righting my wrongs
Added 2025-02-08 21:05:43 +0000 UTChello my sweetest patrons! i was thinking and figured that it's important to also share this here so that you are aware of my conduct outside of patreon. i had hurt loony, a sweethearted artist very bad publicly online, yet she chose to show me so much grace when i approached her to apologise when she didn't need to.
i just posted my public apology here 🚨 if you're interested to read. it covers the summary of the incident that occurred and i tried to be as thorough, honest and transparent as i could be! you can choose to end your support for me or continue it after reading as i understand that i was a horrible role model and your money should only go to people YOU want to support!
also, here is loony's patreon if you want to go support that sweetie pie!
thankyou for reading in advance and i hope to grow and become someone worthy of the kindness and support i have been afforded by the beautiful community here, to one day be an artist that you can be proud of. i'm so sorry for my poor online conduct once again.
Comments
It is insane to me that there is a whole sphere of existence i am simply not apart of because I don't use Twitter, but I commend your honesty and transparency in all of this. I would have never known about this incident otherwise and I think learning and growing from your actions is apart of life. Good on you for taking g the time to make things right
Nerkie
2025-02-13 02:41:10 +0000 UTCBoth of you have handled this situation so incredibly gracefully and I can't wait to continue supporting both of you! 🩷
gojosgf
2025-02-12 07:55:15 +0000 UTCYou already are, my dear ❤️ none of us are perfect, and we all make mistakes. You've learnt from yours and accepted the consequences with grace and humility. I couldn't be prouder to support you 😊
Rute_Aranwen
2025-02-11 23:19:43 +0000 UTCI don't feel like you let us down, don't be so hard on yourself... I'm sure you didn't do it meanly. You made a mistake and it hurt someone, but in the end, you realized your wrongs, that person forgave you and you grew up ♡
Nana
2025-02-11 04:33:57 +0000 UTCno no already forgiven 🩷 very happy to be apart of this community !!
syd thwaites
2025-02-10 21:29:03 +0000 UTCCRAWLING AT UR FEET VANESSA!!!!!!////😭😭😭😭😭 i don’t even know what to say bc i don’t believe at this moment that i am even worth this solid belief and kindness and patience from you… even though i acted in emotion for a cause i believed it, i forgot the most fundamental thing - the human behind the screen i was targetting. that i really cannot forgive myself for and for spreading so much negativity in the communities i built as well. i’ll swallow this wall of disappointment to the pits of my stomach and remember this taste well to never fall to the snares of a warped sense of justice again to be someone deserving of your confidence in my character one day… thankyou so much my love.. really. thankyou. ❤️🥹🥹🥹
Kkumri
2025-02-10 17:19:07 +0000 UTCyes! i will promise and SWEAR from here on out to factory reset my fked up jaded attitude and rework from the inside to choose the patience, kindness and understanding that was bestowed on me that i didn’t deserve an inch of at all…. 🥹❤️ thankyou so much for your forgiveness rute, i’ll keep working to be someone worthy of it one day!!!!! 🥰
Kkumri
2025-02-10 17:15:42 +0000 UTCno thank YOU lo… ❤️❤️❤️
Kkumri
2025-02-10 17:13:45 +0000 UTCthankyou so much for your continued support nikki!! 🥹❤️ i still don’t feel like i deserve your second chance or loony’s, but the only thing to do is to sit down, digest everything i have learned the past week, and strive to be better, choose kindness, patience, and warmth everyday so that i can make both of u proud!!!! ❤️
Kkumri
2025-02-10 17:13:32 +0000 UTCshe’s really such an angel on earth i felt blinded by the light 😭😭😭 happy to learn from this lesson and get slammed so that my ass will reset and work to be a better person!!!!! i hope to be someone worthy of your second chance one day mossie!! ❤️❤️
Kkumri
2025-02-10 17:11:55 +0000 UTCp-p-pookie status regained..?! 🥹🥹🥹 i’ll protect this forever bc i never wanna lose it again!!!! thankyou for the second chance u have bestowed!!!! 🐝❤️🐝
Kkumri
2025-02-10 17:10:34 +0000 UTCnobody is perfect yes, but as an adult i really let myself and everyone down with the viciousness and scorn i let myself exhibit, it was disgusting behaviour i dont ever want to ever accept again and will work doubly hard to ensure that to be worthy of your second chance dee… ❤️ thankyou so much for forgiving and believing that i will do better 😭
