Hey, Patrons! I need your insights. Help me out with my next Youtube video!
Added 2024-10-03 19:47:00 +0000 UTCHey y'all!
I want to make a next YouTube video on how we connect with our own bodies and the feelings that come up when we engage in self-touch.
Y'all know that I believe that self-touch is an important spiritual tool. But many experience shame, disconnection, or dissatisfaction when sexually engaging with their own bodies.
Please check out this video and let me know if you have thoughts to share!
Big hugs, Kaelan
Comments
I’m 67, post prostate cancer so erections and masturbation are a memory for now. I am hopeful that the feeling of that ecstasy will return soon.
Alan Coker
2024-10-05 12:03:28 +0000 UTCMasturbation to me is that solo act of spiritual introversion. It is to hold the divine masculine in one’s own hand. It is to experience the axis Mundy, that shaft which connects the underworld to the earthly and on into the heavens. And this is sacred. And it is through the ecstatic that we transcend this dimension, through the loss of ego in spastic eruptions that we connect with the divine. But it is short lived, for when the green fuse explodes, the sacred phallus returns to being a dick. We have made our sacrifice and we experience the petit mort. Therefore, it is not something to hide, to feel shame about, but something to celebrate. So pull that chain and let the cistern spill the seed.
Robert
2024-10-04 08:08:46 +0000 UTCI'm 66 and I still get caught up with the guilt around self love/masturbation. Because it's still such a taboo subject. That's one of the reasons I like your channel Because you can demonstrate that self love should look like. Unfortunately I think you are in the minority. But it's something I will continue to work on. Maybe one day I will be able to leave the feeling of guilt behind me 😊
David Calder
2024-10-04 05:48:25 +0000 UTCOk, here is my take on the topic. Starting with a general sensuous experience, a non-sexual awareness of skin, muscles, the sum total of all parts of the body... A light touch over the entire body is for me a meditative technique. It's a way to tune out distractions and pay attention to the signals my body sends out. I don't think of it as a collection of parts that are trying to talk all at once, but rather the central controller letting down the defenses and sinking to the level where the rest of my body has a strong presence. It's a way of reaffirming my true, authentic self. I am here, I occupy space, I breathe, I generate warmth, I exist, and I am happy with that. At that point I can choose to focus on sensations that elicit arousal. For me, the touching the penis frenulum and gently stroking the anal opening are consistent winners. Often there is heightened imagery based on imagination, or past experience, that contribute to an overall state of arousal. I believe arousal in a clinical sense is mediated by hormones that not only intensify the sensations but also prepare the body for a full-on sexual encounter. The mental centers of judgement and inhibition are suppressed, the heart rate increases, the ability to feel pain and pleasure change, and activities which before might not have held much interest now seem mesmerizing. Sensations that had little impact before now lead directly to orgasm and a flood of self-generated pleasure drugs. I enjoy the state of arousal itself, and often attempt to extend that experience through edging and/or mental imagery. Partly because I am listening to life at a different level while aroused, sharing that arousal with another human being becomes a powerful way to forge an emotional bond with that person. So by touching myself (in an erotic manner) I elevate myself in a way that gives me the motivation to create and strengthen positive relationships with other men. When I was younger I used self-pleasure to reward myself, to give myself something that was uniquely mine which no one could take away. Now that I am older I feel that need less and am more interested in having shared erotic experiences with others, and therefore use self-pleasure to generate healing sexual energy to share with my companion.
David Stewart
2024-10-03 21:21:27 +0000 UTC
