Why You Need To Be “Stuck Up”

When you are a Rich Man

When you are a Beautiful Woman

It does not matter how much of a nice and genuine person you are

Many people will assume the worst about you because they are threatened by your money or your level of beauty and will do anything to try and ‘Humble’ you

Being humble is not a good thing, don't let society trick you into believing it is a wholesome and godly thing to do.

People will try to “humble” you so they can lower your self confidence and your self esteem. When you have low self esteem and self confidence, you become very easy to control.

I will explain the confusion about being "stuck up" and explain why you should embrace it. 

When you set high standards for yourself and your life, being stuck up is exactly how you should be.

1. Selective Social Interactions

When you have high standards, you become selective about who you spend your time with.

If you don't exclude people who don’t meet your standards, you’ll end up with those who envy and secretly want to undermine you.

If you're into fashion, beauty, wealth, and luxury, surrounding yourself with people who aren't into those things or believe money is evil will breed resentment.

This also applies to women with ‘pretty privilege’.

If they hang out with girls who are good people but aren’t considered attractive, jealousy and resentment can develop. This can happen to men too but is more common among women.

The jealous friend will:

- Give you backhanded compliments

- Make sneaky, disrespectful 'jokes'

- Claim your money makes you out of touch with reality

- Brings up your deep traumas to make you feel bad

- Mention your ex when you get lots of attention

- Talk about your toxic family when they notice you’re happier without them

- They'll jokingly say you're trying hard to keep up a false image

- If you grow up to become really attractive man or woman, they will remind you of when you were bullied for being ‘the ugly kid’

- If you have always been considered to be attractive, they will make jokes about your insecurities that no one else knows about

They will be manipulative, using tactics to destroy your self-esteem and confidence, making you question yourself.

We’re taught to judge people by their character, but this can lead to building relationships with those who aren’t at our level.

Sadly, these people often become jealous and resentful, no matter how much love we show them.

2. Personal Grooming and Presentation

This point is mainly for women, but men should not ignore it.

Having high standards for your appearance can lead to assumptions that you are shallow, vain, superficial, and stuck up.

Understand:

This world is shallow, your appearance and looks matter a lot, especially for women.

People who look good receive preferential treatment and opportunities just because of their looks and presentation.

Looking good physically will make people treat you better.

3. Self-Respect & Boundaries

You’ll be labeled as “boujee” and stuck up if you have self-respect and firm boundaries you don’t bend.

People will think you’re rude when you set your boundaries.

Self-respect and boundaries make it hard for the wrong people to build a connection with you. 

No boundaries and no self-respect = You’re an easy target. 

When you have no boundaries and no self respect, they know that no matter how badly they treat you, you’ll always accept it and take them back.

Do not allow yourself to be gaslit into thinking that having firm boundaries makes you stuck up. They’re just mad because they can’t have access to you. 

It’s better for someone to view you as “stuck up” and respect you rather than them walk all over you like a doormat. 

Learn to love yourself and start your self love journey as soon as you possibly can. 

When you don’t have much love for yourself, you will tolerate a lot of BS.

4. Expectations in Relationships

Having high expectations in your relationships—like wanting respect, communication, trust, and mutual support—can be seen as being 'too demanding' to the wrong person.

People know exactly what they are doing unless they have a genuine mental disability.

If you have privileges like lots of money, beauty, intelligence, fame, or valuable social connections, many people will want to be associated with you to access those benefits.

If you’re contributing to a relationship, you’re never asking for 'too much' by expecting the same energy in return.

This happens a lot in romantic relationships. In the beginning, your partner might:

- Always take you out on nice dates

- Embrace their feminine or masculine role in the relationship

- Say and do the right things

- Buy you presents

- Always be sweet and respectful

- Keep things tidy if you live together

But once the relationship is established, they change completely. You no longer recognise them.

If you ask them to do what they did at the start, they guilt trip you and make you feel as if you’re asking for too much.

They want you to do what makes them happy but don't reciprocate.

As a man, I'll be honest—men do this to women more often than the other way around.

Remember: you’re never asking for too much if you’re giving the same energy in a relationship.

Don’t let anyone make you feel guilty for having high standards and expectations.

-Till next time