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Housekeeping~

Warning: Not a roleplay, not meant for ASMR, and not regular programming. This is just me sitting down for a candid talk on recent issues in the community. 

Housekeeping~

Comments

Wait, I'm late to all of this and don't understand what exactly happened? I'm sorry but I'm a little confused. Can someone explain what happened from the beginning?

Nicole Pettway

It is hard (I think impossible) to please everyone, man. It seems like you are doing your best and do care about all of us and that is all I can ask for ❤️

Mak Mak

Hey k I usually never comment because I’m shy and I do always worry about what others might think because I’m 38 and listen to audios I have had my fair share of bullying mainly on yt cuz on yt I’d comment to give the artist kudos for how talented they are and you wouldn’t believe how many people attacked me for that so that’s why I never comment I myself have hidden disabilities so it hurts me a lot more then it would others when I get comments like that which is why I haven’t really commented here but after hearing you and how caring and supportive you try to be with everyone in the community I felt I needed/wanted to because you are one of the few artist who actually is sincere I know other are to don’t get me wrong but I can hear it in your voice how much you want everyone here to feel welcomed and accepted and it hurts you that people are sad or getting treated poorly just like it does us and that means so much thank you k for standing up for us without a voice thank you for caring so much thank your for just being you and thank you to all the beautiful people in this amazing community for being so understanding and wonderful let’s come together and not let hate in anymore let’s do this for k and for each other so we have a safe happy place to come to when are real life’s suck or if we just need to get away for a bit

foxy kitty

Support with Love , love you K XOXOX love from J

Kwan Kwan

you know what, i have no idea whats going on but i might as well comment. I'm not gonna talk abt the situation in itself because i personally can't idk whats going on. But i am simply gonna forget i saw this post. Fr like K rly saved me from a lot of bad stuff in my life and even though i promised myself to just distance myself from creators who are "problematic" i just can't do that to K rn 🦆 goofy gawd damn ik

Who's Patti?

Okay fair enough, but Patti has gone...supposedly, so presumably she's not going to say any more on the matter and it doesn't look like K is either.

Chippy Chips

Yeah my fess up comment was directed to both of them, not just K.

Abby

What makes you so sure he has anything to fess up to? You're right that something doesn't add up but that doesn't mean K is the one lying here.

Chippy Chips

Is all this gonna stop me from listening to boyfriend audio? No. However, if Patti’s recollection checks out, he did her wrong and lied to all of us. Only 2 people know the truth, but something doesn’t add up so just fess up to what you did , we all make mistakes.

Abby

Im not on twitter like im so confused @ITFOFF can u or anyone explain i wanna make sure im supporting the right ppl

I completely understand when we feel a certain way that we want someone to address how are you feel right now. And we’re all entitled to our opinions. I hope that will all remember from listening to audios and YouTube that K has been true for us. This other person has no other plans other than to tear down what he’s been building and the way we feel about him. Crabs in a barrel we’ve all learned about them this person seems to only want to make sure that they have her K I don’t know what that’s about. K has told you that he does not condone anything dealing with racism or sexism or homophobic. I choose to enjoy the service that he is providing and I hope that everyone will feel Positive and continue to enjoy as well. I don’t know guys opinions are like assholes we all have one. Be blessed!

Iben

Sending hugs as well, all your feelings are valid. I understand not wanted to dampen the mood but if anyone wants someone to talk to my discord is shortcake#1652

@Britney I feel exactly the same way, even if he'd just admitted that he lied or there was miscommunication I would have been more forgiving but him blatantly ignoring our concerns has made it so much worse. It just sends the message that he doesn't care about our worries. Don't feel like your nagging at all they are valid concerns and if you and others feel uncomfortable we deserve to be acknowledged. After all the stuff that went down with twitter VA's k was the only one I listened to and now I'm also debating leaving. It's awful to find out that a creator you thought respected you doesn't. Sending hugs and I wish you well if you do decide to leave xx

ITFOFF

@ITFOFF all I want to know is literally how hard is it to just say "@that's need baby is lying"? Like does he not understand that some of us just want to know if those statements she claims he made were true? I couldn't care less about details because I don't believe it's fair to ask him to air out their private convos just because she did the same but man, it's hurtful how he's just ignoring it and honestly, I will probably be gone by the morning in order to not continue ruining everyone's good time. The last thing I want is to be this nagging person while everyone else is raving over his work (it's insane how keeping your secret was my fav audio idea of his and now I'm having a hard time enjoying it). I have not one time been disrespectful to him nor do I think I've rudely asked for an explanation. Just shocked that this is the same guy I found on YT a couple months ago and honestly, seeing users that I've seen constantly commenting on here just leave because of how this whole issue (starting from the tagging incident) has been dealt with by him is crazy to me but hey, that's the internet I guess. I just genuinely hope there is a little more priority put on woc's feelings in the future here.

Not just you love, all I want is honesty and basic human decency and respect, none of which has been provided recently which is just rlly sad ;(

Ari

@eia, thank you x. Sending hugs right back. I'm glad I'm not the only one. I don't want to be a damper on the mood but I just can't shake it and it just feel like he doesn't care that some us feel uncomfortable. I'm at a loss.

ITFOFF

Yeah, it was kind of weird tbh. They want answers, K. But yeah, I do think that when he commented 'closing the chapter' sealed the deal honestly. I just feel so disheartened to those WoC that needed answers. Sending hugs to you ITFOFF and all fellow bumbles x

eia

Is it just me who feels like their concerns are being ignored? I don't feel like we're asking for much, literally just honesty. I tried to listen to this new audio but I couldn't get into it all I could think was if you have time to upload audio, you have time to give us a response. I'm not trying to drag things out unnecessarily but I think that these concerns are valid ones that should be addressed and all we're getting is radio silence. It's rlly disheartening.

ITFOFF

Hi. Silent listener here that's been with K since his second YouTube video before the glasses even showed up. Can we all please just be nice to one another... This was such a wholesome and loving environment and now I just feel uncomfortable like the happy bubble has been burst. Its not so difficult just to be decent human beings. We all love K and he loves us. Simple.

@Kawaii: About the labels in the education field, I'll try to explain: 'Teacher' is most commonly used when someone is teaching at schools, from kinder to high school. K might fall under this category, assuming he has the appropriate licenses for K-12 teaching. I fall under here since I teach Elementary Special Needs students. 'Instructor' is used for beginning teachers in the university level. It can also be used as the people who teach at associate degrees and tech-voc fields. In my country, there is 5 levels of this (university) level. He may also belong here, if he really has a master's degree and a post-grad cert in TESL/TEFL. 'Professor' is the highest of them, and it is usually reached by those who have PhDs and has committed to their field. That is a brief primer for non-education people. But yeah, whether K exaggerates or not, it's his created persona. Hope that helps! ❤️

eia

Yeah, that’s what I think, that some details might be embellished to protect his privacy — and create a fantasy world.

Kawaii

I think its the second option considering he had a corp job for a bit and then lived overseas. But to be honest I dont blame him for not being specific, he could easily dox himself.

Laila


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