Dark Blue Kiss Episode 9 (Full Reaction)
Added 2023-10-31 03:02:05 +0000 UTC
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Agreed. Honesty is in important. If you feel like you have to lie, something is wrong and it means you don’t feel safe.
BL Besties TV
2025-01-09 09:56:22 +0000 UTCnah dont lie to me, period. especially in regards with meeting up with someone, quite frankly if someone is that intimidated or worried about how i would react that it would cause them to lie, then we dont belong together, and im doing us both a favor by ending it.
Phonic Reassignment
2025-01-09 09:21:59 +0000 UTCThe show is written for you to side with Kao, but if you hadn't already noticed, I truly feel bad for Pete. He knows he has an anger issue and the show hasn't given him any type of character development to try to over come that. When he and Kao were talking/ arguing at the pool, he was wrong for bringing up the fact that Kao is not out, but not wrong in the fact that he was not clear to Non about their relationship. I'm not saying Kao was in any way obligated to tell Non of his relationship with Pete, but he could have made any kind of effort to keep the two apart especially since he was supposed to be keeping up the façade that he'd stopped tutoring him. When Sandee pulled Pete aside on the stairs, although she was correct and said everything we've been saying from the beginning, that fact that Pete said "you don't understand me" and her response was "do whatever you want" is the problem. At no point has anyone ever took the time to talk to Pete to try to figure out why he consistently lashes out. Even when they do ask a question they dismiss his answer deeming it unreasonable. Let's also keep in mind Pete has had anger issues before Non entered the picture so even though he found him annoying, Pete's issues are deeper than him
C Sanders
2023-11-19 00:50:30 +0000 UTCPete knows he has a temper and I understand everyone feeling like he didn't give Kao a "safe space", but let's keep in mind Kao explained why he needed to tutor Non and even though Pete was in his feelings I'm sure he could have gotten over it (that's irrelevant since they didn't give him the chance to have that growth). After their initial argument about Non, Kao could have easily left it as it was but he decided to tell Pete he would stop tutoring Non. There is never a situation where lying or keeping something (they deem to be important) away from someone will be better than simply telling the truth. Even if he didn't understand why Kao knew Non was a trigger point for Pete and instead of telling him to maybe keep his distance as he told him not to tell Pete they were still tutoring together he allowed him to continue to show up and antagonize Pete. And since we're talking about safe spaces, think of the reasons Pete came up with the idea of the message bear, most of the time people with anger issues don't feel they have any other way to communicate their feelings and every time Pete got upset about something instead of Kao taking the time to try to understand his anger or his feelings, Kao's initial reaction was to simply tell him to calm down. Kao consistently protected Non from Pete but at what point did he protect Pete from Non?
C Sanders
2023-11-19 00:07:57 +0000 UTC