Kkumri
2025-02-10 17:09:24 +0000 UTCnana… 🥺🥺🥺 i rly let u all down, i also let myself down and never want to even think of act like this again, it feels disgusting and childish and ill be doing everything i can to better myself from here on. thankyou so much for choosing to forgive me. 😭😭😭❤️
Kkumri
2025-02-10 17:07:30 +0000 UTCyes dru!!!! i wrote everything as transparently as i could bc i DONT want myself to EVER forget or EVER slip into such a horrible way of thinking ever again. i hurt a genuine person and spread poison in our community and failed to be a person of good character. there is still much inner work to be done and ill keep working hard to be worthy of your forgiveness! 🙏 thankyou for reading my letter dru! ❤️
Kkumri
2025-02-10 17:06:31 +0000 UTCexactly morgane!!! i feel like i’ve been slapped out of a slumber to realise how far i still have to go to be a better human, and im glad to have met Loony who has shown me the beautiful path of how to get there with the grace she has given me despite my horrible treatment… i’ll keep working to be a better person that you can be willing to support! thankyou for reading my letter! ❤️
Kkumri
2025-02-10 17:04:31 +0000 UTCAHAHAH yes yes in a screwed up way i’m glad you all got to meet loony, tho i wish it were under circumstances were i acted as a respectable adult instead of a shady bitch… i’ve never been this motivated to kill off that side of me since this incident and will keep working to be someone worthy of your support! thankyou for reading my letter hyo… ❤️
Kkumri
2025-02-10 17:03:00 +0000 UTConyx!!!! thankyou so much, this was the least i could do as an adult which was own up to everything i did wrong so that future me WILL remember the harm i wrongfully caused and remember loony as someone so worthy of looking up to as i grow to one day hopefully match her level of kindness and grace! thankyou for following her too and reading my letter! ❤️❤️
Kkumri
2025-02-10 17:01:19 +0000 UTCexactly syd! i reacted so harshly without even giving her the grace of a simple and open minded direct message that could have prevented any harm from happening and would’ve gained me a friend in the first place, and this is the most humbling lesson i’ve had to learn for years. seeing how understanding and thoughtful she was when met with my selfishness, it’s so beautiful and inspiring to experience and witness, and to aspire towards becoming someone like her so much. ❤️ writing that letter and bearing my sorry heart out was the least i could do to repay her kindness, and then moving forward to learn and be like her is the next step i will make myself learn to take! thankyou for supporting the art community syd, i hope you will forgive me in time. ❤️
Kkumri
2025-02-10 16:59:36 +0000 UTCIt's easy to assume bad intentions in this day and age, especially online! It's the default culture, but resisting the urge to assume the worst is game changing for me personally. The more we work to improve ourselves every time we make a mistake, the happier our futures will be ❤️
Emptee
2025-02-10 16:56:00 +0000 UTCyou are completely right to be disappointed by my attitude!! i hate so much how i acted and see now how far more there is to go toward becoming someone kinder, more welcoming and supportive when in comparison to loony. this is such a tight community that i let down, and she is a blooming artist i should’ve helped to uplift. i’ll keep working harder to become a creator more worthy of my platform and to embrace humility and all the beauty that comes with it! i’m sorry for letting you down ridley. ❤️
Kkumri
2025-02-10 16:55:38 +0000 UTCthankyou so much for forgiving me and continuing to support! 🥹🫂🫂 will keep doing my best to be a better person and empathetic artist to be worthy of your kindness!!!!
Kkumri
2025-02-10 16:52:49 +0000 UTCnot only was it acting rashly, but i rly took time to reflect in my attitude issues that even allowed these thoughts to form… i’ll be working doubly hard to rid myself of this condescendence and learn to appreciate every human around me who’s just doing what they love and just loving them for that, for creating! that’s what we were all meant to do. ❤️ thankyou for reading my letter emptee 🥹 i’ll work on becoming a better person as hard as i can!
