Ladies, This is How To Get ANY Man You Want (Part 1)

This will not be a guide on how to secure a relationship with just ANY man because any woman can do that.

Instead, this will be a 3 part guide specifically aimed at women who desire to secure a relationship with a high value man.

This guide will help you get Alpha males, Millionaires, professional athletes, rich business men or any other successful men in legitimate careers. 

THIS GUIDE IS NOT FOR WHAT TO DO WITH THE REGULAR MEN.

Forget Morals, Focus on Results

This guide isn’t about being morally correct. It’s about what will work to get these top-tier men to commit. Sometimes, the truth is harsh and If you want results, you need to play this game smartly.

This guide will also not be the most ‘morally correct’ however if the actions in this guide are applied, women can significantly increase their chance of men of a high level to commit to them. 

(There are no guarantees in life apart from death and taxes)

These points will work even if you are not considered a ‘hot’ girl, but I must say that the hotter you are perceived to be, the easier this will be.

Yes, being very attractive is a major advantage for women, but it is not the whole story. 

As a woman, you must do everything you can to present yourself as the most physically attractive version of yourself possible. Seriously.

These points will work as long as you are able to have some kind of contact with these men because most men WILL entertain sexual offers from most women.

You must understand, as a woman, it is your responsibility to get a man to commit to you. This is something many women have a hard time understanding and accepting.

It is a man’s responsibility to attract you because he has to develop himself to the point he becomes an attractive option to women. If a man cannot do this, then that is HIS FAULT, not yours.

The Reason This Works Like This Is Because Of Nature.

Women control when sex will happen, which is why men need to become a good enough option for a woman to see him worthy to sleep with.

Men control when commitment happens, which is why women need to do the things for men to see them worthy to commit to. ‘Wifey material’.

• You will not get commitment just because you “want it” 

• You will not get commitment just because you was dating a guy for 3 years 

• You will not get commitment just because you are successful in your career.

• You will not get commitment just because his friends or family like you.

• You will not get commitment just because you think you deserve it.

Pride & Ego Are Women’s Worst Enemies

In most situations, a woman’s pride & ego is what stop her from getting the relationship she wants with the man she desires.

I’m not saying to never have ego & pride, but you must know that there is a time and place to prioritise your pride and ego. And there is a time and place when you should put your pride aside.

It will be difficult to have a loving relationship with a true high value man if you always prioritise your pride over the relationship. Sometimes, you will have to choose between your pride and the relationship, as you may not always have both.

You can get any man you want, but not in any way you want to get him. There are ways you will have to behave in order to do this, and letting go of your massive ego and pride sometimes will be necessary.

This doesn’t mean to accept disrespect and not have any boundaries; it just means not letting your ego make you fumble something with good potential, which you may have to wait a very, very, very long time to get the opportunity for again.

You HAVE To Be Useful

(This might be difficult to read. Don’t read it with emotion; put your ego aside while you read.)

If you are not perceived as a very attractive woman, then this is something you MUST do. It is not up for debate.

You HAVE to bring some type of value to his life.

Many women will say, “The more I care and give, the less I am appreciated in the relationship,” 

But when you look at it closely, it comes from women who are with regular men. 

Women who experience this usually pick men who they see as a project. Men they want to 'fix'

DO NOT choose men who are messed up and you believe you can ‘fix’ or improve him through the healing power of your love.

If you notice you are like this, you need to take the time heal for believing that you are not enough.

Fix yourself, so you won’t have to ‘fix’ men.

Also regular men might not fully recognise or value the effort you put into the relationship because they aren’t used to having high standards themselves. They might take you for granted because they don’t have the ambition or self-awareness to understand the true value of a supportive and giving partner.

Remember, this is for the man you actually want, not the regular guys who are chasing you and whom you give a chance because you feel sorry for them.

Back to I was saying, If you want a high-value man to commit to you, you have to be useful.

Some women have had experiences with these high-value men, and the reason those men do not commit is because those women are useless. They do not bring any value to his life or to the relationship, so what happens is the man just has sex with her and moves on.

This will be a big shock to most women because they are so used to men chasing them and treating them like queens, so they don’t have to bring much “to the table.”

But this dynamic switches when you meet the man YOU WANT. You are not ‘the prize’ anymore —he is.

You are only the prize relative to the men who want you, but you don’t want them.

A busy and successful guy with options doesn’t have time for the cat and mouse games so he will not bend over backwards just for your satisfaction, especially if you do not bring any none-sexual value as that will distract him from his goals which are far more important than you or what you want.

But Here Is The Catch

You CAN get everything you want from him if you help him achieve his mission. This comes from being useful.

Do not ask these men what they can do for you.

Instead, show them what you can do for them. Again, this is not for regular men; this is for the high-value men you actually want.

If you can be useful to a man like this, you will slowly involve yourself in his life to the point where you are so included in his lifestyle that it would be a bad decision for him to let you go.

You become irreplaceable, like a secretary or personal assistant whose absence would cause chaos. If you left, things would mess up.

