PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Women respect consequences
Added 2024-06-23 04:02:00 +0000 UTC
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She sounds like she has either borderline personality disorder or narcissistic personality disorder. You cannot win in this situation. Because of the culture of women, being victims, combined with her propensity to do whatever she has to do to keep you, including lying, saying you abused her to the authorities, using any shared children against you, it is impossible for you to win without going no contact. I mean, complete no contact. If you don't have children with her, then you must cut it off. All, social media, etc., financially. She needs to have no way to access any of your accounts. She will twist and turn you if you are having contact .you need to instruct your family to what is going on. If they feed into her behavior, then you have to cut them off to. There is no other way. I pray to God you don't have a child with her. If you do only have contact through a parenting app. Where everything is recorded by the app, and can be taken in front of a judge. You can't ever show her emotion, or talk about anything personal. Look up, gray rocking, and how to do that, put out by Dr. Ramini. you're only other alternative is to be her slave, and try to work it to where you can leave at a better time, where she won't be suicidal. But she's doing that to control you most likely, and there will not be a better time. This is not Love. I wish you luck.
warren beane
2024-11-17 17:31:22 +0000 UTCI had this. Every time I packed my bag to leave, which had been well over 300 times over the course of eight years, she Threatened to kill herself or Use her mother’s influence at the police station to get me arrested or to get me 5150d. I wanted to leave A year into it, and ended up wasting almost a decade of my life in a holding pattern Instead of living my best life with a girl that loved me.
Cant Read Still Play
2024-08-07 12:50:20 +0000 UTCI find this perspective on women that they are loving to be victimized very onesided
Felix Roßmann
2024-07-31 17:47:34 +0000 UTCWell that qualifies by pondering what made him a “bitch” I don’t get it
Peter
2024-07-20 04:24:47 +0000 UTCI’ve been out-argued (been ‘the man’ in the type of situations you’re describing) by 2 men who were very manipulative & good at gaslighting. I don’t think I’ve ever out-argued anyone like this myself. I don’t enjoy any conflict in relationships, especially romantic ones.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-07-19 15:52:46 +0000 UTCHe was super calm.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-07-19 15:47:32 +0000 UTCDude... you really shouldn't walk away from this lady... you have obligations. My friend - you should RUN. Your obligations are to yourself, and not some toxic nut-job.
MB
2024-06-25 18:46:13 +0000 UTCwalk away asap
Pepito Sbezzeguti
2024-06-25 16:03:54 +0000 UTCProblem is hoeflation
Pepito Sbezzeguti
2024-06-25 16:03:19 +0000 UTCShe is actually away from her family and doesn’t have a close group of friends. Thanks for the advice. I can identify it’s manipulation, but at the same time I want to leave this relationship, I also don’t want my decision to be her end.
Renan
2024-06-24 22:26:18 +0000 UTCWhat about when you’re dealing with a woman broken by her past and she threatens suicide and actually do stuff that harms her when you walk away? I’m inside a relationship like this and I’m not sure how to deal with it. She has disrespecting tendencies and every time I enforce my boundaries, she has these self harming actions. Any suggestions?
Renan
2024-06-24 14:36:22 +0000 UTCYep, presenting a concern or problem solving a concern can not be done when one person isn't calm or sincere.
Mark Bryski
2024-06-23 19:31:36 +0000 UTCMost of those points/revelations I figured out myself over the past few decades. But he keeps affirming my conclusions and giving me those puzzle pieces I was missing to put it all together. If only I had known these things when I was younger…
Eric Linden
2024-06-23 16:13:53 +0000 UTCMy late father told me to never go to bed angry. He meant well, but he was wrong. I followed his advice with my first two marriages and countless relationships. My third marriage is successful partly because I know when to say when. Some things have to wait until the next day, some even longer.
Eric Linden
2024-06-23 16:04:40 +0000 UTCFirst clip: Absolutely fantastic, and, yes, it was his cool, his restraint, coupled with his actions. Perfection! Bravo, dude!
Samuel Claiborne
2024-06-23 13:09:13 +0000 UTC2nd woman was a real wisp of ecstasy. Yikes.
Lioninwinter
2024-06-23 10:57:45 +0000 UTCIts been a while since an alex video had me on the emotional rollercoaster I don’t see ways past this without “pain” aka asking someone to put their hand is a fire themselves, on a hope/promise it will help … Its a tough sell. And yet its probably the only way. The concept is understandable. But hard , its hard for me, to implement. Im looking at you mom and that ex, and that “leech friend “ This is so close to home I feel so called out. I think i need to figure a way out. Coz i aint winning this. Ever. Maybe with new people, who don’t have the image of a maliable me. ✌️
Peter
2024-06-23 07:47:44 +0000 UTCGreat video. So many excellent points in it. It has been over a year since I have been watching Alexander’s videos. At the start, I found them to be eye opening and sometimes jaw dropping. They really "hit home" for me. I embraced many of his points and appreciate the complex emotional geography of relationships he maps out for us. At times, I have felt outrage over some of the revelations. I believe I am now at a point where I have mostly let go of my old mindset and have a new mindset that respects myself. I also notice a feeling of peace as I watched this video. This is a much better place to be. At least, it is for me.
Mark Bryski
2024-06-23 07:41:47 +0000 UTCNot sure specifically why the first argument he was a “bitch” I’m guessing because he was emotional He got angry?
Peter
2024-06-23 07:04:44 +0000 UTCNot MGTOW. MWTWA: Men Willing To Walk Away. Doesn’t sound so cool, but describes a winning strategy. If you’re always willing to walk away, you’re more high value, and more likely to succeed.
Eric Linden
2024-06-23 07:00:31 +0000 UTC"What's more masculine than words? Actions." Powerful stuff, Alex. So is "Women are as accountable as the consequences you provide for them." All men -- myself included -- should remember these words well.
Hyperion
2024-06-23 06:55:37 +0000 UTC
