This Is Why Men Are Jealous of Women - Plus Full Reaction Video

I wish I knew this information back in the 60s because it would have been a better life for my wife after serious surgery and later spinal damage, like many nurses in those times.

You're saying if economic inequality among men were cut way down or eliminated, then it would improve the mating prospects for 'the 80%' of men. Interesting (though communist?) solution to the problem! :)

Blair

Timaeus, care to elaborate on where one can find these other cultures you referred to? Have you tested your hypothesis about that or just speculating at this point? Genuinely curious!

Blair

That's generally true of jealousy on the whole. It reminds me of the quote "Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants". A man can be jealous of a woman's easy access to sex, or he can turn that energy into making himself a more desirable man. Or course, the woman often has the opposite problem, in that there are a lot of guys, but few worthwhile.

Ryan Stallard

Alright but you miss the point. Although men would love to have an active and rich sex life, what a high-quality man craves above all is the emotional bond with another quality woman, enriching each other's life and being more engaged in life by receiving and giving love. The guys who don't have sex are more miserable by lacking this than the sex itself. The lack of sex is just the tip of the iceberg, the real drama is how most men are ignored by women and lack this essential meaningful connection. Women who have an abundance of options can pick the right guy for them and try to get what they want. Most men don't get to have any choice. They wait and wait and wait, hoping that their turn will come and they will get to have any opportunity. This is what we are really talking about. It's a very common tragedy that nobody cares about. Tldr : What men are really jealous of is the abundance of choice, the overly favorable position in the dating market (which women can use to indulge themselves or pick their soulmate) rather than purely sex.

Hugo Matiz

Also, Im not trying dismiss the emotions and frustrations that men have about this topic. I truly am sympathetic. Being jealous of women on this one however, isn’t going to serve you.

“Daddy issues” is a disgusting simplification of what is really going on with so many promiscuous women. So many of these women have been abused as children or were exposed to sex way too young. Worse is that society tells healthy young ladies that they ought to want to have lots of sex in order to “learn about their bodies” and “explore.” This is some of the worst advice you can give a lady. I understand a lot of guys are jealous or frustrated with the lack of sexual access compared to women, but keep in mind that women who indulge in the access are often worse off for it. These women are having sex out of insecurity, desperation, feelings of worthlessness, or fear of abandonment. There’s just no need to be jealous about sexual access when it’s not even healthy for most women to be sexually active with multiple partners. You CAN be jealous of a blind man’s Camaro, but it’s not like he gets to enjoy it either. It’s a lose lose.

Short hair, overweight, full of tattoos, yes, she is full of red flags.

I appreciate that these women are experienced in life and do have a more well rounded view then, say the feminist woman in her twenties. Their world view though is still tainted with feminist dogma /ideology. But I agree with you, changing minds is a slow process and I do believe that the pendulum is starting to swing away from the madness.

As Alexander said, there are no real solutions on a macro level which I find pretty bleak. Because not only is there so much a man can do while being lonely and depressed, but also climbing the dominance hierarchy is not necessary something meaningful but often times a rat race. I wish there would be a way to make the society more equal like maybe reducing the wage gaps so that it wouldn't make much difference to date top guys compared to average ones and there would be more emphasis on their personality as far as selection goes ? Is it an utopia ?

Hugo Matiz

While I think this video is well meaning, their responses make me think they are too solipsistic to really separate apex males from the vast majority of men. And when they fleetingly do, they still don't really have compassionate empathy for men - men who are not apex males are just interpreted as weak, evidently not really men. They might at best have a condescending pity, but not empathy. I think these sentiments are more or less amorally hardwired. When they talk about "double standards" for promiscuity, here are the facts: - It takes a high value man to be able to be promiscuous. For a woman, it just takes a decision. This is both a reason for different standards in itself, and leads to the disparity in sexual experience which fuels mens' resentment. - Women are significantly more attracted to preselected men, ie. men who they think are popular with other women and have had a lot of sexual experience. Men don't feel this way in reverse, except that she's a low effort lay. - Mens' sentiments are rooted in the biology of fidelity and pair bonding and how womens' behavior reflect those things, not "social construction". - All three of the above points are reinforced because women are told men and women are the same, and also see only the apex men who have it easy, so they can't understand how there could be different instinctive or realistic standards. - Much or most of the slut shaming is done as intragender competition between women, not by men, and even then - men will still sleep with promiscuous women, it just detracts points from a relationship. So while women may not want their promiscuity and the fact that they have way more sexual experience than the men to matter, biology and reality say it does. And actually, women know it does matter. That's why they euphemize it, lie about it despite their platitudes of "communication", slut shame each other, call it a "social construct" instead of biology, and shame men for having their own standards. By the way, I pity the man who committed to the woman on the left. She looks like a walking red flag, she implied she has sex with her husband twice a month and doesn't care about him, and she shamed men for feeling her past matters. I bet her husband thought he was hitting the jackpot, finally securing some source of sex. Instead what he got was irritability, nagging and a withholding of sex and affection. I think she even resents him at some level because she knows if he were a strong, high value man, he would not commit to her or put up with her behavior and this means she also has to acknowledge she had to settle for a man she does not respect and desire.

I'm not sure what happened to my comment you replied to, but indeed men are much more able to find empathy and helpful advice from other men rather than women.

There's a lot of insight into how women view sex and their sexuality, relationships, promiscuity, etc in this video. I HIGHLY encourage the guys here to listen with an open mind to the last 1/3 of this video. They are being open, authentic, and very truthful about their experiences. You can judge this conversation based on your prejudices and personal values, and that's fine, but if your goal is to understand how a woman thinks and feels about sex... here it is. YES it is different from men. DIFFERENT... not WRONG. Then, if you have rules and standards, informed by your values, about what type of moral choices you expect from the women you date, at least you will understand HOW and WHY she made those choices.

Margaret

6:45 hits the nail on the head

These women didn't seem very empathetic towards men. Instead they were looking for excuses to instead talk about how it's hard for them and how men have it better in this or that. Disappointing. They both have education in psychology, so I'd imagine they may have been at least somewhat exposed to sexual psychology and how pair bonding and promiscuity play a role. I have a serious question...why would anyone, if they had the resources to travel and find women from other areas of the world within other cultures, settle for these sorts? Who admit to promiscuity, have very little or no empathy towards men, and only seem to complain once the consequences of the wall have hit them? Other cultures still value the implications of sexuality and still teach their children, both male and female, to respect each other and what roles may be expected from them in a relationship. In modern US, it's like we are all a generation of orphaned children who don't know the first thing about anything and are just by virtue of technology and chance somehow able to catch up with what other cultures have known for centuries... I don't care what other American women think, but if I ever raise a family I will love my children enough to protect them from becoming low value promiscuous Jezebels. My love for them will extend to the love of my grandchildren, and so on. The entire family structure has collapsed in modern western society. Love your children enough to do right by them and have a strong family. Why abandon your own children to be left to fend for themselves in such an uncivilized jungle of a society?

Timaeus

We live in a female primary social order where women are catered to by the society and the state. All their whims and wishes fulfilled. Men are disposable, replaceable and villified. You point out this, and you are called bitter, because women can't relate to the burdeon of performance that men have to live with. Women's reality is that of unending attention coming her way, and of course that allows her to be cynical and picky to the n-th degree. Even as you point out these descrepencies, the larger feminine imperative doesn't want to feel sympathy for men, because women give sympathy only of their own volition, and not when it is asked for them to do so, based on correct societal observation. Female hypergamy doesn't care about men who struggle in the dating market. Theybare invisible to women, because women's sights are aimed at men who have proven preselection status and are desired by other women.