Toxic Relationship GAME: How To DESTROY A BRATTY & ENTITLED Woman’s EGO
Added 2024-04-09 18:43:35 +0000 UTCREAD FIRST !!
This post is not to bash, talk down or to discriminate women. But if we are to keep it REAL, there are also toxic women who exist. It’s not only men.
This post is to help the men who like to deal with toxic women because some people love the toxic relationship games. Again, lets keep it real 💯
IF YOU ARE A GOOD WOMAN WHO IS NOT TOXIC.
You can also learn from this.
If you notice a man behaving in the toxic ways I talk about below, he is not the one for you love. This man will break your heart, have you extremely confused and WASTE your time.
If you desire something HEALTHY and SERIOUS, DO NOT TAKE SERIOUSLY men who show these behaviours.
Now, for the good and clean hearted men. I understand for some of you, it can be exciting and thrilling to date toxic women because of the GREAT SEX, all of the emotional highs and lows.
But Please Understand:
The following steps should NEVER be done towards GOOD women.
These behaviours will make good women who love and are invested in you, to LEAVE you.
Those types of good & none-toxic women don’t play games and don’t want to feel under-appreciated by someone they are giving their 100% to.
Most of the relationship & dating advice we see online is mainly geared towards dealing with difficult people.
But THINK for a second. When you come across someone who is a good match for you, you NEVER have to do ANY strategies, tactics or do any of those silly mind games. Which is why I don’t really make much content around that.
My Dating Philosophy = Fuck with people, who fuck with you. It’s soo much more simple and stress free.
No woman (or man) is absolutely flawless and perfect, however if you notice you have a toxic, bratty and overly entitled woman who is dating you but acts as if you are beneath her, then these following steps are what you should do IF YOU CHOOSE to continue engaging with her.
As a matter of fact, I highly suggest you to not entertain a woman who has a bratty and entitled attitude towards and treats you like you are beneath her
But I know guys won’t wana hear this. Some guys also love that toxic stuff and will still choose to engage with these types of women
(YOU ARE PROBABLY SCREAMING AT YOUR SCREEN FOR ME TO GET TO THE POINT!!)
1. Don’t Give Her Compliments
In general, women love compliments and positive validation. Especially about their physical appearance.
Pretty women are used to men kissing the ground they walk on.
Pretty women are used to men worshipping them.
If you are dealing with a really bratty and entitled woman who thinks people (or you) are beneath her, don’t compliment anything about her.
When you do not give her any compliments, it will make her feel like an ordinary person when she is around you.
As a matter of fact, you might even want to give her backhanded compliments.
“That’s a really bold outfit today isn’t it? Yeah it definitely isn’t for everyone, I respect you”
If she got her hair freshly done, say “what happened to your hair? You look different…”
Don’t say any of it in a rude, abrupt or aggressive way. Say it kindly, with a smile.
You have to come across extremely passive aggressive. This will confuse her.
If she posts online, do not like or comment ANY photos or videos.
Do NOT fall into any of her thirst traps.
Dealing with these women requires you to be skilled at psychological warfare.
If you are dealing with a good woman, you SHOULD be complimenting and making her feel beautiful & special.
Compliment her on things outside of her looks too.
Her work ethic, her ambition, her intelligence, her sense of style etc….
It's OKAY to give constructive feedback but do not do or say anything which will lower her confidence or her self esteem, it will not be good or healthy for the advancement of the relationship.
Unfortunately with those toxic type of women, they actually ENJOY the emotional stimulation of you also being a bit toxic towards them.
Thats why they are not attracted to guys who are more calm and don’t care for the bs drama/games. So if you choose to date this type of woman, you must stimulate her emotionally, and this is one of the ways to it.
You’re better of dating non - toxic women, but do you.
2. Don’t Show Any Signs Of Jealousy
Attractive women that are bratty & entitled know they can get nearly any guy they want.
Sometimes what they’ll do, is to try and show you how many other guys are chasing them.
They do it to try and make you jealous.
They try to make you feel like you should grateful that she’s giving you a chance.
They try to make it seem as if they are doing you a favour by giving you the time of day.
If she gives this type of vibe, don’t show any signs of jealousy (Even if you are)
You should actually encourage her to date other guys.
“Wow, you and him would look really good together”
This is a trap to get you into an argument (which you will 100% lose) and then you’ll be trying to win her approval and acceptance again. Then she will have the leverage in the relationship.
Again this is ONLY for women who are bratty, entitled and are trying to treat you as if you are beneath them.
If you do this to a good woman, she may think you don’t care enough and will ACTUALLY GO to the other guy🤣
It’s ok to show a LITTLE - TINY bit of jealousy and protectiveness for the girl you really like. It makes her feel safe.
3. Don’t Rush Into A Commitment
If you and a bratty / entitled woman happen to be dating and sleeping with one another. Don’t rush to lock her into a relationship.
People often wonder why people stay with toxic people?
It’s normally because of great sex and / or emotional stimulation.
So if you happen to be in a Situationship with a toxic bratty and entitled woman but the sex is great, don’t rush to get her locked down.
Since she is always making you feel like you have a bunch of other guys you are competing with, for her.
YOU ASWELL wana BEHAVE in a way which makes her feel like there is many other women who is competing for her spot.
Caps: The reason I emphasised ‘behave’ is because actions are louder than your words. Plus even-though you might behave a certain way, you can always deny that to be your intentions. Whereas if you SAY something with your words, she can use it against you.