Kkumri
2025-02-10 16:50:42 +0000 UTCit really is the other way round!!! thankyou for even making the time to read my letter fio, and i’m sorry for showing this ugly side of me… ❤️
Kkumri
2025-02-10 16:48:38 +0000 UTCthis mistake was not just a slip of a tongue but the manifestation of my condescending attitude! it’s smth i really got rightfully woken up about and willing to kill off bc idw this in my soul at all festering anymore, it is disgusting behaviour to have exhibited so publicly to top it off,,, thankyou for being so kind on my always taytay, i love u so much and yes more art friends for us to enjoy from this incident!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥹
Kkumri
2025-02-10 16:47:48 +0000 UTCyes… in this case especially, i owe everything to her grace for opening her heart to entertain what i had to say and my requests to compensate her for the damage i caused. none of it would’ve been possible if she had completely within her rights blocked me off so this whole incident was only able to be resolved bc of her willingness to build an open community that fosters forgiveness. 😭🥺 my mistakes and attitude were horrible but from here on out i will swear to work on myself everyday to be better to make everyone and loony proud to call me their friend. thankyou so much for staying and forgiving me, gokult! 🫂🫂🫂
Kkumri
2025-02-10 16:45:32 +0000 UTCAlly, thanks so much for sharing. I’m not active on X, so I had no clue any of this was going on. Like many others have said, mistakes are inevitable as we continue in life; in equal turn, the most important thing in the aftermath is to own up and recognize those mistakes, which you took in stride and did in spades. I think the ultimate interaction you had with Loony was incredibly sweet, and speaks a lot to both of your characters! I think the way you chose to apologize was full of integrity, and already served as an example of how you’ve learned from the entire experience by focusing solely on Loony, privately, before approaching it on a public level. I can’t speak for Loony, but I’m sure she appreciated how you put her first, above all else, once you realized your mistake!!! She seems so sweet, and I’m glad that you guys were able to figure it all out and reach a true understanding on the situation:-) Lastly, I hope you give yourself grace as well. Your apology was so well thought out and really covered so many bases, but I could also tell you were really beating yourself up about it. At the end of the day, it was a difficult mistake to swallow, but you should take genuine pride in how you handled the aftermath. Not many have the guts to admit when they’re wrong, and it says a lot about your moral compass and doing what you think is right. It’s hard when you’re a bigger artist/name (genuinely can’t imagine having so many eyes on me lol), and it can make mistakes feel so overwhelming and make the scrutiny sooo intense… I hope you can move forward from here, too! Really glad to be following you and continue to witness your journey:-)
gokult
2025-02-10 00:22:55 +0000 UTCThe fact that you were able to learn and grow from this is reason enough for me to stay here and support you. We are all humans and humans make mistakes. Thank you for your transparency and also thank you for introducing me to a new artist. I hadn’t come across loony’s stuff until now and I’m so happy to have another person in the community to support!!! ♥️ sending love and letting you know you have a listening ear in me if you ever need it.
tay
2025-02-09 18:44:09 +0000 UTCI’m really proud of you Ally, and thankful to have a friend as thoughtful and willing to listen as you ❤️
Fio
2025-02-09 16:27:20 +0000 UTCHey this is a very thorough Loony-centered apology. I'm glad you took your time to form a well thought out, nuanced, apology. Having a public platform means that acting rashly exposes you to a lot of scrutiny instantaneously and you handled it remarkably well in your follow up actions imo ❤️ which is really the most we can ask for after making a mistake
Emptee
2025-02-09 11:44:00 +0000 UTCI had not realised this was happening, but I am glad to have found out about it this way. I won’t say anything about your mistake because you’ve clearly done your mea culpa and learned many valuable lessons. What I will say is that I appreciate you owning the mistake, doing what you can to rectify it (in many different ways), and talking about it openly, genuinely, and HUMANELY. Yes, we all fuck up. It’d be great to skip all those and to never hurt anyone but that’s just not possible. I’m sure you’ll now be more aware about your platform and the importance of community and that is invaluable!
drukookie
2025-02-09 11:01:40 +0000 UTCHumans make mistakes, it’s in our nature. The most important thing to me is what you learned from it and it seems like you learned a lot. Also, you didn’t hide, you apologized publicly. I have no reason to judge you or stop supporting you, quite the contrary ♡
Nana
2025-02-09 07:23:28 +0000 UTCkkumri you are very epic for owning up to your mistakes 💗💗💗 pookie status regained
Bee
2025-02-09 04:51:23 +0000 UTCI'm very happy that you've apologized and we're able to learn from your mistakes!! Loony is so kind for hearing you out she seems so sweet!
