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Jenny Dolfen
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Back from Rome

This is a long post, so let me say a hearty welcome to three new patrons who joined us over this past week: Jeni Buechel, Ashley Wittling, and Hannah Miller

So, I'm back, and I'm alive. That's about all I feel confident to say right about now. 

Think about going on a school trip with a thousand people, in twenty buses, and staying in two hundred ramshackle bungalows, in a camp where breakfast is a fifteen minutes' march, and the reception a whopping  twenty. Imagine all that might happen. Now multiply that by ten, and you have my past week. No kidding. 

I'd planned to do a little sketch every night, but had to abandon that after three days.  I was on duty 24/7, and slept an average of 4 hours every night. 

The worst was today when we got back, exhausted, cold to the bone, and I waited for every one of my kids to be picked up. One mother, who's been my friend for years, came to ask how it went (and embraced me when she saw my face). One came to complain (my face apparently didn't scare her off). All the other twenty-four just took their kids and went home without even looking at me, even once. You're my witnesses - this is the last time I have risked my health and sanity for kids and their parents who haven't got the ghost of a clue what I'm doing for them.

The first image above was painted after arriving at our camp, on the first day, when I was already knackered but still able to see rain as something romantic. You know those typical little Tuscany paintings, with the red-tiled houses among the pines and cypresses? They're always orange; it was a hazy blue and green when we drove past. I kind of liked that. 

Day two. Sunday. Day trip to Pompeii. I'd been so incredibly excited for that one. We took the bus at 7 a. m. and drove south in a torrential rain, and it was becoming clearer and clearer that the audiobook I was listening to - "Pompeii" by Robert Harris, with 35 degrees and a week-long drought -  had nothing to do with the Campania we were driving through. Still, we stopped halfway up Vesuvius and started the ascent. There was a storm blowing sheets of rain horizontally into us, and within two minutes, each and every one of us - three hundred students and about thirty teachers - were drenched to the skin. You couldn't see further than about ten feet. No view from the top, so we just hastened down (almost losing some because we simply couldn't see them) and dashed back into the buses, shivering with cold. We then decided we couldn't do the trip to Pompeii. It would have been the height of irresponsibility to take all those dripping wet kids on a day trip. So we drove back to the camp and spent the afternoon drying out our shoes and coats with hair dryers. I painted the piece above - cheating; we never saw Vesuvius except when we stood on it.

Day three - Sightseeing in Rome. Once again, it was raining almost without pause. I managed to snap a few photos of those wonderful Bernini angels at Castel Sant'Angelo, which I later painted.

The rest of the city tour was cut short again. We were once more wet to the skin after the Pantheon, Trevi Fountain and Piazza Navona, and for the second time, the afternoon tour (to Saint Paul Outside the Walls) was cancelled. 

The third day, I was woken at four thirty by the friends of my daughter, who was also on the trip - she'd been sick all over her bed (joining eight other kids of her class who were also sick) and I had to come clean it up, and take her to the hospital tent. That way, she missed one of the few truly wonderful moments that week - a holy mass celebrated by the Patres of our school right in the Basilica of Saint Peter, with her Geography teacher playing the organ. 

As we went outside, the rain caught up with us again though, and by the time we were back in our bus for the afternoon tour to the ruined harbour of Ostia Antica (which I'd never seen and, needless to say, had really looked forward to) was cancelled as well. 

That day, the quarrelling among the students started; a thunderstorm raged right through our camp and lightning actually struck next to it; our bus was broken open and robbed, with several pieces of luggage missing, and several kids succumbed to cabin fever, resulting in broken noses and smashed fingers, and that was when art became somewhat secondary...

I have to say that my class behaved pretty fine, especially under the circumstances; but all in all, that week was just incredible. I mean, I've been on school trips before, and thought I was prepared, but this was nothing I could ever have been prepared for. 

My eye is worse than ever, which has led to a few panicky moments (try crossing a street in Rome with mopeds zooming around you, or walking up Vesuvius in a storm, and trying to see if all your students are still with you, and you just can't be sure until you've looked and squinted three times...)

Now it's the Easter holidays. So badly needed, so well deserved.

Back from Rome

Comments

Oh no, that sounds so awful. :( I hope you are already feeling better now and you can get some much needed rest over the holidays.

