers majj
SetRange
2023-04-05 20:18:26 +0000 UTCSorry I spam in comments too much, but I kinda see what qt means about the night blindness when she explained it (at first I was like HUH) but when there is a bright light near your eye your pupils go smaller to not let too much light in, so the opposite would be qt's pupils don't open enough to let more light in when it's dark in order to see better in the dark (sorry if this doesn't make sense)
Alaynamies
2023-04-05 20:10:49 +0000 UTCUnsolicited anonymous advice: Change the song back to two weeks. If it doesn't fit your current circumstances it makes it harder to get interneted for it.
Anonymous
2023-04-05 20:10:39 +0000 UTCNo leaksies
Richard Bergemann
2023-04-05 20:03:37 +0000 UTCPrayers for QT hope she can see in the dark one day
David A
2023-04-05 20:03:29 +0000 UTCQT is not a vampire confirmed, scout's honor ✋
Ivan Gomez
2023-04-05 19:56:16 +0000 UTCummmmmmmm...
Glitch
2023-04-05 19:54:57 +0000 UTCMy mom had me so my brother wouldn’t bury her alone
Avery Gallegos
2023-04-05 19:53:20 +0000 UTCglitch leaked the clip... sry glitch had to snitch on you
10nita
2023-04-05 19:53:11 +0000 UTCI think the editor was probably the leaker. tryna start a side hustle out here
Glitch
2023-04-05 19:51:49 +0000 UTCNight blind is real I experience it everytime I blink
CTMT
2023-04-05 19:45:56 +0000 UTCbonus time!
10nita
2023-04-05 19:45:27 +0000 UTCTo validate qt its called Nyctalopia and it is a thing, it can occur in animals too.
James Parentich
2023-04-05 19:42:24 +0000 UTCit was klav alias @klav___ aka @Klav_real 100% real not fake
AxialMars
2023-04-05 19:42:08 +0000 UTCi looked up night blindness and apparently its a thing but I'm just gonna pretend its not real ok. Mayas right!
Erin
2023-04-05 19:39:54 +0000 UTCIt should be up soon…They post the audio a few minutes after the video
xoxo_gems
2023-04-05 19:37:50 +0000 UTCThere’s a Fake Fuck in the Patreon. Let’s Fuck them up Chat😈 *Cough… Cough… Dexerto
David
2023-04-05 19:35:26 +0000 UTCwhat if dextero paid the $5 and THEY are the leaker
Matt Brummett
2023-04-05 19:33:25 +0000 UTCthe first... LEAK!?
Matt Brummett
2023-04-05 19:27:50 +0000 UTCPog we get you switching sides on the patreon
Alaynamies
2023-04-05 19:23:40 +0000 UTCThank you for the new episode!
Alaynamies
2023-04-05 19:20:47 +0000 UTCwowie btw
AxialMars
2023-04-05 19:19:03 +0000 UTCIs it possible to get an audio only version as well. Just easier for me to listen while working.
JustSomePJ
2023-04-05 19:15:35 +0000 UTCnot gonna lie, switching places threw me off for a sec
Chaotic
2023-04-05 19:13:10 +0000 UTCYay I’m excited
MicahLuv419
2023-04-05 19:11:22 +0000 UTCOkay cavin if that’s even ur real name
Jordy
2023-04-05 19:11:09 +0000 UTCback to the original places!! loving it
Alex Burgos
2023-04-05 19:09:57 +0000 UTCI vote Jordy as the leaker
Caviar
2023-04-05 19:09:05 +0000 UTCExtra hour, we’re eating good tn
Joe Conway
2023-04-05 19:06:18 +0000 UTCan hour long bonus episode omg patrons are being treateddd
Erin
2023-04-05 19:04:36 +0000 UTCWooooo
Jordy
2023-04-05 19:04:28 +0000 UTCnice i just finished the first one
this is priss
2023-04-05 19:04:12 +0000 UTC💖
Monique Rose
2023-04-05 19:03:45 +0000 UTCPog
Zay
2023-04-05 19:03:27 +0000 UTCWoohoo
Felipe Boubee
2023-04-05 19:02:50 +0000 UTCyay!!
Olising
2023-04-05 19:02:19 +0000 UTC
