It takes a special kind of person to willingly marry a crime lord, but that is exactly what you did. Yes, there are many arguments that her career in crime would make for a terrible partner. But in your experience it is the exact opposite. She is a loving and devoted wife you just happens to have a job that requires... flexible morals.
You have been kept away from the details of the organization so that you cannot be implicated in anything. In fact, she has taken great lengths to ensure that you are far enough removed from operations. So when she asked you to stop in and talk through some work issues you were more than a little surprised.
A special thank you to AzMrak for suggestion this idea~!