PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Women don't want equal rights - they want special rights

What planet are you on? A fit, feminine & respectful woman, I’d still move heaven & earth for. I just haven’t seen one not indoctrinated without entitlement or double standards in years. Oh, and lest we forget, mounds of consumer debt that they’ll just keep voting for free forgiveness without accountability. Mark these words: An economic avalanche of student, credit card & auto loan debt is going to burst by 2025. It’s already out of control, and guess who’s most responsible to owing it?

Bill Washinski

It was sad but he was also selfish & clearly suffering from deeper psychological & neurological problems (including mommy issues, manwhoring & porn abuse), but he truly thought it was MY problem not his. He didn’t live a good lifestyle, but then other men I’ve dated haven’t either initially (including weak back muscles lol, but appreciate the tip!) & they never had this problem at all. Plus he used to be into bodybuilding & he said that things were the same then! His first love who was abusive like his mom was the only woman he could fuck without a lot of preparation & multiple times daily. Even his first GF complained about his libido (& presumably erections though he didn’t specify that). I wish all men understood how important erection quality is. It needs to not just be hard but FULLY hard or it causes painful chafing & I personally need a full erection to orgasm the way I like to, from penetrative g spot stimulation.

RhodiumMaiden

Wow!! Young men taking Cialis daily. Having high cortisol levels because of current stress, past trauma, poor metabolic health, high blood sugar levels, and low testosterone is not kind to a man's libido. I have been down that path myself. Common sense tells me solving the problem by taking Cialis digs the hole deeper. I could be wrong. Personally, I am taking very good care of myself. Exercise, nutrition, and stress management. In general, at 4 am, I am rock hard. The biggest difference I find between taking care of myself and neglecting myself are my back muscles. They really filled out as I was taking care of myself. So, if you want to gauge a man on his libido, just hug him and check out his back muscles as you are doing it. I am still shocked your man left you hanging because he was struggling with his erections. That is uncaring.

Mark Bryski

If you look at medieval literature, it was well-acknowledged that women were the hornier sex! This idea that men want sex more is a modern American idea, probably driven primarily by circumcision which is horribly damaging to male sexuality, & porn use, which is related to circumcision. And other cultural factors controlled by those who wish to destroy the West.

RhodiumMaiden

He was all talk & little action, with lots of procrastination. My problem is I am very trusting, & we were friends for a long time online before we met (just as friends, initially), & he oversold himself during that time, ofc. I hope I’ve learned my lesson. Also disturbing was he never got spontaneous erections or fully hard, & he says he’s always been that way. He says all his friends need Cialis & take it daily!

RhodiumMaiden

You are so kind. Thank you! I am really enjoying interacting with you on the forum as it really helps me self-reflect and have opportunities to communicate what I have learned through my healing process. I am an intuitive healer, so I use my intuition to guide me in helping people self-reflect to see the parts of themselves they aren't acknowledging and loving on. The more parts of myself that I loved on, the more grounded I became and the healthier life I began to lead. You got this!

Kerry Blaser

Lol of course not. I mean a new women cooking for him. Women who are trying to be with him. I also wouldn't go to other men to talk about my problems for example. Your spot on when it comes to masturbating.

As a man, I focus on staying in frame and working on my values. With a quality woman, this makes me irreplaceable. As Alexander puts it, a quality woman's hypergamy can be satiated. When it is satisfied/satiated, she will appreciate the man's masculinity because it is one of a kind that is irreplaceable.

Mark Bryski

There are many parts of this challenge in relationships, so here are three part of the problem. One - women need to admire the man in the relationship to retain their desire to bond with that man sexually. Two - women need to be emotionally connected to be sexually aroused. Three - women need to feel safe in their submissive role in the relationship. Here are some questions that ran through my mind. What is the man doing to be admirable in life and successful at leading in the relationship? What is the woman doing to stay in the submissive role to foster healthy emotional intimacy especially within herself so she can process her emotions without attacking her man with her emotions? I lose sexual arousal when the man doesn't lead in a healthy way. Women gain sexual arousal when they lose power in a relationship, and men become sexually aroused when they gain power. (I am only advocating for healthy relationships here. Many modern women attract toxic masculinity into their lives because their femininity is toxic too - people who have unhealed emotional pain. I know from experience.) Men need to feel admired in a relationship more than feeling loved as that acknowledges their healthy masculinity and provides so many opportunities to be fulfilled and successful at leading in a relationship. (Women abuse men they do not admire. Withholding sex as punishment is abuse.) When I truly admire a man, then I want to bond with him sexually A LOT. Women need to feel safe more than they need to feel loved, so they are motivated to stay in the submissive role which fuels a healthy relationship. ("Love" without safety = abuse.) Being submissive gives women so many opportunities to express their feminine nature and be fulfilled as well. So the question remains - how can men be admirable and retain power/lead in a relationship while creating an environment where the woman feels safe and supported to create healthy emotional intimacy within herself and within the relationship?

