He's so afraid to upset me. calm Subliminal

You know that thing where some guys start acting like because they "got you" they don't need to be their best self with you anymore? Yea this is designed to correct that low effort behavior. He will be working hard to earn your validation. Your validation is now the ultimate prize all men are trapped in an endless cycle of earning, and they love the chase. Your SP is afraid to lose your validation, like it's his bread and butter. If you don't want anything bad to happen to your pookie, this is a good one for you. This won't manifest any inhumane life-altering punishments in his life, he'll just go through mental hell at the mere thought of losing you. + he spoils you a lot!

AFFS:

The absence of my presence is punishment enough.

I don't have to say a word when he does wrong.

Nothing bad has to manifest for him to realize what he has done wrong.

His inner world comes crashing down the moment he displeases me.

His ego shatters into vapor the moment he even thinks to do anything wrong to me.

He actively avoids upsetting me.

He gives me queen treatment only.

He is always checking to make sure I'm happy and secure.

He is like a butler and sugar daddy for me, all wrapped in one.

This man caters to my every fucking whim now.

He doesn't just need me, he needs my validation.

You see, just being with me, experiencing me isn't enough.

He is constantly chasing after my approval.

He wants to be worthy of me so bad.

And well, my validation can be revoked and he dreads that.

He always sees me as above him.

My validation and love is the real prize he works for.

He wants me to validate his existence and efforts so bad now.

But he knows he has to please me to obtain it.

He isn't dumb he knows what to do to make me happy.

My approving smile is his air.

My validation of his behavior is his food.

My loving presence is his water.

Without these, he cannot go on.

He can't store my validation away for later, he has to earn me, on a moment to moment basis.

Just sleeping with me isn't enough for him.

Just making me fall for him isn't enough either.

He feels the burning desire to always be in good standing with me.

Or he just doesn't feel right.

I never have to worry about him.

He is always the one worrying and scurrying-about over me.

It's always "Yes, dear" out of his mouth now.

He is so motivated by this fear of losing his place with me.

He is so afraid to lose my attention.

I possess so much dignity in his eyes.

He sees I'm not a woman who can be broken.

He realized I'm different and he knows not to test me.

I am so powerful and unaffected by him.

I don't have to be mean or say anything.

I am practically his idol just for existing.

I am like the sun and moon for him.

I am everything to him.

Without my validation, he is an empty husk.

Without my approval and love, he feels purposeless.

He needs my loving gaze.

He craves my words of loving affirmation, daily.

He has an overwhelming need to please me.

He wants me to thank him.

He always wants me to be happy with him.

He eagerly seeks out my good energy.

He wants me to look up to him so bad.

He wants me to make him feel valid.

One compliment from me and he feels like he is walking on sunshine.

When I flirt with him he feels like all is well in the world.

He so badly needs my validation to feel worthy of existing.

He desires me more than his ego.

He desires me more than worldly pleasures.

He desires me more than male approval.

He values me above all things.

All I have to do is show up.

And without me, his life feels meaningless.

Without me he feels like an empty husk.

Without my validation or love he feels like he is in hell.

No other woman can soothe the lack.

No one can save him from the lack, not even God.

God is on my side.

The entire universe conspires for me, not him.

I don't have to lift a finger and I won't.

I have better things to do than ever chase a man...

Physically or energetically.

I don't even think about him all like that..

Because I know he's thinking of me all the time.

And I am so well rested knowing that.

All my energy always stays with me.

No man could ever take the sparkles out of my eyes.

No man ever gets my dignity.

No one could ever hurt me or make me feel less.

I am the punisher, not the punished.

And my absence is punishment enough.

I won't beg or put up a fight.

He comes to me correct always.

One disapproving look from me sends shockwaves and terror through his mind.

He immediately apologizes when he knows he fucked up with me.

He would never let time pass before getting back into my good graces.

He is so afraid of the consequences of disappointing me.

He knows he can't mess up with me.

He loves how intimidating I am.

He sees me as higher status than him.

My beauty is so high and valuable in his eyes.

He knows I lowered myself to put up with him.

He knows I am not overly attached to him.

He knows I could replace him in a blink of an eye and he would never hear from me again.

He knows I am his once in a lifetime opportunity.

He promised himself to never fumble a baddie like me.

He admonishes himself when he messes up in my presence.

He spends time on becoming a better man for me.

He does inner work and improves his character for me.

He knows he needs to live up to my standards.

He knows a woman like me won't argue or fight.

He is always on point in my presence.

He stays on his P's and Q's when I'm around.

He knows he can't afford to lose me.

He knows he could never replace my love or validation.

He knows I won't take him back if he plays me.

He knows I don't look back and I don't tolerate disrespect.

So he effortlessly does what it takes to keep me happy.

He puts all his effort into this connection with me.

He avoids anything that could possibly risk losing me.

A moment of disapproving silence from me feels like an eternity of hell for him.

Maintaining my approval is the ultimate satisfaction for any man.

Any man would do anything to maintain my validation.

Men want to keep me happy, period.

A temporary rush of validation from me isn't enough for them.

And once they've had my validation, they're hooked and constantly yearn for more.

I love the way his eyes light up when I compliment him.

The sweet sheepish smile that spreads across his face when he has done something nice for me.

I love how he thoughtfully plans loving surprises for me.

He really loves spoiling me every single day.

Even if he had nothing he would find a way.

He stops at nothing to show me his chivalry and dedication.

He is trapped in a loop of earning me.

And he loves it.