Everything I Imagined.. [NSFW][Comfort & Support for Disability]

The way he carefully asked the question about getting physical.. reassuring us that he's not judging us but wanting to communicate as peaceful as possible.. it honestly made me tear up. I've been struggling with my mental illness/disability and feeling very unlovable and this just... helps. Idk if you wrote this one K but whether you did or not the delivery and choice of words were exactly what I needed to hear. The sweetness, patient tone in your voice helps me feel comforted. You help me so much with my loneliness. I'm sure others would agree. Nights have been so hard for me lately because of so many real life problems and I will listen to audios here and YT to help and they truly truly do.. Sure I come on here to get freaky lol but I can't express how much of a support your audios have been. Thank you

Sad

Wow thank you for making this i have both visible and non- visible disabilities and this was somewhat therapeutic haha! 10 out 10

yajhaira arredondo

I absolutely loved this! I'm someone with invisible disabilities. I really appreciate this scenario.

Hue hue hue

Really appreciate this as someone with an invisible disability

Linde

Ok, as someone with an invisible disability I’m going to try to give my perspective on this. Obviously something like an invisible disability is very different from a physical one. For me, this did work as comfort, because my concern isn’t really if I’m able to do certain things but rather if my partner would like me more/be more attracted to me if I were healthy. Imagine it like body image issues (which I also have but we are not going to get into that). It’s more about what’s in your head. For example “Maybe they would be happier with a healthy person? Am I being a burden to them because of my disability? Would they like me more if I was healthy? Do they have to compromise a lot because of me?” Those kinds of intrusive thoughts you know. Also, having a disability doesn’t make you feel very sexy, at least it doesn’t make me. That’s why, at least for me, having someone show you that they are in fact very attracted to you and do love and want you is worth more than a lot of other things. No matter what someone would say, it doesn’t change the fact that you are disabled. No matter how much someone try’s, they will most likely never truly understand what it feels like or what you are dealing with. The only thing they can do is support you, help you when you need it and affirm you (may that be physically or emotionally).

Clara Catlady

Ok, I read your comment and listened to the audio. As someone with an invisible disability I’m going to try to give my perspective on this. Obviously something like an invisible disability is very different from a physical one. For me, this did work as comfort, because my concern isn’t really if I’m able to do certain things but rather if my partner would like me more/be more attracted to me if I were healthy. Imagine it like body image issues (which I also have but we are not going to get into that). It’s more about what’s in your head. For example “Maybe they would be happier with a healthy person? Am I being a burden to them because of my disability? Would they like me more if I was healthy? Do they have to compromise a lot because of me?” Those kinds of intrusive thoughts you know. Also, having a disability doesn’t make you feel very sexy, at least it doesn’t make me. That’s why, at least for me, having someone show you that they are in fact very attracted to you and do love and want you is worth more than a lot of other things. No matter what someone would say, it doesn’t change the fact that you are disabled. No matter how much someone try’s, they will most likely never truly understand what it feels like or what you are dealing with. The only thing they can do is support you, help you when you when need it and affirm you (may that be physically or emotionally).

Clara Catlady

Thank you for posting this I have a learning disability.

Giselle Webber

awww thx for the advice ❤️❤️

Yasmeen 1995

Hello Yasmeen! Welcome to K's Patreon! My name is Pamela. My best advice as to where to start, is to start when he first started doing the audios(which is in January 2 years ago). Go to the Month tab, and click on January of 2019. Then go month by month. That is what I did. It will take you some time, but it's so worth it. If you have any questions, don't be afraid to ask me. Happy listening, once again welcome to K's patreon. :-)

Pamela

do you like cheese curds

i just subscribed and idk from where i should start 😭❤️❤️

Yasmeen 1995

OMG, K! Please do Untouched!!!🙏

Abby

idk maybe they also want to reach people who aren't on patreon. or they're uncomfortable with sharing it here?

Ngl I find it a bit sus that they don't post their ideas in comments or on the community board, it's giving minor or listening illegally vibes 😅 good ideas though 🥵

Chippy Chips

i just read all of them and they are really really hot haha

Van

https://imfeelingfroblymobly.tumblr.com/post/662166503700021248/more-boyfriendaudio-prompts-bc-im-sexually

Guys there was another part of the prompts posted on tumblr O.o

I personally Love being called Kitten.... I once had an ex call me his old lady..... well now he is my ex.