mossie
2025-02-09 03:15:51 +0000 UTCThe way you handled this and the way looney responded is proof that I can still support you. Thank you for your honesty and trying to make up for your mistakes towards her. I'm glad that you two were able to work it out! ❤️
Nikki Huh
2025-02-09 02:06:29 +0000 UTCwe are proud of you! ty❤️🩹
lo
2025-02-09 02:03:13 +0000 UTCIt would take a lot to make me consider not supporting you. We’re all humans and we all make impulsive decisions based on emotions and this situation certainly made you feel something. That doesn’t mean the feelings were invalid, but allowing them to dictate a rash decision that impacted another individual was obviously not the right action to take. Yet the fact that you recognized that this wasn’t right and that the action taken in the heat of heightened emotions was wrong proves that you aren’t a bad person, and taking accountability for that action, addressing it with the individual who was slighted and discussing it with people who might also feel hurt or frustrated by it all further proves that you are a wonderful person at heart who is, like all people, susceptible to their own emotions. I appreciate everyone for their flaws, but being able to overcome them is what makes us even more amazing and beautiful. Like I said, it would take a great deal to make me stop supporting you. Even after a situation like this. I had complete faith that you would find the right path, regardless of what brambles may have caused you to stumble along the way. But thank you for sharing and continuing to care about your community and their thoughts and feelings because that further proves who you are as a person and how much you care. I’m glad you were able to work things out with loony and I’m sure she sees this caring side of you just as much as I do, despite how your paths crossed.
Vanessa N
2025-02-09 00:24:34 +0000 UTCI have been a bit detached from socmed lately so I was unaware of this. However, in saying that, I am very proud to see you owning a mistake and apologising for it, inclusively making amends as necessary. It's a brave and honest thing to do, and my respect for you has only increased. I won't leave anytime soon. It takes courage to stand up for what you believe, and more so when we mess up in the process. I'm satisfied you learnt to be more careful, and that you will look out for others more gently in future. So I'm not worried at all 😊
Rute_Aranwen
2025-02-09 00:09:38 +0000 UTCThank you for this, Ally. 🥹 Nobody’s perfect, we all make mistakes, but what matters most is that we’re humble enough to acknowledge when we’re wrong and that we do something to right those wrongs. I’m happy you and Loony have communicated and formed a friendship! Thank you, and I’m happy to be supporting an extremely talented human being who is willing to learn and grow through life. ❤️
ree
2025-02-08 23:02:35 +0000 UTCwhat you did wasn't right but you realized your mistake and apologized to her and now to us and that’s a really mature attitude and not everyone is capable to admit there’s mistakes like this so thank you 🫶🏼 and i think if Loony has already forgiven you and everything is now good between you two, then the most important thing to do now is to learn from your mistakes and never do the same thing again! you're human and humans make mistakes 💕
morgane
2025-02-08 22:59:30 +0000 UTCThis is a huge reminder that the size of a mistake seems so much smaller than the size of its correction and you’re dealing with that. You’re a nice person, Ally. Our shitty and irresponsible side can come out sometimes (unfortunately). Loony is also a very lovely person and it’s very nice of her to accept your regret. I know neither of you wanted it to go this way, but at least more people (myself included) got to meet Loony because of this situation (lol?).
hyo
2025-02-08 22:09:38 +0000 UTCThis was a very big and mature thing to do. A lot of people wouldn't have owned up to their mistakes and taken the blame and taken steps to make it right and not taken this as a learning opportunity to improve and do better. You did a bad thing but you also showed humility and accountability. For that, I'll continue to support. Looney is also a sweetie! Love her art! So I'll definitely be subscribing to her patreon - once I get on desktop, though (apple user 😔)! Edited to remove the part about following her on Tumblr; I thought she was on Tumblr because I saw some of her art on it, but she is not. Someone posted it and credited her. Edited again to fix left out word(s) in the edit.
Onyx
2025-02-08 22:08:28 +0000 UTCi appreciate your honesty and effort to help fix the situation. we all make mistakes and we all have emotions. im sure you’ve learned from this experience but so have a lot of other people as well. its important to pay attention and learn as much as you can before making comments. it’s good you realized the mistake and immediately did everything you could to fix it. that’s something i am glad to see from anyone. Loony, as we read, was extremely mature and understanding and showed us how we should handle situations like this. at the end of the day, the misunderstandings were sorted out and the supporters were loyal. it’s not easy to admit being in the wrong so thank you for your bravery as well as you supporting and sharing about another artist. i’m always happy to discover new art and now i will follow Loony’s journey as well. i’m very much looking forward to the works from all artists involved and am glad the issue could be settled.
syd thwaites
2025-02-08 21:46:40 +0000 UTCWhile I'm disappointed by the behavior, your reaction and acceptance is very appreciated. It's not often people learn from mistakes and do the right thing. As a community that is meant to be uplifting and share in the passion we have, this is the best outcome I can see with what happened. Cheers to you and Loony, hoping things stay good 👍 Please don't use your platform to target other creators tho. It's meant to showcase your own talent and work which I've been following long before patreon. No reason to focus on others, tho I understand the knee-jerk reaction sometimes to things we see out there in the fandom wild lands.
