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Added 2023-08-26 17:23:36 +0000 UTCIf you don't want to date a woman who has an only fans, that's absolutely your prerogative. But when people say this it's as if they're implying that Onlyfans women are just constantly begging these guys to give them a chance. Me thinks the audacity doth protest too much.
If you don't want to be with a woman who makes NSFW content, that's your business. Just stop saying it like you're making some kind of important statement. No one gives a fuck, especially not the women on OnlyFans.
I'm 100% on board for people having their preferences. I have preferences. We all do. I wouldn't date someone in the army, I wouldn't date someone who lived in a different country, or someone who had polar opposite beliefs to me, but I know those are just my personal preferences - they're not something that needs to be made into a waving flag of 'look at me and my morals'.
Also, the same people who degrade NSFW content creators are often the people who consume it the most. Sort yourself out. I don't go to MacDonalds, and then berate the people working there.
Be an adult. Mind your business and treat people like human beings.
I've had people message me saying that 'I should be disgusted with myself' when they've paid to access the content I'm providing. Like, mate, you're the one jacking it to someone pretending to orgasm and then getting mad about it. Be like a regular person, have your wank and go about your day.
Also, it's interesting that women aren't shaming male NSFW content creators. I'm sure there are some. Women have the potential to be just as entitled and hate-filled as men, but you don't see it nearly as often. Once again, misogyny and what women do with their bodies and sexuality will never not be made 'much ado about nothing'.
P.S. Just a huge thank you to the vast majority of normal people who come for the wholesome degeneracy and then live their life. I appreciate you. I recently just signed up to an OnlyFans. I watched my porn, I paid my subscription and I didn't make it my whole personality. Thank you for showing me the way. It's nice to be on the other side of it.
Comments
Drinking/drugs never help brother, sorry to hear that this happened to you. Being in a different country might be a blessing though. Try doing some new things and meeting some new people at a new place, and I don't mean meeting people to sleep with them.
CrowKnows
2023-08-27 15:57:45 +0000 UTCI don't think that it is largely a male thing. I do think that men have a tendency to not mention things that bother them, so it might be more like a 60/40 kind of thing. It does suck that people can be so self-contradicting, It really put things into perspective when you post things like this. Makes your job seem much less glamorous. If you want to look at the other side go to R/nicegirls, it's a good reminder that people are mostly the same regardless of gender.
CrowKnows
2023-08-27 15:50:40 +0000 UTCI mean it's a pretty clear complex that someone has to be putting down the shit that they regularly consume 🤷
rolotony97
2023-08-27 14:01:37 +0000 UTCAlso I'm not a fan, I'm a person. I'm not an apparatus with rotating blades that creates a current of air for cooling or ventilation, nor am I a device, typically folding and shaped like a segment of a circle when spread out, that is held in the hand and waved so as to cool the person holding it by causing the air to move. I'm a human. So this "Only_Fans" thing confuses me.
Zodiac
2023-08-27 12:13:28 +0000 UTC... Huh... I find rants like this both enjoyable to read, due to the person making said rant clearly having a point to make, and hard to react to. Ya ever hear of a movie called Zardoz?
Zodiac
2023-08-27 12:09:31 +0000 UTCWisdom as it is always needed. Thank you for this, Tea.
Camilo Iribarren
2023-08-27 05:09:40 +0000 UTCI was fine with her having an only fans
BiggerBoss
2023-08-27 01:51:52 +0000 UTCI just broke up with a girl I’ve been with for four years, she had an only fans. Then one day she stopped responding to my messages, I tried to call her to make sure she was ok. She eventually responded saying she had a stalker and then blamed me for giving him her info. She said I sent it to him and she said she had photos. I asked her if I could see them, she didn’t show them. We got into an argument then things cooled down. She once again stopped responding to my messages, and while I was on a field op I pulled up her only fans. She posted a video of her sucking someone else’s dick. Been fucked up ever since because I’m in a different country right now with no one to talk to. No one to move on with…. Ngl I’ve started to drink a lot but it’s not helping.
BiggerBoss
2023-08-27 01:50:34 +0000 UTCWork is work, I believe that if you have a skill and know how then that’s fantastic it’s what makes us interesting and unique. From OF models down to a humble gas station cashier, at the end of the day we’re human and deserve respect.
Etsiddy Steel
2023-08-27 00:21:14 +0000 UTCI'd steered clear from all of the Andrew Tate discourse for a long time but recently watched a few video essays about him and this extreme resurgence of toxic masculinity/misogyny. Things have gotten really bad haven't they? It's a monstrous ideology that strips away the intrinsic human value of women. Essentialism run amok in gender discourse. Even in the comments of wholesome YouTube videos, I see these guys (many of them are probably pre-teen or teen boys) debasing themselves for watching the content just because it's like a relationship-insert type of video. They feel it makes them lesser and I feel bad for them. Like, you don't have to live like this. Unironically, they need to realize that they are Kenough and that romantic relationships shouldn't define who they are. Find comfort where you can if you need it, the creators made the content to be consumed, so no need to feel guilty about consuming it. To anyone who reads this, I'm sure I'm just preaching to the choir. In reality, the boys and men who needs to hear this need someone that cares about them and that they trust to set them on the straight and narrow. And even then, it'll be a long and tedious process. All things equal, I believe progressive values will win out. Fascists and other reactionaries are self-destructive. And we cannot afford to lose.
SavvyCat
2023-08-27 00:14:53 +0000 UTCThis is usually my hang up with these types of people.... is that they will say all this shit about "I WON'T DATE A WOMEN WITH AN ONLYFANS/MAKES X rated content blah blah blah"...........but they are they ones consuming the stuff.....like that makes no sense to me. Like I honestly have no dramas with people not wanting to date a NSFW creator, but if you are saying that, you can't be consuming the content at the same time.