If she’s making you feel as if you have to battle for her love & attention, then you should also behave in a way which makes her feel the same, but for you.
Post yourself hanging out with other girls, even if it’s your female cousins she doesn’t know about.
Ask her dating questions about other girls you are kinda talking to etc…..
When you behave nonchalantly towards any relationship subjects, this flips things around to where she is worried and is now the pursuing a commitment from YOU.
Then you can decide if you want something serious or not (Your choice)
If you are dating a good woman and you are both mentally and emotionally READY to be committed to one another, then don’t be slow in being officially in a relationship.
Good women (especially if they are attractive) do not stay single for long, eventually some guy is going to make her his GF or marry her.
If YOU don’t have the mental or emotional capacity for anything serious, DO NOT date these types of women (the good ones) without FIRST letting them know that right now you are not in the mental or emotional headspace for anything serious.
Because you will end up wasting her time when she could have been using that time to find someone who is more compatible for her.
Let them know this on the first date. And if THEY choose to continue, then that’s fine.
Because if you don’t outwardly SAY this, then YOUR BEHAVIOUR whilst dating can make her believe you are wanting something serious….
Going out on consistent dates
Saying you love her
Emotionally supportive
Taking her virginity
Having consistent sexual interactions
Getting her gifts for valentines, birthday etc…
These behaviours give a boyfriend / husband vibe, so if you don’t SAY anything, it can give the vibe that you want something serious and forever.
4. ALWAYS Dress NICE
Whether you are dating a good woman or toxic one, you always wana dress nice when you guys are going out.
You want other women LOOKING AT YOU.
This is NOT BAD, it turns women on. It makes them wana keep you all to themselves.
How you REACT to the attention is what makes the difference, let me explain.
With a toxic woman:
Whenever you are out with her, you wana be in your MAIN character energy.
Make sure she SEE’S other women looking at you and the only way other women will look at you is when you LOOK good, dress good, smell good.
Be EXTRA friendly, talkative and complimentary to female waitresses or members of staff when you go out.
Also, YOU want to be LOOKING at other women (not staring) you want to intentionally try to get her, to catch you looking at other women.
Let her catch you scrolling on instagram and PAUSING when you see an attractive girl post a pic. Deliberately let her see LIKING the photo/video.
Act innocent and oblivious if she tries to get mad you for it….
Ex “I think she has a nice dress thats all 🥺”
Now she’ll be thinking why you like other girls pictures but never like hers.
Think about YOU feel when she is always mentioning the guys who are trying to get her?
Those guys at school, IG or at work.
Give her the same energy, you need to humble her ego.
MAKE HER FEEL LIKE YOU SEE OTHER ATTRACTIVE GIRLS.
If you’re out and she asks why you are looking at other girls, give open ended answers…..
Ex Her : “why you looking at other girls for???” / “Do you want to be with her instead”
You: “why you always overthinking? I’m here with you right?”
Again, not angry, rude or abrupt…. Say it in a chill / playful calm way.
Learn how to answer those questions like a politician. Give an answer without actually answering.
With a NON-TOXIC woman:
Dress nice but ALWAYS reassure her that your attention and focus will always be on her and no-one else.
Do not let her catch you looking at other women.
On social media, only like & comment on the videos of women who happen to be:
Your genuinely good friend
Women who happen to be your business partners / associates
When you are congratulating a genuine female friend or female business partner on a victory.
Attractive people are naturally eye catching, we will always wana look at them.
So If an attractive woman caught your eye, look at her quickly in mirror reflections or the corner of your eye quickly 🤣
But don’t do it in a way which makes it seem as if you’re intentionally checking out other girls.
When interacting with female staff members, you want her to be the one to interact with them and remove yourself from that interaction.
However, if you are the one to decide something and you have to interact with a female member of staff.
Then keep it brief, kind, polite and straightforward.
(Always be kind and never rude to members of staff)
But you don’t wana get into any type of light hearted flirting and small talk type of conversations.
Unless you happen to KNOW that female member of staff and you are just catching up after a very long time of not seeing each other.
If thats the situation, make sure you introduce her to your girl as “this is my girl / wife. I would like you to meet her” etc…..
5. After Sex
For men who choose to deal with toxic women who are bratty, entitled and treat him like he is beneath her, these men usually have to jump through many hoops and move mountains before they FINALLY have sex with her.
So if you went through all of that. After the sex, be nonchalant. It will catch her off guard and she will be confused to why you stopped moving mountains for her.
Women greatly value their bodies and giving it to a guy is a big deal, so she will now start chasing your validation and approval when you behave this way after sex.
You will be the one with the leverage now.
Again, for most toxic relationships, the great sex is usually the GLUE to the relationship. Thats why they can never seem to leave each other.
After you have sex with a toxic woman:
Don’t check up on her the next morning
Don’t stay around too long, find a way to leave.
Don’t compliment or say anything good about the sex
Don’t 👅 her 🐱 (This is a submissive position and should only be reserved for the good women you want something serious with, if you do this)
Toxic women know that one of the best ways to make a guy worship them is by having good sex.
So a toxic woman can have sex with you with the intention of having that power over you to where she’ll now use sex as leverage. Then you will have to act like a submissive puppy dog in order for her to ‘reward’ you with sex.
With a Non - Toxic Woman:
After sex, you wana cuddle with her and talk.
Check up on her the next morning and tell her you’ve been thinking about her all day.
Tell her you really enjoyed experiencing such a deep connection with her and can’t wait to see her again.
Conclusion
Read the introduction of this post 💯
Till next time.