Ridley Ghost
2025-02-08 21:38:36 +0000 UTCI admire you so much and absolutely adore your art. I truly appreciate that you took the time to learn and make everything okay between you and her! thank you!! I’m proud to continue supporting you :3 💗
bri
2025-02-08 21:35:42 +0000 UTCSHES THE SWEETEST PEA!!!! i also 1000% agree, everything i did was downright wrong, even though i thought i had a cause i was fighitrng for, the least i should have done was conduct a thorough investigation... clearing her name and reimbursing her was the top of my priority and i expect nothing to be returned to me as this was just the right thing to do to make up for my mistakes. thankyou so much for reading my letter ren!!!! ill keep improving so that youll be proud!!!
Kkumri
2025-02-08 21:27:57 +0000 UTCSOB thankyou for giving me a second chance even tho i do not deserve your kindness. i love this community so much too and thats why it hurt so bad knowing that i let eveyrone down. i hope to grow into a person that you can be proud to support, ellen!!!!
Kkumri
2025-02-08 21:25:50 +0000 UTCDEFINTIELY! i jumped the gun on an innocent person and that's the biggest sin anyone can make, esp when we have such a tight knit community i was supposed to help protect and make positive. thankyou for not cutting me any slack!!!!!! we may be human and make mistakes, but i will NEVER allow myself to make one like this again. thankyou so much for taking your time to read my letter!!! 💖
Kkumri
2025-02-08 21:24:48 +0000 UTCThis post was definitely needed, and the way it was handled was the best that could be done. Loony was so sweet and I hope her patreon works out just like she dreams. The hair trigger reaction you had was ill-led, but it wasn't with ill-intention, and had a lengthy and in depth apology. I particularly like that you focused on loony first rather than saving face with your community. Well done in the end, and definitely a huge learning point<3
Ren Kennemore
2025-02-08 21:21:20 +0000 UTCyes she was so so mature and i learned so much about how healing and far love can go when we choose it over hate! i hope to regain your trust in time through my actions! 💖💖
Kkumri
2025-02-08 21:19:29 +0000 UTCi truly appreciate you taking the time to make such a sincere and in depth apology, i will be continuing to support you on patreon now, i love this community and i hope we can all grow from this situation in the end!
Ellen
2025-02-08 21:19:23 +0000 UTCthere was 1000% a need! i want u all to always know what kind of person youre supporting bc this is your hard earned money!!!! ill work hard to become a good, then a better person, so i can make you proud wendy!
Kkumri
2025-02-08 21:18:43 +0000 UTCthankyou for giving me a second chance Mélissa! i DID lead the harassment campaign and will do everything i can to pay back for all the damage caused so that you can trust in me again.
Kkumri
2025-02-08 21:18:05 +0000 UTCofc!!!! i have the repsonsibility to be transparent with you all here and you should have the right to know what kind of person youre supporting!!! i hope to gain back trust from you in time and will work hard to be a better person you can be proud to support kam!
Kkumri
2025-02-08 21:16:58 +0000 UTCDid you do a bad thing? Yes. Did you own up to it and publicly apologize to us and to Loony? Also yes. Did you take the time to understand what you did was wrong? Yes. In my eyes, that’s the best thing to do. We’re all human, we all make mistakes. What’s important is to own up to them and learn from them. Hopefully from this situation, you’ve learned to always check your facts before making decisions that lead to these sorts of situations! 🩷
Haruka_Tsukiko1432
2025-02-08 21:16:47 +0000 UTCI think your ability to recognize your wrongs AND take public accountability is something you should be proud of. Even with a tough multilayered situation, thank you for being transparent with us🥹🫶🏻
Kam
2025-02-08 21:12:59 +0000 UTCThank you for your apology, which I hope is sincere. Hopefully it won't happen again as it was just gratuitous harassment. Public apologies are appreciated, so I'll continue to support you here.
Mélissa Vendret
2025-02-08 21:10:59 +0000 UTCThere was no need for this post and apology, but im so proud of you and how u handled the Situation after realizing what was wrong Keep on on being a good person 🫶
Wendy
2025-02-08 21:09:56 +0000 UTCthank you for taking the time and effort and being honest Ally 💖💜 this entire thing was a lot but seeing how Loony approached it and you responded gives me hope fr^^ truly the essence of Haikyuu irl 🫶
yuna✌︎('ω')✌︎
2025-02-08 21:08:27 +0000 UTC
