boxcast episode 12!
Added 2024-02-11 07:09:41 +0000 UTCwas fun talking about difference between 20 and 30!
I feel like those who are successful feel very stable and calm as they get older
whereas me who are not stable yet, i'm afraid to lose everything I have. so I tend to be afraid of future :(
I hope one day I can also feel stable and able to enjoy my life and future
hope you guys enjoy!
Comments
I feel like I got someone mad when I actually gave real advice. Yep invest in some real estate. It might be different where you live but here I think I should listen to some advice and start to make moves on buying my house. This vet on the shawn ryan show he said he saved his benefits for his forever home which was what I was hoping for. I didn't need a home really and apartment living can be frustrating with thin walls and crazy neighbors. The thing with foreign marriage is deciding which place to settle maybe. Next would probably the cultural differences. Would I be able adapt and be accepted if I were to move to another country. If it is settled that the goal is to stay in the US then theres some hurdles to get through with government. I read a couple's story that with fees and lawyers their total for migrating legally was well over 25K. The story was probably a decade old so by now with inflation maybe add another 10K with inflation. So to the people who nag you that you are being superficial because need someone with money or is financially stable the reality is our government systems make it that way. Okay so lets say I can come with the money no problem. Do i really know this person from another country? Is she really wanting to be married or just the green card? There is part of the process where I have to sign a paper to promise the person i bring in to the country will not be a burden or go on welfare for i think 10 years. Well if I do the thing and she leaves me right after she puts her toes down on the soil well I'm on the hook to provide her with financial support for ten years. 10 Years! A whole decade of my life I could lose. I've seen guys comment that thru alimony payments they have to pay they aren't able to save any money because half of it goes to the ex-wife. That is like a nightmare where I would feel like I'm chained to someone who will make my life miserable. Marrying a woman from another country carries a heavy price. It used to be easier before 9-11. A rich would be able to have a long enough stay in a foreign country to get know someone really well and make sure she is being true. I do have to mention when they interview to see if the relationship is legitimate they want to see "Love". It might not make sense I don't know. To explain the government's view is like this. They want people to benefit from the policies and rules they put in place but not to game them. That's why if a woman ever was interested in me she would have to show overwhelmingly that she wants to be with me but not in way thats too much. Its not all certain with what wrote because maybe lawyers can help with things not getting crazy but still just a regular marriage is huge deal. I don't think I wrote that well Lots of things happen so far in February and I'm a new uncle, that baby is so smol
H2O
2024-02-19 00:41:33 +0000 UTCRecent yt watch @aini_ channel episode "East asia is obesessed with luxury (and gen z pays the price) this channel helped me understand more
H2O
2024-02-18 23:53:57 +0000 UTCHappy Lunar New Year! 🐲Episode made me think alot. Hope you two can invest in some real estate if you are not already. 🍻🍻
H2O
2024-02-14 07:40:27 +0000 UTC
