PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): What happens to the mind of a woman when you ignore her
Added 2023-10-27 03:27:14 +0000 UTC
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As a woman in her 50s, I can share what I have learned about how I value myself. The blond in the video said that she gets attracted to men who will hook up with other women in front of her. That is called competition anxiety. I do not recommend connecting through anxiety for a healthy relationship. He is validating her low self esteem and that is how her soul connected to him. They are connected through their emotional pain/ego and not a healthy heart-based connection. It is usually called a "vibe" but I do not see it as healthy. When a man I was interested in was unhappy with me and he flirted with another woman in front of me, I ignored him and left. He never did that again. Women who can communicate with their emotions without attacking men with their emotions is also another sign of a high-value woman. Women want physical safety in a relationship and men want emotional safety. Look for a woman who can regulate her emotions in challenging situations around men. A woman shows value when other people don't have control over her emotions, which means she won't be manipulated into sleeping with other men easily or making rash decisions often. The best way to attract a good woman into your life is to become the best version of yourself through embracing challenges in life, learning your lessons and forgiving everyone involved. When your energy is vibrating higher because you are loving on more parts of yourself through self-reflecting and letting go of negative self-beliefs, then you will naturally attract higher value women in your life. I call it energy math. We all attract people into our life based on how our energy is vibrating. Low vibrating energy attracts other people with low vibrating energy. The opposite is also true. That is why players attract women with low self esteem who will sleep with them easily. There are a lot of women with low self esteem right now. Low vibrating energy is shame, guilt, resentment, and high vibrating energy is self-love, self admiration, and self appreciation. Engage in high vibrating behaviors and thoughts as much as possible, and you will naturally attract higher quality women into your life.
Kerry Blaser
2023-11-03 19:34:48 +0000 UTCThe element that guys miss with “ignoring girls” is that you must have an attachment built with them, they must be vested in you, otherwise what difference does “ignoring her” make? You don’t matter to her anyway. It is a manipulative tactic too, but that doesn’t mean it’s inherently “bad”, a “buy one get one free” special at grocery is a manipulative tactic too. Manipulation is not fundamentally right or wrong, it simply is a method to obtaining outcomes. It’s the desired outcomes from manipulation which are morally subjective. Consider, first you have to get on a girls “radar”, get noticed. Any guy can tell you that it takes a lot of time & effort, be it both indirect and direct. Then you have to sell her on the idea of progressing to the next step, which costs time, energy & attention - usually to to point where it’s going to cost money. Through this process, all of the investment has come from the man, he’s effectively selling himself — meaning as the buyer, the woman has significantly more leverage. She can & will employ manipulative tactics, again not inherently malicious, commonly referred to a “shit tests.” This goes on until that woman has bought into the man. She’s recognized his value through her emotions & feelings. It is only at this point when “ignoring her” matters. High value men reach this point faster, but that’s another conversation. Boundaries & expectations must be set & agreed upon. The only way to ensure compliance with that woman becomes the threat of losing future benefits of being with that man, everything in past is irrelevant. (Another thing guys get wrong, you’re not owed for past benefits given — they’ve been paid out already). When you give her that pleasant gift of your absence and silence is your language, she’ll fill in the gaps with scenarios that will both make her hate & love you. And since there’s a thin line between love/hate, it’s all the same—she’s emotionally invested in you & that attachment is powerful. She both loves & hates you have options besides her. She loves it when first meeting because it shows you’ve been “vetted” & have credibility. But she hates it when she’s feeling strongly about you, as women hate competition. They really want that wealthy alpha male who is 100% loyal, and that’s rare as a winter rose. You don’t even have to be with other women, but she fears you are in her own feelings and thoughts. This card is powerful & must be used only when necessary, and best early. You also can’t disappear for too long, communication must be maintained, The whole point is to establish respect & if she elects not to, then she can do what she wants — you’re just not going to be there. And that’s damn impossible once she’s highly attached to you.
Bill Washinski
2023-10-29 16:46:18 +0000 UTCI found this video interesting and have unforutnately experienced the crazy, narcicisstic female in my life. I'd be interested in a video that dives deeper into what good women look like, where they come from. Maybe even examples.
Jeremy Downing
2023-10-29 11:15:55 +0000 UTC
