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Ladies, You Must Do What Is Easy (Marrying Rich)

If there are guys who are willing to provide for you and are attracted to your look, go for one of them.

But pay attention to the type of men you’re attracting. 

If you go around every day wearing dark colours, black stiletto heels, and red lipstick, you're not going to attract a dominant or strong man.

Instead, you'll attract a submissive or passive man who needs a strong woman to lead him.

If your approach is aggressive and demanding, don't expect to attract a...

16 Things To Know Before You Turn 30

1. Nothing Is Ever Solved By Complaining

Complaining is easy, which is why most people do it.

When things go wrong, people often say

 'nothing ever goes their way,' 'life isn't fair,' and 'nothing ever works out.'

That's a victim mentality.

If something's gone wrong, complaining won't fix it. It'll just make things worse.

Constantly moaning about your problems won't bring solutions; it just spreads negativity.

If it's in your control, fix it. T...

Calm, Logical, Rational

Have you noticed how most people make the worst life decisions when they are in an emotional state?

When you’re angry, scared, horny or overly excited, you lose the ability to think clearly.

Decisions made in these states are usually impulsive and lead to regret.

It’s like letting a drunk person drive a car—it’s gonna end badly. 

There's 3 States Of Mind 

Reptilian = Survival, sex, eat

Limbic = Emotional 

Neocortex =&...

Stop Repeating Generational Mistakes

No matter how tempting it gets, do not follow in the footsteps of those who aren't living the life you want. If you want something different, you need to do something different than everyone else.

• People who are broke

• They didn't marry the person they ACTUALLY wanted

• They don't live in the type of house they always dreamed about

• They don't drive the kind of car they actually wanted to drive

Especially if it's y...

Part 2: How I Would Get Rich If I Was Starting From ZERO

This is a different alternative to the post I did about If I was in a position I woke up and had nothing.

Part 1 : https://www.patreon.com/posts/if-i-woke-up-be-104108975

This guide will be a solid 5-10 year plan If i was to start from 0 assuming I am someone who is none entrepreneurial and 0 skills.

Firstly, I know the the best and most proven path for most people ...

Hustle & Grind vs Enjoy Your Youth?

This is a tough trade-off most people struggle to figure out.

In their teens and 20s, many don’t want to miss out on "their best years."

But think about it?

What are you REALLY missing out on?

Backpacking around Asia with your broke friends creating "memories"?

The thing is...

When you’re 30+, it’s much harder to build your dream life. You’ll have a lot more responsibilities like kids, bills, aging parents, etc.

Plus, you won’t have as mu...

Why A Man Should NEVER Move Into A Woman’s House

A man (not boy) needs to have his own shit or at the very least get a place together where both of your names are on the paper. (I personally would never do this)

I understand cost of living crisis is making things more and more difficult to find affordable housing, especially in major cities. However as high value man or woman, it’s your responsibility to have ownership over your financial situation so that you don’t have to move in with someone just to survive and get by.  2024-05-28 11:27:42 +0000 UTC View Post

Things That holds Back The Black, White And Asian Communities

Here are some harsh truths that might ruffle some feathers, but knowing them could save you from getting stuck.

This Patreon is for anyone who wants to reach the top.

I’m here to help, not blame.

These are just things I've noticed growing up around different cultures, and how their "normal" behaviours are holding them back from achieving massive success.

1. Black Culture

I'll start with black culture because I'm black.

My culture is obsess...

Men, Normalise Telling Women “I Can’t Afford This Right Now”

Men today are often shamed and criticised for not being able to afford certain things when dating women. Society has created this expectation that men should always be able to provide and spend money to keep women happy. 

It's gotten so bad that some men will secretly go broke trying to impress a woman they like, just so she doesn't lose interest. 

Guys will lie about having their own car and house when, in reality, they still use public transport or ride a bike e...

For Love To Be Created, They Must Wonder About You

You must fall in love with tension.

It's hard for most people to understand that man or women will start to like you more and feel more attracted to you when you're not always talking to them or constantly in contact.

They need time and space away from you to think about you and let their feelings grow.

When you're not always around, it gives them a chance to miss you and wonder about you, which helps their feelings deepen for you.

They need time to feel their emotions...