The Clubhouse Podcast #114 | Topics Thread
Added 2021-07-21 23:39:52 +0000 UTCHey, all you sweet vintage lads!
I’ll be back this Sunday for another Clubhouse, though this time with 4P Mod and good friend Toby, as a guest. Be sure to leave your topics and advice threads in this post ASAP.
I hope you’ve all had a good week. See you Sunday - Tyler
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Hello Toby and Tyler, I hope your day is going well. I wanted to write this topic because last Tuesday, my grandfather of 92 years old has passed away. At first my brain couldn't register it, I went to the gym as usual and went to work, I was feeling sad however, my brain didn't accept ot until the following day I went to my grandma's to see how she's was doing and when I was there I saw the armchair he used to sit in empty. It was that time that my brain accepted that he was gone for good. When I returned home, I started crying and couldn't stop. It was really tough for me, I felt alone. Last Thursday was hus funeral, and fuck me that was one of the toughest moments of my life. I've never experienced so much pain, sorrow and emptiness in my entire life then in that day. My grandfather was a gentle soul and a great man and that made his loss very painfull. From that day on I've had instances where I just wanted to stop what I'm doing and cry. It was the first close family member that I lost and it's horrible. I'm writing this topic cause I really wanted to open up about this topic cause I really needed to get it out of my chest. I would be in a much worse state if it wasn't for my friends and the mod team, if it wasn't for them I would be in a much worse condition that I'm in right now, so all of you that are hearing this I love you guys. Thanks fir hearing me out lads, and I hope you all are doing well. ( And sorry for the lack if paragraphs, cause I'm writing this on my on my phone and I couldn't figure out how to press enter without posting the topic)
Franco
2021-07-24 20:33:52 +0000 UTCHey lads! hope you're both doing well. So my topic is kinda similar to Ben's in a general sense. Recently I've been experiencing a lot of anxiety and have been overthinking about things that haven't even happened. A lot of the time I'd dive into my mind and start making up scenarios about how everything could just fall apart. I try to convince myself the people that love me actually don't and even though there's a mountain of evidence that prove otherwise, I can't help but feel insecure and anxious at times. Combine that with my looming final exams that I've been studying for almost 24/7, it feels like my mind is just always racing and telling me to just give up and not even try because I can't possibly do well, even though I know that's fucking bullshit and I just have to put the work in. But when the anxiety and insecurities kick in, it becomes hard for some reason to see things as they actually are, and I was wonder just what are your tips for dealing with that sort of anxiety and insecurity? I have been writing how I feel when I do feel good about things and reading it back when i get these anxiety episodes. It has been really helping me deal with this. It's strange because really things could not be better right now for me irl and I do genuinely feel like I've made a ton of progress in the last 6 months with myself and my life. Yet, this anxiety just refuses to fuck off for good. Anyway basically in conclusion, fuck anxiety and I just wonder what your best tips are for just getting over this.
Ameer
2021-07-24 19:18:54 +0000 UTC