Anjuschka

I'm so sorry it was such an ordeal. You were so looking forward to it. Hope your daughter is better. You need to take a break for yourself and just relax and do nothing!!

Vivienne E Collins

Oh no, I'm so sorry Jenny. That sounds like such an awful trip; I'm sorry that the rain ruined so much for you. I hope your daughter is feeling better, and that you get some rest this week. <3

Gwendolyn

When I told my son on the phone, he said it sounded like a camping trip in Diary of a Wimpy Kid.

Jenny Dolfen

Aw, Troels, thank you so much! Of course you'd know all about this. One wonderful thing happened - on the last evening, at dinner, I suddenly became aware of a lot of people next to me, and there stood my entire Year Twelve Advanced English course, who are taking thei final exams next month. One of them made a small speech of how much they'd enjoyed lessons with me, and then they presented me with a Doctor Who sonic screwdriver. I hugged them all. My class was watching with some incredulity.

Jenny Dolfen

Apparently, it has nothing to do with stress... but it is indeed worse than ever.

Jenny Dolfen

Aw, thanks! <3

Jenny Dolfen

The weird thing is that it's been covered by TV and the papers and everything - and there, everyone said how great it had been. I watched the footage and thought, wow, sounds like a cool trip. Why wasn't I on that one? And just today, one mother wrote me an email saying her daughter wanted to leave my class, and could I please take the necessary measures. Holy ****.

Jenny Dolfen

I hope your daughter is feeling better too.

Lisa Gerard

Oh my goodness, Jenny. I'm so sorry the trip was such an ordeal. (After all that, I'm amazed you didn't eat the parent who wanted to complain alive!) What art you managed is lovely, and I hope you have some nice, peaceful downtime over the holidays to recover from this.

Lisa Gerard

I'm so sorry the school trip was such a difficult experience, and that you still have problems with your eye. :( I hope you can have some good resting time during your holidays and that nothing causes you more stress. Your sketches are so beautiful and I just marvel at how you're able to create under those circumstances. Please relax, have lots of tea and try no to overwork yourself. <3

Laura Michel

That sounds like something you could read in a book! I'm so sorry you had to go through all this, yet that's quite amazing you managed to make art in such circumstances!

Damako

I really like the sketches ... :) And I certainly empathise with your frustrations — I've been there myself, and I think ungrateful parents ruin more for their children than they'll ever realise. However, when we see over the next months how much those kids grew from us taking them along to have these experiences outside the cotton-wool protection of their parents, I have (at least so far) always realised that I will do it again. I do it despite the parents, but because of the kids, who need it even more when their parents act like ungrateful so-and-sos. And the real reward ... the smile on that face and the happy "hello Jenny" ten years hence, when you meet a young adult, whom you once helped grow on a dreadful trip to Italy. That, and for what it is worth, the respect and thankfulness of other people who are concerned about how our young people learn grit, empathy, helpfulness and getting along in a constructive way even under stress. Hat off, Jenny — it is teachers like you that make the real difference! Hugs, Troels

Troels Forchhammer

Ack! I am so sorry the trip was not pleasant :( I can't imagine how frustrating it was..but now I am convinced, I will never want to go on a school trip like that! Your painting sketches are so lovely, thanks for sharing what you did do <3 I hope your eye will get better soon. Perhaps it is brought on by some stress? I wouldn't be surprised, since it was worse on a rather awful sounding trip. Hugs to you Jenny <3

Sommer Sorenson

You poor thing! You really deserve that easter holiday. I'm sorry the week turned out even more stressfull than you'd been expecting, all the terrible wether included. And I have to say I'm quite put off by the parents behavior. Really? Not even asking how things went and thanks for your efford too? Can't remember that ever being that way in my school days, and although my parents were mostly a bit too much on top of it, I also recall them being being the ones who always had some time to talk with the teachers, espacially my father. (Not my thing to judge, but really, taking 1000 children on one school trip? I've heard easier recipies for dissaster ;) ) The Mass you described sounded beautifull. My father used to play organ, so I have a thing for people who do so. I hope your daughter is feeling better by now, my best wishes for her. Take care and take your rest for now. Hugs!

Corine Hefting

Oh no! :( Sorry it was such a nightmare for all of you.

Paul Leone


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