Becca Bellamy

Make Her Cum Five Times Before You Cum

Added 2018-08-27 22:58:18 +0000 UTC

I understand that this one is going to be impossible if you’re not in a relationship, and I apologize for that.

One of the most significant mistakes a cuckold or wannabe cuckold makes is focusing all his energy on his pleasure. Sometimes he thinks he’s focused on her pleasure, but he’s not. It turns out he’s fooling himself and everything he’s doing – even if that includes going down on her – is all about his pleasure. If you want to have a successful cuckold marriage, you need to consider her pleasure and yours, and you need to know that those two things aren’t always aligned.

That’s why I want you to focus on your wife’s pleasure with this task. I want you to give her a set number of orgasms before you let yourself cum. Five is what I would recommend to start, but if you want to go higher (like if it’s really easy to make her cum), then you can.

This task should help you remember that cuckolding (and a marriage in general) isn’t all about you. Take some time to make it about her. Find different ways to make her cum without bringing yourself to orgasm. Use your fingers, tongue, and toys. Give her an erotic massage and bring her to a climax when it’s over.

With any luck, you’ll also discover that it can be quite pleasurable to bring your wife to orgasm without cumming yourself. It’s okay to get hard, to drip precum, and to not cum. It’s okay to hold off to make the next orgasm you have even better.