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Ladies, This is How To Get ANY Man You Want (Part 3)

Added 2024-07-15 11:46:47 +0000 UTC

If you have not yet read part 1, please give it a read: https://www.patreon.com/posts/ladies-this-is-1-107601521

If you have not yet read part 2, please give it a read: https://www.patreon.com/posts/ladies-this-is-2-107681089

Remember, this will not be a guide on how to secure a relationship with just ANY man. Any woman can do that.

This guide is specifically aimed at women who desire to secure a relationship with a high value man.

Forget Morals, Focus on Results

This guide isn’t about being morally correct. It’s about what will work to get these top-tier men to commit. Sometimes, the truth is harsh and If you want results, you need to play this game smartly.

This guide will also not be the most ‘morally correct’ however if the actions in this guide are applied, women can significantly increase their chance of men of a high level to commit to them.

“It’s better to live in the corner of an attic, than to share a castle with a quarrelsome woman”

-Proverbs 25:24

The Final Rule: NEVER Be Disrespectful

For the final part of this series, you must never be disrespectful. This is a rule you must never break.

If you break this rule, it doesn’t matter if you did everything else perfectly. This rule should never be broken.

A woman can build a house with her hands and then tear it down with her mouth.

With her MOUTH.

With....Her.... Mouth.

The reason why many women are single, even when they meet high-value men, is because they run their mouth, get cheeky, and say very disrespectful things.

You are not allowed to ever disrespect the high-value man you want to be with.

This does not mean you cannot express your emotions.

However, expressing emotions does not mean being disrespectful. Don’t confuse the two.

No rude comments and no rude behaviours. If you cannot fix your attitude, then you will lose men like this all the time.

Quick Story:

Two years ago, there was a girl I was dating. She did the first two parts perfectly well.

She didn’t have any sexual experience, but I could tell she was doing her best to be as sexual as she was comfortable with (we never had sex).

Things were going great and she was getting ALL of the benefits of associating with a guy like me.

I was really considering her as a long-term partner which is VERY RARE because relationships is not on my mind or something I want anytime soon, so it just goes to show how well she was performing — until the day she slipped up and said something disrespectful, snarky in a really BITCHY tone to me.

That was the end of things, and I have not spoken to her since then. She lost her opportunity.

She was a great girl, but disrespect is something I will never ever accept or tolerate.

If I was a man who did not have lots of options I probably would not have left so easily, but because I can have plenty of options, it was very easy for me to leave.

There are plenty of women around the world who would not force me into making a decision like that.

I understand with most normal guys,

swearing, being bitchy, disrespectful, and rude is okay. But with a certain type of man, you must learn to watch your mouth.

Even if you are experiencing your hormones or if you are hungry, you should watch what you say to him because disrespect is NOT and NEVER will be tolerated.

Again, this doesn’t mean you cannot express your emotions. You can.

You do not have to agree, like, or turn a blind eye to the mistakes he makes.

You can still have firm and strict boundaries because this is not about being a pushover and weak.

Being moody, upset, sad, annoyed, angry is fine because all of these things are natural human emotions.

Just don’t confuse expressing your emotions with being disrespectful.

You must find ways to correct him and share a difference of opinion without coming across as disrespectful.

If you have the ability to be disrespectful, then that means you definitely have the ability to be respectful.

This means even the way you talk about him to other people. Your friends, family and co-workers. Complaining about your man to anyone other than your life coach or therapist is a very bad look you will make yourself look pathetic for continuing to stay with someone you are always complaining about.

In this post, I described the 10 Levels of disrespect men should never accept from women.

As a woman, avoid doing these disrespectful behaviours : https://www.patreon.com/posts/article-10-of-58452658

Expressing Emotions vs. Being Disrespectful

Expressing your emotions means communicating how you feel without attacking your partner.

For example, if something he did upset you, you might say,

“I felt hurt when you didn’t call me back.”

This approach focuses on your feelings rather than blaming him.

It’s about seeking resolution and understanding, like saying, “I’ve been feeling neglected lately, and I’d like us to spend more time together.”

Even if you’re angry or upset, try to keep a calm tone and avoid yelling or name-calling.

Saying, “I’m really upset with you right now” is far more productive than being aggressive or disrespectful.

Again, with these kind of men, you must put your pride and ego aside when you experience emotions that make you want to be disrespectful.

Being disrespectful, involves personal attacks and insults.

If you insult his character or abilities, that’s disrespectful.

For instance, saying, “You’re so stupid urgh!!” is an attack, not a constructive comment.

Disrespect also includes making rude comments, and rude behaviours.

It’s not about what YOU think is disrespectful, it’s about what HE thinks is disrespectful.

The way to know how men view disrespect is to imagine yourself at your job or in the army.

If you wouldn’t say or act like that in that kind of way to a superior army officer or your boss or CEO at work, then don’t say or act ‘like that’ with your man.

Disrespecting, criticising, and attacking a man will make him turn into an ‘animal’.

This is like going into a forest and trying to attack snakes and bears, or trying to tame a wild wolf, thinking they will not try to bite or eat you.

I do not believe men should fight with women, especially physically, because there is no way to win that situation.

So if a woman is being disrespectful and a man cannot respond, the only thing left for him to do is to leave the situation… just like I did two years ago ;)

However some men have never been taught how to control and manage their emotions/actions, so when a woman starts being aggresive, this will make him become in defensive mode and it can lead to him beating the woman up. i don't support this, but it is an unfortunate reality.