Hazamatoxin
2023-08-26 22:37:22 +0000 UTCNever got why people are so werid about buying for porn.Not saying you should give your life savings to a pornstar or anything.But there is nothing wrong with giving a few dollars to support a creator you enjoy
Dean
2023-08-26 19:31:40 +0000 UTCSorry you’ve had to deal with that and also appreciate you for sharing the bitch slap of truth.
Da Doofus
2023-08-26 18:48:14 +0000 UTC💜💜💜💜💕💝💌💞💯✅💜💜💜💜
Lost Puppy
2023-08-26 18:30:16 +0000 UTCWhilst I appreciate the generous compliment, I really am not a boss bitch. I’m an autistic, sexually repressed woman who just wants to nap and walk her dogs. I feel like I used to try and project this image that I was “empowered” by the NSFW content, but in all honesty, my sexuality is messed up from childhood. I don’t find it empowering, but neither do I find it degrading. I’m literally acting. And if that acting can be monetised and people enjoy it - brilliant. Thank you for the kind words, lovely 😊
TeacupAudio
2023-08-26 18:13:26 +0000 UTCThat’s very sweet, but honestly, I don’t think it’s going to happen and I am mostly good with that. I believe you can make a good life whatever your status. Life is for “it’ll be better when” it’s for “I’m going to enjoy this now” ☺️
TeacupAudio
2023-08-26 18:10:29 +0000 UTCI personally tend to hold a lot of women who do nsfw in a higher regard. Not in like a simp sorta way. But because it's inspirational to see people who are willing to just go out there and do it. I'm still struggling to find work that I can stick to. And they're out here being boss bitches, respectfully. P.S. You are also a boss bitch Tea. 💜
Warden D.
2023-08-26 18:09:36 +0000 UTCI believe there is someone out there for you. You have such a good vibe of positivity about you. There's someone out there looking for you just like you are looking for them.
Casey Hengstebeck
2023-08-26 18:03:30 +0000 UTCDoing Only Fans or making NSFW content is like dating a hooker to these people. 100% these people are projecting, while they sit there going on and on about they want a boring trad girlfriend/wife and how Modern women are evil sex crazed witches all they do is buy pussy, consume a fuck ton of porn and are the biggest degenerates. I beleive they are ashamed of themselves so they blame others for what they consume. Women doing sex work, are really out there with their sexuality, sleep around and being shamed for it is something I touch on in one of my NSFW series about a family of sex witches I write. I strongly beleive that women have the right to do all of this and people need to mind their own business, leave them alone or have an open mind.
Jeremy Knight
2023-08-26 18:02:50 +0000 UTCThis is the problem with the internet. People shouldn't have opinions. Who gives a shit if a woman wants to make porn on the Internet? That's her choice, not yours. Don't like it, you don't have to date her but don't make a big deal out of it. (I know I basically just repeated what she just said. I'm just saying I agree)
Xandred_Bass
2023-08-26 18:00:32 +0000 UTCGood insight as always Tea. Thanks for this PoP as always.
Phoenix Brave Hideki
2023-08-26 17:53:56 +0000 UTCYou should make a book with you quotes that shit will sell lmao
That_dutch_guy
2023-08-26 17:48:15 +0000 UTCPeople actually get off to your ASMR nswf audios 😂. Strange because I find them super adorable and somehow end up fast asleep 😴
TheNoisy
2023-08-26 17:47:26 +0000 UTCAnd that's what's so incredibly sad. I've also been in cars with different people, been to restaurants, gone on trips, and yet somehow those things are not up for comparison, are they? This is why it's so important to de-sensationalise sex. It's an activity. It's not bad or good. It's just an act. I went on a dating site semi-recently, and before this guy knew anything about me, he started talking about how he thought women who had had more than five partners were 'disgusting'. I just immediately noped out and had a cry on the bed. I am taking single-dom to the grave :D
TeacupAudio
2023-08-26 17:40:50 +0000 UTCOpinions are like butts. We all have them, and they sometimes stink. It's life, and we should be better than judgy jerks.
Blindluck92
2023-08-26 17:40:21 +0000 UTCThey're often the biggest perverts of us all. I honestly just feel the world would be so much better if people didn't make such a fucking fuss about body parts going into different holes. Because that's literally all that's happening! Madness! :D
TeacupAudio
2023-08-26 17:37:42 +0000 UTCThis kind of behavior is just an expression of insecurity. Guys like this are threatened by any woman they perceive as "more experienced" then them. Just remember that when a guy says stuff like that to you what he's really saying is "I can't handle a relationship with someone that has had partners before me". They are terrified of being compared unfavorably to another man.
Casey Hengstebeck
2023-08-26 17:36:44 +0000 UTCIt's just social shaming in order to control behavior. Which is good. Being a degen isn't fun if it's socially acceptable. It's also massive projection. Like the family values politician getting caught at a gay orgy these people are probably posting from their goon caves.
Jmann1892
2023-08-26 17:33:56 +0000 UTCIt never ends, does it?
Mike Taylor
2023-08-26 17:31:31 +0000 UTCIn my personal opinion idc as long as she not actually doing “it” with other guys idc make your money
Ricky
2023-08-26 17:29:14 +0000 UTC🖤
June
2023-08-26 17:27:56 +0000 UTCGods some people just don’t know when to shut up, huh?
Flux Goodra
2023-08-26 17:27:52 +0000 UTC