High-Value Men Do Not Leave a Useful Woman (Non-Sexual)

If you do not bring value to the lives of these types of men, you are easily replaceable.

It’s like having a job at a VERY good company with excellent pay and benefits.

If you are a top performer for the company, you become someone hard to replace. They will do everything they can to keep you for as long as possible.

But if you have a job position that does not bring significant value to the company, they will certainly appreciate you, but you will be one of the first people they let go when they are cutting their staff.

Then you’ll be back on the job market, entertaining those shitty low-pay jobs you don’t really want. It’s similar to dating, think about it.

Thats why there are some women who have no problem with attracting these type of men but they can never keep one, so they just end up in cycles where they are left after a few times of sex.

With women who do not offer much else apart from sex, a high value man will certainly appreciate it, but he can easily find sex else where.

But a woman who brings value to his life will be hard to find as most men and women are simply looking at this high value man as an opportunity and what they can 'get' from him.

How To Be Useful

There isn’t one set guide for this because every high value man will have something different for their life.

The usefulness will be determined by the specific man’s needs and his mission.

But you have to find out what he does and then find out how you make his life easier or contribute to improving the quality of his work.

• You have to become curious about his life. 

• Study him and do your homework on him. 

• Ask him lots of questions 

• Listen to him 

Most women do neither of these things when they meet a high value man. Instead they just bring stress, sex and headaches which is why they don’t last and fall apart very easily.

This is not regular guy who finishes his shitty job then goes home and watches football highlights.

There is a reason why you are attracted to these type of guys and that reason is most likely because of his success and the fact he has a lot going on for him.

The number 1 thing all women say they want is ambition. High value men are ambitious, which is why they have a lot going on.

If you approach the situation like you have the earn the privilege of a relationship with him by providing value, you will have a much easier time getting him to commit.

You cannot just ask for a great job. You earn the opportunity for a great job with your competence and ability. The same applies here. 

You are not just around to benefit from all of his hard work. This is narcissistic and entitled. This is something the sprinkle sprinkle women fail to understand.

The only women who get that type of treatment and don’t have to do as much are ‘trophy wives’

To be a trophy wife, you need to be extremely beautiful and most women are not ‘extremely beautiful’ so if you are not extremely beautiful, you will need cultivate other expectations with how you approach the high value men.

Even if you are extremely beautiful, you should still do these things because at certains levels of success for a man, extremely beautiful women are not hard to find. doing these things will make you stand above all of the women competing for him.

• Be curious about his life

• Figure out how he does the things he does

• What would help him in his journey

• What would make his life easier

Then offer him assistance based of the information you have gathered. 

When you help a man achieve his goals, you will be the one standing next to him when he gets there and this is something that a few smart women understand or were lucky to be taught at a very early age.

The ticket to be with a successful man is by being involved in his success, not just coming around to enjoy the benefits of his success.

Providing value could be things like:

• Cooking him his favourite meals 

• Cleaning his house 

• Managing logistics 

• Running his errands to free him up some time 

• Managing certain things of his business

• Taking care of little issues before they become big problems

• Etc….

It will be very hard - almost near impossible to leave a woman like this.

It will be very easy to do this because there will not be that much competition. Most women are not willing to do this because the femininity coaches tell them to ‘know their worth’ so they let their ego and pride lead them to fumble a good opportunity with a high value man.

Remember, this is not for regular men you are not really into, this is for the high value man you actually want.

There are lots of women who will be competing for his time and his money. But there is not a lot of women who are competing to help him.

Most men receive 0 help from women, so if you meet a high vale man, this is your opportunity and you will outshine 99% of your competition.

Helping these kind of men, will also allow you to be in his life and it can be very valuable to be in the inner circles of men like this.

You will have to earn your place in his life.

Just the same way how most men will have to work hard to earn the chance to possibly have sex with you.

it's just with these type of men, the roles are switched.

Do Not Allow Your Pride And Ego To Ruin This. 

There will be an inside voice telling you 

“Im a queen, I should never do all this for a man” 

“This is beneath me”

“This is not the 1950s I am not a man’s slave”

“Wow im doing all of this, what is doing for me?”

Etc...

This voice will ruin everything for you when are trying to get a true high value man to commit to you.

Again, for these types of men, the roles are switched.

You do not have to do this but if you want a value man to commit to you and give you everything you want, then this is what ACTUALLY works.

Remember, this guide is not about how to get ANY man, this is specifically for high value men you actually want to be in a relationship with.

Closing Thoughts For Part 1

A woman can get any man she has direct access to, baring in mind the man finds her attractive. The key to getting him into a relationship is to be useful in his life (manly none sexually)

This means providing a level of value that helps to achieve his goals and mission. Doing this will help you be involved in his life which then makes it hard to get rid of you. 

The same way a man has to earn sex with women. Women have to earn commitment with high value men.

This is not ALL but, this is certainly must be implemented to begin with. 

In the next part, I will talk about how to get these type of men Hooked, after you’ve done this first step.

-Till next time.