Kerry Blaser

In reading your post, here are some thoughts and questions that ran through my mind. If two people are on the same horse, then they are on the same team. How are can two people be on the same team when there are two decision makers on two different horses? There is only one leader on each team. Only when I healed from my trauma from my dad did I desire to be on the same team with a man and not need to have a quick out of that relationship. I am an expert escape artist from relationships. Only when I was in touch with my authentic self as a feminine woman was I able to stay in relationships and not run for the hills when things got hard/I was triggered. I have had a lot of challenges with men over the last few years while healing from my childhood trauma. My ability NOT to run helped me tremendously, because I was able to stay in those relationships to learn the lessons I needed to learn to attract healthier men into my life over time. I noticed that when I healed parts of myself, then the next man would also be healthier too. What I have found is the only person I can truly improve is myself. The best thing I can do for everyone else in terms of making the world a better place is to heal my childhood trauma, love and acknowledge every part of my authentic self and project all of that love/[positivity out into the world. Then, other people have an opportunity to internalize that love/positivity, and then, they can project love into the world too. It is like a snowball effect. The more people who project love out into the world will give more people opportunities to internalize that love which means more people project more love. Right now, a lot of people project negativity into the world and not love. I focus on that as that is how I can have the greatest impact on the world daily. What are you doing to heal from your relationship from your dad and project more love into the world?

Kerry Blaser

The only solution to a dead bedroom (if the partner needing sex has done what they can to make themselves attractive to their partner AND they have fostered an environment that is conducive to creating sexual energy in their partner) is non monogamy. Masturbation is not a solution, that is a parallel part of one’s sexuality. And most of the time in these situations breaking up is not an option (kids, mortgage, shared finances etc).

EVO1D0ER

I am shocked he left you hanging and unsatisfied. This and my own experiences show me how talk can be cheap and the importance of taking notice when it becomes cheap. I wonder how often things turn into a positive direction when these problems are brought up.

Mark Bryski

Self-care goes a long way. I dare say, it is the foundation for everything.

Mark Bryski

Thank you Alex for noting that men have a duty to sexually satisfy their partners too! But not duty sex. It must come from true desire. The couple needs to figure out what’s wrong with the lower libido person (hormonal birth control, drug use, bad diet, lack of exercise, being overweight, depression etc), assuming that anything can be done. I think usually it can. I think if you don’t want sex regularly, especially when you’re with someone you love & find attractive, you’re not healthy, regardless of gender.

RhodiumMaiden

Perfection doesn’t exist but especially not when it comes to women judging men.

RhodiumMaiden

💯 agree, & this needs to cover libido too bc often there is simply a lack of compatibility in this regard. I bring it up very early - unfortunately I’ve had a man claim he has a high libido & can have sex 7x a day but then once we were dating he admits he’s ‘not a young buck anymore’ (he was 26!). I want daily sex, he claimed once a week is normal. 🙄

RhodiumMaiden

Thank you. I think men are in a very difficult predicament with feminism stating women don't need men in general. How many feminists say "I do not need a man"? When I was deep in my masculine "I do not need a man energy," I didn't attract men into my life men who were able to provide for me because my energy was blasting to the world "I provide for myself." Now, that I am much healthier in my feminine energy and am comfortable being submissive to a man's provisioning, I hope to attract a man who can provide some for me because I am open to him providing. I was never modeled healthy masculinity/provisioning from the men in my life as a child, so I learned to provide for myself. My internal story was "I provide for myself," so that is the kind of men I attracted into my life who validating my internal reality. Now that my internal reality has changed significantly, I have a chance at attracting men into my life who are able and willing to provide in a healthy way. What is your internal story around this topic?

Kerry Blaser

Answering the question "what do women bring to the table?" should be easy, but modern women largely reject their femininity, so they do not see that as an answer to this question. As a woman, I bring my healthy femininity to the table with compassion, nurturing, vulnerability, taking care of the house, emotional intimacy in various forms, etc. Modern women often say " I am the table," list income, ambition, independence which comes from their ego. When a women is healthy in her femininity, the answer to this question should entice and draw a man closer and not push him away with her ego.

Kerry Blaser

Dear Alex, the woman at 11:00 is lying through her teeth. She says it quite clear: as long as he's "perfect". If I know something about women from my personal experience... nothing in this world will ever be 100% perfect for them... if they want to, they can find flaws in absolutely anything, hold you accountable for it and then justify themselves through your mistakes... lack of accountability. How many times have men given their word based on a verbal agreement with a woman, only to find out later on that the terms of the agreement are constantly changing but his commitment may not?

Mircea N.

Hi Alexander, Thanks so much for your videos. This one was really good all the way from beginning to end. Your thoughts are really appreciated. I really wish I had known so much of this years ago. I'm sure you are helping many people with them, please keep it up. I watch a ton of YouTube videos and yours is by far the most engaging. The way you talk clearly shows a passion getting the information to us and helping us understand why it is important to know what is really going on these days. Looking forward to your next video. Thanks again.

James Hall

Special Rights vs Equal Rights plus responsibility for a partner's sexual needs in a committed relationship. I remember you suggesting discussing "what a person needs to feel loved" should be done before dating a romantic interest in order to respect everyone's time. I believe discussing responsibility for a partner's sexual needs is also important before agreeing to a committed relationship. I wonder when it is best to have this discussion.

Mark Bryski