Dana

yeah i’m sure there are tonnes that some people hate that i love, so of course i’m okay with everyone’s opinions. hopefully what i said initially won’t cause anyone any offence as i know many people enjoy it

niamh

You are not alone. I'm sure there are people that don't like certain terms of endearment.

Pamela

😂 Don't worry Pamela, I was also joking. Totally agree, Sage!

RoRo

am i in the minority here when i said i can’t stand the use of ‘kitten’? idk, something about it just offsets me when i’m really into an audio

niamh

I agree with you guys as well the quick stops can never hurt during a trip to such an amazing destination😏

sage ❦

Oh RoRo, I was just kidding about the DM's. I was by no means wanting him to slide into them. I have way too much respect for him. I was just making everyone smile, that's all.

Pamela

😂 Yeah K loves a little trip to pound town. I agree it would also be nice in other audios too!

RoRo

I get what you mean Roro, I know K gets really into it and likes to go pound town but a quick stop to check in and make sure everything is okay is nice and it shows that he’s attentive and considerate. I wouldn’t be opposed to seeing this even outside of disability centered audios.

Thanks for your thoughts guys. Yeah I totally agree about keeping it vague and I had never expected him to be explicit about it. That part of my comment was more just me thinking out loud. I suppose my main point was about the lack of check-ins or reference to the disability once they actually got down to it. I felt like if you skipped the first part where they're actually discussing it, it's not really obvious that it's a "comfort for disability" audio. But yeah perhaps that was a conscious choice. Either way it was still a good audio! Unfortunately due to the lack of patron to patron messaging options I'll have to leave it to K to slide into your DMs Pamela...😂

RoRo

Hey RoRo. I agree with you. Having a physical disability, and yes have had sex numerous times(yes people with physical disabilities do have sex just like non-disabled people. We enjoy it just as much). I feel like K was pointing out the fact that the woman he was involved with had a disability, but to actually say the name, maybe because he would have to go into detail, of what she could/couldn't do and talking about being intimate with someone who has a disability would take longer than 30 min. (trust me on that). I know that K did not want to offend anyone who had a disability, so to pin point the disability down, might do that. I'm glad he didn't go oh you have(insert name of disability here). Like I said in my original comment, K did an amazing job, at a subject matter, that he may or may not have had any experience with being intimate with someone with a disability. This next part will hopefully make everyone laugh, (including you K). If you would like to have experience with someone who has a disability, then well my DM's are always open. EVERYONE I'M KIDDING! DON'T TAKE THAT PART SERIOUS PLEASE!

Pamela

Hey RoRo! I hope your day/week is going well! I thought about this too but I just think he might’ve been vague specifically so he wouldn’t offend someone who does have a specific disability and so it could be relatable for those with physical and intellectual disabilities and/or impairments. Another thing I think came into play was the fact (as far as I know) K doesn’t have a disability so maybe he wanted to stay in the clear because it might’ve been things he wasn’t sure about or even things he didn’t know how to write it into the script . I do agree with you though that many details weren’t majorly explicit. [I don’t have a disability so please correct if I anything was offensive/wrong !!]

sage ❦

After a second listen I have some thoughts...I did really enjoy this audio, it had some of my favourite K features...sleepy K, caring K, supportive K...and of course those moans 🥵...but at some points I kind of forgot this was meant to be a "comfort for disability" audio at all. Just to be clear, I don't have any kind of disability so apologies if any of this sounds silly or insensitive. Firstly, I found it kind of hard to conceptualise what kind of disability the listener had, particularly as it was implied that it was an invisible disability. I know this is open to interpretation and I understand the use of vagueness to be able to have more people relate to it but, as I mentioned, the "comfort for disability" aspect kind of got lost at some points for me. There didn't seem to be any kind of mobility issues, mentions of pain, needing to taking a break etc. Obviously I'm aware that many people with disabilities are able to have sex in much the same way as an able bodied person, so maybe this was something K was trying to highlight. Maybe my expectations were off but I kind of expected there to be more check-ins or discussions about positions etc. There were several position changes and no mention of any of them being unattainable or needing to be modified for any reason. I was also kind of surprised at the lack of listener input into these. "Turn on your side", "Spread your legs", "Get on top of me"...I feel like it would have been nice to have more "How would you be most comfortable?", "Does this work for you?", "Of course, we can try another way..." I'd be interested to hear anyone else's thoughts on this too if anyone wants to share, opposing opinions welcome of course!

RoRo